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Lot Was the Link the Patriarchs Could Not Be

Lot chose Sodom and seemed to step out of the covenant. The rabbis found a hidden thread running from his fall all the way to King David.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Man Who Walked Away
  2. The Inheritance He Claimed Too Soon
  3. How Lot Learned to Be Hospitable
  4. The Cave and What Came Out of It
  5. Moab, Ruth, and the Hidden Thread

The Man Who Walked Away

Lot walked away from Abraham. He chose the Jordan plain because it looked like the garden of God and Abraham chose Canaan. The story appears to divide cleanly: one man takes the covenant road, the other takes the road that leads to Sodom. By the end of Lot's narrative he is in a cave with his daughters, the city he chose is ashes, his wife is salt, and his two sons born in the cave are the ancestors of Moab and Ammon, the nations Israel will spend centuries fighting.

That is the surface of it. Bereshit Rabbah will not leave it there.

The Inheritance He Claimed Too Soon

The quarrel between Abraham's shepherds and Lot's shepherds was not, in the rabbinic reading, about grazing rights. It was about inheritance. Abraham's animals were muzzled so they would not eat from other people's fields. Lot's animals grazed freely. When Abraham's shepherds objected, Lot's shepherds had an answer ready: God had promised the land to Abraham's descendants, Abraham had no child yet, Lot was his heir, and the land was therefore already Lot's.

This was the error: treating the promise as already settled when the promise had not yet been fulfilled. God's response was immediate and devastating. The verse that records the dispute says the Canaanites and Perizzites were then living in the land (Genesis 13:7). The land belongs to them now, the tradition says God was answering. When I give it to Abraham's descendants, I will give it to his actual descendants, not to the man who decided in advance that the promise applied to him.

How Lot Learned to Be Hospitable

Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer, c. 8th century CE, looks back at Lot's years in Abraham's household and finds something worth keeping. Lot had learned hospitality there. When the angels arrived at Sodom's gate, Lot's instinct was Abraham's instinct: rise, bow, press the guests to come inside, feed them. He did not arrive at this behavior naturally. He had watched it practiced, absorbed it, and reproduced it in a city where it was illegal to do so.

This was not nothing. It was everything. The angels were sent to destroy Sodom, but Lot's hospitality placed him in a category that required extraction rather than destruction. Lot had taken one thing from Abraham's world with him into Sodom, and that one thing was enough.

The Cave and What Came Out of It

The Book of Jubilees reads Lot's separation from Abraham as a source of grief: Abraham's heart was pained that his nephew had departed from him (Jubilees 13:12). The grief was not merely personal. The separation broke something in the household structure that had been holding Lot's better instincts in place. In Abraham's presence, Lot was the man who bowed to angels. Outside it, he was the man who settled near Sodom and then inside it.

Bereshit Rabbah 52 cites a verse from Proverbs about a brother who has been wronged being harder to persuade than a city under siege (Proverbs 18:19). The tradition applies this to Lot's behavior toward Abraham, the way he let his shepherds argue for an inheritance that was not theirs and gave them no correction. He had committed a subtle betrayal, and the consequence of that betrayal was that he carried it into Sodom without a corrective force nearby.

Moab, Ruth, and the Hidden Thread

Lot's daughters made choices in the cave that are among the most disturbing in the Tanakh. The tradition generally does not read them as sinners. They believed, genuinely, that they were the last people alive, that the world they knew had ended in the fire that had consumed every city they could see from the hillside. What they did, they did in the dark of a world they understood to be over.

From those choices came Moab. From Moab came Ruth. From Ruth came David. The most broken and shameful branch of the patriarchal story produces the dynasty on which the entire future of Israel's covenant rests. Lot was the link the patriarchs could not be because no patriarch could have taken the road Lot took, and the road Lot took was the only road that led through Moab.


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Bereshit Rabbah 41:5Bereshit Rabbah

Maybe… maybe there’s more to it than meets the eye.

The verse in Genesis tells us there was a big ol' argument brewing between the shepherds of Abram (later Abraham) and the shepherds of his nephew, Lot. But what was the fight really about? It wasn't just about grazing rights; it went deeper, touching on themes of entitlement, inheritance, and even God's promise.

Rabbi Berekhya, citing Rabbi Yehuda ben Rabbi Simon, offers a fascinating insight in Bereshit Rabbah, a classic collection of rabbinic interpretations on the Book of Genesis. He suggests that Abraham’s animals were always muzzled. Why? To prevent them from nibbling on other people’s crops. Gezel – theft – was a serious no-no.

Lot’s animals? Not so much. They roamed free, munching away wherever they pleased. You can almost hear the exasperation in Abraham’s herdsmen's voices: "Hey! Has theft suddenly become okay?!"

And here’s where it gets interesting. Lot's shepherds had a pretty bold response. They argued: "God promised this land to Abraham's descendants! (Genesis 12:7). But let's be real," they’d say, according to this Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary), “Abraham is practically a sterile mule. He's not having kids. Eventually, he's going to kick the bucket, and Lot, his nephew, will inherit everything! So, technically, we're not eating their stuff. We're eating our stuff!"

Talk about chutzpah!

But, of course, the Holy One, blessed be He, sees all. And according to the Midrash, God essentially said, “Hold your horses! Yes, I promised the land to Abraham’s descendants. But when? Only after I’ve cleared out the seven nations living there. (See (Genesis 15:16).)" In other words, patience, people, patience!

And that brings us back to that seemingly throwaway line: "The Canaanites and the Perizzites then lived in the land" (Genesis 13:7). Bereshit Rabbah points out that right then and there, the Canaanites and Perizzites still had their claim. The land wasn't quite Abraham's yet. This little phrase, then, isn't just setting the scene; it's a subtle reminder about timing, about deserving, and about the complexities of divine promises.

So, what does this all mean for us? Maybe it's a lesson about entitlement. About not jumping the gun. About understanding that even when we think we're owed something, there might be a bigger picture we're not seeing. Maybe it's a reminder that God's promises unfold in God's time, not ours. And maybe, just maybe, it's a call to make sure our "animals" – our actions, our desires – aren't trampling on someone else's field in the meantime.

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Bereshit Rabbah 52:2Bereshit Rabbah

The story of Lot, Abraham's nephew, is a powerful example of this very idea.

We find a fascinating, if somewhat harsh, interpretation of Lot's choices in Bereshit Rabbah 52, a collection of rabbinic commentaries on the Book of Genesis. It uses a verse from Proverbs (18:19) to frame Lot's story: “A treacherous brother goes from a fortified city.” But what does that even mean in the context of the Torah?

Well, the Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) interprets "a brother" as referring specifically to Lot, who, being the son of Abraham's brother, was family. But what about the "fortified city"? Here, the commentators see Abraham himself as that city – a place of safety, righteousness, and divine protection. By staying with Abraham, Lot was shielded, both physically and spiritually.

Lot chose to leave Abraham and settle in Sodom, a city known for its wickedness. Bereshit Rabbah sees this as a betrayal. As it says, “Treacherous…goes from a fortified city” – you betrayed Abraham, you denied him, you were false to him. Lot abandoned Abraham's righteous way of life by moving to a place that was its antithesis.

And what were the consequences of Lot’s decision? Here's where it gets even more intense. The Midrash continues, "And what did it cause to you? 'Ordinances like the bars of a palace.'" This is understood as Lot bringing harsh decrees upon himself.

The comparison is then drawn to the Temple: “Anyone impure may not enter," as stated in II (Chronicles 23:19). Similarly, (Deuteronomy 23:4) states, “An Amonite or a Moavite shall not enter into the assembly of the Lord…forever.”

So, what’s the connection? Remember Lot’s daughters? After Sodom's destruction, they tricked their father into conceiving children with them. These children became the ancestors of the Ammonites and Moabites. According to this interpretation in Bereshit Rabbah, Lot's initial "treachery", his abandonment of Abraham's path, ultimately led to his descendants being excluded from the Israelite community.

It's a stark reminder that our choices have ripple effects, sometimes in ways we can't even imagine. The Midrash isn't just telling a story; it's offering a moral lesson about the importance of choosing righteousness and the potential consequences of straying from a path of goodness.

Does this seem a little harsh? Perhaps. But it certainly gives you pause, doesn't it? It makes you think about the "fortified cities" in your own life – the people, values, and communities that offer protection and guidance. And it makes you consider the potential cost of turning away from them. What are the "Sodoms" that tempt you, and what might be the long-term consequences of choosing them?

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Book of Jubilees 13:22Book of Jubilees

Book of Jubilees turns to Lot Separates From Abraham and Grief Follows.

The story picks up with Lot, Avram’s nephew, deciding to separate from him. Now, Lot wasn't just any relative; he was family. And as Jubilees tells us, it "grieved him in his heart that his brother's son had parted from him; for he had no children." Think about the weight of that statement. In a time where lineage and legacy were everything, Avram’s future felt uncertain. Lot’s departure wasn’t just a geographical separation; it was a potential blow to Avram's hopes for the future.

Where does Lot choose to settle? Sodom. Yes, that Sodom. The text wastes no time in telling us "the men of Sodom were sinners exceedingly." Not exactly a recipe for a peaceful and righteous life, is it? You can almost feel Avram’s concern radiating off the page.

Here’s where the story takes a turn, a moment of divine intervention. In the very year that Lot is taken captive (presumably due to the wickedness of Sodom, though Jubilees doesn’t explicitly state that here), God speaks to Avram. It's a pivotal moment. God says, "Lift up thine eyes from the place where thou art dwelling, northward and southward, and westward and eastward. For all the land which thou seest I shall give to thee and to thy seed for ever, and I shall make thy seed as the sand of the sea: though a man may number the dust of the earth, yet thy seed shall not be numbered. Arise, walk (through the land) in the length of it and the breadth of it, and see it all; for to thy seed shall I give it."

Talk about a promise! After the sting of Lot’s departure and the uncertainty of his own future, Avram receives this incredible vision, a reassurance that his legacy will endure. The land, as far as he can see in every direction, will belong to him and his descendants. And his seed? It will be as numerous as the sand of the sea, uncountable!

This isn’t just a real estate deal; it’s a covenant, a sacred pact.

It's a powerful reminder that even when things feel uncertain, even when those we care about make choices that worry us, there’s a larger plan at play. Avram's story, as told in Jubilees, is a evidence of faith, resilience, and the enduring power of divine promise. It asks us: can we trust in the bigger picture, even when we can't see the full canvas?

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Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer 25:10Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer

The Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer, a fascinating ancient Jewish text that retells and expands upon biblical narratives, offers a compelling example through the story of Lot.

Lot is familiar. Abraham's nephew, the guy who eventually settles in the ill-fated city of Sodom. But before Sodom, there was Abraham. The Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer (chapter 25) points out that Lot "walked with our father Abraham, and learned of his good deeds and ways." But what exactly were those good deeds?

Apparently, Abraham had built a house specifically for hospitality, right opposite Haran. He welcomed everyone who came and went, offering them food and drink. But it wasn't just about physical sustenance. Abraham used these encounters as opportunities to share his belief, urging his guests to proclaim: "The God of Abraham is the only one in the universe." Imagine the impact of that kind of constant exposure to generosity and faith!

So, Lot, having witnessed all this, carries a piece of that spirit with him, even to Sodom. Now, Sodom, as we know, wasn't exactly a haven of kindness. In fact, it was quite the opposite. The people of Sodom actually made a proclamation: anyone caught helping the poor with even a loaf of bread would be burned alive!

Lot, understandably, was afraid. He couldn't openly emulate his uncle's generosity. But the seed of Abraham's teachings had been planted. So, what did he do? He found a way, operating under the cover of darkness. "He did it by night," the text says, explaining why "Lot sat in the gate of Sodom" (Genesis 19:1). He was watching, waiting for opportunities to help in secret, too fearful to act during the day.

Then the two angels arrive, disguised as wayfarers. Lot recognizes them walking in the street and immediately rushes to offer them shelter. "Come and lodge ye overnight in my house, eat and drink, and ye shall go your way in peace." But the angels initially refuse! Lot persists, "and he urged them greatly" (Genesis 19:8), practically dragging them inside.

This small act of kindness, born from the lessons learned from Abraham, becomes pivotal. It sets in motion the events that lead to Lot's family being saved from the destruction of Sodom. It demonstrates that even in the darkest of places, a spark of goodness, nurtured by the right influence, can make all the difference.

Isn't it fascinating how the Pirkei DeRabbi Eliezer uses Lot's story to highlight the power of influence and the enduring impact of even seemingly small acts of kindness? It makes you wonder: what kind of influence are we having on those around us? And what seeds of goodness, planted long ago, might be waiting to blossom in unexpected ways?

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Bereshit Rabbah 51:11Bereshit Rabbah

The story, as you might recall, is…well, let’s just say it’s complicated. After the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, Lot and his daughters are living in a cave. The daughters, believing they are the last people on earth, decide to ensure the continuation of humanity by conceiving children with their father. Both succeed. The elder names her son Moav, and the younger names hers Ben-Ami. These sons become the ancestors of the Moavites and the Benei Ammon (Ammonites), respectively.

They aren't just interested in what happened, but in why it happened, and what it all means.

Rabbi Yudan, quoting Rabbi Aivu, points out a crucial difference in how the daughters named their sons. The elder daughter calls her son Moav, which can be interpreted as "from father" (me-av). According to Rabbi Yudan, by explicitly referencing the father in the name, she publicly shamed her father.

The consequences? Pretty significant. Because of this perceived disrespect, God allows the Israelites to harass the Moavites, as (Deuteronomy 2:9) states: "Do not besiege Moav, and do not provoke war with them." The rabbis interpret this to mean that while outright war is forbidden, other forms of pressure – like disrupting their water supply or burning their crops – are permissible. It’s a subtle but important distinction.

But the younger daughter acted differently. She named her son Ben-Ami, "son of my people" or, as Rabbi Yudan puts it, "son of the one who was together with me," a far more discreet and respectful way of acknowledging the child’s parentage. And as a result? (Deuteronomy 2:19) says, "Do not besiege them and do not provoke them" – period. No wiggle room, no loopholes. Complete protection.

What a contrast!

Now, here's where it gets really interesting. Rabbi Yehuda ben Rabbi Simon and Rabbi Hanin, citing Rabbi Yochanan, offer a surprising perspective. They acknowledge that the daughters of Lot committed a transgression. They knew what they were doing was wrong. Yet, they were "remembered favorably" by God. Why? Because from their actions came great nations.

But what was the merit that allowed them to be "remembered favorably"? Here’s where it gets a little tricky, a little bit of wordplay that's pure Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary). It was "due to the merit of Moav – the one who [mi] is the father [av]." It's a play on the name Moav, connecting it to the idea of fatherhood. And that reminds the rabbis of Abraham, who was promised by God, "For I have made you the father of a multitude of nations" (Genesis 17:5).

So, what’s the takeaway here? Is it about condoning incest? Absolutely not. The rabbis aren't suggesting that. Instead, they're highlighting the complex interplay of intention, action, and consequence. Even a morally ambiguous act, driven by a desperate desire to continue humanity, can have unforeseen and ultimately positive outcomes. And even in transgression, a kernel of respect – or disrespect – can alter the course of history.

It makes you think, doesn't it? About the long-term impact of our actions, and the power of even small gestures of respect. It’s a reminder that history, destiny, and even divine favor can hinge on the choices we make, and the words we use, today.

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