Parshat Bereshit5 min read

God Stayed Near Adam After the Gate of Eden Closed

He wept when he heard about the thorns. Am I and my donkey going to eat out of one trough, he asked, and then God said the word bread.

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Table of Contents
  1. A Cup of Blessing and Two Angels at the Wedding
  2. The King Came Home and Found the Servant Tasting
  3. Thorns, Thistles, and the Grass of the Field
  4. Am I and My Donkey Eating From One Trough
  5. The First Garment Anyone Ever Sewed
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A Cup of Blessing and Two Angels at the Wedding

God took a cup of blessing and said the blessing over them. Michael and Gabriel stood on either side of the couple as the groomsmen, the way two friends stand up for a man at his wedding.

Rabbi Abbahu told it that way, and then he pulled a whole pattern out of that one scene. He blesses bridegrooms, because He blessed them on the day He made them. He dresses brides, because the verse says He built the rib into a woman, which is the careful work of someone getting her ready. He visits the sick, because He came to Abraham at the door of the tent while the man was still healing from the knife. He buries the dead, because He buried Moses in the valley Himself. And He shows His face to a mourner, because He came to Jacob after the burial and blessed him with the blessing said over mourners.

The King Came Home and Found the Servant Tasting

Then the tree, and after the tree, the question.

Rabbi Yitzchak told it as a household story. A king says to his servant, do not taste the dish until I am back from the bathhouse. The king's wife comes into the kitchen and says, taste it, so he does not come home and start asking for salt or fish brine. The king walks in and finds the man with the spoon at his lips.

"You listened to my maidservant over me?"

So with Adam. You listened to Eve over Me, God said, and the man was out of the garden that same hour. The verse does not say Adam listened to his wife's words. It says her voice, and the voice was wailing at him.

Three walked into that judgment and four walked out condemned. Adam. Eve. The serpent. And the ground, cursed along with them, for nothing it had done.

Thorns, Thistles, and the Grass of the Field

The ground would now bring up cursed things for him. Gnats. Fleas. Flies. Though even out of that same cursed dirt a camel comes up, and a man can sell a camel and live off the price for a season, so the curse was not sealed all the way shut.

Had you stayed worthy, God told him, I would have raised fruit for you off every tree in Eden, and you would have picked the plainest weed and tasted in it every delicacy in the world. Now thorns and thistles, and you will eat the grass of the field.

Reish Lakish said that when Adam heard the word thistles, his eyes ran over.

Am I and My Donkey Eating From One Trough

He said it out loud, standing there.

"Master of the universe, am I and my donkey going to feed out of one trough?"

Sweat came out across his face while he waited for the answer.

"Since your face has sweated, you will eat bread."

His mind cooled. Nothing had been taken back. The thorns stayed, the sweat stayed, the gate stayed shut. But bread is not something a beast is ever handed, and the man stopped crying.

Reish Lakish, looking at his own century, said we would be fortunate if we were still standing under the first sentence, and that we have not gotten out from under the second one either, because in a hard year people go into the field and eat the grass raw. Rabbi Levi said Adam would have done better to accept the first decree as it was spoken and leave it alone.

The First Garment Anyone Ever Sewed

Before He put them out, God made them coats of skin and dressed them. Rav and Shmuel could not agree on the material. One said a thing that comes off an animal's hide. The other said a thing that the skin is glad to have against it.

Rabbi Simlai built something enormous on that stitching. The Torah begins with an act of kindness and ends with one. It begins with God putting clothes on people who have nothing on. It ends with God going down into a valley in Moab and burying a man with His own hands.

Rabbi Hama bar Hanina asked the obvious thing. How does a person walk after God, when the verse also calls Him a consuming fire? You walk after what He did. He clothed the naked, so clothe the naked. He sat with a sick man at the oaks of Mamre, so sit with the sick. He came to Isaac after Abraham died, so go to mourners. He buried Moses, so bury the dead.

The gate shut behind them and the sword turned in the opening. Outside it, two people stood in clothes that had been cut and sewn for them by the one who had just passed the sentence.


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Yalkut Shimoni on Torah 16:9Yalkut Shimoni on Torah

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Rabbi Abbahu said: The Holy One, blessed be He, took a cup of blessing and blessed them. Michael and Gabriel were the groomsmen of Adam, the first man. We find that the Holy One, blessed be He, blesses bridegrooms, as it is written, "And God blessed them" (Genesis 1:28). He adorns brides, as it is written, "And the LORD God built the rib [into a woman]" (Genesis 2:22). He visits the sick, as it is written, "And the LORD appeared to him" (Genesis 18:1). He buries the dead, as it is written, "And He buried him in the valley" (Deuteronomy 34:6). He shows His face to the mourner, as it is written, "And God appeared to Jacob and blessed him." With what did He bless him? He blessed him with the blessing of mourners.

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"Because you listened to the voice of your wife" (Genesis 3:17). "To the words of your wife" is not written here, but "to the voice," [meaning] she began to wail over him: do you think I am dying [and you will take another], and so on, as above. "And you ate from the tree which I commanded you" to warn the wild beast and the cattle; and it was not enough that you did not warn them, but you even gave to them and they ate. "Cursed is the ground for your sake" (Genesis 3:17), that it should raise up for you cursed things such as gnats, fleas, and flies; and let it raise up a camel for him, in that too there is benefit, for he sells it and benefits from its price. "In toil you shall eat of it" (Genesis 3:17): sustenance is twice as hard as childbirth, and so on, as above.

Rabbi Yitzchak said: to what may the matter be compared? To a king who said to his servant: do not taste the dish until I come from the bathhouse. His wife said to him: taste this dish, so that it not be lacking either salt or brine. The king came and found him tasting it with his lips. The king said to him: did you listen to my maidservant more than to me? So too the Holy One, blessed be He, said to Adam, "and from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat" (Genesis 2:17). What did Eve do? She fed it to him. The Holy One, blessed be He, said to him: did you listen to Eve more than to Me? Immediately he was driven out, "and He drove out the man" (Genesis 3:24).

Three entered for judgment and four came out condemned: Adam, Eve, and the serpent entered for judgment, and the earth was cursed along with them, and so on, as above in section five. Reish Lakish said: at the hour the Holy One, blessed be He, said to Adam the first man, "thorns and thistles it shall sprout for you" (Genesis 3:18), his eyes shed tears. He said before Him: Master of the world, shall I and my donkey eat from one trough? But when He said to him, "by the sweat of your brow you shall eat bread" (Genesis 3:19), his mind was set at ease. Reish Lakish said: happy are we if we had stood by the first [decree], and even now we have not escaped it, for we eat the grass of the field.

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Yalkut Shimoni on Torah 32:5Yalkut Shimoni on Torah

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"Thorn" (Genesis 3:18), this is the kundas plant. "And thistle," this is the akavyot; and some reverse them. [It is called dardar] because it is made in rows upon rows. "And you shall eat the grass of the field" (Genesis 3:18): had you been worthy, I would have raised up for you produce from all the trees of the Garden of Eden; now "thorns and thistles it shall sprout for you." Had you been worthy, you would have taken herbs from within the Garden of Eden and tasted in them the flavor of every delicacy in the world; now "and you shall eat the grass of the field."

Concerning these generations He speaks, that a person reaps his field [while green] and eats it while it is still grass. When Adam the first man heard this, his face broke out in sweat. He said: shall I be tied to the trough like an animal? The Holy One, blessed be He, said to him: since your face has sweated, you shall eat bread. Rabbi Levi said: it would have been better for Adam had he remained under his first curse ["by the sweat of your brow you shall eat bread," rather than the harsher decree of eating grass].

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Another interpretation: She showed (chivah) her how many generations she had caused to be lost. Rabbi Acha said: The serpent is your serpent, and you are the serpent of Adam. "For she was the mother of all living" (Genesis 3:20). Rabbi Shimon ben Elazar said: [Read] "with all the living" - it is taught: when he grew rich she rose with him; when he grew poor she did not descend with him. Rabbi Siman says: "mother of all living" - the mother of all the living.

For Rabbi Siman said: All one hundred and thirty years that Eve was separated from Adam, the spirits of the males were aroused by her and she bore from them, and female spirits were aroused by Adam and bore from him. This is what is written, "When he sins I will chastise him with the rod of men and with the afflictions of human beings" (II Samuel 7:14) - the children of the first Adam.

Rav Pappa said: Rava tested us. If she says to nurse and he says not to nurse, we listen to her, for the pain is hers. If he says to nurse and she says not to nurse, what then? Wherever it is not her way and not his way, what do we follow, his or hers? And we resolved it: she rises with him and does not descend with him. What is the verse? (Genesis 20:3) "And she is a man's wife" [literally, possessed by a husband] - in the husband's rising and not in the husband's descent. Rabbi Elazar said: from here - "For she was the mother of all living" - she was given for life and not given for pain.

(Genesis 3:21) "And the LORD God made... garments of skin." Rav and Shmuel: one said, a thing that comes from skin; and one said, a thing from which the skin benefits. Rabbi Simlai expounded: The Torah begins with acts of loving-kindness and ends with acts of loving-kindness, as it is written (Deuteronomy 34:6), "And He buried him in the valley."

Rabbi Chama bar Chanina said: What is the meaning of what is written, "After the LORD your God shall you walk" (Deuteronomy 13:5)? Is it possible for a person to walk after the Divine Presence? Has it not already been said (Deuteronomy 4:24), "He is a consuming fire"? Rather, walk after His attributes. The Holy One, blessed be He, clothed the naked, as it is said, "garments of skin, and He clothed them" - so too you clothe the naked. The Holy One, blessed be He, visited the sick, as it is written (Genesis 18:1), "And the LORD appeared to him by the oaks of Mamre" - so too you visit the sick. The Holy One, blessed be He, comforted mourners, as it is written (Genesis 25:11), "And it was after the death of Abraham that God blessed Isaac his son" - so too you comfort mourners. The Holy One, blessed be He, buried the dead, as it is written, "And He buried him in the valley" - so too you bury the dead.

This Rabbi Yehoshua ben Chananiah expounded: "And the LORD God made for Adam and for his wife garments of skin" - this teaches that the Holy One, blessed be He, does not make skin for a person unless he is first formed. Rabbi Yehoshua follows his own reasoning, for he said: One who miscarries a fetal sac that is not formed, even if it is clear fluid, his mother is impure with the impurity of childbirth. But the Sages say it is not a child, and the law does not follow Rabbi Yehoshua.

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