Beware the Widowed Woman's Beauty

Alphabet of Ben Sira, Letter Ayin

Curated by Arthur·Told by Maggid·March 24, 2026

ע) "Blind your eyes because of a widowed woman, and do not covet her beauty in your heart, because her children are the children of straying." He said to him, "Say, 'Peh.'" He said to him:

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