It’s something that’s been pondered for centuries, and even makes an appearance in ancient Jewish texts.

The Midrash of Philo, a collection of interpretations and elaborations on the Hebrew Bible attributed to the philosopher Philo of Alexandria, touches on this very idea. It suggests that God desires a connection, a communion, but not with just anyone. It's with those who are "willing to be assisted and in their turn to assist others." Think about that for a second. It's not about grand gestures or immense power, but about mutual support, a willingness to both give and receive.

The Midrash emphasizes that love isn’t just about utility – what someone can do for you. It’s more about the harmonious alignment of trustworthy and steadfast character. It’s about being on the same wavelength, sharing core values, and building a bond of mutual respect and reliability. This brings to mind the famous saying of Pythagoras, quoted in the Midrash: "A friend is another I." It encapsulates the profound sense of unity and shared identity that true connection brings. It’s more than just liking someone; it's recognizing a part of yourself in them.

But the Midrash doesn’t stop there. It poses a fascinating question, a real head-scratcher: If God had already declared, "Let us make a help for man," why then did God create the beasts and cattle? (Genesis 2:19). It’s a question that invites us to think deeply about the nature of companionship and the different forms it can take. Were the animals intended as potential companions for Adam before Eve was created? Did God present them to Adam to show that companionship is not always found where we expect it?

It’s a reminder that sometimes, the most profound connections aren't always the most obvious ones. And that maybe, just maybe, even in our interactions with the world around us – the natural world, the animal kingdom – there's an opportunity to find a reflection of ourselves, a chance to connect on a deeper level. What do you think? Is there a part of ourselves reflected in the wider world?