Family

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Myths, legends, and mystical writings about Family from across Jewish tradition.

Rabbi Benaah Solved the Ten Brothers Inheritance Case

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A man in the Talmud (Bava Batra 58a) once overheard his wife whispering to their daughter. Of their ten sons, she admitted, only one was truly his. She would not say which. The fat...

The Clever Son Who Claimed His Father's Estate at Dinner

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A Jewish merchant died abroad, far from his family, in the house of a stranger. Years later, his grown son traveled to find the merchant's hidden property — but the man who had inh...

The Child Who Read the Hebrew Bible to the Roman Emperor

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A Jewish child, still young enough to be sitting with a melamed, had just finished memorizing a portion of the book of Bereshit (Genesis) when the soldiers came. He was captured an...

The Man Who Kept His Vow and Found His Family Again

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A ma'aseh preserved in the Gaster manuscripts, and recorded as exemplum no. 308 in Moses Gaster's 1924 The Exempla of the Rabbis, tells of a man who made a single vow early in his ...

The Boy Who Learned the Speech of Birds and Became King

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A pious couple in the Gaster manuscripts had been childless for many years. The husband, desperate, went to the cemetery and prayed at the tombs of the righteous through a long nig...

The One Son Who Refused to Beat His Father's Corpse

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A man lay dying. He had ten sons. His wife, in a bitter moment late in the marriage, had once told him that only one of the ten was biologically his. The other nine were fathered b...

The Saul Who Saved a Suicide and Inherited a Crown

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A rich man, old and childless, prayed for years for a son. In his advanced age God granted him one. He named the boy Saul, after the first king of Israel, and lavished everything o...

The Fisherman's Three Sons and the Sorceress's Palace

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A poor fisherman cast his net and pulled up a great fish. As he lifted it from the water, the fish spoke. Cut me open, it said. Gather my blood in three bottles. Keep them safely. ...

Solomon, Ashmedai, and the Man With Two Heads

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Ashmedai, king of the demons, wanted to humiliate Solomon, whose wisdom was famous in every kingdom. So Ashmedai brought up from the netherworld a man with two heads, a living curi...

The Poor Nephew Who Married His Cousin on Her Wedding Day

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Gaster's Exempla (1924), No. 330, tells a folktale of two brothers. One was rich. The other was poor and had many children. The rich brother took one of the poor brother's sons — a...

The Oath He Would Not Take and the Treasure He Was Given

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A rich man lay dying, and he called his son to the bedside. He made him swear one oath — "Never take an oath yourself. Not in court, not in dispute, not for any price." The son agr...

The Wife Who Cooked the Opposite of What He Asked

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Rav — one of the founding figures of the Babylonian Talmud, third century CE — had a difficult wife. Whenever he asked her to cook a particular dish, she would prepare its opposite...

Rabbi Shimon Turns a Divorce Feast Into a Second Wedding

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A man of Sidon came to Rabbi Shimon ben Yochai to arrange a divorce. He had lived many years with his wife and no children had been born to them. In the Jewish world of the time, c...

Why Abraham Told Ishmael to Change the Threshold

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After Abraham had sent his son Ishmael away to live with his mother Hagar, Ishmael settled in the wilderness and married a Moabite wife. Years passed. Abraham wanted to see how his...

The Children Who Fell in the Well on a Sabbath and Lived

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A group of children in a Jewish village were playing on Shabbat. As the sun rose higher over the day of rest, they wandered too close to the edge of an old well and fell in. The we...

The Three Daughters and the Tongue That Killed

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A man had three daughters, and each carried a flaw. The first was a thief who could not keep her hand from what was not hers. The second was lazy and refused the work a household r...

Two Sons and the Father at the Millstone

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The sages liked to place two sons side by side to show how kibbud av, honor of a father, can be faked and how it can be real. The first son fed his father lavishly. He set out rich...

The Mantle Cut in Half and the Grandson Who Shamed a Son

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A wealthy man had an only son and trusted him completely. In his later years he signed over the entire estate to the son's name, keeping nothing for himself except the promise of h...

Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai Translates a Curse Into a Blessing

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Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, the second-century sage to whom tradition attributes the core of the Zohar, once sent his son to the study house so that the scholars might bless him. What...

The Blood That Boiled as Long as the Brothers Lived

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Gaster preserves, as exemplum No. 194, a tiny, terrible story — almost a folk horror — about a mother whose son was murdered by his own brothers. She gathered the blood of her son ...

The Son Who Won His Inheritance With a Cartload of Wood

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Gaster's exemplum No. 303 preserves a Jewish folktale about a father's last clever gift to his son. A wealthy Jewish merchant lay dying in a distant city far from home. He drew up ...

How Rabbi Akiva's Daughter Escaped Her Wedding Day Death

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It was prophesied to Rabbi Akiva that his beloved daughter would die on the day of her wedding. Akiva was a student of signs and omens; he believed the prediction. But he also beli...

The Bread Upon the Waters and the King of the Fish

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Gaster's exemplum No. 381 preserves a cascading folktale from the Midrash Aseret HaDibrot, the Midrash on the Ten Commandments, all arranged around the commandment to honor one's f...

The Merchant Whose Slave Held the Key to His Inheritance

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Gaster's exemplum No. 399, drawn from the Ben Attar collection of medieval Jewish exempla, preserves a courtroom puzzle about a cunning father's last will. A wealthy Jewish merchan...

The Younger Brother Who Became King by Obeying His Father

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Two brothers hated each other. Their father, growing old, asked each of them privately why. The elder said he did not know the reason — only that the hatred was so deep he would gl...

Children Who Buried Their Drunk Father in a Cemetery

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A father drank too much. His children, embarrassed, tried an extreme intervention. They refused to give him wine. They cut off the household supply. And when he kept finding it any...

The Son Who Laughed Because a Raven Told the Future

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A rich man had one son. When the son turned eighteen, he begged his father for permission to travel to a famous academy. The father let him go, and three times over three years the...

The Traveler Who Almost Killed His Wife and His Son

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A merchant left his young wife at the start of a long trading voyage. She was pregnant at his departure, though he did not know it. He was gone many years — so many that the infant...

The Father Who Left His Youngest Son Ten Friends

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A rich man once swore an oath before his sons that when he died he would leave each of them one hundred dinars. He had ten sons, so the promise totaled one thousand dinars. Then hi...

Dama ben Netina Would Not Sit in His Father's Chair

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The Talmud returns often to a gentile from Ashkelon named Dama ben Netina, whom the sages held up as the gold standard of the commandment to honor father and mother. They told his ...