We pick up with Jacob, now 99 years old, receiving a divine instruction. "Arise, go to Bethel," God tells him, "and remain there, and make there an altar to the Lord who appeareth unto thee." So Jacob, his sons, and all their belongings journey to Bethel, which the text also identifies as Luz. There, he builds an altar, fulfilling God’s command. They stay for six months.
But even in this sacred space, life keeps happening. We’re told of the death of Deborah, Rebecca’s nurse, who had been with Jacob. She's buried beneath an oak tree near Bethel.
And then, a heavy blow: Rebecca, Jacob’s mother, dies in Hebron at the age of 133. The Book of Jasher emphasizes Jacob's profound grief. He weeps bitterly, mourning not only his mother but also Deborah. He names the place Allon-bachuth, meaning "oak of weeping."
If that wasn't enough, Laban, the tricky uncle, also dies around this time. The text states that God smote him for violating the covenant he made with Jacob. A reminder that actions have consequences, even for family.
Amidst all this loss, there's a glimmer of hope. At 100 years old, God appears to Jacob again, blesses him, and reaffirms his name as Israel. And Rachel, Jacob’s beloved wife, conceives.
The family then journeys from Bethel toward Hebron, to Jacob's father's house. But tragedy strikes again. As they approach Ephrath, Rachel goes into a difficult labor and dies giving birth to her son. Jacob buries her on the road to Ephrath, which is Bethlehem, marking her grave with a pillar that, according to the text, stands to this day. She was only 45 years old. Jacob names the son born of this sorrow Benjamin, which the text explains as meaning "born to him in the land on the right hand."
After Rachel's death, Jacob moves his tent into that of Bilhah, Rachel's handmaid. This act sparks jealousy in Reuben, Jacob's eldest son, who is fiercely protective of his mother Leah. In his anger, Reuben removes his father's bed from Bilhah's tent.
Now, this act has significant consequences. According to the Book of Jasher, Reuben's actions lead to the removal of the birthright, the kingly office, and the priesthood from his lineage. The birthright goes to Joseph, the kingship to Judah, and the priesthood to Levi. All because Reuben "defiled his father's bed."
The text then lists the sons of Jacob, reminding us of the twelve tribes of Israel. It names the sons of Leah, Rachel, Zilpah, and Bilhah, solidifying the family's lineage.
Jacob and his family eventually arrive in Mamre, near Hebron, where Abraham and Isaac had lived. They settle there with Jacob's father, Isaac. Meanwhile, Esau and his descendants move to the land of Seir, where they prosper.
The chapter concludes with a genealogy of Esau's descendants and the families of Seir the Horite, the original inhabitants of the land. There’s even a strange tale about Anah, son of Zibeon, who, while tending his father’s asses, encounters bizarre creatures emerging from the sea – beings that are human from the waist down but have the upper bodies of bears and other fearsome animals. These creatures ride the asses away, never to be seen again. It's a curious, almost surreal, interlude.
It also notes that Timna, the sister of Lotan, desired to marry into Jacob's family, but was rejected. She then became a concubine to Eliphaz, Esau's son, and bore him Amalek - a name that would later become synonymous with Israel's enemies.
So, what do we take away from this chapter? It's a potent reminder that life is a tapestry woven with threads of joy and sorrow, blessings and challenges. It shows us how families are built, how lineages are forged, and how even in the midst of loss, life goes on. The story of Jacob, Rachel, and their sons is a story of resilience, faith, and the enduring power of family, even when faced with unimaginable hardship. And perhaps, a little bit of the bizarre too.