(Genesis 24:49-51) "And Laban and Bethuel answered and said, The thing has come forth from the LORD; we cannot speak to you bad or good." From the Torah, from the Prophets, and from the Writings we learn that a man's mate comes only from the Holy One, blessed be He. From the Torah: "And they said, The thing has come forth from the LORD." From the Prophets: "But his father and his mother did not know that it was from the LORD" (Judges 14:4). And from the Writings: "House and wealth are the inheritance of fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD" (Proverbs 19:14).
A Man's Mate Comes Only From the Holy One
Yalkut Shimoni on Torah 109:6
(בראשית כד מט-נא) וַיַּעַן לָבָן וּבְתוּאֵל וַיֹּאמְרוּ מֵה' יָצָא הַדָּבָר לֹא נוּכַל דַּבֵּר אֵלֶיךָ רַע אוֹ טוֹב, מִן הַתּוֹרָה וּמִן הַנְּבִיאִים וּמִן הַכְּתוּבִים, שֶׁאֵין זִוּוּגוֹ שֶׁל אָדָם אֶלָּא מֵאֵת הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא. מִן הַתּוֹרָה, וַיֹּאמְרוּ מֵה' יָצָא הַדָּבָר. מִן הַנְּבִיאִים, (שופטים יד, ד) "וְאָבִיו וְאִמּוֹ לֹא יָדְעוּ כִּי מֵה' הִיא". וּמִן הַכְּתוּבִים, "בַּיִת וָהוֹן נַחֲלַת אָבוֹת וּמֵה' אִשָּׁה מַשְׂכָּלֶת".