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Sarah Gave Hagar to Abraham and Named Every Term

Sarah offered Hagar to Abraham after ten years of childlessness in Canaan. The texts describe a woman acting with clarity and precision, not desperation.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Conclusion After Ten Years
  2. Who Hagar Was
  3. The Terms Sarah Named
  4. What Changed After Hagar Conceived

The Conclusion After Ten Years

After ten years in Canaan with no child, Sarah reached a conclusion. The problem was not the land.

Before they had left Haran, she and Abraham had told themselves that their childlessness was a matter of geography. Outside the Land of Israel, outside the covenantal territory, perhaps the conditions for the promise were not yet met. This was a reasonable comfort and it held for a while. Then ten years passed in Canaan and the calendar exposed it as a comfort, not a truth. Sarah understood that the fault lay with her. The Ginzberg tradition is careful to note that she made this determination without jealousy, which the account presents as remarkable. This was not a woman performing magnanimity. It was a woman making a precise decision under precise circumstances.

Who Hagar Was

What Sarah did next requires understanding who Hagar was. The Ginzberg tradition, drawing on earlier midrashic sources, explains that Hagar was Pharaoh's daughter. When the plagues had come upon the Egyptian palace because Pharaoh had taken Sarah, the king gave Hagar to her with a specific logic: better for my daughter to be a servant in this woman's house than to reign as mistress in any other. Pharaoh had seen something in Sarah. He wanted his own daughter near it.

Hagar had thus come to Abraham's household carrying the weight of what her father understood about it. She had lived there long enough to know the miracles the household had survived. She was not a stranger to this world when Sarah offered her to Abraham.

The Terms Sarah Named

The Book of Jubilees, composed in the second century BCE, frames the offer in terms of Abraham's tested faithfulness. He had already been tried through famine, through Pharaoh's palace, through the kidnapping of Sarah in Gerar, through the long absence of the promised child. The Jubilees account catalogs these trials not as complaints but as evidence of a man who had held to his trust through compounding difficulties.

Sarah named the terms of the arrangement herself. If Hagar bore a son, the child would belong to Sarah's household. The hierarchy would not shift. The tradition notes that Sarah gave Hagar a legal document establishing her status, which is the kind of detail that distinguishes a woman managing a situation from a woman overwhelmed by one.

What Changed After Hagar Conceived

The moment Hagar felt the child quicken, she began treating Sarah with contempt. The mechanics were subtle at first. When noble women came to visit Sarah, Hagar would receive them afterward and use those visits to talk about her mistress. My lady Sarah, she would say, is not inwardly what she appears outwardly. If she were truly righteous, how could she have remained childless all these years while I conceived at once?

The tradition reads this as a catastrophic misuse of information. Hagar had seen more than almost anyone: she had watched plagues fall on her father's palace, she had lived alongside a household that survived a furnace, and she had been placed there by a king who understood what he was placing her near. She had all of this and she still chose her pregnancy as a tool for a score she wanted to settle. The Ginzberg tradition gives no sympathy here. Sarah had acted without jealousy. Hagar acted from nothing but.


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Legends of the Jews 5:127Legends of the Jews

Abraham knew that feeling well. Before he was Avraham Avinu, our father Abraham, before the brit bein ha-betarim, the covenant of the pieces, he was just a man with a promise and a problem: no children.

The story goes that this momentous covenant, where God revealed the future of Abraham's descendants, happened when Abraham and Sarah were still childless. It's a powerful scene, full of symbolism and divine weight. But before all that, there was just a couple confronting infertility and trying to understand God's plan.

In Legends of the Jews, Ginzberg retells a fascinating detail: Abraham and Sarah believed their inability to conceive was linked to their location. They thought living outside the Holy Land was somehow holding them back, a sort of divine consequence for not being in the place God intended.

That pressure! You're already dealing with the emotional toll of childlessness, and now you're wondering if your geographical location is the problem. It's like blaming your tools instead of your skill, but with cosmic implications.

They waited ten years in Palestine, but still no child. That's when Sarah, in a moment of incredible selflessness, realized the "fault," as Ginzberg puts it, lay with her. And here's where the story gets really interesting. Sarah didn't succumb to jealousy or resentment. Instead, she offered her slave, Hagar, to Abraham as a wife.

But there's a crucial detail that often gets overlooked. Hagar wasn't just handed over. Sarah first freed her. As the text points out, Hagar was Sarah's property, not Abraham's. This act of freeing her is so important. It speaks volumes about Sarah's character and her commitment to righteousness.

And Pharaoh was Hagar’s father! What a story.

Think about the implications! Sarah took responsibility, and created a chance for Abraham to continue his lineage. She took Hagar, instructed her, and walked with her on the path of righteousness to be a suitable companion for Abraham.

The narrative continues by explaining that Abraham, guided by the ruach (spirit) hakodesh, the holy spirit, accepted Sarah's proposal. This wasn't just a pragmatic decision. It was a divinely guided one.

What does this all tell us? It's a reminder that faith isn't passive. It's about active participation, even when it's painful. It's about making difficult choices, trusting in God's plan, and sometimes, taking matters into our own hands, with the purest of intentions, of course. Sometimes the biggest blessings come from the most unexpected places, and through the most unconventional means. It makes you wonder what blessings might be waiting for us, hidden in plain sight, just waiting for us to act with the same faith and courage as Sarah and Abraham.

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Jasher 16Book of Jasher

Sometimes, looking to other texts can give us a fuller picture. This passage from the Book of Jasher.

It begins with a rumble of war. Chedorlaomer, king of Elam, rallies his allies – including Nimrod of Shinar (yes, that Nimrod), Tidal of Goyim, and Arioch of Elasar. Their target? The cities of Sodom and Gomorrah, who had been in rebellion for thirteen years. According to the Book of Jasher, these four kings marched with a massive army of around eight hundred thousand men!

The five kings of Sodom, Gomorrah, Admah, Zeboyim, and Zoar met them in the valley of Siddim. The battle was fierce, but the kings of Sodom and Gomorrah were defeated. The victors plundered Sodom and Gomorrah, and, tragically, they captured Lot, Abram's nephew, along with all his possessions.

Being Abram and hearing this news. The Book of Jasher tells us that one of Abram's servants, Unic, witnessed the events and rushed to inform him. Abram, a man of peace, took decisive action. He gathered about 318 men and pursued the four kings that very night! Against all odds, Abram and his men overtook them, defeating them and recovering all the stolen property, including Lot and his family. Only the four kings managed to escape.

On his return, Abram passed through the valley of Siddim, where he was met by Bera, the king of Sodom, who had managed to escape from the slime pits (the Book of Jasher says that the valley of Siddim was full of them). And then, a really interesting figure appears: Adonizedek, the king of Jerusalem. The same was Shem, the text clarifies. Yes, that Shem, one of Noah's sons! According to tradition, Shem held a priesthood, passing on the traditions of Noah.

Adonizedek brought bread and wine to Abram, blessing him. Abram, in turn, gave him a tenth of the spoils, acknowledging Adonizedek's priestly role. This is fascinating when you consider that this encounter predates the establishment of the formal priesthood we see later in the Torah.

The king of Sodom, grateful for Abram's intervention, offered him all the recovered property, asking only for the return of his people. But Abram, in a powerful display of integrity, refused. He declared, "As the Lord liveth who created heaven and earth. I will not take anything belonging to you." Abram wanted no one to say that he had become rich through Sodom's wealth. He only asked for the provisions consumed by his men and the share due to his allies, Anar, Ashcol, and Mamre.

Abram then returned Lot to Sodom and went back to his home in the plains of Mamre, in Hebron.

Later, the Book of Jasher recounts a familiar story: Sarai's barrenness and her offer of her handmaid, Hagar, to Abram, so that he might have children through her. This mirrors the account in Genesis. When Hagar conceived, she began to look down on Sarai. This, of course, caused strife between the two women.

Sarai complained to Abram, and Abram gave Sarai permission to do with Hagar as she saw fit. According to the Book of Jasher, Sarai afflicted Hagar, causing her to flee into the wilderness. There, an angel found her by a well and told her to return to Sarai and submit to her. The angel also prophesied that Hagar would bear a son named Ishmael, and that his descendants would be numerous. Hagar named the well Beer-lahai-roi, meaning "Well of the Living One who sees me."

Hagar then returned to Abram's house and gave birth to Ishmael when Abram was eighty-six years old.

This passage in the Book of Jasher offers a rich expansion of the biblical narrative. It gives us more details about the war with the kings, introduces us to the intriguing figure of Adonizedek, and illuminates the complex relationship between Sarai and Hagar. It reminds us that there are many perspectives and traditions surrounding these foundational stories, and that exploring them can deepen our understanding of the text.

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Book of Jubilees 17:25Book of Jubilees

Jubilees, considered scripture by some and an important historical text by others, paints a picture of Abraham's unwavering faith in the face of, let’s just say, a lot of challenges.

The verse reads, "And the Lord knew that Abraham was faithful in all his afflictions; for He had tried him through his country and with famine.." for a second. Leaving your homeland, facing starvation. not exactly a walk in the park. It would be difficult to remain faithful, wouldn't it?

That was just the beginning. The Book of Jubilees continues, "..and had tried him with the wealth of kings, and had tried him again through his wife, when she was torn (from him).." So, Abraham experienced both poverty and riches. And then there's the incredibly difficult episode where his wife, Sarah, was taken from him. It's almost too much for one person to bear.

The trials didn't stop there. "..and with circumcision, and had tried him through Ishmael and Hagar, his maid-servant, when he sent them away." Circumcision, or brit milah in Hebrew, is a powerful covenant. But imagine undergoing that as an adult! And then, the painful decision to send away Hagar and Ishmael. a decision that surely weighed heavily on Abraham's heart.

The writer of Jubilees emphasizes that Abraham was tested in everything. "And in everything wherein He had tried him, he was found faithful.." It's not just about one big test, but a constant series of smaller ones that collectively defined his character.

What's truly striking is the description of Abraham's inner state: "..and his soul was not impatient, and he was not slow to act; for he was faithful and a lover of the Lord." He wasn't perfect, surely. But he wasn't driven to despair or inaction. He was faithful and, crucially, he loved God. That love, it seems, was the engine that kept him going.

So, what can we take away from this glimpse into Abraham's life? Maybe it's this: faithfulness isn't about avoiding hardship. It's about how we respond to it. It's about maintaining our love and devotion even when life throws everything it has at us. And maybe, just maybe, it's in those trials that we truly discover who we are.

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