Ruth Refused to Leave Naomi and Became David's Ancestor
When Naomi told her Moabite daughter-in-law to go home and remarry, Ruth refused in words that have outlasted every kingdom in the story.
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Naomi stood at a crossroads somewhere on the road from Moab to Bethlehem and told the two young women with her to go home. She was not angry. She was not pushing them away. She was trying to protect them from the life they would have if they stayed with her. She had nothing to give them. Her husband was dead, both her sons were dead, and the God of Israel had dealt bitterly with her -- her own word was Mara, bitterness (Ruth 1:20). She was going back to Bethlehem because there was nothing left for her in Moab. She could see no reason for Orpah and Ruth to follow her into that emptiness.
Orpah wept, kissed Naomi, and turned back toward her own people. Ruth refused. She clung to her mother-in-law with a word the text uses for attachment so strong it is the same word used when a man leaves his parents and clings to his wife (Genesis 2:24). The speech Ruth gave in response to Naomi's urging is among the most quoted passages in all of scripture: wherever you go, I will go; wherever you lodge, I will lodge; your people are my people; your God is my God; where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried (Ruth 1:16-17). Josephus records the whole sequence in Antiquities of the Jews and marvels that a Moabite woman's loyalty would place her descendants on the throne of Israel.
What Ruth Was Actually Giving Up
The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909-1938) draws on the rich midrashic tradition surrounding Ruth's declaration and what it cost her. In Moab, Ruth had status. She was the daughter of Eglon, king of Moab, according to one strand of the tradition -- a princess by birth who had married into a respectable Israelite family. Returning to her father's house after her husband's death was not a fall into poverty; it was a return to wealth, position, and the certainty of remarrying well. What she was choosing instead was to follow an elderly widow with nothing to Bethlehem, where they would arrive as the poorest of the poor, dependent on the charity of strangers and the gleaning rights the Torah gave to the destitute.
The Midrash Rabbah on Ruth (5th century CE) preserves a remarkable dialogue that it imagines occurred on that road. According to this tradition, Naomi did not simply ask Ruth once to return -- she explained, in sequence, the requirements of life under Torah law that a convert would face. No going out alone on the Sabbath. No bathing in a place not designated for it. Sixty-three tractates of law. Naomi enumerated them as discouragements. Ruth answered each one calmly. For every obstacle Naomi described, Ruth said: where you go, I will go. It became a process of formal instruction, with Naomi as the unwilling teacher and Ruth as the student who would not be dissuaded. The Midrash reads Ruth's acceptance of each condition as the equivalent of a formal conversion ceremony conducted on a dusty road in the middle of nowhere, witnessed by no one but the widow who had not asked for the responsibility.
The Field and What It Contained
Back in Bethlehem, Naomi's neighbors barely recognized her. The whole city was moved at her return. She told them not to call her by her name -- call me Mara, she said, because the Almighty had dealt very bitterly with me. But the barley harvest was just beginning, and Ruth went out to glean in the fields. Torah law required landowners to leave the corners of their fields unharvested and to let the poor take what the reapers had dropped. Ruth worked from morning until evening in a field she had chosen -- as it happened, the field of Boaz.
Boaz noticed her and asked who she was. When his foreman told him, Boaz went to Ruth directly and told her not to go to any other field, to stay close to his workers, to drink from the water his workers drew. He had heard everything -- the loyalty to Naomi, the decision to leave her own people, the crossing into an unfamiliar land and an unfamiliar religious community (Ruth 2:11). He told her that God would reward the work she had done for her mother-in-law. He secretly instructed his reapers to leave extra grain and to drop handfuls from their bundles on purpose. Ruth came home that evening with an ephah of barley -- more than any ordinary gleaner could have gathered in a full day, enough to feed both women for weeks.
What the Threshing Floor Meant Under Jewish Law
Naomi recognized Boaz's name immediately. He was a go'el, a redeemer -- a kinsman of her late husband Elimelech, with the legal right and obligation to redeem the family's property and continue the family line (Leviticus 25:25). She devised a plan. After the barley winnowing, when Boaz would sleep on the threshing floor to guard the grain, Ruth would go to him at night, uncover his feet, and lie down. Whatever he told her to do next, she should do.
At midnight Boaz woke and found her there. He asked who she was. She told him, and then made her request: spread your cloak over your servant, for you are a go'el. The phrase carried legal weight -- it was a formal invocation of the redemption obligation, not simply a marriage proposal. Boaz told her she had acted with greater chesed, lovingkindness, in this second act than in her first -- she had not gone after younger men, wealthy or poor, but had come to him (Ruth 3:10). He wanted to redeem her. But there was one kinsman closer in line who had first right of refusal. The matter had to go through proper legal channels before daybreak.
The next morning, at the city gate before the elders of Bethlehem, the closer kinsman declined. He could not redeem without encumbering his own inheritance. Boaz redeemed everything: Naomi's property, the right to carry on Elimelech's name, and Ruth as wife. He removed his sandal in the formal ceremony of transfer (Ruth 4:7-8). The elders of the city blessed the couple at the gate. Ruth conceived and bore a son. They named him Obed. Obed's son was Jesse. Jesse's son was David.
Why Did the Tradition Preserve This Story So Carefully?
Josephus ends the Ruth narrative with a reflection on divine purpose that reads almost like an editorial comment on everything he has written. God, he says, raised from a Moabite gleaner's descendants the greatest king Israel would ever have, as a demonstration that ordinary origins present no obstacle to divine purpose. The line from Moabite widow to throne required loyalty on a dusty road, diligence in a barley field, courage on a threshing floor, and patience at a city gate. Every step was small. Every person who played a role made a quiet human choice. Naomi went home. Ruth refused to leave. Boaz paid attention to a gleaner.
The Ginzberg tradition and the Talmud Bavli (6th century CE) both emphasize that the book of Ruth was publicly read on Shavuot -- the festival of the giving of the Torah -- not only because Ruth's story takes place at the wheat harvest but because Ruth's acceptance of Torah law on that road to Bethlehem was itself a model of the kind of wholehearted receiving that Shavuot commemorated. She had heard every obstacle and chosen anyway. The Torah was given to those who chose it without reservation. Ruth's choice was placed beside Sinai as its echo in a smaller key.