Let's look at Miriam, a pivotal figure in the Exodus narrative.
Think about it: she was celebrated as a prophetess, a leader, a woman of immense faith. The book of Exodus (15:20) tells us, “Miriam the prophetess took a timbrel…” and led the women in joyous song and dance after the miraculous crossing of the Sea of Reeds. What an image! She was on top of the world, right?
But then… things took a turn.
Devarim Rabbah, a collection of homiletic interpretations on the Book of Deuteronomy, offers a fascinating, almost cautionary, tale about Miriam. It compares her situation to a noblewoman who praised a king returning from war. Impressed, the king bestows upon her the title "Specialist of the Council." However, later, this very woman starts causing chaos in the king's administration. The king, disappointed, orders her banished.
Sound familiar?
The Midrash draws a parallel. Miriam, after the triumph at the Sea, attained the status of a prophetess. But then, she spoke ill of her brother, Moses. The text doesn't specify exactly what she said, but it's clear it was considered lashon hara (לשון הרע), malicious speech.
And the consequence? As Numbers 12:15 tells us, “Miriam was quarantined.” She was afflicted with tzara'at (צרעת), a skin disease often interpreted as a spiritual malady, and was confined outside the camp for seven days.
Ouch.
What's the lesson here? Is it just a simple "don't gossip"? I think it’s deeper than that. It's a reminder that even those who reach great heights, those who are blessed with talent and recognition, are still fallible. It’s a reminder that even a prophetess must be held accountable for her words.
Perhaps the key takeaway from this passage in Devarim Rabbah isn't just about Miriam's transgression, but about the immense responsibility that comes with leadership and influence. When you have a voice, when people listen, your words carry weight. They can inspire, uplift... or, as in Miriam's case, they can cause harm and lead to consequences.
So, the next time you're tempted to speak ill of someone, remember Miriam. Remember the noblewoman. Remember that even the most celebrated among us are capable of making mistakes, and that our words have power. What kind of power will you choose to wield?