Parshat Shemot5 min read

Jethro Was the One King Who Told Pharaoh the Truth

Pharaoh assembled three advisors to decide Israel's fate. Only one argued for mercy, and that man paid for it with an exile that led him straight to Moses.

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Table of Contents
  1. Three Kings in a Council Chamber
  2. What Each Man Chose
  3. The Exile That Made Everything Possible
  4. The Second Conversation With Egypt

Three Kings in a Council Chamber

Before the plagues. Before the burning bush. Before any of the names people remember, there was a room in Egypt where three advisors sat before Pharaoh and were asked a question about what to do with a people who were multiplying faster than the kingdom could absorb them.

The three were Balaam the sorcerer, Job of the land of Uz, and Reuel the Midianite. Reuel was the man who would later be called Jethro. He was a priest of Midian and, in some traditions, its king. He had come to Pharaoh's court as a counselor, and in the chamber that day, surrounded by men who were calculating what answer would serve their own survival, he gave Pharaoh an argument he did not want to hear.

What Each Man Chose

Balaam spoke first, or spoke most forcefully. His advice was systematic: identify the threat, remove it, do not hesitate. The Israelites were numerous and growing. Oppress them. Thin them. If necessary, drown the male infants in the Nile. The logic was clean and it was monstrous, and Balaam offered it without apparent difficulty.

Job said nothing. Or said something so mild it amounted to nothing. The traditions describe his position as calculated silence, the response of a man who understood that speaking against the majority view in Pharaoh's court was dangerous and chose his own safety over Israel's. Later, when Job himself suffered, the tradition would remember this moment. His afflictions arrived with a specific weight. He had watched suffering being planned and had kept his counsel.

Reuel argued for mercy. He did it with historical precision, recounting how the Israelites had come to Egypt under Joseph, how they had saved Egypt during famine, how their labor had built the kingdom. He told Pharaoh that what was being proposed was not merely unjust. It was a violation of the obligations Egypt had incurred. He argued as if the argument would be heard.

It was not heard. Or it was heard and dismissed. And Reuel was driven from Pharaoh's court into exile.

The Exile That Made Everything Possible

He fled to Midian. He built a life there. He became a priest. He took on the name Jethro, which carries in it the suggestion of abundance, of having enough. He had seven daughters. He sent them to water his flocks each day, and each day men came to drive them away from the wells and take the water first.

The day that changed everything was the day a fugitive from Egypt arrived at the same well. He was tall, or looked Egyptian, or simply carried himself like someone accustomed to standing his ground. He saw the girls being driven away. He drove the drivers away instead. He watered the flock himself.

Jethro's daughters came home early that day, and their father asked why. They described the Egyptian man. Jethro knew immediately: this was not a coincidence. He had argued for mercy in Pharaoh's court and been expelled for it. Now mercy was standing at his well, asking nothing, watering flocks for strangers. He told his daughters to bring the man inside. He gave him Zipporah.

The Second Conversation With Egypt

Twenty years later or more, when Moses had brought Israel through the sea and through the wilderness and the camp was established at the foot of the mountain, Jethro came back. He had heard what God had done for Israel. He brought Zipporah and the two sons back to their husband and father. And then he sat down and watched Moses work.

What he saw was a man standing alone from morning until evening, judging every case that arose in the camp. Every question, every dispute, every conflict that two hundred thousand people could generate in a day went through one man. Moses was drowning in it. Jethro told him so. The thing that you do is not good. You will surely wear away, both you and this people that is with you.

This was the same skill he had used in Pharaoh's court. Not prophecy. Not miracle. Administrative clarity. He told Moses to appoint judges over thousands and hundreds and fifties and tens. Let the small matters be decided close to the ground. Let Moses handle only the cases that required him.

Moses listened. The Israelite legal system, the architecture of the judiciary that would shape Jewish communal life for three thousand years, was designed in part by the priest of Midian who had once told Pharaoh the truth and been thrown out of Egypt for it.


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Chronicles of Jerahmeel XLVIChronicles of Jerahmeel (Gaster, 1899)

When Pharaoh sought counsel on what to do about the growing Israelite population, he summoned three men: Reuel the Midianite, Job, and Balaam of Petor. Their answers determined the fate of nations.

Reuel pleaded for mercy. He recounted how God punished every king who harmed Abraham's family. Pharaoh struck with plagues for taking Sarah, Abimelech's household struck with barrenness for the same. "Whoever stretches forth his hand against them, their God takes vengeance." For this good counsel, Reuel was rewarded: his descendant Zipporah would marry Moses. Balaam gave the opposite advice, destroy them. He was later killed by the sword. Job stayed silent, neither defending nor condemning Israel. For his silence, he was sentenced to suffer.

After Moses left Cush, he came to Midian, where Reuel, now called Jethro, promptly threw him in a pit for ten years. Only Zipporah had mercy, secretly feeding Moses bread and water. When she finally convinced her father to check on the prisoner, they found him alive, standing upright, praying. In Jethro's garden stood a sapphire staff planted in the ground. Every mighty warrior who had tried to marry Zipporah had attempted to uproot it and failed. Moses pulled it out effortlessly, like lifting a branch from a thicket. Engraved on it was the Ineffable Name of God.

This was no ordinary staff. According to the Chronicles of Jerahmeel, a 12th-century Hebrew chronicle translated by Moses Gaster in 1899, it had passed from Adam to Noah to Shem to Abraham to Isaac to Jacob to Joseph, and finally to Reuel. It was the staff Moses wielded when he returned to Egypt, tamed the lions guarding Pharaoh's gate, turned the Nile to blood, and split the Red Sea into twelve paths, one for each tribe. Even Pharaoh survived the drowning, pulled from the sea by Michael, Gabriel, and Uriel, and deposited in Nineveh, where he lived another five hundred years.

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Legends of the Jews, IV. Moses In Egypt, JethroLegends of the Jews

Legends of the Jews (Ginzberg) turns to Jethro.

In Ginzberg's retelling in, Legends of the Jews, Jethro lived for many years in the city of Midian – a place named for a son of Abraham and Keturah. There, he served as a priest to idols. But something wasn't sitting right with him. He became increasingly convinced of the futility – the hevel, the emptiness – of idol worship. It became repugnant to him.

So, Jethro decided to resign. He stood before his townsmen and basically said, "Look, I'm getting too old for this. You choose someone else to take my place." He handed over all the paraphernalia of idol worship and told them to give it to his successor. But they suspected his motives. They figured he was up to something, and they weren't happy about it. As a result, the people put him under a ban. Nobody was allowed to help him in any way. Even the shepherds wouldn't pasture his flocks. He was on his own. The only option was to put his seven daughters in charge of the work.

This transformation from idolatrous priest to God-fearing man is reflected in Jethro's many names. It's fascinating! He was called Jether, because, the tradition says, the Torah contains an "additional" section about him. He was called Jethro because he "overflowed" with good deeds. He was also known as Hobab, "the beloved son of God"; Reuel, "the friend of God"; Heber, "the associate of God"; Putiel, "he that hath renounced idolatry"; and Keni, he that was "zealous" for God and "acquired" the Torah. Quite the resume. The story goes that because of the town's hostility, Jethro's daughters had to arrive at the watering troughs early, before the other shepherds. But even that didn't always work. The shepherds would often drive them away and water their own flocks using the water the young women had drawn.

Enter Moses. When he arrived in Midian, he stopped at the well. And what happened there? Well, his experience mirrored that of Isaac and Jacob. Like them, he found his future helpmeet at a well. Remember, Rebekah was chosen as Isaac's wife while she was drawing water. Jacob first saw Rachel while she was watering her sheep. And at this well in Midian, Moses met his future wife, Zipporah.

But the shepherds' rudeness reached a new level on the very day Moses arrived. First, they stole the water the daughters had drawn and then, unbelievably, they tried to do violence to them, even throwing them into the well with the intent to kill them!

That’s when Moses stepped in. He rescued the maidens from the water and watered the flocks – first Jethro's, then the shepherds', even though they didn't deserve it. True, it wasn't much trouble for him. He only had to draw one bucketful, and the water flowed so abundantly that it sufficed for all the herds. And it didn't stop flowing until Moses left the well. This, according to tradition, was the same well where Jacob met Rachel, and the same well God created at the beginning of the world, revealing its opening on the twilight of the first Sabbath eve. Incredible, isn't it?

When Jethro's daughters thanked Moses for his help, he brushed it off, saying, "You should be thanking the Egyptian I killed. If it weren't for him, I wouldn't be here now."

So, what do we take away from the story of Jethro? Perhaps it’s a reminder that even those who seem to be on the wrong path can turn towards good. That even a priest of idols can become a man of God. And sometimes, all it takes is a little kindness at a well to change the course of history.

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Legends of the Jews, IV. Moses In Egypt, Moses Marries ZipporahLegends of the Jews

Moses encountered seven maidens at a well. One of them, Zipporah, caught his eye with her modesty. He proposed marriage, but Zipporah wasn't immediately swept off her feet. She told him about her father's unusual "screening process" for potential suitors.

Her father, Jethro (also known as Reuel), had a magical tree in his garden. Any man who dared to touch it, hoping to marry one of his daughters, would be instantly devoured!

"Whence has he the tree?" Moses asked.

Zipporah explains that this wasn't just any tree; it was actually a rod! The rod. The one created by God on the eve of the first Sabbath, given to Adam, passed down through generations to Noah, Shem, Abraham, Isaac, and finally to Jacob, who brought it to Egypt. When Joseph died, it ended up in Pharaoh’s palace before Jethro, a sacred scribe, stole it. This rod, Zipporah reveals, had the Ineffable Name of God engraved on it, along with prophecies of the ten plagues to come. (Wow, ) When Jethro planted the rod in his garden, it took root and blossomed. That’s when he decided to use it to test his daughters’ suitors.

Zipporah and her sisters returned home, with Moses following close behind. Jethro was surprised to see his daughters back so early – usually the shepherds gave them a hard time. Hearing about the "wonderworking Egyptian," Jethro wondered if Moses might be a descendant of Abraham, bringing blessing to the world. He scolded his daughters for not inviting him in, hoping he would marry one of them.

Moses, standing outside, let them call him an Egyptian without correcting them. According to the legend, God later punished him for this, causing him to die outside the Promised Land. Joseph, who publicly declared himself a Hebrew, was buried in the land of the Hebrews, while Moses, who didn't object to being seen as an Egyptian, was denied that final homecoming.

Zipporah brought Moses inside, and he immediately asked for her hand in marriage. Jethro proposed a challenge: "If thou canst bring me the rod in my garden, I will give her to thee."

Moses, of course, succeeded. He uprooted the rod – the same sapphire rod given to Adam when he was cast out of Paradise – and brought it to Jethro. Upon seeing this, Jethro feared Moses was the prophet who would destroy Egypt, as foretold by his wise men.

In a panic, Jethro threw Moses into a pit, hoping he would die. Talk about a father-in-law from hell! But Zipporah, resourceful and loyal, devised a plan to save him. She convinced her father to let her take care of the household while her sisters tended the flocks. This allowed her to secretly provide food and water to Moses in the pit for seven long years.

After seven years, Zipporah confronted her father. She reminded him of the man who retrieved the rod and suggested he check on him. If he was dead, they could dispose of the body. But if he was alive, it would prove his righteousness.

Jethro, finally relenting, opened the pit and called out, "Moses! Moses!"

"Here am I!" Moses replied.

Jethro pulled him out, kissed him, and declared, "Blessed be God, who guarded thee for seven years in the pit. I acknowledge that He slayeth and reviveth, that thou art one of the wholly pious, that through thee God will destroy Egypt in time to come, lead His people out of the land, and drown Pharaoh and his whole army in the sea."

Jethro then gave Moses money and his daughter Zipporah in marriage, with one condition: that the children born in Jethro's house would be divided, one group considered Israelite, the other Egyptian.

When Zipporah gave birth to a son, Moses circumcised him and named him Gershom, meaning "a stranger there," to commemorate God's help in a foreign land. After two years, Zipporah bore a second son. Moses, remembering his agreement with Jethro, decided to return to Egypt so he could raise his second son as an Israelite.

But the journey wasn't easy. Satan appeared as a serpent and swallowed Moses! Zipporah, recognizing the danger, quickly circumcised her second son. As she sprinkled the blood of the circumcision on Moses' feet, a heavenly voice commanded the serpent to "Spew him out!" And Moses was saved.

Twice Zipporah saved Moses' life – once from the pit and once from the serpent. What an amazing woman.

Upon arriving in Egypt, Moses was met with skepticism and fear. Dathan and Abiram, leaders of the Israelites, questioned his intentions, reminding him of the Egyptian he had slain. This sent Moses back to Midian for two more years until God revealed Himself at Horeb, commanding him to lead His people out of Egypt.

So, what can we take away from this incredible story? Perhaps it's a reminder that even the greatest leaders need strong partners. Zipporah wasn't just a wife; she was a protector, a strategist, and a woman of deep faith. And maybe it also shows us that even the most unusual beginnings can lead to extraordinary destinies.

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Legends of the Jews, IV. Moses In Egypt, The Faithful ShepherdLegends of the Jews

The Jewish tradition offers a fascinating answer, one beautifully illustrated in the story of Moses, the great lawgiver.

Before he led the Israelites out of Egypt, before the burning bush, before the Ten Commandments, Moses was a shepherd. But not just any shepherd. His time tending flocks in the wilderness was a crucial training ground, a proving ground, for the monumental task that lay ahead.

In Legends of the Jews, a masterful compilation of rabbinic stories by Louis Ginzberg, when Jethro gave his daughter Zipporah to Moses in marriage, he made Moses swear an oath. Jethro, wary of history repeating itself with his own daughters as it had with Laban, wanted assurance Moses wouldn't just up and leave with Zipporah without permission. So Moses swore he would stay. And so he became Jethro's shepherd.

Why a shepherd? What's so special about that job?

Well, the tradition teaches us that God doesn't hand out important positions to just anyone. As Ginzberg tells us, God tests a person in small things before entrusting them with big things. Moses, like David before him, had to prove his worth by caring for sheep.

And how did Moses care for those sheep? He didn't just drive them out to pasture and let them fend for themselves. He was attentive, thoughtful. He led the lambs to the tender grass first, then the older sheep to the herbs, and finally the strong ones to the tough grass that was left. He understood that each animal had different needs. As it says, "He that understandeth how to pasture sheep, providing for each what is good for it, he shall pasture My people."

There's a beautiful story that really highlights Moses's compassion. Once, a little lamb ran away. Moses followed it, and when he finally caught up, he saw the lamb was exhausted and thirsty, stopping at every stream. Moses, filled with empathy, said, "Poor kid, I knew not that thou wast thirsty, and wast running after water! Thou art weary, I ween." He then carried the lamb back to the flock on his shoulders.

It was this act of kindness, this genuine care for a single creature, that caught God's attention. God said, "Thou hast compassion with a flock belonging to a man of flesh and blood! As thou livest, thou shalt pasture Israel, My flock."

Beyond just caring for the sheep's well-being, Moses was also careful to ensure they didn't cause harm to others. He made sure they grazed in open meadows, preventing them from wandering onto private property. He was mindful of the bigger picture, the impact his actions had on the community around him.

In fact, Jethro was so pleased with Moses's service that during the forty years Moses worked as his shepherd, not a single sheep was lost to wild animals, and the flock grew incredibly.

But there's another layer to this story. Moses felt drawn to the desert. The text says his "prophetic spirit" foresaw his own greatness and the greatness of Israel would manifest there. The desert, a place of hardship and testing, but also a place where God's wonders would appear. It would be the place where the Jewish people would eventually be freed from slavery, as well as Moses's final resting place. This is all according to Ginzberg's Legends of the Jews.

It was while wandering in the desert that Moses eventually reached Mount Horeb, also known by other names that reveal its significance. It's called the "mountain of God," where the law was revealed; "Basban," because God "came there"; "mountain of humps," because God rejected other mountains; "mountain of abode," because it's God's desired dwelling place; "Sinai," because God's "hatred" against the heathen began there; and "Horeb," meaning "sword," because the law was a sword against sinners. Each name, a facet of its holy nature.

So, what does this all mean for us? The story of Moses, the faithful shepherd, teaches us that leadership isn't about power or position. It's about compassion, responsibility, and a willingness to care for those under your charge, big or small. It's about understanding that even the smallest acts of kindness can have profound consequences. And, perhaps most importantly, it's about recognizing that true leadership begins with service.

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Yalkut Shimoni on Torah 162:13Yalkut Shimoni on Torah

"Come, let us deal wisely with him" (Exodus 1:10). It should have said "with them." Rather, this is what Pharaoh said: Come, let us deal cunningly against the Savior of Israel. By what means shall we punish them? Let us punish them with fire, as it is written, "Behold, the LORD will come in fire" (Isaiah 66:15). Let us punish them with the sword, as it is written, "and by His sword against all flesh" (Isaiah 66:16). Come, let us punish them with water, for the Holy One, blessed be He, has already sworn that He will not bring a flood upon the world, as it is said, "For this is to Me like the waters of Noah" (Isaiah 54:9). But they did not know this: that He does not bring a flood upon the whole world, yet upon a single nation He does bring one. Or alternatively: He Himself does not bring it, but they come and fall into it. And so it says, "and the Egyptians were fleeing toward it" (Exodus 14:27). This is what Rabbi Elazar said: "For in the very matter in which they plotted against them" (Exodus 18:11) [means]: in the very pot in which they cooked, they themselves were cooked. Three were in that counsel: Balaam, who advised it, was slain; Job, who kept silent, was sentenced to sufferings; Jethro, who fled, merited that his descendants sat in the Chamber of Hewn Stone. "And go up out of the land" (Exodus 1:10). It should have said "and we will go up." He was like a man who curses himself yet hangs his curse upon others.

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