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Israel Feasted While Jerusalem Burned and Tobit Refused to Eat

On Shavuot in Nineveh the harps were already going. Tobit stepped past a body in the street that the king had ordered left there.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Body in the Street
  2. Sarah Asked to Die
  3. Two Prayers Reached the Throne
  4. The Cry God Already Knew

They feasted. Jerusalem burned, and the Temple lay in ruins, and the people torn from Judah sat in Nineveh with wine and harps and psalteries, making merry as if the house of God were a rumor from a poorer year. Tobit walked past the tables and refused to eat.

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Amos had already named this kind of evening. They drink wine in bowls and anoint themselves with fine oils, but they are not grieved for the affliction of Joseph (Amos 6:6). The sin was not the bread. It was the not-grieving. It was choosing an evening's pleasure over the witness of their own catastrophe.

The Body in the Street

It was Shavuot, the festival of weeks, fifty days after Passover. Tobit walked through Nineveh and found a dead man lying in the road, a man no one else had stopped to bury. The king had decreed that the bodies of Israelites who had been killed were to remain exposed as a warning. Burying them was defiance.

Tobit buried him anyway. To leave a man in the street was its own kind of not-grieving. He carried the weight, dug, covered, and went home with the dust of a forbidden grave on his hands. The feast went on behind him. Harps do not pause for a burial they refuse to see.

Later the same loyalty cost him his sight. Bird droppings fell on his eyes while he slept by a wall, and the world went dark. He sat in Nineveh blind, tired, and still unwilling to join the song. Memory does not require volume. It required a man who would still put a body in the ground when the law of the city said leave it.

Sarah Asked to Die

In Ecbatana, in her father's upper chamber, a young woman named Sarah stood at the window and asked God to kill her. She had been married seven times. Each husband had died on the wedding night, killed by the demon Asmodeus before the marriage was consummated. A servant girl had said the cruelest possible thing out loud: you are the one who kills your husbands. Sarah could not disprove it.

She prayed for death because living meant watching an eighth man die on her account. Her parents' humiliation sat in the room with her. She finished the prayer and came down from the upper chamber with the request still in the air, because a window is a poor place to keep a cry.

Two Prayers Reached the Throne

Tobit prayed concerning his blindness. Sarah prayed concerning the shame on her father's house. At that time the prayer of them both was heard before the throne of glory, two separate sorrows from two cities, arriving together. God sent the angel Raphael, the prince appointed over healing, to heal them both: to clear Tobit's eyes, to give Sarah to Tobiah son of Tobit as wife, and to take Asmodeus, king of the demons, off her.

Tobit finished his prayer and went back into his house. Sarah came down from the upper chamber when she had made an end of praying. Neither of them knew the other existed. The throne knew both.

The Cry God Already Knew

A people had cried like this before. In Egypt, after many days, the king died, and the children of Israel moaned under the toil and cried out, and God heard their voices. He saw their affliction, and the affliction named was the forced gap between husband and wife, the life that could not be lived as a life. God knew. He took it to heart.

Tobit in Nineveh and Sarah in Ecbatana stood in that same gap. One could not see. One could not keep a husband alive through a night. Around Tobit the harps still played for a Temple that was ash. Around Sarah a servant's insult still hung. The feast was louder than either of them. The feast is always louder.

The cry did not need to be loud. It needed to be true. Two mouths, two cities, one throne. Raphael was already on the road.

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Book of Tobit 1:7Book of Tobit

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.Sefaria-hosted English translation · CC-BY

The Book of Tobit, one of those fascinating stories tucked away in the Apocrypha, opens with a stark reminder of what happens when we choose pleasure over empathy.

The scene: The people of Israel are in exile, scattered after the destruction of the Temple. A time for mourning. A time for reflection and repentance? But instead, we find them feasting.

The Book of Tobit tells us that "instead of mourning and afflicting themselves before the Lord concerning the persecution of their brethren…they were eating and drinking and making merry." They were caught up in the superficial, "delighting themselves with instruments of song and harps and psalteries."

And the Book of Tobit doesn't mince words. It connects their revelry directly to their suffering: "they were not grieved for the destruction of Judah for our wickedness and the wickedness of our fathers."

This isn't just Tobit's opinion. The Book of Tobit then directly quotes the prophet Amos, "'That drink wine in bowls, and anoint themselves with the chief ointments; but they are not grieved for the affliction of Joseph.'" (Amos 6:6). This quote really hits home. Joseph, sold into slavery by his brothers, represents profound suffering. To ignore that suffering, to indulge while others are in pain, is a grave offense. Amos, a fiery prophet, wasn't just talking about literal wine and oil. He was talking about a deeper callousness, a spiritual blindness. A refusal to acknowledge the pain of others and, perhaps more importantly, the consequences of their own actions.

The passage doesn't hold back: "Even for this was wrath from the Lord upon Judah and Jerusalem, and he brought against them the king of Babylon, until he cast them out from his presence, and he carried Judah away from his land." Ouch. Strong words. A direct line drawn between indifference and disaster.

So, what can we learn from this opening scene of the Book of Tobit? It's a call to empathy, to acknowledge the pain of others, and to recognize the role we play in the world's brokenness. Maybe, just maybe, by acknowledging the "affliction of Joseph," we can begin to heal ourselves and the world around us.

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Sifrei Devarim 301:15Sifrei Devarim

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.Sifrei by Rabbi Shraga Silverstein · CC-BY

Like you're just.. toiling? The ancient Israelites certainly did, and their story, as told in the book of Devarim (Deuteronomy), resonates even today. but the source asks us to read the words; The source unfolds what they really mean.

The verse from Devarim 26:7 says, "And we cried out to the L-rd, the G-d of our fathers..." This seemingly simple phrase is actually a powerful echo of an earlier moment in the Shemot (Exodus) story. Sifrei Devarim reminds us, it’s directly linked to (Exodus 2:23): "And it was in the course of those many days that the king of Egypt died, and the children of Israel moaned under the toil, and they cried out..."

See, the suffering wasn't just physical. It was a deep, soul-crushing weariness. But here's the thing: that cry, that raw, honest plea, reached somewhere. It wasn't just swallowed by the desert wind.

"And the L-rd heard our voices," Devarim continues. And again, we're pointed back to Shemot, to (Exodus 2:24): "And G-d heard their outcry."

Like no one's listening. But this verse reminds us that G-d hears. He doesn't just passively register our cries; He hears them. There's an active, engaged listening happening here.

But the verse doesn’t end there. It goes on, "And He saw our affliction." Now, what does "affliction" really mean in this context? Sifrei Devarim offers a powerful, and perhaps surprising, interpretation: it refers to enforced separation from conjugal relations. Slavery wasn't just about back-breaking labor; it was about the systematic dismantling of families, of intimacy, of the most basic human connections.

We find further support for this interpretation in (Exodus 2:25): "...and G-d saw the children of Israel, and G-d knew (i.e., He 'took it to heart')." This wasn't just a casual observation. God knew. He felt the depth of their pain, the specific agony of their broken relationships. He saw the whole picture.

The Sages, in their profound wisdom, are showing us something incredibly important here. It's not enough to just go through the motions of prayer, to recite the words. We have to connect with the why behind them, the raw human experience that gave birth to them in the first place. The Israelites weren't just reciting a script; they were crying out from a place of deep suffering. And G-d responded to that authenticity.

What does that mean for us today? Maybe it's a reminder to be honest in our own prayers. To not be afraid to bring our whole selves, our pain, our doubts, our vulnerabilities, to the Divine. And maybe, just maybe, it's a reminder that even in our darkest moments, when we feel most alone and unseen, we are heard, we are seen, and we are known.

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Book of Tobit 4:1Book of Tobit

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.Sefaria-hosted English translation · CC-BY

He's in despair, naturally. Meanwhile, in a faraway land, Sarah, daughter of Reuel, is suffering her own torment. She’s been married seven times, but each husband has been killed by the demon Asmodeus on their wedding night! Can you imagine the humiliation and despair both she and her parents were experiencing?

So, both Tobi and Sarah pour out their hearts in prayer. Tobi, burdened by his blindness, and Sarah, crushed by the shadow of Asmodeus and the shame she felt for her parents. Two separate prayers, born of separate sorrows, yet both ascending to the same place.

As the Book of Tobit tells us, "At that time the prayer of them both was heard before the throne of glory." It wasn't just one prayer, but both, intertwined, rising together.

What happens next? God sends the angel Raphael – and not just any angel, but the prince appointed over healing! Raphael is tasked with a double mission: to heal Tobi's blindness and to deliver Sarah from Asmodeus, paving the way for her to marry Tobiyyah, Tobi's son. It’s like divine matchmaking and miracle-working all rolled into one! God doesn't just address one problem in isolation. He sees the interconnectedness of things. He sees Tobi and Sarah, their individual sufferings, and how their lives can be woven together in a tradition of healing and redemption.

The story then circles back to our protagonists. Tobi, having finished his prayer, returns to his house, perhaps with a glimmer of hope, perhaps just resigned. And Sarah, having completed her own fervent plea, comes down from her father's upper chamber, ready to face whatever the new day brings. They don't know it yet, but their lives are about to change in ways they couldn't possibly imagine.

What I find so compelling about this passage is the sheer power of prayer, the idea that our voices, even in our darkest moments, can be heard. And even more, that sometimes, the answers to our prayers come in the most unexpected ways, intertwined with the lives and destinies of others. It's a reminder that we are all connected, and that even in suffering, there is the potential for healing, for redemption, and for love.

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