<p>"My son, hide your money during your lifetime and store it, and until the day of your death, do not give it to your heirs."</p>
<p>This is the proverb of the letter Tzadi (צ) in the Alphabet of Ben Sira, and it's cold-blooded. Don't give your children their inheritance while you're still breathing. Hide it. Store it. Keep it secret until you die.</p>
<p>Why? The text doesn't spell out the reasoning, but the implication is clear enough, and it's a worry that echoes across centuries of Jewish wisdom literature. Once your heirs have your money, they don't need you anymore. The medieval Jewish communities that produced this text, composed between 700 and 1000 CE, understood a brutal truth about family dynamics. Wealth is power. Giving it away too early means giving away the only guarantee that your children will continue to care for you in old age.</p>
<p>The Talmud itself records similar anxieties. Tractate Ketubot 52b discusses cases where elderly parents transferred property to their children, only to find themselves neglected. King Lear could have used this advice.</p>
<p>What makes the Alphabet of Ben Sira special is its willingness to state these things so directly, without the usual rabbinic hedging. Ben Sira doesn't say "be careful" or "consider the risks." He says: hide your money. The bluntness is the point.</p>