Parshat Vayishlach4 min read

Simeon Carried Dinah's Shame Out of Shechem

Her brothers killed every man in the city and pulled her out of the house. Then Dinah asked the question none of them had thought about.

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Table of Contents
  1. The Third Day in the City
  2. They Pulled Her Out of the House
  3. Where Will I Carry My Shame
  4. Simeon Said He Would Take Her
  5. The Name in the Register
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The Third Day in the City

They came in on the third day, when the swelling was worst and no man in Shechem could stand up straight. Simeon and Levi, two of Leah's sons, went house to house with their swords out and killed every male in the place.

Robbers work like that. They sit beside the road, they take the man, they take what he is carrying. And there is another kind of gathering that looks the same from a distance: priests coming together at the threshing floor at harvest, each one arriving to collect what is owed him. The brothers came into Shechem to collect.

Their father met them afterward with his hands shaking and asked what they had done to him, and what the country would do to his household now.

"Should he have made our sister a harlot?" they said. That was the whole answer they gave him.

They Pulled Her Out of the House

Dinah had gone out to see the women of the land. Shechem son of Hamor had seen her and taken her and kept her, and then sent his father to negotiate for her as though she were a field with a price on it.

Now her brothers were dragging her out through a street full of bodies. She did not walk out. She was pulled, and she came slowly, and getting her loose from that house took more out of them than the killing had.

They set her on her feet outside the gate in the daylight, alive, and stood around her not knowing what to do next.

Where Will I Carry My Shame

Every mouth in the story had been busy. Hamor had made an offer. Shechem had made an offer. Their father had bargained and then wept. The brothers had said their sentence about the harlot and said it again.

Dinah spoke once.

"And I," she said, "where will I carry my shame?"

Nobody answered her. There was no house in Canaan that would take her now, and she knew the arithmetic better than the men standing around her did. A woman who has been kept in a Hivite's house for those days goes home to her father's tents and stays there, and the tents are a small country, and she would grow old inside them being pointed at.

Simeon Said He Would Take Her

Simeon, who had done the killing with Levi and had a sword on him still, said he would take her himself.

He meant marry her. He meant she would come into his own tent as his wife, with a household and a place at the fire, and the pointing would stop because there would be nothing left to point at. It was not love and nobody pretended it was. It was a brother closing the only door that was standing open, and doing it in front of witnesses so that it could not be walked back.

She went with him.

The Name in the Register

Years later, when the sons of Israel are counted going down into Egypt, the list of Simeon's sons runs through five names and then stops on the sixth and adds a note nobody asked for. Shaul, son of the Canaanite woman.

There was no Canaanite wife in Simeon's tent. There was a sister who had been kept in the house of a Hivite, and the Hivites were counted among the peoples of Canaan, and the man who wrote the register knew whose son he was writing down.

Some tell it the other way. Simeon took her, and what he did with her was carry her body into the land of Canaan and put her in the ground there, and the note in the register is all the marker she got.

Either way she leaves the story the way she asked to leave it, holding the question, going somewhere with it.

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Bereshit Rabbah 80:11Bereshit Rabbah

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah, 2022 · CC-BY

The ancient rabbis grappled with that very feeling when they looked at the story of Dina, Jacob’s daughter, in the Book of Genesis.

The Torah tells us that Dina went out to visit the women of the land and was then seized and violated by Shechem, son of Hamor the Hivite (Genesis 34). But the story doesn’t end there. It's what happens after that caught the eye of the rabbis in Bereshit Rabbah, the great rabbinic commentary on Genesis. They weren't just focused on the act itself, but on the long, messy aftermath.

“And [he] took Dina,” the Torah says. Rabbi Yudan sees something heartbreaking in those words. He pictures Dina being dragged away, the experience clinging to her, refusing to release its grip. He paints a picture of her brothers leaving with her in this state, in tow, still captive in many ways.

Rav Huna offers a rather blunt, but perhaps insightful, observation. He says, “One who engages in relations with an uncircumcised man, it is difficult to pull away." It’s a stark statement, and you can interpret it in a few ways. Was he speaking literally, about the physical act? Or was he using it as a metaphor for the spiritual and emotional entanglement that can happen in relationships, especially those that cross cultural or religious boundaries?

Then, Rav Huna adds a poignant detail. He imagines Dina crying out, “But I, where will I carry my shame?” It's a raw, vulnerable question echoed in other parts of the Bible (II (Samuel 13:1)3). Where does one put such a profound sense of violation? How does one move forward, carrying such a burden?

the verse says in Bereshit Rabbah, Simeon steps forward and vows to take her, meaning to marry her. But the story takes another dark turn. We read in (Genesis 46:10) about “Shaul, son of the Canaanite woman,” among Simeon’s descendants. The rabbis saw in this a connection. They suggest that Shaul was actually the son of Dina, conceived during her encounter with Shechem.

Rabbi Yehuda offers one interpretation: that Shechem performed deeds like the Canaanites, deeds of harlotry. Rabbi Nehemya suggests that Dina actually engaged with a Hivite, a group included within the broader category of Canaanites.

But then the Rabbis offer a different, almost unsettling, ending. They say that Simeon ultimately took Dina and buried her in the land of Canaan. Buried her? This raises so many questions. Did he marry her and she died? Or…did something more tragic occur? The text leaves it chillingly ambiguous.

These rabbis, wrestling with the implications of Dina's story, weren't just interested in the plot points. They were searching for meaning, for understanding the complexities of trauma, shame, and the lasting impact of a single, devastating act. They saw it not just as a historical event, but as a reflection of the human condition.

So, what do we take away from this? Maybe it’s a reminder that the consequences of violence ripple outwards, touching not only the victim but also their family and community. Maybe it’s a call to acknowledge the lingering pain and shame that can haunt individuals and societies long after the initial event. And perhaps, most importantly, it’s a challenge to confront the uncomfortable, unresolved questions that these ancient stories continue to pose.

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Bereshit Rabbah 80:2Bereshit Rabbah

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah, 2022 · CC-BY

That’s a feeling that echoes through the story of Dinah in the Book of Genesis, and it explodes with dramatic force in the rabbinic interpretations.

Dinah, daughter of Leah, ventures out. It A young woman wanting to see the world. But according to Bereshit Rabbah, specifically section 80, that act sets off a chain of events that leaves us confronting questions of justice, revenge, and collective responsibility.

The verse from Hosea (6:9) that opens this section is stark: "Like troops of robbers waylay a man, a company of priests murders its way to Shekhem, for they have formulated a plot. The Rabbis of the Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) aren’t pulling any punches here. They're using this vivid comparison to paint a picture of what Simeon and Levi did in response to the rape of their sister, Dinah.

The text asks, is the comparison to "a company of priests" surprising? After all, priests are supposed to be holy. Shouldn’t they be paragons of virtue? The Midrash answers by pointing out that priests come together at the threshing floor to claim their due portion. Similarly, Simeon and Levi gathered in Shekhem to take what they believed was their due: vengeance. The Rabbis aren't necessarily condoning their actions. But they're trying to understand the mindset, the sense of righteous indignation that fueled such a violent response. Was it justified? The text implies that the brothers felt it was: “Murders its way to Shekhem” – it was proper for Simeon and Levi to have killed in Shekhem."

But why?

Because, as the brothers themselves exclaimed, "Shall he render our sister a harlot?” In other words, “Are we going to stand by and let our family be treated with such disrespect?" It’s a question of honor, of maintaining their dignity in the face of a terrible transgression.

And then comes the kicker. The Midrash lays the blame, at least in part, at Dinah’s feet: "Who caused it? 'Dinah, daughter of Leah…went out.'"

Ouch.

Now, before we jump to conclusions, let's remember this isn't about victim-blaming. It's about exploring the complexities of cause and effect. The Rabbis are asking us to consider how even seemingly small choices can have enormous repercussions. This idea of personal responsibility rippling outwards is something that resonates deeply within Jewish thought.

The Rabbis aren't letting Simeon and Levi off the hook for their violent actions, nor are they completely excusing Shekhem's crime. Instead, they're creating a multi-layered narrative, forcing us to confront uncomfortable truths about human nature and the cyclical nature of violence. It's a story that continues to challenge us, thousands of years later, to examine our own actions and their potential consequences.

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