The Sifrei Devarim, a collection of legal midrashim on the Book of Deuteronomy, grapples with this very question in a powerful passage. It all starts with the verse urging us to love God "with all your soul" (Deuteronomy 6:5). Rabbi Akiva, that towering figure of Jewish wisdom, then asks a compelling question: If we're commanded to love God with all our soul, how much more so should we love God "with all your might" (meodecha)?
But what does "with all your might" even mean? Rabbi Akiva explains that meodecha implies that we should thank God for every measure (middah) that He metes out to us, "whether for good or for evil." In essence, we’re called to recognize God's presence and purpose in everything, not just the pleasant experiences.
King David understood this deeply. As he says in Psalm 116, "Affliction and sorrow did I find, and in the name of the L-rd I called." Even in the midst of suffering, David turned to God. Later in that same Psalm, he proclaims, "I shall lift up the cup of salvation, and in the name of the L-rd will I call." He acknowledged God in both the bitter and the sweet.
And then there’s Iyyov, or Job, a figure synonymous with enduring hardship. When tragedy struck, wiping away his family and possessions, what did he say? "The L-rd has given and the L-rd has taken away; blessed be the name of the L-rd." (Job 1:21). He blessed God "both for the measure of good and for the measure of evil.”
Talk about a powerful response! But his wife… well, she had a slightly different perspective. "Do you still persist in your integrity?" she asks him. "Blaspheme God and die!" (Job 2:9).
Iyyov's response is legendary: "You speak as one of the coarse women. Shall we accept only the good of God and not the evil?" It’s a sharp rebuke, but it gets to the heart of the matter: Can we truly claim to believe in God if we only acknowledge Him when things are going well?
The Sifrei Devarim doesn't let us off the hook there. It brings up the generations of the Flood and the people of Sodom and Amorah. They were "degenerate by reason of the good bestowed upon them." They became complacent, perhaps even arrogant, because of their prosperity. And when punishment came, they "accepted it perforce" – begrudgingly, without understanding or repentance.
The text then delivers a powerful a fortiori argument – a logical deduction that goes something like this: If even those who are corrupted by good ultimately accept punishment (albeit resentfully), how much more should those who readily accept good also accept punishment with understanding and faith?
That brings us back to Iyyov and his unwavering faith. He understood that true belief isn't conditional. It isn't dependent on a life free of pain or suffering. It's about acknowledging God's presence in all aspects of our lives, the good and the bad.
So, the next time you face a challenge, remember Iyyov. Remember Rabbi Akiva's words: "For every measure that He metes out to you, whether for good or for evil, (thank Him)." It's a radical idea, accepting the difficult alongside the pleasant. But perhaps, in doing so, we can find a deeper, more resilient faith – a faith that truly loves God with all our soul, and with all our might.