Parshat Vayeshev6 min read

Joseph, the Man Who Refused to Become Egypt

A Midianite trader spotted Joseph on the road and said: you are no slave. Years later, standing over his bowing brothers, he proved it.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The House That Prospered Around Him
  2. The Vision at the Window
  3. From the Prison Floor to Pharaoh's Ring
  4. The Brothers Who Did Not Recognize Him
  5. The Woman Who Shed Her Finery in Ashes

On the road to Egypt, one of the Midianite traders stopped and studied Joseph. The boy stood too straight for a slave. His hands were wrong. His eyes were wrong. The trader looked at him a long time and said: you are no slave. Your face gives you away.

Joseph said nothing that would betray his father. He did not say he was the son of Jacob, a man of standing in Canaan, a man whose name could be ruined in a single afternoon of Egyptian market gossip. He kept Jacob's name out of the transaction. He let himself be sold as an ordinary piece of property, which was the only mercy left in his power to give.

The House That Prospered Around Him

Potiphar, the Egyptian captain who bought him, was not a sentimental man. He watched the numbers. Grain stores, livestock counts, servants, debts. Everything Joseph touched began to multiply. The grain came in faster. The accounts balanced. Potiphar noticed and moved Joseph closer to the center, then closer again, until Joseph was running the entire estate while Potiphar concerned himself only with what he wanted to eat (Genesis 39:5-6).

A Hebrew slave whose name the Egyptian markets did not know had become the most important man in a powerful Egyptian household. God's presence had followed him from Canaan to the pit to the caravan to the house on the Nile. Potiphar could see the results even if he could not name the cause.

The Vision at the Window

Then Potiphar's wife decided she wanted Joseph. She was not subtle. Day after day she placed herself in his path. He refused, citing loyalty to Potiphar, citing God, citing every reason a man names when he is trying to believe his own refusal.

One afternoon, alone in the house, the pressure was almost too much. He stood at the edge of giving in. At that moment he saw, through the window or inside his own mind, the face of his father. Jacob looked at him. Not with anger. Not with words. Only looked, the way a father looks when he has not yet given up on a son. Joseph turned and ran (Genesis 39:12). She grabbed his cloak as he went. He left it and kept running, and arrived in an Egyptian prison with no cloak and no case to make in his defense.

From the Prison Floor to Pharaoh's Ring

He stayed in that prison until Pharaoh dreamed two dreams no one could parse. Seven fat cows eaten by seven starving ones. Seven full ears of grain swallowed by seven scorched and shriveled stalks. The court magicians turned the images over and found nothing. Then a cupbearer remembered the Hebrew interpreter he had met in prison.

Joseph came before Pharaoh not with a prepared answer but with an acknowledgment: the interpretation belonged to God, not to him (Genesis 41:16). He told Pharaoh what the dreams meant. Seven years of plenty followed by seven years of famine that would swallow the plenty whole. He told Pharaoh what to do. Pharaoh looked at this man who had spent years on a prison floor and put his ring on Joseph's finger. Joseph left the audience chamber as the second-highest official in Egypt.

The Brothers Who Did Not Recognize Him

The famine reached Canaan. Joseph's brothers arrived in Egypt bone-thin and desperate, carrying silver to buy grain. They bowed before the governor. Joseph recognized them without a pause. They did not recognize him. The beardless teenager they had sold into the caravan was gone. In his place stood a man who commanded the food supply of the ancient world.

He wanted to reveal himself at once. An angel stopped him, the same one who had guided him toward Dothan on the day his brothers seized him, and reminded him that they had once discussed killing him before settling on sale. Joseph needed to know what they were made of now. He accused them of spying. He demanded they bring their youngest brother, Benjamin. He held one of them as hostage while the others went back to Canaan. He watched them speak among themselves and listened while they named their guilt aloud for the first time (Genesis 42:21-22).

They returned with Benjamin. Joseph planted his silver divining cup in Benjamin's grain sack and had them chased down on the road. He offered to let the others go free if they surrendered Benjamin as his slave.

Judah stepped forward. Judah, who had proposed the sale to the Ishmaelites in place of killing Joseph, stood before the governor of Egypt and spoke. He explained what losing Benjamin would do to their father. He said he had guaranteed Benjamin's life with his own. He asked to serve as a slave in Benjamin's place.

Joseph sent every Egyptian out of the room. He stood alone with his brothers and wept, loudly enough that the Egyptians in the adjacent halls heard it through the walls (Genesis 45:2). The man who had managed a nation's grain supply through seven years of disaster and seven years of ruin broke open in a moment. He said: I am Joseph. Is my father still alive.

The Woman Who Shed Her Finery in Ashes

The marriage that settled Joseph's place in Egypt carried its own strange weight. Asenath, daughter of an Egyptian priest, heard Joseph speak and was so struck that she retreated to her rooms. She stripped off her jewelry and fine clothing. She put on sackcloth and scattered ashes over herself and spent seven days fasting, asking God to forgive the life she had lived until that hour. On the eighth day an angel appeared to her and told her she had been set aside for Joseph. He declared her born again. Pharaoh crowned them both at the wedding and threw a feast that lasted seven days.

Egypt celebrated the man it had once imprisoned. The country that had bought Joseph for silver made him its viceroy. God had drawn a line from the pit in Canaan to the palace on the Nile, and not one step along it had been wasted.


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Legends of the Jews, I. Joseph, Joseph The Slave Of PotipharLegends of the Jews

The familiar story centers on Joseph and his brothers. Sold into slavery in Egypt, he rises to prominence, eventually saving his family from famine. But let's rewind and look at the very beginning, at his arrival in Egypt, because even in those dark days, Joseph's character shines. Ginzberg, in his Legends of the Jews, draws on a wealth of rabbinic tradition to paint a vivid picture.

When Joseph was sold to the Ishmaelites, he didn't reveal his true identity. He kept quiet about being the son of Jacob, a man of status and power. Why? Out of respect for his brothers. He didn't want to bring shame upon them, even after they'd sold him! Even when the Midianites questioned him, he maintained the facade, claiming to be a mere slave. Isn't that incredible? One of the Midianites, perceptive as can be, even called him out, saying, "Thou art no slave, thy appearance betrayeth thee!" He threatened Joseph with death, but Joseph stayed true to his word. What incredible loyalty!

Arriving in Egypt, the Ishmaelite merchants couldn't agree on who should own him. They were so eager to possess him! So, they left him with a shopkeeper while they went to get more merchandise. God granted Joseph favor in the eyes of the shopkeeper. Everything the shopkeeper owned, he entrusted to Joseph. The shopkeeper prospered because of Joseph. He was blessed with much silver and gold, and Joseph stayed with him for three months and five days.

Then, the wife of Potiphar (sometimes spelled Poti-phera), an officer of Pharaoh, caught wind of this handsome Hebrew youth. She had heard about him from her eunuchs. She told her husband about the shopkeeper's sudden wealth and the young Hebrew. She even suggested that the youth was stolen from Canaan. "Go," she urged Potiphar, "and sit in judgment upon his owner, and take the youth unto thy house, that the God of the Hebrews may bless thee, for the grace of heaven rests upon the youth."

So, Potiphar confronted the shopkeeper. "What is this I hear?" he demanded, accusing him of stealing people from Canaan. The shopkeeper vehemently denied it, sticking to his story that the Ishmaelites had left Joseph in his care. Potiphar had him stripped and beaten, but the shopkeeper wouldn't budge.

Next, Potiphar summoned Joseph himself. Joseph, showing respect, prostrated himself before this high-ranking official. Potiphar questioned him: "Art thou a slave or a free-born man?" Joseph replied, "A slave." Potiphar pressed further, "Whose slave art thou?" Joseph: "I belong to the Ishmaelites." Potiphar: "How wast thou made a slave?" Joseph: "They bought me in the land of Canaan."

But Potiphar didn't believe him. He had Joseph stripped and beaten too! Talk about injustice! Potiphar's wife, witnessing this, intervened. "Thy verdict is unjust," she told her husband, "for thou punishest the free-born youth that was stolen away from his place as though he were the one that had committed a crime."

Joseph, unwavering, stuck to his story. So, Potiphar threw him in prison until his supposed masters returned. All this time, Potiphar’s wife was thinking of ways to get Joseph into her own household. She wanted him to serve her rather than languish in prison. Potiphar, however, refused. “The law of the Egyptians does not permit us to take what belongs to another before all titles are made clear,” he explained, and Joseph remained in prison for twenty-four days, until the return of the Ishmaelites to Egypt.

Meanwhile, the Ishmaelites had heard that Joseph was the son of Jacob! They confronted him in prison: "Why didst thou pretend that thou wast a slave? See, we have information that thou art the son of a powerful man in Canaan, and thy father mourns for thee in sackcloth." Joseph was tempted to reveal the truth but held back for his brothers' sake. He repeated that he was a slave.

The Ishmaelites, fearing Jacob's revenge, decided to sell Joseph. They also needed the shopkeeper to clear them of any suspicion of kidnapping. So, they told Joseph to testify that they had bought him. He agreed, and Potiphar released him and dismissed everyone.

Potiphar’s wife, still determined to have Joseph, sent a eunuch to buy him from the Ishmaelites. They demanded a high price, but she insisted he pay whatever it took. The eunuch paid eighty pieces of gold but told his mistress he'd paid a hundred, pocketing the difference. Joseph noticed the deception but remained silent to spare the eunuch embarrassment.

And so, Joseph became the slave of Potiphar, an idolatrous priest. in the story, Potiphar wanted Joseph for "a lewd purpose," but the angel Gabriel intervened, preventing him from acting on his desires.

Potiphar quickly noticed Joseph's piety. Whenever Potiphar was occupied with his priestly duties, Joseph would whisper a prayer: "O Lord of the world, Thou art my trust, Thou art my protection. Let me find grace and favor in Thy sight and in the sight of all that see me, and in the sight of my master Potiphar." Potiphar, impressed, came to believe that God was with Joseph. He even tested Joseph's supposed miraculous powers, and each time, Joseph delivered.

As a result, Potiphar entrusted Joseph with everything, except his wife. He treated Joseph not as a slave but as a member of his family. He provided him with education and better food, recognizing that Joseph was "worthy of a prince's place." Joseph thanked God for his improved situation. "Blessed art Thou, O Lord, that Thou hast caused me to forget my father's house," he prayed. He reveled in the freedom from his brothers' envy.

Free from worry, Joseph focused on his appearance, dressing well and taking pride in his presentation. But God cautioned him, saying, "Thy father is mourning in sackcloth and ashes, while thou dost eat, drink, and dress thy hair. Therefore I will stir up thy mistress against thee, and thou shalt be embarrassed." And so, Joseph's secret wish to prove his piety under temptation was about to be fulfilled, just as his forefathers had been tested.

So, what do we take away from this? Joseph's initial struggles in Egypt highlight his unwavering character, his loyalty, and his deep faith. He faced injustice with grace, choosing to protect his brothers even at his own expense. He trusted in God, and even in slavery, he found favor and eventually, great responsibility. And even when things were going well, he was reminded that true piety requires constant vigilance, a concept we can find echoed throughout the entire Tanakh.

It makes you wonder, doesn't it? How would we react in similar circumstances? Would we be able to maintain our integrity and faith in the face of such adversity? It's a powerful reminder that even in the darkest of times, our actions define us. And sometimes, those actions set the stage for even greater things to come.

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Legends of the Jews, I. Joseph, Joseph Meets His BrethrenLegends of the Jews

His brothers, the very ones who sold him into slavery years ago, bow before him, desperate for grain. They don't recognize the beardless youth they betrayed in this imposing figure. But Joseph? He knows them instantly.

In Legends of the Jews, Joseph initially wants to reveal himself. But then, an angel – the very one who guided him to his brothers in Dothan long ago – appears and reminds him of their murderous intent.

We find in Midrash Rabbah and other sources that angels often play complex roles in these stories, acting as messengers, testers, and sometimes, even instigators. In this case, the angel's warning throws a wrench into Joseph's plans. He decides to test his brothers, to see if they've truly changed.

He accuses them of being spies. "By this magic cup," he declares, referring to a divining cup, "I know your secrets!" Of course, it's all a ruse. But it throws his brothers into a panic.

They protest, "We are honest men! Sons of one father!" They even mention their younger brother, still at home with their father Jacob, and the brother who is lost. Unknowingly, they include Joseph himself in that count.

Joseph presses them, pointing out their suspicious behavior. Why did they enter the city separately? Why have they lingered so long? Why were they seen in the… less reputable parts of town?

Their explanation is desperate: they were searching for their lost brother, fearing he might have been sold into slavery and forced into a life of shame. It’s a flimsy excuse, dripping with irony. "We heard that some Ishmaelites stole our brother, and sold him into slavery in Egypt," they say, "and as our brother was exceeding fair in form and face, we thought he might have been sold for illicit uses…"

Joseph, still testing them, scoffs at their claim to be sons of Abraham. He demands they prove their innocence by sending one of them back to Canaan to fetch their youngest brother, Benjamin.

The brothers refuse, and Joseph throws them into prison for three days. That God never allows the pious to languish in distress longer than three days, a reminder of divine providence even in these fraught circumstances.

On the third day, Joseph releases them, but with a condition: one of them must remain behind as a hostage. He chooses Simon. Why Simon? Because, according to Ginzberg, Simon was one of the brothers who advocated for Joseph's death. Levi was the other, but Joseph feared leaving both of them behind, lest they unleash their wrath upon Egypt as they did in Shechem. He also resents Simon for having actually lowered Joseph into the pit.

As the brothers prepare to leave, Simon cries out, "Ye desire to do with me as ye did with Joseph!" The other brothers can only lament their predicament.

But getting Simon into custody is no easy task. When Joseph's men try to arrest him, Simon lets out a mighty roar, and they all fall to the ground, teeth knocked out! Only Joseph and his son Manasseh remain standing. Manasseh subdues Simon, binding him and taking him to prison.

Joseph secretly instructs his staff to treat Simon well, providing him with good food and kindness. It's a glimmer of mercy amidst the deception.

As the remaining brothers journey home, they discover the money they paid for the grain has been mysteriously returned to their sacks. They are terrified. “Where, then, is the lovingkindness of God toward our fathers Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob?” they cry.

Reuben and Judah remind them that this is likely divine retribution for their cruelty towards Joseph. They recognize, perhaps for the first time, the gravity of their sin.

When they arrive home, they tell Jacob everything. He is devastated, especially at the thought of losing Benjamin. He accuses them of plotting against him, lamenting, “Me have ye bereaved of my children.” He refuses to let Benjamin go back to Egypt, convinced it will lead to his death.

Jacob's words reveal his deep-seated suspicion of his sons. He believes they were responsible for Joseph's disappearance and now, Simon's imprisonment. His grief is compounded by the fear that he will never see the fulfillment of God's promise to make him the father of twelve tribes.

And so, the stage is set for the next chapter of this incredible story. Will Jacob relent and allow Benjamin to go to Egypt? Will Joseph finally reveal himself to his brothers? And, perhaps most importantly, can this fractured family ever truly be whole again? It leaves you pondering the long reach of past actions and the difficult path to forgiveness and reconciliation.

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Legends of the Jews, I. Joseph, The Marriage Of JosephLegends of the Jews

Take Joseph, for instance. His story is one of dramatic ups and downs, from slavery to becoming second-in-command in Egypt. But how did he find love?

The answer, according to the apocryphal text, Joseph and Asenath, is a tale of repentance, angelic encounters, and a love that transforms. It all starts with Asenath, the daughter of Potiphar, an Egyptian priest. When Joseph arrives, her initial impression is so profound that she undergoes a radical transformation.

In Ginzberg’s retelling in, Legends of the Jews, Asenath is so moved by Joseph’s presence and words that she retreats to her chambers. She sheds her finery, dons sackcloth, covers herself in ashes, and spends seven days and nights begging God for forgiveness for her past sins. Imagine the intensity of that spiritual reckoning! She doesn't even allow her seven attendants to enter her presence during this period of intense penance.

Then, on the eighth day, something incredible happens: an angel appears to her. This isn't just any angel; it’s a messenger of divine grace. The angel tells Asenath to cast aside her mourning and adorn herself in royal attire, declaring that she has been "born anew." She is to partake of the "bread of life," drink from the "cup of life immortal," and anoint herself with the "oil of life eternal." Quite the upgrade. And the feasting doesn’t stop there! Asenath is about to offer food and drink to her angelic guest when she notices a honeycomb, unlike any she has ever seen before, radiating an otherworldly fragrance. The angel explains that this honeycomb comes from the bees of Paradise and is food fit for angels and the chosen of God. He takes a small portion for himself and then places the rest into Asenath’s mouth.

The angel proclaims: "From this day forth thy body shall bloom like the eternal flowers in Paradise, thy bones shall wax fat like the cedars thereof, strength inexhaustible shall be thine, thy youth shall never fade, and thy beauty never perish, and thou shalt be like unto a metropolis surrounded by a wall." Talk about a makeover! At Asenath’s request, the angel also blesses her seven attendants, wishing them to be "seven pillars in the City of Refuge."

Then, in a blaze of glory, the angel departs in a chariot of fire drawn by four steeds of fire, ascending back to heaven. It is only then that Asenath truly understands that she had been visited not by a mortal man, but by an angel of God.

Shortly after the angel's departure, Joseph is announced. Eager to greet him, Asenath quickly prepares herself. When she washes her face, she sees a reflection of herself that she barely recognizes, her beauty now transformed by the angel’s visit.

When Joseph arrives, he doesn’t even recognize her! He asks who she is, and she replies, "I am thy maid-servant Asenath! I have cast away my idols, and this day a visitant came to me from heaven. He gave me to eat of the bread of life and to drink of the blessed cup, and he spake these words unto me, 'I give thee unto Joseph as his affianced wife, that he may be thy affianced husband forever.' And furthermore he said, 'Thy name shall not any more be called Asenath, but thy name shall be City of Refuge, whither the nations shall flee for safety.' And he added, 'I go to Joseph, to tell him all these things that have reference to thee.' Now, my lord, thou knowest whether the man was with thee and spoke to thee in my behalf."

Joseph confirms everything she says, and they embrace and kiss, sealing their betrothal. The occasion is celebrated with a banquet attended by Potiphar and his wife.

Later, the wedding takes place in the presence of Pharaoh himself. Pharaoh places golden crowns upon the heads of the bride and groom, bestows his blessing upon them, and throws a seven-day feast in their honor, inviting dignitaries and princes from Egypt and other lands. During these seven days, the people are forbidden from working, under penalty of death, so that they may all partake in the celebration of Joseph’s marriage.

So, what does this story tell us? It’s more than just a charming romance. It's a story about transformation, divine intervention, and the power of repentance. Asenath's journey from idolatry to spiritual awakening is a powerful evidence of the possibility of change. It also highlights the idea that love can be a catalyst for profound personal growth. And the image of Asenath as a "City of Refuge," where nations can seek safety, is a powerful metaphor for the protective and nurturing aspects of a loving relationship.

Isn’t it amazing how these ancient stories, even the ones outside the direct biblical canon, can still resonate with us today? They remind us that love, faith, and transformation are timeless themes that continue to shape our lives.

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