Escaping a Wife With a Sharp Tongue

Alphabet of Ben Sira, Letter Nun

Curated by Arthur·Told by Maggid·March 24, 2026

נ) "Shake yourself off from a wife who is bad and rules over you with her tongue, because a bad wife is like crazy dogs, and doors close to her while she has much in her mouth to answer." He said to him, "Say, 'Samech.'" He said to him:

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