Ethics

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Myths, legends, and mystical writings about Ethics from across Jewish tradition.

What Counts as an Enchanter According to Akiva

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Sanhedrin 65b sets the sages debating: what exactly is an enchanter — the figure the Torah forbids? Rabbi Shimon gives the ugliest definition: one who passes the secretions of seve...

Why Men Are Born with Fists and Die with Open Hands

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The sages loved short sayings that carried a whole theology in a line. Here are a handful gathered from rabbinic tradition. Cold water morning and evening is better than all the co...

Five Kinds of Passengers at the Island of This World

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The sages illustrated repentance with a parable, and this one has sailed down the centuries. A great ship was crossing the ocean on a long voyage. Before reaching port, a storm dro...

Beruria's Prayer for the Sinners, Not the Sinners Themselves

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Rabbi Meir was one of the great teachers of the generation after the destruction of the Temple, and he had a problem. Wicked men in the neighborhood were harassing him. He prayed f...

Why Rabbi Ishmael Would Not Drink His Mother's Gift

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Gaster's Exempla (1924), No. 191, preserves one of the strangest stories of filial piety in rabbinic tradition. Rabbi Ishmael's mother came to him with a request. She wanted to was...

When Examining a Scholar Costs a Scholar His Life

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Gaster's Exempla (1924), No. 225, tells a sad little case study in academic cruelty. Rabbi Dimi of Nehardea had arrived in Babylon with a cargo of figs to sell. It was custom that ...

Five Coins at the Shore, Returned a Hundredfold

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Bar Kappara was walking along the seashore when he saw a naked man washed up in the tide. The man was called an Antipatos — a title of rank in the imperial bureaucracy — and he had...

The Father's Half-Friend and the Son's Hundred Fair-Weather Ones

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Gaster's Exempla (1924), Nos. 360–362, preserves three old parables about what friendship really means. This adaptation focuses on the first — a teaching about the difference betwe...

The Wife Who Cooked the Opposite of What He Asked

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Rav — one of the founding figures of the Babylonian Talmud, third century CE — had a difficult wife. Whenever he asked her to cook a particular dish, she would prepare its opposite...

The Young Man of Tiberias Trapped by Two Laughing Women

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The rabbis of the Talmud once ruled that a woman should not walk between two men, and a man should not pass between two women. The reasons were tangled up with concerns about purit...

The Rabbis Who Warned Against the Book of Ben Sira

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Among those who forfeit their share in the world to come, the sages taught, is the one who reads sefarim chitzonim, "outside books." The phrase is a technical term. It refers to wr...

Why Rabbi Akiba Said Charity Is Greater Than All the Sacrifices

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A philosopher once stood before Rabbi Akiba with a question designed to unsettle him. "If your God loves the poor," the philosopher asked, "why does He not support them Himself? Wh...

The Five Parties of Travelers and the Ship That Would Not Wait

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A ship docked at an island on its way between two ports. The captain announced that he would weigh anchor at a set hour, and he warned the passengers that a bell would sound three ...

The Innkeeper Who Mistook a Jew for a Gentile and Served Him Pork

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A man walked into a public eating house and sat down to eat. Before sitting, he neglected to perform netilat yadayim, the ritual washing of the hands that observant Jews perform be...

The Husband Who Drank From His Own Cup and Did Not Know It

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A man in a Jewish town conceived an intention to commit adultery. He approached a woman who was not his wife and arranged to meet her secretly at a set hour in a set place. The Exe...

Why Some Feed Their Parents Well and Still Go to Gehinnom

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Rabbi Hananyah taught a puzzle that his students were expected to unravel. "Some children feed their parents badly," he said, "and still go to Paradise. Others feed their parents w...

Rabbi Nehemiah's Lentils and the Guest Who Could Not Eat Them

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Rabbi Nehemiah was a humble man and a simple eater. He kept a plain table. He served plain food. One day he invited a man to share his meal, and the man accepted. The guest was a g...

The Sages Who Refused to Cure Lovesickness With Licentiousness

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A young man fell in love with a young woman of his town. His feelings were so intense that he became physically ill. He stopped eating. He grew feverish. His family feared he would...

Why Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakkai Wept on His Deathbed

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When Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakkai lay dying, his disciples came to gather at his bedside. They expected composure from the man they called the Light of Israel, the Pillar of the Right...

The Three the Holy One Calls Virtuous Himself

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There are three, the sages teach, whom the Holy One, blessed be He, singles out by name and calls virtuous. The first is the unmarried man who lives in a great city and does not si...

The Hidden Tempter Who Destroyed Both Temples

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The prophet Joel called him "the hidden one," and the sages took the phrase at its full weight. "I will remove far from you the hidden one, and I will drive him into a land barren ...

Talmudic Maxims on Crafts, Character, and Lineage

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The sages collected sharp observations about who people tend to be and why. Most donkey drivers, they said, are rough with their customers, but most sailors are pious, because anyo...

The Six Questions Asked at the Heavenly Court

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The sages taught that when a person stands at the judgment seat of the Holy One after death, six questions are put to the soul. They are not trick questions. They are the exam the ...

Four Ways Travelers Treat the Island of This World

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The anthologies of Jewish rabbinical writings preserve a parable about five sets of passengers who embark on a long sea voyage. When the ship puts in at a beautiful island midway t...

The Three Daughters and the Tongue That Killed

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A man had three daughters, and each carried a flaw. The first was a thief who could not keep her hand from what was not hers. The second was lazy and refused the work a household r...

The Unwashed Hands That Destroyed a Household

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A man was in the habit of rising from his meals without washing his hands properly. He left the table with crumbs and traces of the food on his fingers, indifferent to the small ri...

Two Sons and the Father at the Millstone

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The sages liked to place two sons side by side to show how kibbud av, honor of a father, can be faked and how it can be real. The first son fed his father lavishly. He set out rich...

Abaye and the Barber Who Earned a Seat Beside Him

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Abaye, one of the greatest sages of the Babylonian Talmud, had a vision of the world to come. He learned who his neighbor in Gan Eden would be, and the neighbor turned out to be a ...

The Mantle Cut in Half and the Grandson Who Shamed a Son

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A wealthy man had an only son and trusted him completely. In his later years he signed over the entire estate to the son's name, keeping nothing for himself except the promise of h...

The Two Slaves Who Read the Road Like a Scroll

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Rava once told a story in the name of Rabbi Yochanan that was preserved in tractate Sanhedrin (folio 104, column 2) — and it is really a story about how a Jew is supposed to see. T...

The Teacher Beheaded for a Missing Vowel in Deuteronomy

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Tractate Bava Batra preserves a strange debate about classroom size that turns, without warning, into a story of life and death. The rabbis were arguing about elementary education....

Eight Rabbinic Proverbs on How to Be a Mensch

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The Talmud and early midrashic collections preserve rabbinic mishlei, proverbs, in loose clusters — one-line teachings meant to be memorized and turned over slowly. Here is a sampl...

Why Sukkot Falls in Autumn and Not in Summer

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The children of Israel left Egypt in the Hebrew month of Nisan, in springtime, and immediately the sukkot — the booths of the wilderness — went up. They lived in these booths for f...

The Farmer Who Rejoiced to Forget a Sheaf

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(Leviticus 19:9-10) and (Deuteronomy 24:19) lay out a peculiar agricultural law. When you harvest your field and forget a sheaf behind you, you are forbidden to go back for it. It ...

Rabbi Akiva Comforts a Sick Rabbi With Suffering's Gift

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Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus, one of the great first-century sages, lay ill in his bed. Four of his colleagues came to visit him — among them Rabbi Tarfon, Rabbi Yehoshua, Rabbi Elaz...

Rabbi Akiva's Prison Ration Spent on Clean Hands

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Gaster's exemplum No. 160 is one sentence long, but it unfolds into a whole theology. "Rabbi Akiva in prison used half of the drinking water to wash his hands." The Talmudic versio...

The Blood That Boiled as Long as the Brothers Lived

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Gaster preserves, as exemplum No. 194, a tiny, terrible story — almost a folk horror — about a mother whose son was murdered by his own brothers. She gathered the blood of her son ...

The Stones He Threw From a Field He No Longer Owned

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A short, bitter parable preserved as Gaster's exemplum No. 210 teaches the kind of lesson a Jew is meant to carry with him into the street. A man was clearing his field of stones. ...

Rabbi Akiva Learns From a Master at the Privy

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Gaster's exemplum No. 258 preserves a story that has startled every generation of Talmud students, because it involves Rabbi Akiva following his teacher Rabbi Yehoshua into the bei...

The Son Who Won His Inheritance With a Cartload of Wood

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Gaster's exemplum No. 303 preserves a Jewish folktale about a father's last clever gift to his son. A wealthy Jewish merchant lay dying in a distant city far from home. He drew up ...

The Merchant Whose Slave Held the Key to His Inheritance

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Gaster's exemplum No. 399, drawn from the Ben Attar collection of medieval Jewish exempla, preserves a courtroom puzzle about a cunning father's last will. A wealthy Jewish merchan...

How Hillel Taught the Alphabet to Win a Convert

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A gentile once came to Shammai asking to be made a proselyte, but only on condition that he be taught the Written Torah and not the Oral. Shammai sent him away with sharp rebuke. T...

When Truth Must Stand — Ishmael and Akiva on Justice

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Two great tannaim weighed the ethics of the courtroom. Rabbi Ishmael taught: when an Israelite and a stranger come before you in judgment, acquit the Israelite by the laws of Israe...

When Rabbis Profited from a Stranger's Honest Mistake

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Several Talmudic stories describe sages who took advantage of a non-Jew's arithmetical error — and they are preserved without varnish, because the rabbis wanted the argument to be ...

The Parable of the Blind Man and the Lame Man in the Orchard

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Rabbi Judah was asked a difficult question about divine justice: how can body and soul be judged together when one is mortal and the other eternal? He answered with a parable. A ki...

Rabbinic Sayings on Time, Shame, and the Dignity of Work

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A garland of proverbs preserved in rabbinic tradition, each short enough to carry in a pocket and long enough to last a lifetime. Unhappy is the one who mistakes the branch for the...

Gaboha ben Pesisa's Argument for the Resurrection

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A heretic — a min in the Talmud's vocabulary — once confronted a simple Jew named Gaboha ben Pesisa and mocked him. "Woe to you, you living who say that the dead rise again. You wi...

Why Rabbi Eliezer Refused Condolences for a Beloved Slave

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Jewish law draws a careful line around the rituals of mourning — the seven days of shiva, the tearing of garments, the torn clothes and covered mirrors — and reserves them for the ...