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Why Jacob Left Rachel on the Road and What God Told Him

Every patriarch was buried in the cave at Hebron. Rachel alone was left on the roadside. Jacob made this choice deliberately, and God told him why it was right.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Road to Efrat
  2. What Jacob Said to Joseph
  3. The Children Passing in Exile
  4. The Pillar at the Road's Edge

The Road to Efrat

She was in labor on the road and the labor was going wrong. The midwife told her not to fear, that this one would also be a son. But the reassurance came too late or too close to the end, and Rachel died with the child still coming, on the ground beside the road to Efrat, and Benjamin was born into a world that no longer contained his mother.

Jacob buried her there. He set a pillar on her grave and the Torah says the pillar of Rachel's grave was still there in the time the text was written, which means people passed it for generations and knew what it was. A stone by the road. The grave of the matriarch who did not make it to the cave in Hebron where everyone else would be laid.

The rabbis could not let this rest without explanation. Every other founding figure was buried in Machpelah. Abraham and Sarah, Isaac and Rebecca, Leah. Jacob had the resources to bring Rachel there. He had the family connections. He had the established claim. Why did he leave her on the road?

What Jacob Said to Joseph

Near the end of his life, Jacob spoke to Joseph about Rachel's burial, and the way he speaks is unusual. He says: When I came from Padan, Rachel died upon me in the land of Canaan, on the road, before Efrat, and I buried her there on the road to Efrat, which is Bethlehem. The doubling of the road, the careful placement of the grave on the way to Efrat rather than at Efrat, the identification with Bethlehem: these details suggest that Jacob understood the location as significant and wanted Joseph to understand it too.

The Sifrei Devarim, working with this verse alongside Micah's identification of Bethlehem as Efratah, finds a purpose in the placement. Rachel was not buried on the road because Jacob ran out of time or resources. She was buried there because God had told Jacob that future generations of Israel would need a mother on that road.

The Children Passing in Exile

The exile to Babylon moved along roads. The captives were marched north and east, past the cities they had built, past the fields they had planted, past the places where their history had happened. Jeremiah places Rachel's weeping at Ramah, a location not far from Bethlehem, where the captives were assembled before being driven into exile. She weeps for her children because they are gone.

God responds to the weeping. The divine answer to Rachel's mourning, recorded in Jeremiah 31, is specific and hopeful: Refrain your voice from weeping and your eyes from tears, for your work shall be rewarded. They shall return from the land of the enemy. The promise of return comes from God. But it comes in response to Rachel. Her grave on the road was not an accident or a failure to bring her home. It was placement. She was put there to be present at the moment her children would need her most, to be the one who cries out for them when they are being marched past her pillar toward a foreign land.

The Pillar at the Road's Edge

Benjamin was born at that grave. The tribe of Benjamin's birth story is inseparable from his mother's death story. He is the son of her loss and the reason for the loss. The pillar Jacob set over Rachel stands at the site where Benjamin came into the world and Rachel left it, at the place where God told Jacob the future captives would need a mother to intercede.

Jacob knew this. That is what the tradition holds. He did not bury Rachel on the road because he failed to bring her to Machpelah. He buried her on the road because God showed him that the road was where she belonged, where the exile would pass, where the weeping would be heard, where the promise of return would be spoken into the dark.

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Bereshit Rabbah 82:7Bereshit Rabbah

Take the poignant moment when Rachel, mother Rachel, goes into labor. (Genesis 35:16) tells us, "They traveled from Beit El, and it was still some distance to arrive at Efrat, and Rachel was in childbirth, and had difficulty in her childbirth." But the rabbis of the Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary), in Bereshit Rabbah, don't just read the surface. They delve deeper, asking: When, exactly, did this happen?

Rabbi Eliezer ben Yaakov offers a beautiful image: "It was at the time when the land is perforated like a sieve [kevara] and the grain [bar] is plentiful." – the end of summer, a time of abundance, the harvest nearly complete. The wordplay is exquisite in the original Hebrew, linking the land being like a sieve, kevara, to the plentiful grain, bar.

The Rabbis offer another perspective. They say it was when the grain [habar] is already [kevar] growing, the rainy season has passed, and the summer has not yet come. A time of transition, a liminal space between seasons. A moment pregnant with possibility, just like Rachel herself.

The verse also speaks of Rachel's difficult labor. "Rachel was in childbirth, and had difficulty in her childbirth." This leads the Midrash to a somber reflection on other women who faced similar trials. The text identifies three women who encountered difficulty in childbirth and died after giving birth: Rachel, Pinḥas’s wife, and Mikhal daughter of Shaul.

We've already heard about Rachel. For Pinḥas’s wife, the prooftext is found in I (Samuel 4:19): "His daughter-in-law, wife of Pinḥas…[she crouched and gave birth, as her pangs of labor overcame her]." And for Mikhal, II (Samuel 6:23) states, "Mikhal daughter of Saul did not have a child until the day of her death." Or does it?

Rabbi Yehuda bar Simon offers a startling, yet compassionate, interpretation: "Until the day of her death she did not have, but on the day of her death she had." He sees a possibility where others see only barrenness. And he finds support for this idea in I (Chronicles 3:3), which mentions Yitre'am, son of David, "by Egla his wife." The Midrash proposes that Egla is another name for Mikhal.

Why call her Egla? Rabbi Yehuda bar Simon suggests it's "because she lowed like a calf [egla] and died." A heartbreaking image, evoking the primal pain of childbirth and the fragility of life. It's a powerful, almost brutal, image that captures the intensity of the moment.

What are we to make of this? The Midrash doesn't shy away from the pain and complexities of life. It acknowledges the difficulties faced by these women, while simultaneously searching for glimmers of hope and meaning. It reminds us that even in moments of profound sorrow, there can be hidden connections, unexpected turns, and the enduring power of interpretation to find new layers of meaning in stories we thought we already knew. Perhaps, in remembering these women and their struggles, we can find strength and solace in our own lives.

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Tikkunei Zohar 96:20Tikkunei Zohar

Jewish mysticism, particularly the Zohar, wrestles with these very feelings. a small but powerful passage from Tikkunei (spiritual repair) Zohar 96 that speaks to a future reckoning, a time when wrongs will be righted.

The passage begins with a powerful image: "And at the time that He takes revenge upon the sons of Esau, He will come to appease the young deer, and She will wail." Who is this "young deer," and who is wailing? The "young deer" is often understood as a symbol for the Shekhinah, the Divine Presence, particularly in its aspect of compassion and nurturing. And the one wailing? It's Rachel.

Yes, Rachel, the matriarch, the quintessential mother figure. As the prophet Jeremiah says (31:14), "...Rachel is crying over her children.." This isn't just any crying; it's a deep, primal lament for the suffering of her descendants. the Zohar connects this ancient biblical grief to a future event, a moment of divine retribution. That's the weight of history and the power of prophecy all wrapped up in one image.

The text continues with a stark and frankly, terrifying vision: "...Until the blessed Holy One promises, to remove them from the world, and to kill them, until the sea is coloured from their blood." Strong stuff. It’s a visceral depiction of divine justice, a cleansing of the world from the forces of evil. The image is brutal. Some might even find it disturbing. But remember, mystical texts often use powerful metaphors to convey profound truths.

And it doesn't stop there. "And He shall kill so many of them, until wild beasts will be sustained by them for twelve years, and the birds of the heavens for seven years." This paints a picture of utter devastation, a world so saturated with the consequences of wickedness that even the natural order is affected. Are we meant to take this literally? Probably not. But the image certainly drives home the magnitude of the transformation that is envisioned.

What are we to make of this imagery? Is it simply a bloodthirsty call for vengeance? I don’t think so. The Zohar isn’t just about retribution; it’s about tikkun olam, repairing the world. It's about bringing balance back to a world that has gone astray. This passage, though harsh in its imagery, speaks to the ultimate triumph of good over evil, the eventual restoration of harmony.

Finally, the passage mentions the cantillation notes: ga’iya, talisha, azla ge-rish. These are the musical notations used when chanting the Torah. What’s their significance here? In Kabbalah, everything has meaning, even the seemingly small details. These specific notes, with their unique sounds and rhythms, might be understood as a kind of coded message, hinting at the hidden dynamics of divine judgment and redemption. They are whispers from the ancient tradition.

So, what's the takeaway? This brief passage from the Tikkunei Zohar offers a glimpse into a complex and challenging vision of divine justice. It reminds us that the universe has a moral compass, and that ultimately, wrongs will be righted. It may not be easy to contemplate, but it's a powerful reminder of the importance of striving for good in a world that often feels far from perfect. Perhaps the real question is: what part can we play in bringing about that ultimate restoration?

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Book of Jubilees 33:1Book of Jubilees

The birth of a child, for instance, can be a moment of overwhelming happiness tinged with the pain of labor, the worry for their future. The story of Benjamin's birth, as recounted in the Book of Jubilees, captures this very essence.

It's a story of life, loss, and the enduring strength of family.

It expands on the narratives, often providing specific dates and details that add layers to the familiar accounts.

In this telling, we learn that Rachel, Jacob's beloved wife, gave birth to a son late one night. In her pain, she named him "Ben-Oni", "Son of my sorrow." Can you imagine the raw emotion in that moment? The physical toll on her body, the vulnerability of bringing new life into the world.

But Jacob, ever the patriarch, steps in. He renames the child Benjamin, meaning "Son of my right hand," or perhaps, "Son of the South." This renaming is significant. It’s Jacob reclaiming the narrative, choosing hope and blessing over sorrow and pain. The Book of Jubilees tells us this happened on the eleventh day of the eighth month, in the first year of the sixth week of this particular jubilee cycle. It's a level of detail that makes the story feel so concrete, so real.

Tragically, Rachel dies during or shortly after childbirth. A moment of immense joy is immediately followed by profound grief. She is buried in the land of Ephrath, which the text clarifies is the same as Bethlehem. Think of that: Bethlehem, the future birthplace of another figure central to faith and history. The layers of significance just keep unfolding.

Jacob, in his sorrow and love, erects a pillar on her grave, marking her final resting place. It’s a physical reminder of his love, a landmark for future generations. The Book of Jubilees tells us the pillar was built “on the road above her grave”. A lasting monument to a love story cut short.

After this devastating loss, Jacob journeys on, settling south of Magdalâdrâ’êf. We don’t know much about this location, but its inclusion emphasizes the continuing journey of Jacob and his family. Life goes on, even in the face of unimaginable grief.

The story of Benjamin's birth and Rachel's death in the Book of Jubilees is more than just a historical account. It's a deeply human story of joy, sorrow, love, and loss, all intertwined. It reminds us that life is a complex tapestry, woven with threads of both light and darkness. And perhaps, most importantly, it shows us the power of choosing hope, even when sorrow seems overwhelming. What name would you choose for your child in such a moment?

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