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Kindness Followed Abraham South From the Ruins of Sodom

Abraham walks south after Sodom burns. Rebecca gets a doorstep blessing before she leaves home. A three-year-old tracks laws that have not been given yet.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. Abraham Walks Away From the Smoke
  2. A Blessing at the Door
  3. A Three-Year-Old Who Kept the Law
  4. Movement as the Classroom

Abraham Walks Away From the Smoke

The morning after Sodom burned, Abraham walked south. Genesis gives it in one short verse. He traveled from there to the region of the Negev. The Torah does not say why.

Rabbi Avun reached for a verse from Job. A mountain crumbles. A rock moves from its place. The mountain, he said, was Lot, who fell on a hillside after Sodom and never stood up right again. The rock was Abraham, who Isaiah tells the nation to look back toward when they need to remember where they were quarried from. When the mountain fell, the rock did not stay beside it. It moved.

Rabbi Yitzchak came at the same verse differently. Abraham was like a merchant selling perfume who moved town to town. The fragrance followed him. After Sodom there was no fragrance left in the northeast, and so Abraham traveled to where the earth still held kindness in it, to the south, to the wells, to the place where a man with his kind of business had customers.

A Blessing at the Door

Rebecca packed a bag and walked out of her father's house in Aram-Naharaim, and her family stood at the threshold and blessed her. May you be the mother of thousands of ten-thousands, and may your seed possess the gate of those who hate them. The rabbis stopped at the threshold. A person standing in a doorway is neither inside nor outside. The blessing was given in that gap. It had the quality of a parting gift, something that follows you rather than something you carry.

Bereshit Rabbah read the blessing as a transfer. Rebekah's family knew, at least in some dim way, that she was moving toward something larger than she could explain to them. The blessing was not permission. It was an acknowledgment that permission was no longer theirs to give. She was already in motion. They were already behind her.

A Three-Year-Old Who Kept the Law

The strangest of the three passages runs deepest. Abraham kept the entire Torah, the rabbis taught, before Sinai existed. He observed Shabbat. He performed the commandments. He understood things that would not be legislated for another four hundred years.

And the youngest version of Abraham, at three years old, was already keeping the laws of eruv, the rabbinic system of shared courtyard boundaries that allows carrying on Shabbat within defined spaces. He had not been taught these laws. He had not been given a scroll. He had been alive in a world that contained a hidden order, and he had felt the shape of it with his feet and his hands before anyone had drawn it on paper.

The rabbis found this teaching necessary because they needed to explain why Abraham's merit counted before the covenant existed. Their answer was that the covenant was always there. Abraham discovered it the way a surveyor discovers the shape of land that has always had that shape. He walked the courtyard boundary at three and understood that shared space has rules before any king announces them.

Movement as the Classroom

Read the three passages together and they build one picture. Abraham leaving Sodom because kindness had no purchase in burnt ground. Rebecca receiving a blessing precisely because she was already on her way out the door. A child pacing a courtyard and finding the edges of a law that would not be spoken aloud for centuries.

The rabbis of Bereshit Rabbah were not merely reading a patriarchal biography. They were reading a theology of movement. People in transit are people being shaped. The door, the road, the edge of the courtyard are where Jewish life gets made, not in the settled house but in the moment before the next place becomes home.


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Bereshit Rabbah 52:1Bereshit Rabbah

That feeling isn't new. Our ancestors knew it well. Take Abraham, for instance. The Torah tells us, "Abraham traveled from there to the region of the south; he lived between Kadesh and Shur, and he resided in Gerar" (Genesis 20:1). Simple enough. But what caused this journey? Why did Abraham uproot himself?

The Rabbis of the Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary), those ancient interpreters of scripture, never left a stone unturned. They saw layers of meaning beneath the surface of every word. In Bereshit Rabbah, a rich collection of rabbinic commentary on the Book of Genesis, Rabbi Avun uses a verse from Job to unlock the story. “Indeed, a falling mountain crumbles, and a rock moves away from its place” (Job 14:18).

Who are the mountain and the rock in this spiritual drama? According to Rabbi Avun, "Indeed, a falling mountain" – this is Lot, Abraham's nephew. Lot, who had his downfall on a mountain, a reference to the unfortunate incident involving him and his daughters after the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah. A pretty significant stumble, wouldn't you agree?

"a rock?" That's none other than Abraham himself. As Isaiah (51:1-2) says, look to the rock from which you were hewn, and to the quarry from which you were dug; look to Abraham your father… He’s the steadfast one, the foundation.

But what does it mean that the rock "moves away from its place?" Rabbi Avun explains that Abraham "vacated his place of abode.": Sodom, a hub of activity, had been destroyed. The constant flow of travelers to and from the area ceased. And what did Abraham, the embodiment of chesed (loving-kindness), do?

He realized that with the destruction of Sodom, the opportunity to perform acts of benevolence had diminished. "What, shall I allow the practice of benevolence to cease from my house?" he asked, according to the Midrash. The idea of his hospitality, his generosity, drying up? Unthinkable!

So, Abraham packed up and moved. He went and pitched a tent for himself in Gerar, seeking a new place to continue his mission of kindness. That, the Midrash tells us, is the deeper meaning behind the simple statement: "Abraham traveled from there."

Isn't it fascinating how a seemingly straightforward verse can reveal so much about character and purpose? Abraham's journey wasn't just a geographical relocation; it was a evidence of his unwavering commitment to chesed, even in the face of loss and destruction. It reminds us that even when our circumstances change, we can always find new ways to live our values and make a difference in the world. Where can we pitch our tents to continue our own work of kindness?

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Bereshit Rabbah turns to Rebecca's Family Blesses Her Before the Journey.

Sounds lovely. A heartfelt send-off?

Well, The Rabbis of the Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary), ever perceptive, suggest something far more complex. "They sent Rebecca…they blessed Rebecca" – the verse says. But the Midrash asks, were they truly happy for her? The Rabbis see a subtext of resentment, of being "downcast and despondent" at her departure. The blessing, they suggest, was only "with their mouths," not with their hearts. Ouch.

Why this suspicion? Perhaps Laban and his family, who weren't exactly paragons of virtue, were worried about losing a valuable member of their household. Or maybe they just didn't fully grasp the significance of Rebecca's destiny. Whatever the reason, the Rabbis sense a lack of genuine joy, a hollowness behind the words.

And this leads us to another question: why was Rebecca initially barren? (Genesis 25:21) tells us that Isaac had to pray for her to conceive. Rabbi Berekhya and Rabbi Levi, in the name of Rabbi Ḥama bar Ḥanina, offer a fascinating explanation: to prevent Laban and his kin from claiming credit! "It was so that the idolaters [Laban and his mother] should not say: ‘Our prayer bore fruit.’" Instead, "Isaac entreated the Lord on behalf of his wife." It's a powerful statement about the importance of kavanah, intention, in prayer and blessing. Whose merit would bring about this miracle? It had to be clear it was Isaac's.

Rabbi Berekhya, again in the name of Rabbi Levi, then connects this to (Job 29:13): “The blessing of the lost would come to me.” Here, "the lost [oved]" is interpreted as Laban the Aramean, drawing a connection to (Deuteronomy 26:5): "An Aramaean sought to destroy [oved] my father." The blessing, then, ultimately rests upon Rebecca.

The Midrash then unpacks the blessing itself: "Our sister, may you become thousands [alfei] and myriads [revava]." This, they say, was fulfilled through both Esau and Jacob. "Chieftains [alufim]" emerged from Esau, as we see in (Genesis 36:15) ("the chieftain of Teiman, the chieftain of Kenaz"), while "myriads [revava]" came from Jacob, echoing (Ezekiel 16:7): "I rendered you numerous [revava] like the plants of the field."

Some suggest that both "thousands" and "myriads" ultimately came from Israel, citing (Numbers 10:36): "When it rested, he said: Repose Lord, among the myriad [rivevot] thousands of [alfei] Israel." This interpretation emphasizes the ultimate unity and fulfillment of the blessing within the Israelite nation.

What does this all mean? It's a reminder that blessings, like any words, can be complicated. They can be tinged with envy, self-interest, or even a lack of understanding. But ultimately, the true power of a blessing lies in its sincerity, its intention, and its connection to something larger than ourselves. And sometimes, as in Rebecca's case, even a half-hearted blessing can be transformed into something truly extraordinary. So, the next time you offer a blessing, ask yourself: is it coming from the mouth, or from the heart?

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Did he just follow the big commandments, the obvious ones? Or was there something more?

(Genesis 26:5) tells us that Abraham "heeded My voice, and observed My commission, My commandments, My statutes, and My Torahs.” It sounds comprehensive. But the rabbis of the Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary), those incredible interpreters of our tradition, they wanted to unpack exactly what that meant.

That's where Bereshit Rabbah 64 comes in. It's a fascinating dive into the depths of Abraham's understanding.

The verse starts "Because [ekev] Abraham heeded My voice." Now, Rabbi Yoḥanan and Rabbi Ḥanina, both powerful voices of tradition, suggest that Abraham was forty-eight years old when he first acknowledged his Creator. But then Reish Lakish throws a curveball. He says Abraham was only three years old! How does he arrive at that conclusion?

Well, he uses a technique called gematria, assigning numerical values to Hebrew letters. The word ekev, spelled Ayin-Kof-Bet, adds up to 172. Abraham lived to 175, meaning, according to Reish Lakish, that he was already heeding God's voice for 172 years – starting at the tender age of three. It's an incredible image, isn't it? A three-year-old with the wisdom to recognize the Divine.

But the Midrash doesn't stop there. It explores the specifics of what Abraham knew and observed. That Abraham "observed My commission, My commandments, My statutes, and My Torahs." Rabbi Yonatan, quoting Rabbi Yoḥanan, makes an astonishing claim: Abraham even knew the laws of Eiruv Hatzerot!

Now, Eiruv Hatzerot is a complex legal concept. If you have several houses opening onto a shared courtyard, and that courtyard is fenced in, an eiruv – a symbolic joining of ownership – is required to allow residents to carry things from their houses into the courtyard on Shabbat (the Sabbath). It's a relatively minor point of law, but the fact that Abraham knew it, according to this interpretation, shows the incredible depth of his understanding. As Rambam explains in Hilkhot Eiruvin 1:1–7, this is no simple matter!

And it gets even more. The Midrash continues, "My Torahs – two Torahs." This suggests Abraham fulfilled even minor mitzvot (commandments) of the Oral Law, the traditions passed down through generations alongside the Written Torah.

Rabbi Simon even goes so far as to say that Abraham knew the new name that God is destined to call Jerusalem! He connects Abraham's naming of a place "The Lord will see" (Genesis 22:14) with future prophecies where Jerusalem will be called "The Lord is there" (Ezekiel 48:35) and "The Throne of the Lord" (Jeremiah 3:17). It's a beautiful weaving together of past, present, and future.

Finally, Rabbi Berekhya, citing Rabbi Yehuda, offers one last insight: there is no day that God doesn't introduce a new halakha (law) in the supernal court. Where does he get this idea? From (Job 37:2), "Hear the fury of His voice, the sound [vehegeh] that emerges from His mouth." He connects hegeh, sound, with Torah, citing (Joshua 1:8), "You shall ponder [vehagita] it day and night." The implication is that God's wisdom, God's Torah, is constantly unfolding.

So, what does all this mean? It's more than just a history lesson. It's a reminder that our understanding of God's will is a journey, not a destination. Abraham, our ancestor, serves as a model of someone constantly striving to know and understand God more deeply, embracing both the grand sweep of divine command and the subtle nuances of everyday life. And perhaps, it challenges us to ask ourselves: how deeply are we listening?

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Another interpretation: because the region of Sodom had been laid waste, and the travelers passing to and fro had ceased, Abraham said, "Shall I let the giving of charity stop from my house?" So he went and pitched his tent in Gerar. This is the meaning of what is written, "And Abraham journeyed from there" (Genesis 20:1). "A brother who has transgressed is harder to win than a fortified city" (Proverbs 18:19) refers to Lot, who was Abraham's nephew and who sinned against Abraham. You denied him, you dealt falsely with him. And what did this cause him? It brought upon him "and quarrels are like the bars of a fortress" [reading the verse as bringing strife against] the palace of the Holy One, blessed be He, which is the Temple. Just as it says elsewhere, "no unclean thing of any kind shall enter" the Temple (compare 2 Chronicles 23:19), so too here, "No Ammonite or Moabite shall enter the assembly of the LORD" (Deuteronomy 23:4). Therefore the verse "And Abraham journeyed from there" is placed adjacent.

"The wise of heart will accept commandments" (Proverbs 10:8) refers to Abraham: because the region was laid waste, and so on. "And he journeyed from there" means he cleared out from his place because of the foul rumor, for people were saying, "Lot, Abraham's nephew, lay with his daughters." "To the land of the Negev" (the South): seven names are given to the south: darom, negev, yam, teimanah, yamin, cheder, and sinim. They raised an objection: is it not written, "not from the wilderness of the mountains" (Psalms 75:7)? He said to them: that too is the south.

Rabbi Chiya bar Abba said: I was passing before the synagogue of the Babylonians in Sepphoris and I heard little children sitting and reciting, "And Abraham journeyed from there to the land of the Negev." I said: Great are the words of the sages, who say, "Be careful with their coals, lest you be burned, for their bite is the bite of a fox, and all their words are like coals of fire." From the hour that our father Abraham parted from Lot, his separation was a separation forever. "And he sojourned in Gerar," in Gardiko.

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Yalkut Shimoni on Torah 87:3Yalkut Shimoni on Torah

"And Abraham journeyed from there toward the land of the Negev" (Genesis 20:1). "But the falling mountain crumbles away" (Job 14:18) - this is Lot, who fell from greatness. "And the rock is moved from its place" (Job 14:18) - this is Abraham, who caused him to be removed from his place.

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