Parenting

126 texts · Page 2 of 3

Myths, legends, and mystical writings about Parenting from across Jewish tradition.

Shem and Japheth Walk Backward to Honor Their Father

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 9:23 captures one of the quiet, careful acts of love in Torah. After Noah has fallen asleep in the shame of the wine, Shem and Japhet took a mantl...

Noah Learns of His Son's Disrespect Through a Dream

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 9:24 adds a detail that quietly reshapes the whole story. The biblical Hebrew simply says Noah awoke and knew what his younger son had done to him...

Even the Orphan Must Be Circumcised into the Covenant

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

When the Lord lays down the sign of the covenant, Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 17:10 catches a case the Hebrew leaves implicit. Every male among you shall be circumcised — tho...

Isaac — Not a Substitute for Ishmael, a Son in His Own Name

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Abraham had asked for Ishmael to be the heir of the promise (Genesis 17:18). Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 17:19 preserves the Lord's answer, and it is not what Abraham request...

God Hears Abraham's Prayer for His Firstborn Ishmael

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Genesis 17:20 is the Lord's answer to the previous verse's quiet sadness. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan renders it with full warmth. Concerning Ishmael I have heard thy prayer. Behold, I ...

Ishmael Overhears the Promise of Isaac's Birth

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The Hebrew says simply that Sarah was listening at the tent door. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 18:10 puts a second listener behind her. And Sarah was hearkening at the door of...

Abraham's Chasidut and the Duty to Teach His Household

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Why did God decide to let Abraham in on the destruction of Sodom? The Targum answers with one Aramaic word: chasidutha — piety, devotion, loving-kindness. His chasidut, the Targum ...

Lot Offers His Daughters — The Verse No One Wants to Read

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Some verses in Torah are hard to carry, and Genesis 19:8 is one of them. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan translates it without softening. "Behold, now, I have two daughters who have had no ...

The First Night in the Cave — Wine and Unknowing

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Genesis 19:33 is one of the most uncomfortable scenes in Torah, and Targum Pseudo-Jonathan does not look away. "And they made their father drink wine that night, and he was drunk. ...

The Elder Sister Plots a Second Night in the Cave

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Genesis 19:34 is a verse most readers speed past. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan slows down and lets us hear the elder daughter plan. "And it was the day following, and the elder said to t...

The Second Night — The Younger Daughter and Lot

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Genesis 19:35 completes the pattern begun two nights earlier. "And they made their father drink wine that night also, and he was drunk, and the younger arose, and lay with him; and...

Ben-Ammi — The Softer Name That Hid a Harder Truth

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Genesis 19:38, in the Targum's rendering: "And the younger also brought forth a son, and she called his name Bar-Ammi, because he was the son of her father. He is the father of the...

Why Sarah Demanded Ishmael Leave the Tent

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The biblical verse is blunt. Sarah tells Abraham to cast out the handmaid and her son. But in Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 21:10, the Aramaic adds a sentence that changes ever...

The Two Wives of Ishmael in the Wilderness

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Here is one of the strangest verses in the Targum, and one of the most historically suggestive. In Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 21:21, Ishmael grows up in the wilderness of Ph...

Isaac Carried the Wood for His Own Offering

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

One of the most painful verses in the Torah is also one of its shortest. In Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 22:6, Abraham lays the wood of the offering on Isaac's shoulder. Fathe...

Where Is the Lamb, Isaac's Question on the Mountain

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The single most heartbreaking exchange in Genesis is seven words long. In Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 22:7, Isaac says abba — my father. Abraham answers ha-ana — I am here.Th...

Abraham Sends His Other Sons East With Gifts

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The Torah's bookkeeping of Abraham's later life is precise. He had taken another wife after Sarah, Keturah, and by her and his concubines there were sons. The inheritance had to be...

Why Abraham Refused to Bless Isaac Directly

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

This is one of the Targum's most surprising explanations. Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 25:11 asks the question the Torah leaves hanging: why, in all the final chapters of his life, d...

Let the Curse Fall on Me, Rebekah Tells Jacob

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The moment Jacob hesitates is the moment Rebekah makes her most astonishing offer. "If with blessings he bless thee, they shall be upon thee and upon thy sons; and if with curses h...

What Can I Do For You Now, Isaac Tells Esau

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Isaac's answer to his weeping elder son is one of the saddest sentences in the Torah. The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan preserves its resignation with a quiet Aramaic cadence. "Behold, I ...

Why Should I Lose Both of You in One Day, Rebekah Asks

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Rebekah's instruction to Jacob is urgent, and the Targum Pseudo-Jonathan adds a Genesis-deep lament to the end of it. "Why should I be bereaved of you both in one day: thou being s...

God Gave Leah Sons Because Jacob Did Not Love Her

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The Torah says the Lord saw that Leah was hated and opened her womb, and Rachel was barren (Genesis 29:31). The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan softens and sharpens the verse in the same br...

Reuben's Name and the Future Affliction of Egypt

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

When Leah named her firstborn Reuben, she said the Hebrew phrase ra'ah Adonai b'onyi — "the Lord has seen my affliction" (Genesis 29:32). The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan hears the phras...

Dan's Name and the Coming Judge Samson Son of Manoah

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Bilhah, Rachel's handmaid, bears Jacob a son whom Rachel names Dan, from the Hebrew din, "judgment" (Genesis 30:6). Rachel says, God has judged me and heard my prayer.The Targum Ps...

Asher's Name and the Fruitful Land of the Daughters of Israel

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Leah names the second son of her handmaid Zilpah Asher, from osher, "happiness" or "praise" (Genesis 30:13). The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan translates the name into a prophecy about th...

Reuben, the Mandrakes, and the Wheat Harvest in Sivan

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The Torah says Reuben went out in the days of the wheat harvest and found dudaim, mandrakes, in the field (Genesis 30:14). The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan specifies the month: Sivan, th...

Leah's Protest Over the Mandrakes and Her Stolen Husband

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The exchange between Leah and Rachel over the mandrakes is one of the rawest sibling arguments in Genesis. The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan preserves the Aramaic bite.Is it a little thin...

The Braying Donkey That Announced Jacob's Return to Leah

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

A small Targumic detail in Genesis 30:16 captures how Leah knew her husband had returned from the fields.She heard the voice of the braying of the ass. Jacob's donkey. Leah recogni...

Issachar's Name and the Tribe That Studied the Law

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The fifth son of Leah is Issachar, and the Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 30:18 gives his name a remarkable explanation.Leah says, The Lord hath given me my reward, for that I g...

The Babies Who Switched Wombs — Dinah and Joseph Traded

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 30:21 preserves one of the most startling moments in the entire tribal genealogy.Originally, says the Aramaic tradition, the baby in Leah's wo...

God Remembered Rachel and Heard the Voice of Her Prayer

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

After years of infertility, the Torah says God remembered Rachel (Genesis 30:22). The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan expands the verb.The remembrance of Rachel came before the Lord, and th...

Joseph's Name and Joshua's Crossing of the Jordan

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Rachel finally bore a son. She named him Joseph, from the Hebrew asaph, "to gather away" (Genesis 30:23). The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan turns her naming into a prophecy about a river ...

Laban Claims Even Jakob's Children as His Own

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Cornered, Laban made the last argument of a man who cannot let go. The children whom thou hast received of thy wives are my children, and the children whom they may bear will be re...

Twenty Years Without Honoring Isaac Left Jakob Afraid

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Here is why Jakob's fear was so great. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan gives the reason the plain Hebrew only hints at: he was greatly afraid, because for twenty years he had not been mindf...

Four Hundred Men and Jacob's Three Camps

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Jacob lifted his eyes and saw what he had feared for twenty years: Esau, and with him four hundred men of war (Genesis 33:1). Targum Pseudo-Jonathan does not soften the number. Fou...

Jacob Placed the Handmaids and Their Sons First

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Targum Pseudo-Jonathan speaks plainly about what many readers would rather leave implicit (Genesis 33:2). Jacob "placed the concubines and their sons foremost." And the Targum even...

Souls Given to Jacob Through Mercy

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Esau looked at the caravan and asked the question any returning brother might ask: "Who are these with you?" (Genesis 33:5). In the plain text Jacob answers simply, "the children w...

Joseph Stood Before Rachel to Hide Her from Esau

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Targum Pseudo-Jonathan preserves a small, piercing detail from the moment the family bowed before Esau (Genesis 33:7). The handmaids and their children came forward. Leah and her c...

Don't Drive the Tender Ones Too Hard

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Esau offered to travel alongside Jacob, and Jacob declined. The reason he gave, preserved in Targum Pseudo-Jonathan (Genesis 33:13), sounds like a note from a shepherd's almanac. "...

Jacob Will Travel at the Pace of the Children

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

"I will lead on quietly alone, according to the foot of the work which is before me, and according to the foot of the instruction of the children; until the time that I come to my ...

Jacob's Rebuke Was Actually Faith in the Dream

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

When Joseph told his father the dream of the sun, the moon, and the eleven stars, Jacob rebuked him. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on (Genesis 37:10) reports the rebuke: What dream is thi...

Jacob Feared the Hivites Would Attack His Sons

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

When Jacob sent Joseph to check on his brothers in Shechem, the Torah gives no reason for the trip other than routine concern. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on (Genesis 37:13) reveals a f...

Isaac Wept Too When Jacob Mourned for Joseph

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The Torah says Jacob refused to be comforted and declared he would go down to the grave mourning. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on (Genesis 37:35) adds a heartbreaking line the Hebrew onl...

Joseph's Two Sons, Born Before the Famine Struck

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The verse is simple, but the timing is everything. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 41:50 reports that Joseph fathered two sons "before the year of famine arose," born to Asenath,...

Jacob's Grief — You Have Bereaved Me of Them All

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

The old man counted his losses aloud. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 42:36 preserves Jacob's lament word by word: "Of Joseph you said, An evil beast hath devoured him; of Simeon...

Reuben's Desperate Offer — Kill My Two Sons If I Fail

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Reuben tried the one guarantee that could possibly move his father. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 42:37 preserves the oath: "Slay my two sons with a curse if I do not bring him...

My Son Shall Not Go Down With You — Jacob's Refusal

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Jacob draws the line. Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 42:38 preserves his refusal: "My son shall not go down with you; for his brother is dead, and he alone remains of his mother...

Joseph Sees Benjamin and Whispers a Mother's Blessing

Midrash Aggadah Midrash Aggadah

Joseph has been holding a pose for three chapters. Stern vizier. Egyptian potentate. Accuser, examiner, power. Then he lifts his eyes and sees, standing among his brothers, the boy...