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Three Accusers and One Defense from Song of Songs

Angels demand the Torah at once. Nations sneer at freed slaves. Then a third voice asks whether Israel was ever worth the trouble at all.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Angels Who Could Not Wait
  2. What the Nations Said
  3. The Accusation Behind Both
  4. The Defense Brief

The Angels Who Could Not Wait

The Israelites had just crossed the sea. They were standing on the far bank, wet and alive, and the ministering angels were already at the throne arguing about the Torah. "Give it to them now," the angels said. "They have earned it. They walked through a divided sea."

God told them a story instead of arguing.

Picture a prince who has just survived a long and brutal illness, the kind that strips a child down to bone and shadow over months. He is standing upright again. He can walk the length of a room without help. His father, the king, summons him to the throne room and the royal tutor shows up at the gate the same afternoon. "Send him to the academy immediately," the tutor says. "He is recovered. There is no time to waste."

The king looks at the tutor the way a father looks at someone who has never sat beside a sick child in the dark. "My son has not gotten his color back yet," the king says. "Three months of food and sunlight and being held. Then we discuss Torah."

The tradition reading Song of Songs heard that story in the line: I am asleep, but my heart is awake. The people on the far bank of the sea were standing, but they were not ready. The Beloved would not rush the convalescence.

What the Nations Said

The nations had a different objection. Not impatience but contempt. "These are slaves," they said, "people whose own bodies were not their own for four hundred years. They built Pharaoh's cities. They bowed before his magicians. What does a people like this do with a Torah?"

The Song of Songs gave the tradition its answer in the line about the tents of Kedar. I am black but comely, the bride says, like the tents of Kedar. Kedar was a desert tribe whose tents were famous for being filthy, sun-scorched goat hair blackened by smoke and years of use, the visual equivalent of poverty.

But the rabbis asked what was inside those tents. Not the outside. They imagined the interior: gems, fine cloth, objects of value piled in the corners that no traveler riding past would ever suspect. The scholar in the threadbare coat. The people who look like nothing carrying the thing that will outlast every empire that despised them.

The Accusation Behind Both

The third challenge was quieter and harder to answer. Not impatience and not contempt. Something more intimate: the suspicion that Israel was simply too damaged to receive what God kept offering. The angels who wanted to rush and the nations who sneered were both visible enemies. This third voice was Israel's own doubt about itself, projected outward and given teeth.

The tradition's answer to this one ran through Reuben, the eldest son who tried to save Joseph from the pit and failed, and through the verse in Song of Songs about the bride whose eyes revealed her entire character. The rabbis read the eyes as what you are when you are being looked at honestly, not when you are performing virtue. Reuben at the pit was a man who meant well and arrived too late and spent years trying to repair what he could not undo. Israel in Egypt was a people who had survived without most of what religion required and still preserved something the nations had never quite managed: the capacity to recognize a word addressed to them and turn toward it.

The Defense Brief

The three accusers got three different answers because they were asking three different questions. The angels wanted to know about timing. The nations wanted to know about worthiness by their own standards. The third voice wanted to know about inner condition. The tradition reading Song of Songs as a defense brief found a different verdict for each charge and the same defendant underneath all three: a people who had been sick and were getting up, who looked like Kedar's tents from the outside and carried something different inside, and who were being asked whether they wanted to receive the Torah before anyone checked their qualifications.

They said yes.


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He paints a picture in Shir HaShirim Rabbah, the commentary on Song of Songs, that really resonated with me.

A prince, see? He's been dreadfully ill. Finally, he recovers. The prince's caretaker, eager for the boy's education, immediately suggests, "Send him straight to the academy!" But the king, wise and compassionate, says, "Hold on. My son hasn't fully regained his strength, his radiance. The illness has taken its toll. Let him be pampered for three months, with good food and drink, and then he'll be ready for his studies."

That's how it was with the Israelites, according to Rabbi Shimon. Fresh from generations of brutal slavery in Egypt, they were physically and spiritually exhausted. Marked, he says, "from subjugation with mortar and bricks." The ministering angels, ever zealous, cried out to God, "Now is the time! Give them the Torah!"

God, in His infinite wisdom and compassion, responded, "My children haven't yet regained their radiance after the mortar and bricks. Let them be pampered for three months, with the spring water, manna (that miraculous food from heaven), and quail. And then I will give them the Torah.” They needed time to heal. Time to adjust to freedom. Time to rebuild their spirits. They needed to experience God's provision and care before they could truly be ready to receive the immense responsibility and privilege of the Torah.

And when did this happen? As we read in (Exodus 19:1), "In the third month."

It’s a powerful reminder, isn’t it? Sometimes, before we can take on new challenges, new responsibilities, or even new spiritual heights, we need time to heal, to be nurtured, to rediscover our own radiance. Sometimes, the most important preparation is simply allowing ourselves to be pampered, in whatever way that looks like for you. To let ourselves be filled with the metaphorical manna and quail that nourishes our souls. What "manna and quail" do you need today?

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Shir HaShirim Rabbah turns to Reuben and Creation of Egypt.

The rabbis of the Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) see in this verse a powerful statement about the people of Israel, particularly during their enslavement in Egypt. The core idea? Maintaining their moral integrity was key to their eventual freedom.

Rabbi Yehuda ben Rabbi Simon, in the name of Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi, tells a story about a king with two daughters whose reputations are questioned. To prove their innocence, each daughter produces her husband's seal and signet, symbols of their fidelity. The king then vindicates them. This is an allegory for how God defends Israel against accusations of immorality from the nations of the world. The nations taunted Israel, saying that if the Egyptians enslaved them, surely they must have also taken advantage of the Israelite women. But God proclaims, "My sister, My bride, a locked garden!" Implying that the women of Israel remained faithful to their husbands, even in the face of oppression.

Rabbi Pinḥas adds that God even instructed the angel in charge of pregnancy to ensure the children born in Egypt resembled their fathers, further proving their lineage and faithfulness. "The families of the Reubenites [haReuveni]" (Numbers 26:7), for example, looked just like Reuben himself!

But why this emphasis on sexual morality? Rabbi Huna, in the name of bar Kappara, states that Israel was redeemed from Egypt because of four things: they didn't change their names, their language, they didn't speak slander, and they weren't steeped in licentiousness. They remained true to themselves and to their covenant with God. Even the Hebrew language was preserved, as we see in (Genesis 14:13): "The survivor came and told Abram the Hebrew" and (Exodus 5:3): "The God of the Hebrews has called upon us."

The Midrash acknowledges one exception: the son of an Israelite woman and an Egyptian man (Leviticus 24:10-11). This is not to condemn, but to highlight the rarity of such occurrences. Rabbi Abba bar Kahana says that the merit of Sarah and Joseph, who both resisted temptation in Egypt, protected all the Israelite women and men, respectively.

Rabbi Pinḥas, in the name of Rabbi Ḥiyya, goes even further, suggesting that this commitment to sexual morality alone would have been enough to merit redemption. "A locked garden is my sister, my bride," followed by, "Your branches [shelaḥayikh] are an orchard of pomegranates" – a clever wordplay linking their virtue to their being "sent [lehishalaḥ]" from Egypt.

Rabbi Shimon ben Yoḥai illustrates this with a parable: Imagine someone inheriting land that looks like a garbage dump. Lazy, they sell it for next to nothing. But the buyer digs, finds treasure, and builds a palace! The original owner, seeing this, is filled with regret. Similarly, the Egyptians, who saw the Israelites as enslaved and contemptible, mourned when they witnessed their triumphant departure from Egypt, realizing what they had lost.

Other rabbis offer similar parables: a field sold cheaply that becomes a source of springs and gardens, or chopped-down cedars transformed into beautiful furniture. In each case, the seller regrets not seeing the potential value.

So, what's the takeaway? This passage isn't just about sex. It's about the power of maintaining our integrity, our values, even when faced with immense challenges. It's about recognizing the inherent worth within ourselves and our community, even when others don't. It’s a reminder that sometimes, the most powerful act of resistance is simply staying true to who we are. And that, my friends, is a powerful thought to carry with us.

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Take a single line from Shir HaShirim Rabbah (Song of Songs Rabbah), a beautiful and intricate exploration of the Song of Songs. just a few verses and see the tradition of ideas woven within.

The verse starts, "Behind [mibaad] your braid." Immediately, we're drawn into an intimate space. Rabbi Levi offers a fascinating, if somewhat startling, observation: "Any bride whose eyes are ugly, her entire body requires examination. One whose eyes are beautiful, her entire body does not require examination." What's he getting at? Perhaps the eyes, as windows to the soul, reflect an inner beauty that either radiates outward or demands closer scrutiny.

He continues, "When a woman braids her hair behind her, it is an ornament for her." There’s a sense of hidden beauty, something perhaps not immediately obvious, yet deeply valued. This idea extends beyond the individual. Rabbi Levi compares it to the Great Sanhedrin, the ancient Jewish high court, which convened behind the Temple. This location, seemingly less prominent, was actually “an ornament of the Temple.” Rabbi Abbahu adds that though the Sanhedrin appeared crowded, "it was spacious for them, as in the great colloquium in Tzippori." A place of intense intellectual activity that was both physically crowded and yet allowed space for expansive thought.

Then, Rabbi Levi throws us a curveball, saying that the word mibaad is "Arabic." He explains that when someone wants to say, "Make room for me," they say, "Maved li." It's a reminder that languages borrow from each other, and that even in sacred texts, we can find echoes of other cultures.

Now, let's move on to the next phrase: "Your hair is like a flock of goats that streams down [shegaleshu] from Mount Gilad." What an image! This isn't just about physical beauty; it's about movement, abundance, and a connection to a specific place. But the Rabbis don't stop at the surface. They delve deeper into the word shegaleshu.

Rabbi Levi connects Mount Gilad to the splitting of the Red Sea. He says it's "the mountain from whose midst I directed away streams [shegalashti], I rendered a memorial [galed] for the nations of the world." He’s drawing a parallel between the flowing hair and the parting waters, linking personal beauty to a pivotal moment in Jewish history. This highlights the idea of galut, exile, but also geulah, redemption.

Rabbi Yehoshua of Sikhnin, in Rabbi Levi’s name, adds another layer: "When a woman’s hair grows too much, she thins it [galshin]. When the flame in a lamp burns too bright, one thins [the wick]." The root gimmel-lamed-shin, he explains, means to "thin out or strip away." It's a reminder that sometimes, less is more. That even in abundance, there's a need for refinement and balance. What did God take away [higlashti]?

The text continues, "Your teeth are like a flock of ordered [ketzuvot] ewes." Again, a striking image, but what does it mean? The Rabbis interpret ketzuvot as "defined [ketzuvin] matters, the plunder of Egypt and the plunder of the sea." The teeth, orderly and strong, represent the spoils of liberation, the tangible benefits of freedom.

"That have come up from bathing," the verse continues. Rabbi Abba bar Kahana, citing Rabbi Yehuda ben Rabbi Ilai, points to the Book of Judges. Before Deborah's song, the Israelites "continued to do what was evil in the eyes of the Lord." After the song, they "did what was evil," but the word "continued" is missing. Why? Because, Rabbi Abba bar Kahana explains, "the song had already atoned for the past." Just like bathing cleanses the body, the song cleansed the soul. The verse suggests that music, poetry, and art have the power to purify and renew. Similarly, the song of David atoned for the past.

Finally, "That are all paired [matimot]" – "as they are all in the middle [metuamim] between the Divine Spirit and the angel." There's a sense of harmony, a perfect balance between the earthly and the divine. "The angel of God, who went before the camp of Israel, moved [and went behind them]" (Exodus 14:19). They are all "paired" and "in the middle" such that the Divine Spirit and the angel are balanced.

And the final thought: "And there is none missing among them" – "that not one of them was harmed." A sense of wholeness, completeness, and protection.

So, what do we take away from this brief exploration of Shir HaShirim Rabbah? It's a reminder that even the smallest details can hold profound meaning. That beauty is not just skin deep, but reflects inner qualities and historical connections. And that through careful interpretation and thoughtful reflection, we can uncover layers of wisdom that enrich our understanding of ourselves, our history, and our relationship with the Divine.

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