And where how does She ascend? Through ‘the Middle Pillar’ (Tipheret) which is ו Vav, – to become the crown upon its head. When She ascends to be the crown upon its head, it is stated of Her: (Prov. 12:4) A woman of valour is the crown of her husband... And when She descends to be below Him, She is called His coupling and intimate partner.
He is ‘the crownlet’ (taga) above the letter, the crownlet of the Scroll of the Torah, because of Her it is stated:xxxvMishnah Avot 1:13 ‘and one who uses the crown shall perish’.