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Doeg's Tongue Killed Three People With One Short Speech

Doeg the Edomite told King Saul nothing but true things about the priest at Nob. Eighty five priests died for it, and so did Saul, and so did Doeg.

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Table of Contents
  1. What He Said and What He Left Out
  2. The Runners Would Not Raise Their Hands
  3. Three Died, Not One
  4. Even Gehinnom Said It Could Not
  5. The Same Mouth, and a Fig

Doeg the Edomite was standing in the sanctuary at Nob the day David came through it, detained there before the Lord on some business of his own, and he watched everything.

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He watched David arrive alone and out of breath and tell Ahimelech the priest that the king had sent him on an urgent errand and that his men were waiting nearby. He watched Ahimelech look at the man's empty hands, ask whether the young men had kept themselves clean, and hand over the holy bread off the table because there was no ordinary bread in the house. He watched David ask if there was a sword anywhere, and heard Ahimelech say there was one, the Philistine's, wrapped in a cloth behind the ephod, and heard David say there is none like it, give it to me.

Every fact in that room was a fact. What Doeg did not see, because it was not visible, was that the priest had no idea he was feeding a fugitive.

What He Said and What He Left Out

King Saul was sitting under the tamarisk on the hill at Gibeah with his spear in his hand and his officers standing around him, and he was in the mood where a king starts counting who has not spoken to him lately. Nobody tells me anything, he said. My own son makes a covenant with him and nobody tells me. Not one of you is sorry for me.

Doeg was standing with the servants. He spoke up.

He said he had seen the son of Jesse come to Nob, to Ahimelech son of Ahitub. He said the priest had inquired of God for him, and given him supplies, and given him the sword of Goliath the Philistine.

It was a short speech, three sentences, all of them accurate. He left out the bread on the table and the empty hands and the story about the king's urgent errand. He put down the facts like evidence on a table and let the shape they made do the accusing, and Saul, who had come to that hill already looking for a conspiracy, found one.

The Runners Would Not Raise Their Hands

Saul sent for Ahimelech and for the whole priestly house of his father, and they came, all of them, eighty five men.

Ahimelech did not understand the question. Who in all your service, he said, is as faithful as David, the king's son in law, the captain of your bodyguard, honored in your own house? Did I begin inquiring of God for him that day? Far be it from me. Let the king not lay anything against his servant, because your servant knew nothing of this, small or great.

Saul told him he would die, and his father's house with him.

Then the king turned to the runners standing on either side of him and told them to go and kill the priests of the Lord, because their hand was with David and they knew he was running and did not tell him.

The runners would not put out their hands. Not one of them moved. There were soldiers standing in front of a king holding a spear, and every one of them refused.

So Saul turned to Doeg and told him to do it, and Doeg turned and did it, and killed eighty five men who wore the linen ephod, and then went to the town of Nob and killed the men, the women, the children, the infants, the oxen, the donkeys and the sheep. One son of Ahimelech got out. Abiathar ran until he found David's camp, and David heard what had happened and said, I have brought about the death of every person in your father's house.

Three Died, Not One

Murder kills one. Evil speech kills three: the one who says it, the one it is said about, and the one who listens.

The one it was said about was Ahimelech, killed for handing bread to a guest. The one who listened was Saul, who died on Gilboa with the Philistines closing in and was buried under the verdict that he had been unfaithful to God. The one who said it was Doeg, uprooted out of the land of the living, torn out of his tent, and the whole point of the psalm written against him is that his mouth was the weapon and his mouth was the wound.

Slander is heavier than idolatry, heavier than forbidden union, heavier than bloodshed. Each of those three is called a great sin in the Torah. Only the tongue is credited with great things, plural, because it can reach into rooms the speaker will never walk into and cut people the speaker will never see.

Even Gehinnom Said It Could Not

There are men who deny the whole category. With our tongue we will prevail, they say. Our lips are our own. Who is master over us?

The Holy One calls out over them: who will rise up for Me against the wicked? And the answer does not come. Even Gehinnom, asked to take them, says out loud that it is not able. The fires that were built for exactly this are not built big enough for this.

I am above and you are below, God tells it, and takes the work back Himself.

The Same Mouth, and a Fig

The cure is not silence. Silence is only the first half.

Take a fig out of a basket and eat it and say nothing, and death was in the power of the tongue. Take the same fig, say the blessing over it, eat it, and life was. Nothing about the fig changed. Nothing about the hand changed.

The mouth that emptied Nob and the mouth that blesses a piece of fruit are the same organ, and the tradition keeps them side by side on purpose. God gave splendor to Moses, and majesty to Joshua, and royal glory to Solomon, and holds both in reserve for the King Messiah, and gives them out besides to anyone at all who wears himself out on the Torah. The only work God is on record as having done with His own hand is a set of writing cut into stone.


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Midrash Tehillim 52:2Midrash Tehillim

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.Rabbi Mike Feuer, Jerusalem Anthology · CC-BY

Midrash Tehillim turns to The Tongue Can Kill Even From a Distance.

Midrash Tehillim, a collection of homiletic interpretations on the Book of Psalms, delves deeply into this very idea. It warns us against the arrogance of thinking we can just say whatever we want, simply because we have the "authority" to do so. (Psalm 34:14) gives us clear guidance: "Keep your tongue from evil." It sounds simple, but how often do we truly consider the impact of our words before they leave our lips?

If you think that holding back from harmful speech is no big deal, think again. The Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) reminds us that (Proverbs 21:23) holds a powerful truth: "He who guards his mouth and his tongue, guards his soul from troubles."

To truly restrain ourselves. To think before we speak. (Psalm 12:5) captures this struggle perfectly, with the words of those who defiantly proclaim, "With our tongue we will prevail; our lips are with us, who is master over us?" It's a chilling verse, highlighting the arrogance and potential danger of unchecked speech.

The Midrash then asks, who can stand against such individuals in Gehenna (hell)? Even Gehenna itself, feels overwhelmed. It's a vivid image, painting a picture of the destructive force of unrestrained negative speech. God's response, "I am above and you are below," (Psalm 120:4) implies that only divine intervention can truly combat this destructive force.

So, what's the solution? How do we avoid the pitfalls of the unchecked tongue? The Almighty tells Israel, "If you want to be saved from Gehenna, distance yourselves from evil speech, and you will merit the World to Come," echoing (Psalm 34:13), "Who is the man who desires life?"

The Midrash illustrates this with a story about a peddler traveling through the towns of Tzefuria, and expands with a practical example: the simple act of eating figs. If you eat without a blessing, it is death in the power of the tongue; if you eat and bless, it is life in the power of the tongue. Everything comes back to the power of our words.

The Midrash connects the power of speech to the Torah itself. If one merits the Torah, one merits life, because the Torah is called the Tree of Life (Proverbs 3:18). And the Torah becomes a remedy for the tongue, a soothing balm, as (Proverbs 15:4) states: "A soothing tongue is a tree of life."

Therefore, the Midrash concludes, speaking negatively about others is not just a minor offense – it endangers lives! It then makes a startling comparison. Get this: speaking negatively is considered a sin even greater than idol worship, sexual immorality, and murder! While these three sins are described as "great," negative speech is described as "great transgressions." It's a powerful assertion, highlighting the immense damage that gossip and slander can inflict.

The text argues that while killing someone takes one life, speaking negatively can kill three: the speaker, the person spoken about, and the listener. It's a ripple effect of destruction.

To illustrate this, the Midrash tells the story of Doeg, who spoke negatively about Ahimelech before Saul. The consequences were devastating. Saul, Ahimelech, and Doeg all suffered as a result. Saul died for his unfaithfulness (1 (Chronicles 10:1)3), Ahimelech and his household were killed (1 (Samuel 22:1)6), and Doeg was driven from the world (Psalm 52:9). All because of negative speech!

The message is clear: our words have power. They have the power to build up or tear down, to heal or to harm, to bring life or to bring death. Let's strive to use our tongues wisely, to speak with kindness, compassion, and intention. Because ultimately, the quality of our lives, and the lives of those around us, depends on it.

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Midrash Tehillim 104:4Midrash Tehillim

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.Rabbi Mike Feuer, Jerusalem Anthology · CC-BY

The Midrash Tehillim, a collection of homiletic interpretations of the Book of Psalms, offers a fascinating perspective on these qualities, especially in relation to God, and how they trickle down to us.

It starts with a striking contrast: human strength and beauty are often mutually exclusive. Someone physically imposing might lack grace, while someone beautiful might lack inner fortitude. But the Kadosh Baruch Hu, The Holy One, Blessed be He, possesses both glory and splendor. He doesn’t just have one or the other. He is both, simultaneously.

It doesn't stop there. God shares these qualities. The Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) goes on to illustrate how God bestowed glory upon Moses. Remember when God tells Moses in (Numbers 27:20), "You shall invest him with some of your splendor”? And then splendor was given to Joshua, described in (Deuteronomy 33:17) as having "majesty.” And then there's Solomon, who, according to (1 (Chronicles 29:2)5), was made "exceedingly great…and bestowed upon him royal majesty.”

These weren't just random gifts; they were deliberate acts of divine empowerment.

But here's where it gets really interesting. The Midrash suggests that the bestowing of glory and splendor isn't limited to these monumental figures. God, it says, will give both glory and splendor to the King Messiah, as alluded to in (Psalm 21:4): "For You set on his head a crown of fine gold."

But it still doesn't end there! According to the Midrash Tehillim, it’s not just for the Messiah. Anyone who "toils in Torah" – anyone who dedicates themselves to studying and understanding God’s teachings – can also partake in this divine gift. What kind of "works" are being discussed? Well, the Midrash points to the Tablets of the Law themselves! (Exodus 32:16) tells us, "The tablets were the work of God, and the writing was the writing of God, engraved upon the tablets." These aren't just any works; they are the very embodiment of divine wisdom, and those who engage with them are promised a reward.

That reward? "Splendor and majesty are His work, and His righteousness endures forever," as (Psalm 111:3) says.

So, what's the takeaway? It’s more than just a nice story about God handing out prizes. It suggests that by engaging with Torah, by wrestling with its complexities and finding joy in its teachings, we, too, can be "clothed in glory and splendor." It's not about ego or outward show, but about reflecting the divine light within ourselves through righteous action and dedicated study.

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