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Lailah Teaches Every Unborn Soul Before Birth

Before birth the angel Lailah teaches every soul the entire Torah, then erases it all with one touch, leaving only the mark above the lip.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Order at Conception
  2. Nine Months of Torah
  3. The Touch That Removes It
  4. Why the Forgetting Is Necessary
  5. The Stars That Named Abraham's Fortune

The Order at Conception

On the night a child is conceived, God sends Lailah an order. Take this seed and break it into three hundred and sixty-five particles. Lailah obeys, then returns to God and asks: what shall this become?

God answers with the decree. Strong or weak. Male or female. Rich or poor. Wise or foolish. Long-lived or short-lived. Every parameter of the life ahead is set at this moment, before the body has formed, before the child has breathed, before the parents know anything has happened. Then God summons the soul from its place in the heavenly storehouse.

The souls wait in the seventh heaven. All of them, every soul that ever was or ever will be, gathered in a vast repository until the moment of their assignment. Lailah, the Angel of the Night, receives the specific soul appointed for this specific conception and carries it to the waiting womb.

Nine Months of Torah

Inside the womb, the soul receives an education unlike any it will receive again. The Chronicles of Jerahmeel, the twelfth-century Hebrew compilation, records that Lailah places a light above the child's head so that it can see from one end of the world to the other. The soul sees the full scope of creation. It sees the Garden of Eden and Gehinnom. It sees the history of the world from Adam to the end of days.

And the soul learns Torah. All of it. The written law and the oral law both, every teaching, every argument, every tradition that will be transmitted through centuries of study and disagreement. The unborn child carries the complete text of Jewish knowledge in its awareness before it has learned to focus its eyes or hold up its head.

Ginzberg's Legends of the Jews, compiled from 1909 to 1938, records this same tradition with additional detail: the soul in the womb knows everything it will need to know, and looks forward to entering the world equipped with everything humanity has to learn. It is ready. It cannot wait to begin.

The Touch That Removes It

When the moment of birth arrives, Lailah comes again. She extinguishes the light above the child's head. She places her finger on the child's upper lip, between the nose and mouth, in the small indentation called the philtrum. And she says: forget.

The child forgets. Everything. The whole Torah, the vision of Eden and Gehinnom, the light that reached from one end of creation to the other. It all vanishes at the touch of the angel's finger. The child is born into complete ignorance of what it knew minutes before.

The tradition reads the philtrum, the indent above the lip that every human being carries, as the mark of Lailah's finger. The evidence of the education and its erasure is written into the body. Every person alive carries on their face the trace of the moment they forgot everything.

Why the Forgetting Is Necessary

The soul that arrived knowing everything would not need to learn anything. The person who remembered the light above their head in the womb would not need to sit in a study house and work through a difficult text with a teacher. The forgetting is the condition that makes the world's work possible. Torah must be learned again in the world because the learning itself is the work, not the having learned.

The tradition also carries a secondary reading: the forgetting is an act of mercy. The soul in the womb, knowing the full scope of its coming life, knowing its end as well as its beginning, might not consent to be born if it understood what was ahead. Lailah's finger removes not only the Torah but the foreknowledge of suffering. The child arrives in the world blank and open to whatever the life decrees will bring, unable to foresee it, free to encounter it.

The Stars That Named Abraham's Fortune

The Ginzberg tradition records that the celestial powers themselves take an interest in the soul's descent. Jupiter blazed in the sky to help Abraham win his wars. The planets are not indifferent to human affairs. At each conception, when Lailah receives her order and carries the appointed soul to its destination, the stars of heaven are already oriented toward the life that is about to begin. The divine decree set at conception and the celestial configuration visible at birth are two readings of the same decision, the one made in the moment and the one visible in the sky.

What Lailah erases from the child's memory is not erased from the heavenly record. The decree remains. The soul retains it in some form below the threshold of conscious knowledge. This is why, the tradition suggests, studying Torah feels like recognition rather than new information to someone doing it faithfully. Not learning something unknown. Recovering something forgotten at the touch of an angel's finger before the first breath.

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Chronicles of Jerahmeel IXChronicles of Jerahmeel (Gaster, 1899)

Before every human birth, an angel named Lailah (לילה) receives a direct order from God. According to the Chronicles of Jerahmeel, a 12th-century Hebrew chronicle compiled by Jerahmeel ben Solomon, God tells Lailah, "Tonight a child will be conceived. Take this seed and break it into 365 particles." The angel obeys, then returns to God and asks, "What shall become of it?" God decrees everything: strong or weak, male or female, rich or poor, tall or short.

God then summons a specific soul from the Garden of Eden. The soul protests. "I am holy and pure. I am satisfied with my world. Do not make me enter this impure vessel." God overrules the objection: "The world I am sending you into is better than the one you have known. I created you for exactly this purpose." The soul enters the embryo against its will.

A supernatural light shines above the unborn child's head, illuminating the entire world from end to end. Each morning the angel carries the soul into the Garden of Eden and shows it the righteous sitting in glory with crowns on their heads. Each evening the angel takes it to Gehinnom (the place of spiritual purification after death) and shows it the wicked being beaten with fiery staves. "These had the same humble origins as you," the angel explains. "They went into the world and disobeyed."

When nine months pass, the angel returns and says, "Time to go." The soul refuses again: "Now I am comfortable here. Why move me?" The angel replies, "Against your will you were formed. Against your will you will be born." Then the angel strikes the child, extinguishes the miraculous light, and forces it out into the world. The baby cries because it has lost everything it knew.

Seven stages of life await. In the first year, the child is treated like a king. By forty, burdens weigh on it like a loaded donkey. In old age, everyone in the household wishes for its death. When the final hour arrives, the same angel returns and asks, "What is your name?" The dying person weeps. Only the rooster can hear the sound.

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Legends of the Jews 2:23Legends of the Jews

It’s quite a journey.

All the souls of humanity, not just those alive now, but every soul that ever was or ever will be, all nestled together. Where? In a heavenly storehouse, a promptuary as it's sometimes called, located in the seventh heaven. It's from this incredible reservoir that each soul is drawn, ready to inhabit a new body.

How does it all work? Ginzberg, in his Legends of the Jews, paints a vivid picture of this process. When a woman conceives, an angel – the Angel of the Night, Lailah – presents the seed before God. And it is God who then decides the fate of the being that will emerge: male or female, strong or weak, rich or poor. All these qualities are divinely ordained. Except for one thing: our piety and wickedness. That, my friends, is up to us.

Then comes the really fascinating part. God signals to the angel in charge of souls. "Bring Me," God says, "the soul so-and-so, hidden in Paradise, whose name is so-and-so, and whose form is so-and-so." The angel retrieves the designated soul, who bows down in reverence before the Divine presence.

And then the command: "Enter this sperm."

Now, here's where it gets interesting. The soul, understandably, hesitates. "O Lord of the world!" she pleads. "I am content in the world where I have been, since You called me into being. Why would you have me enter this impure sperm? I am holy, pure, a part of Your glory!"

Can you imagine the soul's reluctance? It's a powerful image.

But God, in His infinite wisdom, reassures her. "The world you are about to enter is better than the one you know. I created you for this very purpose." Despite her reservations, the soul is compelled to enter, carried back to the mother's womb by the angel.

Once there, two guardian angels watch over her, ensuring she doesn't escape or fall out. And above her shines a light, allowing her to see from one end of the world to the other. Each morning, another angel takes her to Paradise, showing her the righteous souls who sit there in glory, crowned and radiant.

"Do you know who these are?" the angel asks. The soul, of course, does not.

"These," the angel explains, "were once like you, formed in their mother's womb. They observed God's Torah (teachings, law) and His commandments. That is why they partake in this bliss. Know also that you, too, will one day leave the world below. If you observe God's Torah, you will be worthy to sit with these pious ones. But if not… you will be doomed to the other place."

It's a powerful lesson, isn't it? A reminder that our choices have eternal consequences. That even before we're born, we're given a glimpse of what awaits us, depending on the path we choose.

So, the next time you ponder the mysteries of existence, remember this incredible journey of the soul, from the heavenly storehouse to the womb, guided by angels, and ultimately, shaped by our own free will. What kind of story are you writing for your soul?

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Legends of the Jews, II. Adam, The Soul Of ManLegends of the Jews

In Legends of the Jews, a collection of fascinating rabbinic stories compiled by Louis Ginzberg, God’s care in forming our physical bodies is nothing compared to His concern for our souls. In fact, the soul wasn't an afterthought. It was created on the very first day! It's "the spirit of God moving upon the face of the waters," Ginzberg writes. So, instead of humans being the last creation, maybe we're actually the first. This soul, or neshama (נְשָׁמָה), as it's often called in Hebrew, isn't just a simple thing. It has five different powers, according to tradition. One of these powers allows it to leave the body every night, ascend to heaven, and bring back renewed life for us. It's like a nightly spiritual recharge!

The souls of all people, from Adam to the present day, were created together at the same time. They're kept in a sort of… soul bank, a "promptuary," in the seventh heaven. From there, they're drawn as needed, one by one, for each new human body. Imagine a vast library containing the essence of every person who ever lived, and every person yet to be born.

How exactly does a soul get matched with a body? Well, when a woman conceives, the Angel of the Night, Lailah, presents the sperm before God. God then decrees the characteristics of the person to be born, male or female, strong or weak, rich or poor, all those things. Except for one thing: piety and wickedness. Those are left to our own choices.

Then, God instructs the angel in charge of souls to bring a specific soul from Paradise, one with a particular name and form. The soul appears before God, bowing down in reverence. God commands, "Enter this sperm."

And here's where the story takes a poignant turn. The soul, understandably, isn't thrilled. "O Lord of the world!" it pleads. "I'm happy where I am! Why do you want me to enter this… impure sperm? I'm holy and pure, a part of Your glory!"

God, in His infinite wisdom, consoles the soul. "The world you're going to is better than the one you know. I created you for this purpose." But even with this reassurance, the soul is forced to enter against its will.

The angel then carries the soul to the mother's womb. Two guardian angels are assigned to watch over it, and a light shines above, allowing the soul to see the entire world. According to the Midrash Rabbah, a compilation of ancient Jewish interpretations of the scriptures, this light helps the soul understand the grand scope of existence.

Each morning, an angel takes the soul to Paradise, showing it the righteous people sitting in glory, wearing crowns. "Do you know who these are?" the angel asks. When the soul says no, the angel explains, "These were like you, formed in their mother's womb. They followed God's Torah and commandments. That's why they're here. You, too, can earn this bliss if you observe God's Torah. But if not…"

In the evening, the angel takes the soul to hell, showing it the sinners being punished by the Angels of Destruction. Again, the angel asks, "Do you know who these are?" And again, the soul says no. "These were created like you," the angel says. "But they didn't observe God's Torah. That's why they suffer. Your destiny is also to depart this world. Be just, not wicked, so you can gain the future world."

Between morning and evening, the angel shows the soul where it will live, where it will die, where it will be buried. It sees the whole world, the righteous and the sinners, all things. Then, in the evening, the angel returns the soul to the womb, where it remains for nine months.

When it's time for birth, the angel says, "The time has come to go into the world." But the soul resists. "Why do you want me to go?" The angel replies, "Know that just as you were formed against your will, you will be born against your will, and against your will you will die, and against your will you will give account of yourself before the King of Kings, the Holy One, blessed be He."

Still, the soul hesitates. So, the angel flicks the baby on the nose, extinguishes the light, and brings it into the world against its will. Immediately, the child forgets everything it has seen and learned, and it cries, because it has lost a place of shelter, security, and rest.

And what about the end of life? When it's time to leave this world, the same angel appears and asks, "Do you recognize me?" And the person replies, "Yes, but why are you here today, when you never came on any other day?" The angel says, "To take you from the world, because the time of your departure has arrived."

The person weeps, and their voice echoes throughout the world, though only the rooster hears it. "You took me from two worlds and brought me into this one," the person says to the angel. But the angel reminds them, "Didn't I tell you that you were formed against your will, born against your will, and would die against your will? And that you would have to give account of yourself before the Holy One, blessed be He?"

It's a powerful and thought-provoking story, isn't it? It reminds us that our lives are part of something much larger than ourselves, a cosmic tapestry woven with purpose and meaning. And perhaps, it offers a bit of comfort, knowing that even in the face of the unknown, we are never truly alone.

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Legends of the Jews 5:117Legends of the Jews

Take Abraham, for example. We know him as the patriarch, the father of our faith. But have you heard the legends of his battles?

Ginzberg, in Legends of the Jews, paints a picture of a victory so complete, so utterly decisive, that it could only have been achieved with a little help from… well, from above.

It wasn't just Abraham's strength or strategy that won the day. No, the celestial powers themselves took his side. Imagine this: the planet Jupiter, normally a distant point of light, blazed in the night sky, turning darkness into day, illuminating the battlefield. And Lailah, an angel – yes, an actual angel – fought alongside him.

It was, in a very real way, a victory of God. A evidence of the power of faith and righteousness.

The nations around recognized this. They saw something extraordinary in Abraham's triumph, something beyond human capability. So, what did they do? They fashioned a throne for him, right there on the battlefield. Can you picture that? A throne erected amidst the carnage, a symbol of their awe and respect.

They hailed him: "Thou art our king! Thou art our prince! Thou art our god!"

But Abraham, in his humility, refused. "The universe has its King," he declared, "and it has its God!" He wouldn't accept the deification, the misplaced worship. He understood where true power resided. He returned all the spoils of war, every bit of property, to its rightful owner.

Except… except for the children. The little ones. These he kept. Not as slaves, but as students. He raised them in the knowledge of God, nurturing their faith, guiding them toward righteousness. The legend says that these children, through their devotion, later atoned for the sins of their parents.

It's a powerful image, isn't it? A victorious warrior, refusing earthly power, instead choosing to invest in the future, in the next generation. It makes you wonder: what kind of legacy are we building? What battles are we fighting, and for what ultimate purpose? Perhaps, like Abraham, we should focus less on thrones and more on the children.

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