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Balaam Lied to the Messengers About Why He Would Not Go

God told Balaam not to go. Balaam could not say that to the men in his house, so he told them it would be beneath his dignity to travel with men of their rank.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Men in His House
  2. The Lie He Chose Instead
  3. What He Was Not Willing to Say
  4. Balak Did Not Read the Signal as Intended

The Men in His House

God had said do not go. Balaam heard it. He understood it as a prohibition with actual force, not a suggestion he could revise through a second inquiry. The elders of Moab and Midian were sitting in his house with the sorcery fees in their hands, waiting for his answer. They had traveled a long distance. Their king had sent them with the expectation of a yes. The fees they were holding were significant. The commission was everything a prophet-for-hire could hope to be offered.

Balaam could not bring himself to say: God told me not to go.

The Lie He Chose Instead

He told them it would be beneath his dignity to accompany men of their station. He told them he required ambassadors of higher rank before he could consider making the journey. He told them to go back to their king and inform him that the men he had sent were not suitable companions for a prophet of Balaam's standing, and that Balak should try again with better representatives.

The lie was calculated. The tradition's reading is precise about Balaam's intent. He was not trying to go and pretending otherwise. He was trying to prevent further contact, and he believed that the most effective way to end Balak's attempts was to insult him thoroughly enough that pride would do the rest. If you tell a king that his ambassadors were rejected as too low-status, most kings take that as contempt and stop sending. Balaam was using the implied slight as a door-closing device. He wanted Balak to feel wounded enough to give up.

What He Was Not Willing to Say

The truth he could not say to the faces of the men in his house was the one thing that would have ended the matter honestly. God said no. God said do not go, do not curse them, because they are blessed. That sentence, spoken plainly, would have required Balaam to admit several things he did not want to admit in front of an audience: that he was under divine constraint, that his powers had a limit that God could enforce, that the client standing in front of him was asking him to do something that the God of Israel had explicitly prohibited.

A prophet whose reputation rested on his ability to curse and bless at will, who had built his career on the fear that his words could do things other words could not, could not afford to say in front of Balak's messengers that he had received a refusal. The lie of wounded dignity preserved his professional standing while sending the messengers away. Or so he calculated.

Balak Did Not Read the Signal as Intended

Balak did not give up. This is the part Balaam's calculation missed. The king of Moab, who had built his intelligence network on precisely the kind of reading that the golden bird gave him and the kind of operational preparation that the road-building and market-setting represented, was not going to be deterred by a slight to his ambassadors. He sent a second delegation. Higher rank, more princes, more fees, a more emphatic statement of how much he needed the prophet to come.

The tradition finds in this failure of Balaam's strategy a demonstration of how lies compound. The first lie bought him time but not a solution. The second delegation arrived more impressive than the first, which meant that Balaam's stated condition for going, higher-ranking ambassadors, had been technically met, and the reason he had given for declining had been removed. He was now closer to going than when he started, not further. The lie that was supposed to close the door had opened it wider.


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Legends of the Jews 6:12Legends of the Jews

The story kicks off with Balak terrified of the Israelites and their growing power. Desperate, he sends messengers to Balaam, urging him to curse the Israelites (Numbers 22). Now, Balaam, as the Torah tells us, consults with God and is initially told not to go. But how does he relay this message back to Balak's envoys? That's where things get interesting.

The following morning, Balaam sends the elders of Moab back to Balak, but he doesn't reveal the full truth – that God forbade him from cursing Israel. Instead, as Ginzberg recounts in Legends of the Jews, Balaam spins it a bit. He tells them, "God said to me, 'Go not with these men, for that would be beneath thy dignity, but await nobler ambassadors.'" for a second. It’s a clever tactic. Balaam's plan, as Ginzberg suggests, was to insult Balak in a way that would prevent him from sending any further messengers. That way, no one would discover that Balaam's actions were entirely governed by the word of God. He wanted to appear powerful, in control, rather than simply obedient.

The ambassadors, upon returning to Balak, aren't exactly paragons of accurate reporting either! They tell their king that Balaam considered it beneath his dignity to appear in their escort. They conveniently leave out the part about God altogether!

So, what do we have? We have Balaam, twisting God’s message to inflate his own ego, and we have Balak’s ambassadors, twisting Balaam’s words to… well, who knows what their motivation was? Perhaps to avoid blame, or maybe to further incite Balak's anger and determination.

It's a reminder that even divine messages can be filtered through human desires and agendas, leading to misunderstandings and unintended consequences. And it makes you wonder: how often do we hear a story, a message, and interpret it in a way that suits our own needs, rather than striving for the unvarnished truth? Perhaps more often than we'd like to admit.

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Bamidbar Rabbah 20:8Bamidbar Rabbah

The story of Bilam gives us a fascinating glimpse.

We find ourselves in the Book of Numbers, Bamidbar in Hebrew. The Israelites are on the move, and their growing presence is making the neighboring kingdoms nervous – especially Moav. Their king, Balak, decides he needs some supernatural help. He calls upon Bilam, a prophet known for his powerful curses, to basically… well, curse the Israelites.

In (Numbers 22:7), we read: “The elders of Moav and the elders of Midyan went, with the tools of sorcery in their hands, and they came to Bilam, and spoke to him the words of Balak.” Now, it’s that little phrase, "with the tools of sorcery in their hands," that really catches the eye. What exactly were these "tools of sorcery?"

Bamidbar Rabbah, a Midrashic (rabbinic interpretive commentary) compilation on the Book of Numbers, really unpacks this verse. It tells us they brought "all sorts of tools of sorcery, with which they would perform sorcery, so that he [Bilam] would be unable to make excuses." for a second. They weren’t just asking Bilam nicely. They were bringing the whole magical kit and caboodle, ensuring he'd be fully equipped to get the job done!

It's like they were saying, "Here, we’ve got everything you need. No excuses now!" This shows us just how seriously they took the power of sorcery and the importance of making sure Bilam was ready for anything. No cutting corners when you're dealing with potentially cursing an entire nation. The Midrash then focuses specifically on the elders of Midyan. “The tools of sorcery were in the hand of the elders of Midyan," the text continues, "who said: ‘If he comes with us, he will succeed. If he delays for even a short time, he will be of no use.’” They seemed to believe timing was everything. That Bilam's power, or perhaps the effectiveness of their magic, was fleeting. They had to act fast.

This urgency speaks volumes about their belief system. They weren't just hoping for a curse; they believed it was a delicate operation, requiring the right tools, the right timing, and the right… well, sorcerer.

And what happened next? Bilam, ever the cautious one, tells them to "Spend the night here" (Numbers 22:8). He needs time to consult with… well, we know who he consults with. But the Midrash tells us that "the elders of Midyan went, as they knew by means of their sorcery that he would provide no benefit."

They knew. They were so confident in their own magical abilities that they could discern Bilam’s future ineffectiveness. It's a fascinating detail that emphasizes the depth of their commitment to the occult and their own perceived expertise.

So, what does this all tell us? It's more than just a story about a king trying to curse his enemies. It’s a window into a world where sorcery was a tangible force, where people invested heavily in its power, and where the line between the natural and supernatural was perhaps a little… blurrier than it is for many of us today. It makes you wonder, doesn’t it, about the things we put our faith in, the "tools" we carry with us, and the urgency with which we pursue our goals.

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Midrash Tanchuma Buber, Balak 9:2Midrash Tanchuma Buber, Balak

(Numbers 22:13:) "So Balaam arose in the morning and said to the princes of Balak: Go to your land, etc." He did not say to them: "The Holy One, blessed be He, gave me permission neither to go nor to curse." Rather, (the verse continues:) "The LORD has refused to give me leave to go with you." He said to me: "It is not befitting your honor to go with these, but only with men greater than they", for he desires my honor. (Numbers 22:14:) "And the princes of Moab arose (and went) [and came] to Balak and said: Balaam has refused to go with us." Therefore (Numbers 22:15:) "And Balak once again sent princes, more numerous and more honorable than these."

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Midrash Aggadah, Numbers 22:13Midrash Aggadah

"For the LORD refused to give me leave to go with you" (Numbers 22:13). He did not wish to tell them the words of the Omnipresent; rather, this is what he said to them: the Omnipresent desires my honor and commanded me not to go with them, for it is not to my honor that I go with them, because you are small men. Therefore those princes said to Balak, "Balaam refused to go with us" (Numbers 22:14). Once Balak heard this, that on account of this he did not go, because they were not great princes, Balak added still further to send princes more numerous and more honored than these, as it is said, "And Balak sent yet again princes" (Numbers 22:15). And Balaam thought that Balak would not add to send more princes, and [he reasoned] that thereby they would know that the Omnipresent had restrained him. And once Balak saw [this], he sent many and honored princes, and sent word to him that he would honor him greatly; [Balaam] began to say to them that it was not in his power, as it is said, "If Balak would give me [his house full of silver and gold]" (Numbers 22:18).

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