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Esau Had No Fear of Heaven and Jacob Knew It

Jacob survived Laban, crossed the Jordan alone, and built two camps. Then he heard Esau was coming with four hundred men and was genuinely afraid.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Fear That Made No Sense
  2. The Principle That Governed the Fear
  3. The Evidence of a Life
  4. When Esau Ran to Meet Jacob

The Fear That Made No Sense

Jacob had wrestled an angel through the night and come out walking, injured but standing, with a new name. He had survived twenty years of Laban's manipulations. He had built camps of wives and children and flocks out of nothing. He had crossed the Jordan with a staff and returned with two groups of people and animals large enough to split into two companies as a defensive measure.

None of it helped when the messenger arrived. Esau was coming with four hundred men. Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed. The Torah uses both words because one was not enough.

The rabbis asked what specifically terrified him. It was not the numbers. Jacob had resources and had shown he could act decisively under pressure. The fear was something else, and the tradition identified it with precision.

The Principle That Governed the Fear

Do not fear a ruler, the tradition said. Fear a man who has no fear of heaven.

The principle was axiomatic. A ruler operates within constraints: political calculation, reputation, the limits of what his court and people will accept. Even a harsh ruler thinks about consequences. But a man with no fear of heaven has removed the deepest constraint of all. He does not believe the universe holds him accountable. He does not limit himself by any authority above the one he holds in his own hands. He does whatever he is capable of doing, and capability is the only boundary.

Esau was that man. He had sold the birthright for a bowl of lentil soup, which the tradition read not as a transaction but as a statement about what he valued. The birthright carried the covenant relationship, the line of Abraham, the promise of the land, the standing before God that Isaac's household held. Esau traded all of it because he was hungry at that particular moment. A man who makes that trade has already told you what he thinks of invisible obligations.

The Evidence of a Life

Esau had married Hittite women who made life bitter for Isaac and Rebekah. He had planned to kill Jacob once their father died, and Jacob had fled because of it. He had spent the years of Jacob's absence building a following: four hundred men who answered to him and no one else. A private army, in the ancient sense, is not a social club. It is a statement about the kind of authority a man intends to exercise.

Jacob divided his camp into two because if Esau struck one group, the other might escape. He sent gifts ahead, wave after wave of them, each group of animals announced by servants before it arrived, each announcement structured to soften Esau's anger incrementally. He prayed. He wrestled the angel. He still did not know what Esau would do when they finally stood face to face, because a man with no fear of heaven is genuinely unpredictable. There is no calculation that reliably restrains him.

When Esau Ran to Meet Jacob

Esau ran to meet his brother. He fell on his neck and kissed him. They wept together. Jacob introduced his family in the careful, formal language of a man who is still not sure if peace has actually arrived. He called the children a gift from God. He pressed the gift animals on Esau until Esau accepted them, because Jacob understood that acceptance of a gift is a kind of contract, and he wanted something between them that had the structure of an obligation.

The tradition saw the embrace in complicated terms. Some read Esau's kiss as genuine, a moment when fraternal feeling overrode old resentments. Others read the encounter as one that could have gone differently. Jacob's preparations had been correct. The fear had been correct. The outcome was not inevitable. It had been managed, carefully, by a man who understood precisely what he was dealing with.

Jacob, after the encounter, did not go south with Esau as he had offered. He went to Succoth. He had made it through, and he was not going to press his luck by sharing a road with four hundred men under the command of a brother he still could not fully predict.


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Book of Jubilees 27:1Book of Jubilees

That feeling, that burning resentment, is at the heart of our story today, straight from the Book of Jubilees, a text that expands on the stories we find in the Torah itself.

Remember the scene? Jacob, with a little help from his mother Rebecca, tricks his blind father Isaac into giving him the blessing meant for Esau, the elder son. Ouch.

The Book of Jubilees gives us a little more insight into the fallout. It paints a picture of Esau seething with rage. "And by thy sword wilt thou live," the text says, recounting Isaac's words to Esau, "And thou wilt serve thy brother. And it shall come to pass when thou becomest great, and dost shake his yoke from off thy neck, Thou wilt sin a complete sin unto death, And thy seed will be rooted out from under heaven." It's a harsh pronouncement, filled with a sense of inescapable fate. Esau’s destiny is forever intertwined with Jacob’s, a constant reminder of what he lost.

The text goes on, "And Esau kept threatening Jacob because of the blessing wherewith his father blessed him, and he said in his heart: 'May the days of mourning for my father now come, so that I may slay my brother Jacob.'" Can you feel the venom? Esau is consumed by a desire for revenge. He's not just upset; he’s plotting fratricide. He's willing to wait for his father's death just to get his chance. The weight of that resentment must have been crushing.

But here's where the story takes another turn. Rebecca, ever the protective mother, gets wind of Esau's deadly intentions. "And the words of Esau, her elder son, were told to Rebecca in a dream, and Rebecca sent and called Jacob her younger son, and said unto him: 'Behold Esau thy brother will take vengeance on thee so as to kill thee.'" Dreams, in Jewish tradition, often serve as divine warnings, messages from beyond. And Rebecca, attuned to these subtle signs, acts swiftly.

What does this all mean? It's a story about sibling rivalry, yes, but it's also about destiny, free will, and the consequences of our choices. Esau is seemingly trapped by the prophecy, fated to serve his brother. Yet, he also has the agency to choose his path. Will he succumb to his anger and fulfill the grim prediction? Or can he find a way to break free from the cycle of resentment and violence?

This passage from the Book of Jubilees leaves us hanging, doesn't it? It reminds us that even when we feel wronged, even when we believe fate is against us, we still have the power to shape our own stories. The question is, what will we choose to do with it?

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Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis 36:6Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Genesis

The Torah says simply that Esau took his wives, his sons, his flocks, and moved to another land. It sounds like a practical decision, too many cattle, not enough grass. The verse even gives an economic reason in the next line.

Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on (Genesis 36:6) will not let us believe the official story. The real reason Esau left, the Targumist reveals, was that there fell upon him a fear of Jacob his brother.

This is extraordinary when you remember the meeting at the Jabbok. It was Jacob who had trembled all night, wrestling with the angel, sending gifts ahead, bowing seven times, expecting to be slaughtered by his warlord brother and his four hundred men. And now, years after that encounter, the Targumist reverses the picture entirely. It was Esau who was afraid.

Why? Because Esau had seen something at Peniel. He had seen a brother who wrestled with God and lived. He had felt the weight of a blessing that would not come to him. He understood, even without words, that the land of Canaan belonged to Jacob's line, and that staying near him would be dangerous, not because Jacob would strike, but because the presence of the covenant itself would push Esau out.

The Targum is teaching a spiritual physics. When the righteous settle, the profane migrate. Esau did not need to be driven out. The land's holiness did the work. His flocks were the excuse. His fear was the truth.

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Legends of the Jews, VI. Jacob, Jacob And Esau Prepare To MeetLegends of the Jews

Remember the story? Jacob, with a little help from his mother, tricked his aging, blind father Isaac into giving him the blessing meant for Esau, the elder twin. Esau was furious, vowing revenge. Jacob fled, and years passed. Now, after two decades of working for his less-than-honest uncle Laban, Jacob was returning home.

The past wasn't so easily left behind.

The Legends of the Jews by Ginzberg tells us that news of Laban's ill will toward Jacob stirred up Esau's old hatred with increased fury. He assembled a household of sixty men, along with three hundred and forty inhabitants of Seir, ready for battle. Imagine the fear that must have gripped Jacob.

Meanwhile, Laban's messengers reach Rebekah, Jacob and Esau's mother. They tell her that Esau and four hundred men are about to make war upon Jacob, planning to kill him and seize everything he owns. Rebekah, anxious, sends seventy-two of Isaac's retainers to aid Jacob.

Jacob, camped by the Jabbok (a brook whose name means "to wrestle," foreshadowing events to come), rejoices at the sight of these men. He greets them with, "This is God's helping host," and names the place Mahanaim (מַחֲנַיִם), meaning "Two Camps" or "Hosts" (Genesis 32:3). According to Ginzberg's retelling in Legends of the Jews, this name reflects both the camp of Jacob and the camp of angels that accompanied him.

After hearing about his parents' well-being, the messengers deliver Rebekah's plea: be humble, offer gifts, and conceal nothing from Esau. "Perhaps he may turn from his anger against thee," she urges, "and thou wilt thereby save thy soul."

As Midrash Rabbah recounts, Jacob, upon hearing his mother’s words, wept bitterly and followed her instructions.

He sent messengers ahead with a carefully crafted message for Esau: "Thus speaks thy servant Jacob: My lord, think not that the blessing which my father bestowed upon me profited me… God saw my affliction… and through God's great mercy and kindness, I acquired oxen and asses and cattle and men-servants and maid servants." In other words, Jacob tried to reassure Esau that he wasn’t a threat, that his success was due to God's favor, not Isaac's blessing.

The messengers continued, cleverly turning Esau’s potential envy on its head. "Why dost thou envy me in respect to the blessing wherewith my father blessed me? Is it that the sun shineth in my land, and not in thine?"

According to Legends of the Jews, Jacob even offered a covenant to share equally in any future vexations.

But Esau, swayed by his friends, refused. His reply was arrogant and accusatory, reminding Jacob that he had twice supplanted him and that he intended to act on his desires.

The messengers return to Jacob, reporting that Esau was advancing with an army, each leader commanding four hundred men! "It is true, thou art his brother, and thou treatest him as a brother should," they said to Jacob, "but he is an Esau, thou must be made aware of his villainy."

Jacob was understandably alarmed. Even with God's promise to bring him back in peace, he feared he might have sinned and forfeited that promise. He even worried that Esau might be more favored by God, having lived in the Holy Land and cared for their parents while Jacob was away. As we find in Legends of the Jews, Jacob feared not only defeat, but also the possibility of victory, fearing the consequences of harming his brother.

In desperation, Jacob turned to the three things he could do: prayer, appeasement, and preparation for war.

He prayed to the God of Abraham and Isaac, acknowledging his unworthiness and pleading for protection from Esau's wrath. Legends of the Jews highlights the poignancy of Jacob's prayer, as he sought not only his own deliverance but also the salvation of his descendants.

The Lord, hearing Jacob's prayer and seeing his tears, sent three angels disguised as a formidable army to terrify Esau and his men.

Following his prayer, Jacob divided his people into two companies. Of his cattle he sent a part to Esau as a present, first dividing it into three droves in order to impress his brother more. Jacob knew his brother's avarice only too well. The men who were the bearers of Jacob's present to Esau were charged with the following message, "This is an offering to my lord Esau from his slave Jacob."

But, as Legends of the Jews points out, God took offense at Jacob calling Esau "lord." Jacob's excuse? He was merely flattering the wicked to save himself from death.

So, what does all this mean for us? Jacob's story is a reminder that the past often catches up with us. It shows us the power of prayer, the importance of humility, and the complex dance of reconciliation. It’s a story of fear, hope, and the enduring bonds of family, however strained they may be. And perhaps, most importantly, it reminds us that even when facing our greatest fears, we are not alone.

What would you do? Would you grovel? Would you fight? Would you pray? Jacob did all three. And his story continues, with a dramatic, unexpected meeting... but that, as they say, is a story for another time.

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Midrash Tanhuma-YelammedenuMidrash Tanchuma

What does it mean to say something is "angelic?" We usually mean beautiful, kind, maybe a little ethereal. But in Jewish mysticism, angels aren't just gentle spirits. They're forces. Powers. So immense, in fact, that – get this – the distance from heaven to earth is said to be no more than the palm of one of their hands!

I know. It's. Where does this idea come from? Well, as Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) Tanhuma-Yelammedenu, Bereshit 5, tells us, these ministering angels are forces beyond our comprehension.

They're active participants in the world. Remember the prophet Ezekiel? He had some pretty wild visions. And according to (Ezekiel 8:3), one of these mighty angels actually reached down from heaven and grabbed him by the hair! "He stretched out the form of a hand," it says, "and took me by the hair of my head." Can you imagine the sheer force required for that?

This image is meant to convey the unlimited nature of God’s angels. If even the distance from heaven to earth is nothing compared to the size of an angel’s hand, how much more so is God even more powerful and beyond comprehension?

But here's the crucial point: even with all this might, these angels are still just messengers, servants of the Divine. They are not deities in their own right. They are malakhim, literally “messengers.”

This is where the story gets really interesting. In other mythologies – Babylonian, Canaanite, Greek – gods often have similar powers. Immense size, control over elements, the ability to intervene in human affairs. But Judaism insists on something different. These beings, these angels, are not independent powers. They operate solely at God’s command. Their power derives entirely from God.

This is a key element in maintaining the monotheistic vision. The angels' might emphasizes God's even greater, unimaginable power.

So, what are we left with? A paradox, perhaps. A vision of angels so vast they seem to defy comprehension, yet so firmly rooted in service to something even greater. It's a reminder that even the most awe-inspiring forces we encounter are ultimately part of a larger, more mysterious whole. It’s a way of trying to understand our place in the universe, acknowledging both our insignificance and our connection to something infinitely powerful.

Next time you look up at the night sky, remember the angels. Remember their immense size, their awesome power. But most importantly, remember who they serve. It might just change the way you see everything.

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