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Abimelech Watched Until Isaac Touched Rebekah

Years earlier a voice had woken the king in the night and called him a dead man over another man's wife. This time he did not reach for the woman.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. Famine Sends Isaac to Gerar With His Father's Lie
  2. The King Remembered the Sealed Wombs
  3. A Whole Summer of Not Touching Her
  4. The Window and the Summons
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Famine Sends Isaac to Gerar With His Father's Lie

The grain failed and Isaac went down to Gerar, and the first thing he did there was look at his wife and calculate. Rebekah was worth killing a husband for. His father had run the same arithmetic in the same country and come to the same answer, so Isaac gave the men of the place a word he had inherited. Sister.

It was a thin shield and he knew it. He also knew what a thin shield is worth when the alternative is nothing.

The King Remembered the Sealed Wombs

Abimelech heard the word and did not reach for her.

He had reached once. He had taken Sarah into his house on that identical word, sister, and every womb under his roof had closed like a fist, and a voice had come to him in the night with no preamble at all: you are a dead man, because of the woman you have taken. He had given her back at dawn with gifts and a request that Abraham pray for him.

So the king kept his hands at his sides and used his eyes instead. Every day he watched Isaac. Sister or wife. He wanted to know before he wanted her, and he was patient in a way a younger king would not have been, because he had already learned what it costs to guess wrong in that household.

A Whole Summer of Not Touching Her

Isaac guarded the lie with his body. He kept a room's width between himself and Rebekah in front of anyone who might carry a story. He did not touch her hand at the well or in the doorway. A man can live inside a false name for a long time if fear keeps feeding him.

But the days in Gerar stretched, and then the weeks, and the whole summer went by, and nothing happened. No one asked. No one came. The heat pressed down on the town and Isaac said to himself what a man says when a danger has gone quiet for long enough: the king has forgotten. Then he went and drew near to his wife as a husband draws near.

The Window and the Summons

Abimelech was at the window.

He saw them sporting, and he knew that kind of sporting, and the question he had carried all summer closed itself in one glance. He sent for Isaac at once.

"One of the people might easily have lain with your wife."

Not one of the people. One man in Gerar had the power to take a woman out of a stranger's tent and had been watching her door since spring, and both of them standing in that room knew which man it was. The king was naming himself. He had been the danger the whole time, and he had held still, and now he wanted the husband who had lied to him to understand exactly how narrow the gap had been.

Isaac had come to Gerar afraid of the men of the place. The man who spared him was the one he should have been afraid of.


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Midrash Aggadah, Genesis 26:10Midrash Aggadah

Translation of the source text.Midrash Aggadah (Buber), Public Domain, on Sefaria · CC-BY-SA

"One of the people might easily have lain with your wife" (Genesis 26:10). Now Abimelech did not wish to take her, even though he said, "She is my sister," for he was afraid that there might befall him what had befallen him concerning Abraham his father, who said of Sarah, "She is my sister"; and when he took her, the Holy One, blessed be He, shut up his whole household, and He said to him, "Behold, you are a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken" (Genesis 20:3). Therefore Abimelech would every day observe Isaac, to see whether Rebekah was his sister or his wife. And Isaac would guard himself not to lie with her, because he had said, "She is my sister." But when the days grew long for him there, for he spent the whole summer, he said: Surely Abimelech has forgotten, and he lay with her. And Abimelech, who was watching whether she was his sister or his wife, when he saw him sporting with her, for the sporting was an act of marital intimacy, immediately Abimelech called him and said to him, "One of the people might easily have lain with your wife." And who is the singular one? This is the king.

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Yalkut Shimoni on Torah 66:5Yalkut Shimoni on Torah

Translation of the source text.Torat Emet (Yalkut Shimoni) · CC-BY-NC

"And the souls that they had made in Haran" (Genesis 12:5). It is a received tradition that at that time Abraham was fifty-two years old. And when you examine it, from "and the souls" until the giving of the Torah there were four hundred and forty-eight [448] years.

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