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Haman's Daughter Poured Filth on the Wrong Man

Watching from a window as Haman led the honored man through the street, his daughter grabbed a chamber pot to throw on Mordecai. She had the wrong man.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Procession Through the City
  2. The Window Above the Street
  3. The Moment of Recognition
  4. The Line From Agag

The Procession Through the City

Haman walked through the streets of Shushan leading a horse. On the horse sat Mordecai, dressed in royal robes, wearing the crown. Haman's voice carried through the public thoroughfares of the capital, announcing that this was what the king did for a man he wished to honor. He said the words. He walked the route. He led the animal by its bridle, his own footsteps in the dust beneath the hooves, the reins looped through a hand that had wanted nothing all morning but to sign a death warrant.

His own name was poison in his mouth the entire time. Each call he raised drew faces to the doorways and the rooftops of Shushan, and every one of them watched the second most powerful man in the empire walking on foot before a Jew in the king's crown.

The Babylonian Talmud's tractate Megillah records what Haman had come to the palace to do that morning: he had wanted to ask the king's permission to hang Mordecai on the gallows he had built. The gallows were ready, the wood raised and waiting in his own courtyard. He had the plan. He had left his house early, before the light was full, to get there before anyone else could reach the king first. Instead he had been handed a horse and a script and sent through the city as Mordecai's herald, dressing his enemy in glory with his own hands and proclaiming it street by street.

The Window Above the Street

Somewhere along the route, a window opened. Haman's daughter looked down to see what the noise in the street was about. She saw a man leading a horse and a man on the horse, the crowd parting around them. She made a reasonable assumption about which was which: her father was powerful, Mordecai was the target. The man on the horse, robed and crowned, riding above the heads of the people, must be her father in his triumph. The man walking and leading the animal on foot, head bent, must be Mordecai, disgraced and broken at last.

She was wrong about everything.

She reached for the chamber pot, lifted it to the sill, and emptied its contents straight down onto the head of the man walking below.

The Moment of Recognition

Haman looked up. The filth was running down his face when his eyes found the window, and in the window he saw his own daughter. He understood in that instant exactly what had happened and who had done it. The tradition records his face at this moment: he let his head fall in grief, fouled and exposed in the open street before the whole city. And the shock of what she had done, when the recognition struck her, was total. She had aimed at the disgraced Jew and struck her own father instead. The Legends of the Jews records that she threw herself from the window. She did not survive the fall.

Haman gathered the procession to its end and arrived home that evening with his head covered, in mourning, having spent the day honoring his enemy through the streets of the capital and having just watched his daughter die in the worst possible way, believing at the last instant that she had destroyed her own father.

The Line From Agag

The tradition behind Haman's ultimate destruction runs further back than the palace gate. Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer, a midrashic text from roughly the eighth century CE, traces the chain from Esau's sin forward through generations. Esau's hatred of Jacob passed through Amalek. The prophet Samuel stood over King Saul's incomplete execution of Agag, king of Amalek, and saw the consequence clearly: the survival of Agag for one night was enough. Agag fathered a child that night. The line continued. Haman was born from that continuation. The disaster of Purim was traceable to a single failure of nerve at a moment when the job should have been finished.


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Legends of the Jews 12:102Legends of the Jews

Desperation can drive people to do the unimaginable. And in the tumultuous story of Haman and Mordecai, we find exactly that: a man brought to his knees by circumstance, forced to make a truly appalling choice.

The scene: Haman, not yet the infamous villain of the Purim story, but a general in a desperate situation. His troops are starving. Famine gnaws at their bellies, and they're ready to turn on him. They demand their rations, threatening death if they don't get them. The pressure is immense.

So, what does Haman do? He turns to his nemesis, Mordecai. The man he despises, the Jew who refuses to bow. He offers him a deal, a seemingly generous one: he'll pay him back with ten percent interest if Mordecai will just give him the supplies to feed his troops.

Mordecai isn't interested in money. He knows Haman. He understands the depth of his ambition and the potential for cruelty. He refuses. Yet, Mordecai, ever the strategist, offers Haman a way out, but a way out that is utterly humiliating.

He proposes a single condition. A condition so drastic, so demeaning, that it speaks volumes about the dire straits Haman finds himself in. Mordecai demands that Haman sell himself into slavery, to become Mordecai's slave.

Can you imagine the internal struggle? The pride swallowing, the agonizing decision? Haman, a man of power, a man of influence, reduced to this. But the threat of mutiny, the gnawing hunger of his troops, it leaves him no choice. He agrees.

And the contract? Where is it written? On parchment? On papyrus? No. The story tells us that in this desperate camp, there was no paper to be found. So, the agreement, this monument to Haman's downfall, is etched onto Mordecai's knee-cap. A stark, unforgettable image.

This episode, recounted in Legends of the Jews (Ginzberg), paints a vivid picture of the shifting power dynamics between Haman and Mordecai long before the events of Purim as we typically celebrate them. It's a reminder that even the most powerful can be brought low, and that sometimes, the most humiliating defeats are self-inflicted. It makes you wonder, doesn't it? What choices might we make when pushed to the very edge? What price would we be willing to pay to survive?

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Legends of the Jews 12:92Legends of the Jews

The familiar version gives us him as the guy who wanted to wipe out the Jews. But there's so much more bubbling beneath the surface of that hatred.

In Legends of the Jews, compiled by Rabbi Louis Ginzberg, Haman wasn’t just some random evil dude. He had a backstory – a tangled web of ambition, resentment, and a seriously inflated ego.

First off, get this: Haman may have actually been Memucan! Remember him? He was the prince who advised King Ahasuerus to get rid of Queen Vashti after her little… shall we say, disobedience? Ginzberg points out that Ahasuerus had every opportunity to see Haman's true colors, as Haman is just another name for Memucan, the prince ultimately responsible for Vashti's demise. At the time of the king's wrath against the queen, Memucan was lowest in rank among the seven princes of Persia, yet arrogant as he was, he was the first to speak up when the king put his question about the punishment due to Vashti. It's a perfect illustration of the adage: "The common man rushes to the front."

So, what was Haman’s beef with Vashti? Well, it seems she slighted him. Big time. She had a banquet, and get this, she didn’t invite his wife! Can you imagine the horror? The Zohar tells us that even minor social faux pas can have major repercussions in the cosmic scheme of things. But the slight didn't end there. Apparently, she once went so far as to strike him in the face! Ouch.

But there's more! Haman was also super ambitious. He figured that if he could get Vashti out of the picture, maybe – just maybe – he could marry his own daughter to the king. Talk about playing the long game!

And Haman wasn’t the only one with a grudge. Remember Bigthan and Teresh, the guys who plotted to assassinate Ahasuerus? Their conspiracy wasn't just about power; it was also about revenge. They were ticked off that Ahasuerus had chosen Esther as his queen instead of one of their relatives. You see how these things snowball? One slight, one missed invitation, one perceived injustice, and suddenly you have a whole palace full of people plotting and scheming.

It makes you think, doesn't it? How often do we see history shaped not by grand ideals, but by petty grievances and personal ambitions? The Purim story, at its heart, is a reminder that even the smallest slights can have enormous consequences. And that sometimes, the greatest threats come not from some abstract evil, but from the very human flaws of those around us.

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Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer 49:3Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer

Jewish tradition certainly has. Let’s consider a particularly potent example from Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer, Chapter 49, a text filled with dramatic narratives and moral teachings.

Here, we find Samuel, the prophet, standing before God. What’s on his mind? The sins of Esau. Yes, that Esau, Jacob's twin. Samuel implores God: "Do not forget the sin which Esau did to his father, for he took strange women (for his wives), who offered sacrifices and burnt incense to idols, to embitter the years of the life of his parents."

It wasn't just about marrying outside the faith. According to Samuel, these wives actively practiced idolatry, causing immense pain to Isaac and Rebekah. And Samuel doesn't stop there. He asks that Esau's sin be remembered “unto his sons and unto his grandsons unto the end of all generations." This echoes (Psalm 109:14), "Let the iniquity of his fathers be remembered with the Lord."

The narrative then shifts to Agag, the Amalekite king captured by Saul. Agag mistakenly believes he's escaped the bitterness of death, proclaiming, "Surely the bitterness of death is past!" (1 Samuel 15:32). He's wrong.

Samuel responds with a chilling pronouncement, linking Agag's fate to the actions of his ancestor, Amalek. He declares: "Just as the sword of Amalek thy ancestor consumed the young men of Israel who were outside the cloud, so that their women dwelt (as) childless women and widows, so by the prayer of the women all the sons of Amalek shall be slain, and their women shall dwell (as) childless women and widows.”

In other words, the violence inflicted by Amalek upon Israel will be repaid in kind. The text continues: "And by the prayer of Esther and her maidens all the sons of Amalek were slain and their women remained childless and widowed, as it is said, 'And Samuel said, As thy sword hath made women childless, so shall thy mother be childless among women' (1 Sam. 15:33)."

The cycle of violence, the echo of past deeds – it's a stark reminder of the interconnectedness of generations. But what are we to make of this? Is it simply about retribution? Or is there something deeper at play?

Perhaps it's about accountability. About understanding that our actions, and the actions of those who came before us, have real and lasting effects. That the choices we make today shape the world our children and grandchildren will inherit.

It’s a heavy thought, isn’t it?

The story of Samuel, Esau, and Agag compels us to examine our own legacies. What kind of ancestors will we be? What echoes will our actions send through time? It's a question worth pondering.

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Esther Rabbah 10:7Esther Rabbah

The verse states, "Mordekhai returned to the king's gate, and Haman hastened home, mourning and covering his head" (Esther 6:12). This comes immediately after Haman, expecting to be honored himself, has been forced to lead Mordekhai through the city on the royal horse and proclaim, "Thus shall be done to the man whom the king delights to honor." The contrast the verse draws is sharp: Mordekhai calmly resumes his place at the gate, while Haman flees to his house in grief, his head covered as a sign of shame and ruin.

The rabbis of Esther Rabbah ask why Haman is described both as mourning and as covering his head, treating the doubled language as two distinct sorrows. He mourned, they explain, for his daughter, who in the aggadah had thrown filth upon her father from the rooftop, believing the man leading the horse was Mordekhai and the man riding was Haman; realizing her error, she fell to her death, so his mourning was literal bereavement. He covered his head, by contrast, because of the public disgrace that had just befallen him.

The midrash then turns the humiliation into a vivid picture by listing the menial tasks Haman was made to perform while honoring his enemy. He had carried out four jobs in that single procession: bath attendant, washing and preparing Mordekhai; barber, trimming his hair; orderly, dressing and tending him; and herald, crying out his honor through the streets. The man who had sought to destroy a whole people is reduced to a string of servile roles before the very person he hated, a measure-for-measure reversal that prepares his swift downfall in the chapters that follow.

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