Another matter: “Ish ish” – be like all men. There was an incident involving a certain woman who was propositioned by a certain man. She said to him: Where will you go?5In other words, where shall I meet you? What did that woman do? She went and told his wife. His wife went to that place and he consorted with her. Afterward, he regretted it and sought to die. His wife said to him: You ate from your bread and drank from your cup. However, what caused this to befall you? It is because you are haughty. Be like all men.
The Clever Woman Who Outwitted a Sinful Proposition
Bamidbar Rabbah 9:3