“Sarai said to Abram: The injustice done to me is on you. I gave my maidservant into your bosom and she saw that she conceived and I was diminished in her eyes; May the Lord judge between me and you” (Genesis 16:5). “Sarai said to Abram: The injustice done to me [ḥamasi] is on you” – Rabbi Yudan in the name of Rabbi Yehuda bar Simon: You are committing an injustice of words against me, as you hear my humiliation23From Hagar. and remain silent.
Rabbi Berekhya said in the name of Rabbi Abba bar Kahana: [Sarah said:] ‘I have a grievance against you.’ This is analogous to two men incarcerated in prison. Once it happened that the king passed by. One of them said to him: ‘Take up my cause for the wrong done to me.’
He said [to the jailers]: ‘Free him.’ His counterpart24The other prisoner. said to him: ‘I have a grievance against you. Had you said: Take up our cause for the wrong done to us, just as he freed you, he would have freed me. Now that you said: Take up my cause for the wrong done to me, he freed you and did not free me.’
So, too, [Sarah said:] ‘Had you said: “We go childless,” just as He granted you [a child], so would He have granted me. But now that you have said: “I go childless” (Genesis 15:2), He granted you [a child], but did not grant me.’ This is analogous to two people who went to borrow seeds from the king. One of them said to him: ‘Lend me seeds.’
He gave the order and they gave it to him. His counterpart said: ‘I have a grievance against you. Had you said: Lend us seeds, just as he gave you, so he would have given me.’ Here, too, [Sarah said: ‘Had you said: “Behold, you have not given us descendants,” just as He granted you [a child], so would He have granted me.
Now that you said: “Behold, you have not given me descendants” (Genesis 15:3), He granted you, but did not grant me.’ Rabbi Neḥemya said in the name of Rabbi Avun: She scratched [ḥimesa] him in the face. The Rabbis said: Four traits are mentioned regarding women: Gluttons, eavesdroppers, lazy people, and jealous people. Gluttons, from Eve – “she took of its fruit and ate” (Genesis 3:6).
Eavesdroppers – “Sarah heard” (Genesis 18:10). Lazy – “quickly bring three seah of high quality flour” (Genesis 18:6).25Since Abraham had to urge her to hurry, the implication is that she would not otherwise have acted with alacrity. Jealous, as it is written: “Rachel was jealous of her sister” (Genesis 30:1). Rabbi Yehuda bar Neḥemya said: Sensitive and chatty, as well.
Sensitive – “Sarai said to Abram: The injustice done to me is on you.” Talkative – “Miriam and Aaron spoke against Moses” (Numbers 12:1). Rabbi Levi said: Thieves, as well, as it is stated: “Rachel stole the household idols” (Genesis 31:19). Roamers – “Dina went out [to see the girls of the land]” (Genesis 34:1).
Rabbi Tanḥuma said in the name of Rabbi Ḥiyya the Great and Rabbi Berekhya said in the name of Rabbi Ḥiyya: Anyone who assiduously pursues the attribute of justice will not emerge intact from its effects. Sarah was worthy of reaching Abraham’s years, but because she said: “May the Lord judge between me and you” (Genesis 16:5), thirty-eight26Manuscripts read: Forty-eight. years were deducted from her life.
It is written: “He consorted with Hagar, and she conceived.” Why, then, does the verse [later] state [to Hagar]: “Behold, you will conceive and bear a son”? (Genesis 16:11). The explanation is that it teaches that Sarah directed an evil eye against her and caused her to miscarry her fetus. Rabbi Yoḥanan said: “Between me and you [uveinekh] – uvinkha is written.27The word could be read uvinkha, your son.
Rabbi Ḥanina said: Had Elisha the prophet said this [to Hagar] through the Divine Spirit, it would have been sufficient. But she was privileged to have an angel speak with her.28“The angel of the Lord said to her: Behold, you will conceive and bear a son” (Genesis 16:11).