I'm talking about Lilith.
The tales surrounding Lilith are wild and varied, and one particular story, found woven within the mystical threads of the Zohar (1:19b), paints a fascinating picture of her encounter with Adam... and a rather unusual Eve.
Imagine this: God creates Adam, but it's not quite the Adam we all know. According to this tradition, Eve wasn't yet a separate being. Instead, she was attached to Adam's back! Some accounts go even further, suggesting she wasn't fully "real" yet, merely an apparition, a vision of perfect beauty "like that of the realms above." It's a truly striking image, isn't it? A being both male and female, whole and yet… incomplete. This idea seems to stem from the verse in Genesis 1:27: "In the image of God He created him, male and female He created them."
Now, enter Lilith. She approaches Adam, perhaps with the intention of seduction, thinking he's alone. But then, she sees Eve. Not a fully formed woman standing beside him, but this… image attached to his back.
What happens next? Lilith flees.
But why? Was she simply intimidated by the fact that Adam wasn't alone? Or was it something more? The Zohar suggests that Eve’s beauty, being the image of God (tzelem in Hebrew), far surpassed Lilith’s own. It’s as if she recognized a divine perfection she couldn't compete with. Gershom Scholem, a renowned scholar of Kabbalah, even proposed that tzelem signifies a kind of astral body, adding another layer of mystique to Eve’s ethereal form.
So, where does Lilith run? According to this story, she flees to the cherubim, the angelic beings who guard the gates of the Garden of Eden, as described in Genesis 3:24. Why she sought them out remains a mystery. Perhaps she desired a human body herself, or perhaps she thought she could somehow gain entry into the Garden. Whatever her intentions, the cherubim turn her away.
And then, God steps in. He sends Lilith to the depths of the Cities of the Sea. There she remains, exiled, until Adam and Eve commit their fateful sin. With their transgression, God frees Lilith from her watery prison, allowing her to roam the world. She returns to the cherubim, lingering near the fiery, ever-turning sword that guards the way to the Tree of Life. She's close, but still shut out.
The story doesn't end there. Some say she still bides her time, emerging when the moon wanes, seeking revenge on the children of Eve. But others believe God has exiled her again, to the Cities of the Sea, until the prophesied destruction of Rome. Only then, they say, will God bring Lilith from the depths and settle her in Rome's desolate ruins.
The Zohar (3:19a) offers another perspective, describing Eve as being fastened to Adam's side when God breathes the breath of life into him. This act infuses his body with a living soul. Here, the female, still connected to the male, almost feels like what Carl Jung called the anima – the feminine side of a man that he must integrate to achieve wholeness. Eventually, however, God separates them, "preparing" Eve as an independent person, perhaps transforming her from image to living being, or, as some midrashim suggest, preparing her as a bride for Adam (Gen. 2:22).
Kabbalistic thought offers a broader understanding, viewing Lilith not just as a demoness but as the embodiment of the Sitra Ahra, "the Other Side," the realm of darkness and demonic power. Eve, in contrast, represents the world of holiness.
What are we to make of this strange and evocative tale? It's a reminder that the stories we think we know often have hidden depths, filled with complex characters and challenging ideas. The story of Lilith's flight from the apparition of Eve forces us to consider the nature of creation, the meaning of image, and the eternal struggle between light and shadow within ourselves. It reminds us that even in paradise, there's always more than one story unfolding.