Deborah Rebekah's Nurse and the Hidden Mourning at Allon-bacuth

Midrash Aggadah, Genesis 35:8

"The nurse of Rebekah" (Genesis 35:8). The mother of Rebekah. "Allon" is Greek. While he was observing the mourning of Deborah, the news of his mother came to them. This is what is written, "And God appeared to Jacob... and blessed him" (Genesis 35:9). And what blessing did He bless him with? This is the blessing of mourners. And why was the death of Rebekah not stated? Because of her son Esau. And she was also buried at night because of Esau, so that they would not say: "Such and such shall come upon the womb in which such a man was formed." And what did Deborah seek with Jacob? Rather, at the time when Rebekah said to him, "And I will send and take you from there" (Genesis 27:45), Jacob did not wish to move from Laban. What did Rebekah do? She sent Deborah to Jacob to bring him.

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