Rabbi Yehuda bar Simon began: “Do not glory in tomorrow [leyom maḥar][for you do not know what the day will bring]” (Proverbs 27:1), but you say: “My honesty shall speak on my behalf on a future day [beyom maḥar]”? (Genesis 30:33). In the future, your daughter will go out and be violated.5Namely, you cannot be certain of what will happen in the future. That is what is written: “Dina…went out.” Rabbi Ḥanina in the name of Rabbi Abba HaKohen ben Rabbi Eliezer began: “For the sake of one who deprives his neighbor of kindness” (Job 6:14) – you withheld kindness from your brother,6Jacob hid Dina away from Esau when they met, not allowing him to see her and ask for her hand in marriage.
If she had been married to Esau, this episode would not have happened. See Bereshit Rabba 76:9. she married Job,7Some say that Job lived in the days of Jacob, and married Dina. See Bava Batra 15b. who is neither a proselyte nor circumcised. You did not seek to marry her to a circumcised man, so she married an uncircumcised man. You did not seek to marry her in a permitted fashion, so she married in a prohibited fashion. “Dina…went out.”