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The Merchant Who Refused to Say God Willing

A stranger suggested four words before a business trip. The merchant laughed him off. He lost his purse twice before the lesson arrived.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Man With the Perfect Plan
  2. Three Times Before the Third Failure
  3. What Four Words Accomplished
  4. The Space Between Intention and Outcome

The Man With the Perfect Plan

He had the money. He had the route. He had made this particular trip a dozen times and knew exactly how it went. When a stranger on the road offered some unsolicited advice, a suggestion that he add four words to his statement of intention, the merchant dismissed it without considering it. If it please God? He was going to buy cattle. The deal was already settled in his mind. Adding a religious formula to a commercial transaction was not something he needed to do.

The stranger was Elijah, though the merchant would not learn that for some time, and the lesson would have to be repeated more than once before it landed.

Three Times Before the Third Failure

The first time the merchant waved off Elijah's suggestion, his purse was gone by the time he reached his destination. He went home, gathered more money, tried a different route, certain the problem was the road. The second time, a different stranger offered the same prompt. The same refusal. The same vanishing purse.

Two losses, and still the merchant's explanation was bad luck rather than bad theology. Bad luck was a category he could work with. He could change his route, change his timing, change his trading partners. Bad luck had a practical remedy. The idea that his losses were connected to his refusal to acknowledge God before a journey was a category he had not yet opened.

The third encounter changed his posture. A stranger asked where he was going, and something had shifted in him. He answered: if it please God, I intend to buy oxen.

What Four Words Accomplished

The journey went well. He made the purchase. He returned home without incident. No purse vanished. No obstacle materialized. He had not invoked a magic formula. He had not appeased an angry deity with the correct phrase. He had, for the first time, stated his intention in a way that acknowledged the basic fact of his situation: that his capacity to carry out any plan depended on conditions he did not control and could not guarantee.

The merchant was not wicked. The tradition is careful about this. He was not cruel or dishonest or impious in the ordinary sense. He was a competent man who had confused his competence with control, who had taken his track record of successful trips as evidence that the outcomes were his to determine. Elijah, who had watched every variation of this confusion across centuries, chose to demonstrate the distinction through repetition. The man needed to see the same lesson twice before he was ready to receive it a third time as a correction rather than a coincidence.

The Space Between Intention and Outcome

The Hebrew phrase at stake here, im yirtzeh Hashem, if God wills, is not a passivity formula. It does not mean that human beings should not plan or act. The merchant still planned, still set out, still bargained for oxen. The phrase marks the space between intention and outcome as a space that belongs to God rather than to the intender. I plan this. Whether it happens is not mine to guarantee.

Elijah was teaching the grammar of human agency: that to act without acknowledging the dependence underneath action is not strength but a form of blindness. The merchant's purses vanished not as punishment for his refusal, in the strict sense, but as demonstrations that the control he assumed he had was not his. Once he understood that, the journeys proceeded normally. Not because the formula changed the outcome, but because the man had changed his understanding of what he was doing when he made a plan.

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Legends of the Jews 7:48Legends of the Jews

The prophet Elijah, that fiery figure of Jewish tradition, sometimes took it upon himself to nudge people in the right direction. And sometimes, that nudge was more like a cosmic shove!

Take this story, for example. A wealthy man was heading to a cattle sale, money in hand, ready to make a deal. He was feeling pretty confident. Then he meets a stranger – who, unbeknownst to him, was actually Elijah in disguise. Elijah asks him where he's going, and the man replies, "I'm going to buy cattle." Simple enough. But Elijah gently suggests, "Say, 'If it please God.'" You know, adding that little bit of humility, acknowledging that things aren't entirely in our control. But this fellow? He's having none of it. "Fiddlesticks!" he scoffs, or something to that effect. "I'll buy cattle whether it pleases God or not! I have the money, the deal is as good as done."

Big mistake.

"Not with good fortune," the stranger replies, and disappears. And wouldn’t you know it? When the man gets to the market, his purse is gone! He has to trudge all the way back home to get more money.

Now, you'd think he'd learn his lesson. But no! He tries a different route, thinking he can avoid the bad luck. But guess who he runs into? Another old man, who gives him the exact same prompt. And again, the man refuses to acknowledge God's will. And again, he loses his money!

Finally, the penny drops. The third time, when yet another stranger asks about his journey, he says, "If it please God, I intend to buy oxen." This time, the stranger wishes him success. And guess what? Success is exactly what he finds!

Not only does he find a pair of cattle he wants, but when he goes to pay, he discovers both of the purses he lost earlier! As Ginzberg tells us in Legends of the Jews, our stubborn friend is rewarded for his eventual humility.

But the story doesn't end there. He ends up selling those oxen to the king for a huge profit! He becomes incredibly wealthy. All because he finally learned to say, "If it please God."

What's the takeaway? Is it about the power of saying the right words? Or is it a deeper lesson about humility, about acknowledging that we're not always in control? Maybe Elijah, in his own unique way, was reminding us that a little bit of faith can go a long way. As we find in Midrash Rabbah, even the smallest act of acknowledging a higher power can open doors we never imagined. And sometimes, those doors lead to a whole lot of cattle… and a whole lot of good fortune.

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Legends of the Jews 7:31Legends of the Jews

Take the story of Elijah the Prophet. He's not just a figure from the Bible; he's a constant presence in Jewish folklore, always popping up to help those in need. But sometimes, his help comes in the most unexpected forms.

We find in Legends of the Jews, as retold by Ginzberg, that Elijah wasn’t always able to magically solve everyone's problems. He couldn’t just wave a wand and banish poverty. But what he could do was offer something just as valuable: hope. He sought to inspire the pious, to give them the strength to carry on.

Consider the tale of Rabbi Akiba. Before he became the renowned scholar we know, he lived in utter poverty. His wife, who had defied her wealthy father to marry him, shared his hardships. Her father, furious at her choice, cut her off completely.

It’s a freezing winter night. The couple is huddled in their tiny hut. They have nothing. All Akiba can offer his wife is a bed of straw. He tries to comfort her, whispering assurances of his love, knowing the privations she’s enduring for him.

Then, a knock.

Elijah appears at their door, a desperate plea in his voice: "O good people, give me, I pray you, a little bundle of straw. My wife has been delivered of a child, and I am so poor I haven't even enough straw to make a bed for her." Akiba, in his own destitution, suddenly realizes that someone else is even worse off. And in that realization, a strange comfort arises.

Akiba could then console his wife, explaining that their misery wasn't the worst it could be. Dayenu – it could have been worse. And in that moment, Elijah had achieved his goal: to sustain the courage of the pious.

It’s a subtle lesson, isn't it? Elijah didn't alleviate Akiba's poverty. He didn't conjure up a warm bed or a feast. Instead, he offered perspective. He reminded Akiba that even in the darkest of times, there is always someone who needs help, someone whose situation is even more dire. And that realization, paradoxically, can be a source of strength.

So, the next time you're feeling overwhelmed by your own struggles, remember Rabbi Akiba and Elijah. Remember that hope can come in unexpected packages, and that even a little perspective can make all the difference. Maybe, just maybe, that’s enough to keep us going.

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