Parshat Yitro5 min read

Jethro Refused to Stay Though Manna Fell Over His Head

Moses called him the apple of Israel's eye and offered him a share in the land. Jethro tied his bags for Midian while manna still stuck to his sleeves.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. Manna Fell Straight Onto His Shoulders
  2. Moses Offered Him Land and a Seat
  3. Jethro Named What He Would Not Abandon
  4. Moses Called Him the Apple of Israel's Eye
  5. The Cloud Stayed and He Did Not
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Manna Fell Straight Onto His Shoulders

The flakes hit Jethro's cloak before anyone in the camp had named him guest. Not the day's ordinary portion. Bread enough for sixty myriads of Israelites came down at the hour his sandals touched the sand, and it piled at his feet so he did not have to bend.

He had come out of Midian with Zipporah and the boys. He had heard the sea split. He had heard water come out of a rock. He wanted to stand in the place where those things had happened. The sky answered him with food.

Moses Offered Him Land and a Seat

Moses did not let the welcome stay a meal. He took his father-in-law by the sleeve and talked while the camp still smelled of the new bread.

"The wandering is almost over," Moses said. "Stay, and you will enter the land with us. We will be kinder to you than to any other convert. There is a seat waiting among the judges. Your grandchildren will grow up under the cloud."

Jethro chewed. The manna was still warm. He did not say yes.

Jethro Named What He Would Not Abandon

"There are people who have a fatherland and no property there," Jethro said. "There are property-holders with no family. I have a fatherland, and property there, and a family. I am going back to all three."

He had more than houses on his mind. In Midian, people had put their valuables in his care. If he stayed too long under Israel's cloud, they would say he had run off with what they trusted him with. Moses' name would be dirtied with his. He had also taken on debts in a famine year, feeding the poor out of his own store. To vanish now would look like a man fleeing his creditors. That would be a hillul Hashem (חילול השם), a desecration of the Name, and he would not buy himself a quieter life at that price.

Moses tried another angle. If Jethro left, the nations would say Israel only took converts in the hope of land. The door would shut. Jethro shook his head. The people who had not stood at Sinai were still his people. The teaching he had learned here was not a private treasure. He would carry it home. He called that the right choice while the manna still stuck to his sleeves.

Moses Called Him the Apple of Israel's Eye

The camp was already breaking. The Ark had gone ahead thirty-six miles, a full day's march, to pick a place to rest. Two silver trumpets waited in a craftsman's hands. When they sounded for war they were meant to trouble the Accuser. Moses needed a judge who knew the method, and he said so without shame.

"When we were encamped in the wilderness, you knew how to judge, and you taught us the method of judgment, and you are dear to us as the apple of our eyes."

Jethro had been the one who told Moses to stop sitting from morning until night with every quarrel in Israel on his knees. God had let that idea come from the Midianite. Moses had said so in public, so the camp would hear whose it was. None of that untied the bags.

Jethro blessed the God who had delivered Israel from Pharaoh. Then he turned his donkey's head east.

The Cloud Stayed and He Did Not

Moses stood in the lane of packed sand and watched him go. The cloud did not follow Jethro. The manna did not fall on the Midian road. Jethro walked anyway, with the account of the sea and the rock and the mountain in his mouth, toward people who had never heard any of it.

In the days of the Judges his descendants, the Kenites, showed up in the land near Judah, occupying the honor he would not take while his old neighbors still had a claim on him. The seat among the judges was filled by sons and grandsons. He had given up the immediate inheritance so Midian would hear, and the inheritance found his house after the hearing was done.

On the morning he left, none of that had happened yet. There was only a man shaking crumbs off a cloak, refusing a land, and taking the road that did not glitter.


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Legends of the Jews 2:11Legends of the Jews

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909) · Public Domain

The story of Jethro, Moses' father-in-law, offers a fascinating glimpse. Jethro, who according to the tradition, excelled all other converts in his love for the Torah, wasn’t just welcomed into the Israelite camp; he was showered with miracles.

The Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) tells us that on the very day Jethro arrived, manna, that miraculous bread from heaven, fell in abundance, specifically for him, at the very hour of his arrival. The amount? Enough for sixty myriads of Israelites! It's said he didn't even have to exert himself; the manna simply fell right over him, ready to be eaten. Now, that’s hospitality!

Despite this miraculous welcome, Jethro decided to return to his homeland. Why? What could possibly compel someone to leave such a privileged position?

Moses, naturally, tried to persuade him to stay. According to Ginzberg's retelling in Legends of the Jews, Moses even hinted that their journey through the desert would soon be over, implying Jethro would enter the Promised Land with them. Moses sweetened the deal, promising Jethro that they would be kinder to him than to all other proselytes.

But Jethro remained firm. He felt obligated to return. The reason? He was a trusted figure in his community. People had entrusted him with their valuables. If he stayed away too long, they might suspect him of running off with their possessions, tarnishing his good name and, by association, Moses' too. It was also said he had debts from helping the poor during a famine and didn't want to appear to be evading his creditors, which would be a hillul Hashem, a desecration of God's name.

Jethro poignantly explained, "There are people who have a fatherland, but no property there; there are also property-holders who have no family; but I have a fatherland, and have property there as well as a family; hence I desire to return to my fatherland, my property, and my family."

Moses, not willing to give up easily, then appealed to Jethro's sense of duty. He argued that if Jethro left, the Israelites might be accused of only accepting converts in the hope of gaining land, and the heathens would keep away from the true faith. If he stayed, Jethro would share in the Temple, the Torah, and the future reward of the pious. Moses even suggested Jethro stay to serve as a member of the Sanhedrin, the Jewish high court, and to teach the Torah.

Jethro countered with a beautiful metaphor: "A candle may glow in the dark, but not when the sun and the moon are shining; of what avail would my candle-light be?" He believed he could be more effective back home, converting his people and bringing them "under the wings of the Shekinah (the Divine Presence)", the Divine Presence.

In the end, Jethro returned home, laden with gifts and honors. And, true to his word, he converted his kinsmen and compatriots to the belief in the one true God.

So, what do we take away from Jethro's story? It's a reminder that piety isn't just about personal gain or even staying within a comfortable, spiritually rich environment. Sometimes, the greatest act of faith is to return to our own communities, to use our experiences and wisdom to uplift those around us, even if it means leaving behind the miraculous manna and the company of giants like Moses. It's about recognizing where we can best serve, where our "candle" can shine brightest.

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Legends of the Jews 2:10Legends of the Jews

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909) · Public Domain

It turns out, the ancient stories have a lot to say on the matter.

We find ourselves with Moses, after the giving of the Torah, setting up the legal system. He didn’t just appoint judges and walk away. Oh no. He gave them detailed instructions on handling both civil and criminal cases. And he reminded the people to respect the judges, to give them the veneration they deserved.

Why all the fuss about justice? Because, my friends, justice is everything. The text says that for someone who hates justice, there is no remedy. But on the flip side, a judge who decides conscientiously, with a clear conscience, is a true peacemaker. This isn't just for the benefit of Israel, but for the entire world, all living creatures. As Legends of the Jews, by Louis Ginzberg, tells us, justice is the foundation of well-being.

Here’s a fascinating twist. The installation of these elders, these judges, was at God's command. Makes sense. Divine law needs divine implementation. But… it was Jethro, Moses' father-in-law, who actually suggested the idea! for a second. Moses, the great leader, the lawgiver, needed advice from his father-in-law to lighten his burden. And Moses, being the mensch that he was, didn’t hide this fact. He made it known to everyone that it was Jethro's idea. He even immortalized Jethro in the Holy Scriptures.

Why? Because Moses understood the importance of appreciating the merits of others. He knew that good ideas can come from anywhere, and that credit should be given where credit is due.

But there's something even deeper going on here. According to Legends of the Jews, God had a specific reason for allowing Jethro to be the one to suggest the idea. It was a way to reward Jethro for his love of the Torah (the first five books of the Hebrew Bible, or the Law).: God arranges events so that Moses' attention is drawn to the plan of installing elders through his father-in-law. And as a result, the Holy Scriptures devote an entire chapter to Jethro's plan! God made sure Jethro’s contribution was never forgotten.

What does all this tell us? Perhaps that good governance isn’t just about laws and procedures. It’s about recognizing the wisdom in others, about giving credit where it’s due, and about understanding that even the most righteous leaders can benefit from good counsel. And, perhaps most importantly, it highlights the profound importance of justice in creating a peaceful and thriving world. A world where even a non-Jew like Jethro can contribute to its sacred institutions.

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Targum Jonathan on Numbers 10Targum Jonathan

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Targum of Jonathan ben Uzziel, trans. J. W. Etheridge, London, 1862 · Public Domain

The Hebrew Bible records that Moses invited Hobab his father-in-law to travel with Israel, and Hobab refused. The Targum Jonathan expands this exchange into a deeply personal plea and adds details about the Ark's supernatural scouting abilities, Satan's vulnerability to trumpets, and a prayer tradition still echoed in synagogues today.

Two silver trumpets were forged from solid metal by an artisan. Their purpose was dual: assembling the congregation and signaling the order of march. The Targum adds a striking detail about the shofar-like alarm blown before battle: "the remembrance of you may come up for good before the Lord your God, that you may be delivered from your enemies." At festivals and new moons, the blast served a different purpose: "Satana shall be troubled at the sound of your jubel notes." The trumpets did not just summon people. They rattled the Accuser.

When the camp departed Sinai, the Ark went ahead by thirty-six miles, a full day's journey, "to provide for them a place to encamp." The Ark was an advance scout, traveling ahead of the nation, clearing the way through hostile wilderness.

Moses begged Hobab to stay: "When we were encamped in the wilderness, thou knewest how to judge, and didst teach us the method of judgment, and thou art dear to us as the apple of our eyes." This intimacy, a Midianite called the apple of Israel's eye, does not appear in the Hebrew text.

When the Ark moved forward, Moses would pray: "Let the Word of the Lord be now revealed in the power of Your anger, that the adversaries of Your people may be scattered." When the Ark rested, he prayed: "Return now, O Word of the Lord, in the goodness of Your mercy, and let the glory of Your Shekinah (the Divine Presence) dwell among them." These two prayers, one for departure, one for arrival, became the liturgical framework for opening and closing the Torah ark in every synagogue.

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