We're looking at section 75, which deals with the moment Jacob prepares to meet his brother Esau after years of estrangement.
Jacob, remember, is about to face his brother Esau, from whom he'd essentially stolen a birthright and a blessing. Talk about awkward! So, what does Jacob do? He sends messengers ahead. But why?
It wasn't just to announce his arrival. According to Bereshit Rabbah, Jacob was hoping, praying, that Esau might have repented. He wanted to offer Esau a way out, a path to reconciliation before they even met face-to-face. He instructs his messengers to say, "Don't think Jacob is the same impoverished man who left his father's house with only a staff. Tell him, 'I have become two camps!'" (Genesis 32:11). In other words, "I’ve earned everything I have through hard work."
But there’s also a subtle, almost heartbreaking, element of appeasement. Jacob calls Esau "my lord" multiple times. And, as the text points out, this act of humility doesn't go unnoticed.
The Holy One, blessed be He, says to Jacob, "You abased yourself and called him ‘my lord’ eight times. As you live, I will establish eight kings from his descendants before your descendants." The passage then references, "These are the kings who reigned in the land of Edom, before the reign of a king for the children of Israel" (Genesis 36:31). In other words, Jacob's deference to Esau will have long-lasting political ramifications. This is a pretty powerful statement about the consequences of our choices, isn't it?
Jacob, though, wasn't just extending an olive branch, he was also prepared for the worst. He tells his messengers, "If you are prepared for peace, I am with you, and if for war, I am with you." He even boasts, "I have warriors, courageous and strong, who say something before the Holy One blessed be He, and He performs their will on their behalf."
It’s a fascinating blend of diplomacy and, well, divine intimidation. Jacob is essentially saying, "I'm ready for anything, and I have God on my side." Which leads the text to quote Psalm 145:19, "He performs the will of those who fear him."
This situation reminded David of his own trials while fleeing from Saul. As we find in the text, David says, "For behold, the wicked bend the bow" (Psalms 11:2).
And then comes a truly profound question: “If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous man do?” (Psalms 11:3). David is asking, if Jacob, the very foundation of the world, is forsaken, what hope is there for anyone? The text equates Jacob with "the righteous man is the foundation of the world" from Proverbs 10:25.
The passage concludes with the powerful declaration: “Some on chariots and some on horses, but we invoke the name of the Lord our God” (Psalms 20:8). Even when facing overwhelming odds, the Psalmist trusts in God.
So, what can we take away from this? It seems to me that this passage from Bereshit Rabbah is about more than just a tense family reunion. It's about the delicate balance between humility and strength, between seeking peace and preparing for war, and, ultimately, about trusting in something larger than ourselves, even when the foundations seem to be crumbling. It's a reminder that even in the face of daunting challenges, faith, preparation, and a little bit of preemptive diplomacy can go a long way.