Take, for example, the story of Joseph and his brothers. We know about the coat, the jealousy, the slavery in Egypt… but what about their lives outside of that central drama?
Interestingly, the year that Joseph faced his trials and tribulations was also a year of weddings for his brothers. Reuben, the eldest, married Elyoram, who the text tells us was the daughter of Uzzi, a Canaanite from Timnah.
And then there's Simon. Now, his story takes a…complicated turn. The text says that Simon first married his sister Dinah. Remember Dinah? She was the sister who was violated by Shechem. According to this tradition, after Simon and Levi infamously took revenge on the city of Shechem, Dinah refused to leave, declaring, "Whither shall I carry my shame?". Simon then swore he would marry her, and he did. Later, when she died in Egypt, he brought her body back to the Holy Land for burial.
It’s quite a story, isn’t it? But it doesn’t end there. Dinah, it turns out, had a son with her brother Simon. And, even earlier, she had a daughter named Asenath from her union with Shechem, the son of Hamor.
Now, this is where things get really interesting. The text tells us that the sons of Jacob, horrified by this child born out of what they perceived as sin, wanted to kill Asenath. To protect the family's reputation, they considered infanticide. What did Jacob do?
He took a piece of tin and inscribed the Shem HaMeforash, the Holy Name of God, upon it. He bound this amulet around the baby’s neck, placed her under a thornbush, and…abandoned her.
Can you imagine?
But don't worry, this isn't the end of Asenath's story. An angel, as divine intervention often goes, carried the babe down to Egypt. There, Potiphar, the Egyptian official, adopted her as his own, since his wife was barren. According to Ginzberg's retelling in Legends of the Jews, Potiphar's wife raised Asenath as her own daughter.
Years later, when Joseph, now the viceroy of Egypt, traveled through the land, maidens showered him with gifts, hoping to catch his eye. Asenath, having nothing else to offer, removed the amulet from her neck – the very one Jacob had placed there – and gave it to him. This is how Joseph discovered her lineage. Seeing that she wasn't Egyptian, but connected to his own family through her mother, he married her. As we find this tradition recorded, Joseph recognized the significance of the amulet and the story it represented.
So, Asenath, the daughter of Dinah, abandoned as a baby, raised in an Egyptian household, ultimately becomes Joseph’s wife. It's an incredible twist of fate, isn’t it? A hidden thread connecting generations and weaving a tapestry far more complex than we might have imagined. It makes you wonder about all the other untold stories, the hidden connections waiting to be discovered in the vast landscape of Jewish tradition. What other secrets are waiting to be revealed?