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Sarah Died Twice on the Day of the Binding

Satan brought Sarah a lie about Isaac's death. Then he returned with the truth. The second blow finished what the first had started.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Man Who Came to Her Door
  2. She Wept but Did Not Curse God
  3. The Return and the Second Blow
  4. What Abraham Found When He Arrived

The Man Who Came to Her Door

While Abraham and Isaac climbed Moriah, Sarah waited in Beer-sheba. She did not know where they had gone. She did not know why. The morning had been ordinary: her husband rising early, saddling the donkey, leaving with the boy and two servants, giving no explanation she was told to hold onto.

Then a stooped old man appeared at her door. He was mild. He apologized for bringing news she might find difficult. He said he had been present on the mountain. He said Abraham had built an altar and laid Isaac upon the wood and drawn the knife across the boy's throat. He described the altar. He described Isaac's voice. He described Abraham's face showing nothing.

He gave her details only a witness would know.

She Wept but Did Not Curse God

What Sarah said in response is one of the most devastating things in rabbinic literature. She mourned out loud. She cried the name of her son over and over. Ninety years she had waited for him, and now she was hearing the noise of the knife. But even then she did not curse God. She said: I console myself, for it was the word of God, and Abraham performed the command of his God. Then she lay down on her maidservant's shoulder and went still.

She survived the lie. She survived because she did not yet know whether it was true.

Ha-Satan left without finishing. He had intended to kill her with grief, and he had almost done it, but she had survived by holding to God even in the worst moment of her life. He had failed.

The Return and the Second Blow

So he came back. This time he came with the truth. Abraham and Isaac were coming home. Isaac was alive. The test was complete. The ram had taken the boy's place on the altar, and Isaac was walking down the mountain with his father, whole and unharmed.

Sarah heard this and her soul flew out of her body.

The shock of joy was too great. The same system that had been shattered by grief and then barely held together by faith could not absorb the reversal. She had been mourning her son. Her son was alive. The terror that had been held in place by the news of his death suddenly had nowhere to go, and Sarah, one hundred and twenty-seven years old, released her hold on life and died.

What Abraham Found When He Arrived

The tradition does not spare Abraham this detail. He came home from Moriah having passed the greatest test ever asked of a human being, having proved before all of heaven that his faith was unconditional. He arrived in Beer-sheba and found his wife dead.

The last words spoken to Sarah had been a lie told by the Accuser. The truth had finished what the lie could not. Abraham had been in two places at once on the day of the Binding: on a mountain with God, and not at home where his wife needed him.

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Legends of the Jews 5:261Legends of the Jews

Legends of the Jews turns to Sarah Beyond the Firmament.

Abraham, the story goes, did indeed return to Beer-sheba, a place that held so many happy memories for him. But Isaac? Well, he had a slightly different journey. The angels, it's said, whisked Isaac away to Gan Eden (the Garden of Eden, paradise), Paradise itself, where he spent three years.

Can you imagine?

Meanwhile, Abraham arrived home alone. And when Sarah saw him, a wave of sorrow washed over her. According to Legends of the Jews, when she saw Abraham, she cried out, "Satan spoke truth when he said that Isaac was sacrificed!" The grief was so profound, so overwhelming, that her soul simply…departed from her body.

But how did Satan know? Or rather, how did Sarah come to believe such a terrible thing?

The narrative continues, explaining that while Abraham was on Mount Moriah, Satan, in disguise, paid a visit to Sarah. He appeared as a harmless old man, all meekness and humility. He delivered a devastating blow: "Dost thou not know all that Abraham has done unto thine only son this day? He took Isaac, and built an altar, slaughtered him, and brought him up as a sacrifice. Isaac cried and wept before his father, but he looked not at him, neither did he have compassion upon him."

Imagine hearing those words.

Satan, having planted the seed of despair, vanished. Sarah, believing him to be a kind old man who had witnessed the event, was consumed by grief. She cried out, "O my son, Isaac, my son, O that I had this day died instead of thee! It grieves me for thee! After that I have reared thee and have brought thee up, my joy is turned into mourning over thee. In my longing for a child, I cried and prayed, till I bore thee at ninety. Now hast thou served this day for the knife and the fire."

But even in her grief, Sarah's faith flickered. "But I console myself," she continued, "it being the word of God, and thou didst perform the command of thy God, for who can transgress the word of our God, in whose hands is the soul of every living creature? Thou art just, O Lord our God, for all Thy works are good and righteous, for I also rejoice with the word which Thou didst command, and while mine eye weepeth bitterly, my heart rejoiceth."

And with that, Sarah laid her head upon the bosom of one of her handmaids, and she became as still as a stone.

The story of Sarah's death following the Akedah is a powerful reminder of the emotional toll of faith, obedience, and sacrifice. It highlights the immense pain and grief that can accompany even the most righteous acts. Sarah's internal conflict, her sorrow battling with her unwavering belief in God, is a evidence of the complexities of the human spirit.

It also leaves us with a lingering question: How do we reconcile faith with the inevitable suffering that life sometimes brings? Perhaps the answer, like Sarah's own words, lies in finding a way to both weep bitterly and rejoice in the divine command, even when we don't fully understand it.

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Legends of the Jews 5:293Legends of the Jews

Isaac knew that feeling.

For three long years after his mother Sarah's passing, Isaac was inconsolable. He sought solace in the academy of Shem and Eber, immersing himself in study. But even there, surrounded by wisdom, the ache remained. Imagine the silence, the emptiness in his father Abraham's tent. A matriarch's absence leaves a gaping hole.

Then Rebekah entered the scene. The Torah tells us she became Isaac's wife, and she offered something he desperately needed: comfort. The text says, quite remarkably, that she was "the counterpart of Sarah in person and in spirit." Can you imagine the weight of that? Not a replacement, but a reflection. A new beginning. A balm for a grieving heart.

The tradition turns to another figure in Abraham's household: Eliezer, his faithful servant. Think about Eliezer's dedication. Abraham tasked him with a monumental mission: to find a wife for Isaac. And he succeeded, traveling far and wide, guided by prayer and divine signs.

What happened after that successful mission? Abraham, recognizing Eliezer's loyalty and skillful execution, granted him his freedom. But the story doesn't end there.

Eliezer, was a descendant of Canaan, and therefore carried a curse. But, in a stunning turn of events, that curse was transformed into a blessing. Why? Because of his unwavering service to Abraham. The Rabbis teach us that deeds have power, that loyalty can rewrite destiny.

And the ultimate reward? According to tradition, God found Eliezer worthy of entering Paradise alive. Alive! A rare and extraordinary honor, bestowed upon very few. What an ending!

So, what do we take away from these two stories, intertwined as they are? Perhaps it's this: that even in the deepest sorrow, healing is possible. And that even those who seem destined for hardship can find redemption through devotion and righteous action. the tradition of our lives is woven with threads of grief and joy, curse and blessing, loss and love, isn't it?

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Legends of the Jews 5:262Legends of the Jews

Jewish tradition explores that very edge of human emotion in the story of Sarah, Abraham’s wife, after the near-sacrifice of Isaac. It’s a tale found in Ginzberg's Legends of the Jews, and it's a poignant, almost unsettling, coda to the main event.

Remember the story? God tests Abraham’s faith, commanding him to sacrifice his beloved son Isaac. Abraham, unflinchingly, obeys – or at least, he goes through the motions until an angel intervenes at the last moment.

What about Sarah? Where was she during all this? The Torah itself is strangely silent. But the Legends fill in the gaps, painting a picture of a mother’s agonizing search for her son.

After the Akedah, the binding of Isaac, Sarah is frantic. She knows something terrible has happened. She rises, the Legends tell us, and embarks on a desperate quest to find Isaac. She travels to Hebron, questioning everyone she meets, but no one can give her news of her son. Her servants search the houses of Shem and Eber - figures from the line of Noah, representing wisdom and tradition. They search the entire land. But Isaac is nowhere to be found. The silence is deafening.

And then, Satan appears.

Yes, that Satan. In this tale, he's not just a symbol of evil, but a messenger, a kind of twisted truth-teller. He comes to Sarah disguised as an old man, and delivers a cruel, manipulative blow. He says, "I lied to you. Abraham didn't kill your son. He is not dead." The relief, the sheer, unadulterated joy that would flood Sarah at those words. After days of agonizing uncertainty, after fearing the absolute worst, she discovers that her son is alive.

But here’s the twist, the truly devastating part: the Legends tell us that when Sarah heard these words, "her joy was so exceedingly violent that her soul went out through joy."

She dies. From joy.

It’s a shocking end. A stark reminder that even the most positive emotions, when experienced at such an extreme intensity, can be overwhelming, even fatal.

Why this ending? What does it tell us about the Akedah and its aftermath? Perhaps it highlights the immense emotional toll the event took on Sarah, a toll the Torah itself only hints at. Perhaps it's a commentary on the fragility of the human spirit, its vulnerability to both sorrow and overwhelming happiness. Or maybe, just maybe, it's a way of emphasizing the magnitude of God's test, and the impossible choice Abraham faced, a choice that ultimately cost Sarah her life, even though Isaac was spared.

It leaves us pondering the delicate balance between faith, obedience, and the very human capacity for love, loss, and ultimately, the bittersweet agony of overwhelming joy.

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Book of Jubilees 19:4Book of Jubilees

Trials is often remembered as grand, sweeping events, but sometimes the most profound tests come in the quiet moments of grief.

Think about Abraham. We know him as a patriarch, a figure of immense faith. But the Book of Jubilees, specifically chapter 19, gives us a glimpse into a more human moment, a vulnerable moment. After a period described as “two weeks of years” – fourteen years – and in the first year of the third “week” in a Jubilee cycle, Sarah, Abraham’s beloved wife, passed away in Hebron.

Can you imagine the pain? The loss? The text simply states, "And Abraham went to mourn over her and bury her.." It’s so understated, isn't it? But within that simplicity lies a profound truth. The Jubilees goes on to say "and we tried him [to see] if his spirit were patient and he were not indignant in the words of his mouth; and he was found patient in this, and was not disturbed."

Wait a minute. "We tried him"? Who is the "we" here? In the broader context of Jubilees and related literature, this refers to the divine council, the heavenly court. The narrative suggests that even in his grief, Abraham was being observed, his reaction measured. It’s a powerful reminder that our actions, even in our darkest moments, can speak volumes.

The test wasn’t about performing a miracle or winning a battle. It was about his patience, his emunah (faith) – his unwavering faith and trust. It was about whether he would succumb to bitterness or maintain his composure.

And he passed. Abraham remained patient. The Book of Jubilees emphasizes that "in patience of spirit he conversed with the children of Heth, to the intent that they should give him a place in which to bury his dead." Even in mourning, Abraham acted with dignity and respect. He didn't demand, he didn't rage. He negotiated, seeking a burial place with grace. Grief can be so consuming, so overwhelming. It can tempt us to lash out, to question everything. But Abraham, even in his sorrow, demonstrated a profound strength of character. He understood the importance of honoring Sarah, of providing her with a proper resting place. He understood the importance of maintaining his integrity, even when his heart was breaking.

So, what does this brief passage from the Book of Jubilees teach us? Perhaps it’s a reminder that true strength isn’t always about grand gestures. Sometimes, it’s about the quiet resilience we show in the face of adversity. It's about maintaining our middot – our good character traits – even when we're hurting. It's about finding patience in the midst of pain, and acting with kindness, even when we're grieving. Maybe, just maybe, those are the moments when we're truly being tested.

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