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Reuben's Failed Rescue and What God Did With the Intention

Reuben planned to pull Joseph from the pit in secret and bring him home to Jacob. He came back too late. The rabbis say God rewarded him for it anyway.

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Table of Contents
  1. The Eldest Brother Slips Away
  2. The Sin Reuben Could Not Set Down
  3. The Pit He Found Empty
  4. What God Did With the Intention

The Eldest Brother Slips Away

While his brothers were still arguing over what to do with the dreamer in the pit, Reuben slipped out of the group and climbed into the hills above Dothan. He told nobody where he was going. He had a plan that required nobody to know about it until it was done: he would wait, come back when the others had dispersed, and pull Joseph out of the pit by himself. Then he would take Joseph home to Jacob.

Reuben was the eldest son. He understood what that meant in the accounting of the patriarchal household. If something happened to Joseph, the boy Jacob loved above the others, the son of Rachel, the son of his old age, the blame would fall on Reuben first. That was one calculation. But the tradition in the Legends of the Jews is careful to say there was something else driving him too.

The Sin Reuben Could Not Set Down

He had wronged his father Jacob in a way that still burned in him years later. He had lain with Bilhah, Rachel's handmaid, his father's concubine. The Torah records this in one sentence in Genesis 35 without elaboration, but the tradition expanded it considerably. Reuben had been fasting and weeping over it ever since. He had refused wine. He had refused comfort. He had spent years carrying a sin he could not confess publicly and could not set down privately, believing that the full weight of it was still on him and that it would stay on him until God found reason to forgive it.

He believed that restoring Joseph to Jacob was that reason. One good deed done in secret, done at real risk to himself, done for a father who did not know he was in debt to his eldest son. If he could bring Joseph home, maybe the ledger balanced. Maybe the years of fasting and grief meant something in the presence of a concrete rescue.

He came back from the hills when he thought enough time had passed. The pit was empty.

The Pit He Found Empty

He tore his clothes. The tradition records his cry: the child is not there, and whither shall I go? He had missed the caravan by a matter of hours. The Ishmaelite traders who had come through Dothan had seen the pit and the brothers and had completed the transaction while Reuben was still waiting in the hills above the valley. Joseph was already on the road to Egypt.

Reuben's plan had failed entirely. He had not rescued Joseph. He had not returned him to Jacob. He had not earned the forgiveness he was seeking. He had missed every part of the thing he had positioned himself to do, and now he had to return to his brothers and pretend he had not been trying to undo what they had done.

What God Did With the Intention

The principle the tradition drew from Reuben here was stated plainly: God rewards not only good deeds but good intentions, when the failure to complete them is not the fault of the one who intended them. Reuben had intended to rescue Joseph. He had put himself in a position where he could carry out that intention. He had been prevented from completing it by timing and circumstance rather than by any failure of resolve.

The reward he received was not the one he had designed for himself. The forgiveness he wanted from his father was not delivered through the mechanism he had planned. But the tradition says God credited the intention as a genuine act, weighing it differently from a deed not done at all. What Reuben intended in those hills above Dothan counted toward him in ways that the visible accounting of his life did not show.

Reuben's case set the measure of moral action plainly. The person who tries and fails through no fault of their own is not in the same position as the person who does not try. The pit was empty when Reuben came back, but the intention that had sent him into the hills was real, and the God who had heard the brothers' plans at Dothan and answered them all had heard Reuben's plan too.


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Legends of the Jews 1:21Legends of the Jews

Legends of the Jews turns to Reuben and the Fires of Gehenna.

Remember the story of Joseph, the favored son, and his jealous brothers? They threw him into a pit, planning to leave him for dead. But Reuben, consumed with guilt for his own past misdeeds, had a different idea. That "Reuben went away from his brethren, and he hid in the mountains, so that he might be able to hasten back in a favorable moment and draw Joseph forth from the pit and restore him to his father." He wasn't on board with killing Joseph. He wanted to save him. Reuben was trying to make amends, not just for his part in this situation, but also for a past "transgression he had committed against Jacob." the verse says, he hoped his reward would be pardon for that sin. He had a plan!

As the story goes, Reuben’s good intention was frustrated. He wasn’t able to save Joseph from being sold into slavery in Egypt. Bummer. So, did his good intentions count for nothing?

Absolutely not.

The text is clear: "Yet Reuben was rewarded by God, for God gives a recompense not only for good deeds, but for good intentions as well." Even though his plan failed, his heart was in the right place. And that mattered.

So, how was he rewarded? Well, "as he was the first of the brethren of Joseph to make an attempt to save him, so the city of Bezer in the tribe of Reuben was the first of the cities of refuge appointed to safeguard the life of the innocent that seek help." Bezer was a designated place of safety. Because Reuben had tried to save an innocent life, his tribe's city became a sanctuary for others.

But there's more! The text continues, "Furthermore God spake to Reuben, saying: 'As thou wast the first to endeavor to restore a child unto his father, so Hosea, one of thy descendants, shall be the first to endeavor to lead Israel back to his heavenly Father.'" Wow! Hosea, a prophet from Reuben’s line, would be the first to call the people of Israel back to God. A truly incredible legacy stemming from a single act of intended kindness.

The story of Reuben teaches us that our intentions matter. Even when our plans go awry, even when we don't achieve the outcome we hoped for, the effort to do good is seen, valued, and rewarded. It reminds us that the journey of striving for good, the kavanah (the Hebrew word for intention), is often as important as the destination.

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Legends of the Jews, I. Joseph, Joseph Cast Into The PitLegends of the Jews

The story begins with Jacob's sons, out tending their father's flocks near Shechem. They were gone a long time, and Jacob, naturally, started to worry. He was concerned about his sons' safety and the welfare of his livestock – because, as the story reminds us, it’s a duty to care for anything that provides for you. So, he sends Joseph to check on them. Even though Jacob knew full well how much his other sons resented Joseph.

As Ginzberg retells it in Legends of the Jews, this willingness of Joseph to go, despite knowing the danger, later haunted Jacob. "Thou didst know the hatred of thy brethren, and yet thou didst say, Here am I." Ouch.

Jacob, perhaps sensing something amiss, tells Joseph to travel only during the day. He says, "Go now, see whether it be well with thy brethren, and well with the flock; and send me word." It’s almost a prophecy, isn’t it? As the story goes, he didn't say he expected to see Joseph again, only to hear from him.

Why all this indirectness? It's all part of God's plan. The story is setting up the events that will lead Jacob and his family down into Egypt. since the "covenant of the pieces" – that dramatic moment where God revealed the future to Abraham – God had decided that Jacob's descendants would end up in Egypt. And Joseph's being sold into slavery? Well, that was just God's way of making it happen, instead of, say, directly dragging Jacob down there as a captive.

Joseph arrives in Shechem, a place already associated with bad omens for Jacob's family – remember the story of Dinah? Finding no one there, he wanders into the wilderness. It's here that he meets Gabriel, appearing as a man. Gabriel asks, "What seekest thou?" Joseph answers, "I seek my brethren."

Gabriel's reply is… chilling. "Thy brethren have given up the Divine qualities of love and mercy." He reveals that they’ve moved on to Dothan, having learned that the Hivites were planning to attack them. But there's more. Gabriel says he overheard "behind the curtain that veils the Divine throne" that the Egyptian bondage was about to begin, and Joseph would be the first to be subjected to it!

Talk about a loaded encounter.

So, Joseph finds his brothers in Dothan, and they see him coming from afar. That's when the conspiracy begins. They plot to kill him. Legends of the Jews, drawing from various Midrashic (rabbinic interpretive commentary) sources, paints a vivid picture of their hatred. They even considered setting dogs on him!

Simon, fueled by jealousy and perhaps a bit of fear, says to Levi, "Behold, the master of dreams cometh… Let us slay him, that we may see what will become of his dreams." But God, as always, has the last word. "Ye say, We shall see what will become of his dreams, and I say likewise, We shall see, and the future shall show whose word will stand, yours or Mine."

As Simon and Gad move to attack, Joseph pleads for his life, reminding them of their father, Jacob. According to Ginzberg, his words touched Zebulon, who began to weep with him. Reuben steps in, proposing an alternative: "Let us not slay him, but let us cast him into one of the dry pits."

Now, here's where the divine orchestration gets really interesting. The pits were dry because God had prevented water from filling them, specifically so Joseph could be rescued later! Reuben, as the eldest, felt responsible and also grateful to Joseph for including him in his dream of the sun, moon, and stars. He planned to rescue Joseph later, hoping it would atone for a past transgression against Jacob.

Reuben's plan is foiled, but the story tells us he’s still rewarded for his good intentions. As he was the first to attempt to save Joseph, the city of Bezer in the tribe of Reuben was the first city of refuge. God tells Reuben that Hosea, one of his descendants, would be the first to lead Israel back to God.

The brothers agree to Reuben's plan. Simon seizes Joseph and throws him into a pit, which, to make matters worse, was filled with snakes and scorpions, with another pit full of waste nearby. Some accounts even say Simon threw stones at him!

Despite all this, Joseph later shows remarkable forgiveness towards Simon. When Simon is held hostage in Egypt, Joseph makes sure he receives special treatment.

Before throwing him in, they strip Joseph of his iconic coat of many colors. But miraculously, the snakes and scorpions can't harm him. God hears his cries, keeping the reptiles hidden. From the depths of the pit, Joseph cries out, "O my brethren, what have I done unto you?… Am I not flesh of your flesh, and bone of your bone?"

To avoid hearing his pleas, the brothers move away. Only Zebulon shows pity, fasting for two days in grief.

The brothers then decide to kill Joseph after they finish eating. But Judah intervenes, saying, "What profit is it if we slay our brother? Rather will the punishment of God descend upon us." He suggests selling Joseph to a passing group of Ishmaelites on their way to Egypt.

So, there you have it. Joseph in the pit. A story of betrayal, jealousy, and divine intervention. It's easy to focus on the cruelty of Joseph’s brothers, but maybe the real takeaway is about the bigger picture: that even in the darkest of pits, a larger plan might be unfolding. And that even the most terrible acts can be part of something… inevitable.

What do you think? Is it comforting to believe that everything happens for a reason, even when that reason is beyond our understanding? Or is it a dangerous idea that excuses terrible behavior? Maybe the truth lies somewhere in between.

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