Parshat Shemot4 min read

Amram Remarried Jochebed So Israel Would Live

When Hebrew men divorced their wives to spare unborn sons from the Nile, Amram remarried Jochebed in public so despair would not erase Israel.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. Divorce as a Policy of Despair
  2. The Sanhedrin Forced to Follow
  3. The Twenty-First of Nisan in Two Directions
  4. Many Names for One Hidden Child
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Divorce as a Policy of Despair

Pharaoh's decree made the Nile a grave for Hebrew boys. Men of Israel, including Amram, answered with a second death. They divorced their wives so no new sons would meet the water. The logic sounded merciful. It was extinction wearing pity's face and calling itself wisdom.

Jochebed and young Miriam confronted him. Pharaoh killed sons. Amram's decree killed sons and daughters and the whole future. The leader of the generation had outrun the tyrant in damage, and he heard it without hiding.

In the brick yards the quotas did not pause for Hebrew theology. Men staggered home to empty rooms and called the emptiness safety. Miriam refused that vocabulary. Water already killed enough without help from Hebrew divorce writs written in fear.

The Sanhedrin Forced to Follow

He went to the Sanhedrin (the high court of elders). "It was thou that didst separate husbands and wives," they told him, "and from thee should go forth the permission for re-marriage." Amram remarried Jochebed so other men would watch hope reenter a house and feel ashamed of empty beds.

Jochebed, though aged, was restored to the beauty of youth. Pregnancy followed. Amram prayed under the weight of what a boy-child would mean under Pharaoh. God answered in a dream. The child the Egyptians dreaded would be Amram's own, hidden by heaven.

Miriam's courage became part of the chain. A daughter's mouth corrected a father's strategy. The house that would produce Moses first had to listen to its women when despair wore the mask of protection and called the mask mercy.

The Twenty-First of Nisan in Two Directions

Moses was born on the twenty-first of Nisan, the same calendar day on which, years later, Israel would sing at the sea after the waters split. Angels saw the infant set toward the Nile and cried out. Would the one destined to praise God for rescue from the sea drown in water first?

God answered that cunning malice does not rewrite counsel, and that trust in peril is carried to unlooked-for happiness. Six hundred thousand Hebrew boys born into that night's terror are remembered as saved by Moses' merits in the long memory of the legends.

Birth and song share a date so the story can refuse coincidence. The basket on the river and the path through the sea become twin waters of the same day, one threatening, one redeeming, both marked on one calendar stone.

Many Names for One Hidden Child

For two years the child stayed hidden under many names. Amram called him Heber, because a son reunited him with his wife. Jochebed called him Jekuthiel, hope returned from God. Miriam called him Jered, for her descent to watch the Nile. Aaron and others layered titles until the boy was a catalogue of fear and gratitude.

Each name was a small midrash over a cradle that could not be shown in the street. A people under genocide names a baby the way sailors name a light they refuse to let go out when storms erase the shore.

When the basket met the river, the remarriage had already done its first work. Israel still had mothers willing to conceive. The leader who once legislated despair had legislated courage by taking his wife back under the eyes of the court that had followed him into emptiness.


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Legends of the Jews 4:45Legends of the Jews

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909) · Public Domain

Sometimes, leadership isn't about grand pronouncements, but about personal example. And that's exactly what we see in this story about Amram, the father of Moses.

Things weren't easy for the Israelites in Egypt. Pharaoh's decree to cast newborn sons into the Nile had understandably caused widespread despair. Many men, including Amram himself, divorced their wives, reasoning it was better to avoid bringing children into such a world of suffering.

Amram's former wife, Jochebed, wasn't having it. She, along with Miriam, Amram's daughter, confronted him. Imagine the scene: a woman pleading not just for herself, but for the future of their people. According to Ginzberg's retelling in Legends of the Jews, Jochebed argued that Amram’s actions were more severe than Pharaoh's decree! After all, Pharaoh only targeted the baby boys, while Amram's decree threatened to wipe out the entire Israelite population.

Amram, recognizing the wisdom in her words, knew he had to act. He couldn't just reverse his own decision in private. He needed to make a public statement.

So, he went to the Sanhedrin, the Jewish high court, to lay the matter before them. "It was thou that didst separate husbands and wives," they said, "and from thee should go forth the permission for re-marriage." Talk about taking responsibility!

Amram, ever the leader, proposed a plan: that each member of the Sanhedrin secretly remarry their divorced wives. But his colleagues rejected the idea. "And who will make it known unto the whole of Israel?" they asked, reasonably enough.

Here’s where it gets truly inspiring. Amram didn't back down. He understood that his actions needed to be bold and visible.

And so, in a public display of commitment, Amram remarried Jochebed under the wedding canopy. image: a leader publicly reversing his decision, admitting his mistake, and recommitting to his family and his people.

Aaron and Miriam danced at the wedding, filled with joy. And according to the legend, even the angels proclaimed, "Let the mother of children be joyful!" It was a moment of collective hope and renewal.

The re-marriage was performed with great fanfare, so that the men who had followed Amram’s earlier example would now follow his lead once more, and take their wives back. And that’s precisely what happened. The community followed Amram’s example, choosing to rebuild their families and reaffirm their faith in the future.

What can we learn from this story? It shows us the power of leadership through example. And perhaps most importantly, it highlights the strength and wisdom of women like Jochebed and Miriam, whose voices and actions helped to shape the destiny of a nation.

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Legends of the Jews 4:47Legends of the Jews

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909) · Public Domain

It sounds like something out of a fairy tale, but the story of Jochebed, the mother of Moses, begins in just such a way.

In Legends of the Jews, even though Jochebed was quite old, she experienced a remarkable rejuvenation. Her skin softened, the wrinkles vanished, and she regained the radiant beauty of her youth. And then, she became pregnant. Joy, perhaps, but also fear, given the decree of Pharaoh.

Her husband, Amram, was understandably uneasy. He knew the terrible fate that awaited newborn Israelite boys. What was he to do? He turned to God in prayer, begging for compassion. He pleaded for deliverance from the misery they endured under Egyptian rule, and for God to foil the plans of their enemies, who desperately wanted to see the Israelite nation destroyed.

God heard him.

God, in his infinite mercy, appeared to Amram in a dream. He reassured Amram, urging him not to despair. He hadn't forgotten their piety, their unwavering devotion. Just as He had favored their ancestors, He would reward them now. "Know, therefore," God continued, "that I shall provide for you all together what is for your good, and for thee in particular that which shall make thee celebrated."

The message was clear: the child whose birth the Egyptians so dreaded, the one they sought to destroy, would be Amram’s own son. This child would be miraculously hidden from those who sought to kill him, and when he grew up, he would deliver the Hebrew nation from their suffering at the hands of the Egyptians.

His memory, God promised, would be celebrated forever, not only among the Hebrews, but among strangers as well. All of this would be evidence of God's favor toward Amram and his descendants. And, as if that weren't enough, God added that Moses' brother would secure the priesthood for himself and his descendants for all time.

This, of course, refers to Aaron, who would become the first High Priest. It's a powerful promise, a divine reassurance in the face of overwhelming adversity. It sets the stage for the miraculous events to come, the story of a baby destined for greatness, a leader who would change the course of history. A story born from faith, fear, and the unwavering belief in a power greater than Pharaoh.

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Legends of the Jews 4:55Legends of the Jews

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909) · Public Domain

The 21st of Nisan. A seemingly ordinary day. But according to Legends of the Jews, this is no mere coincidence. This is the very day, years later, that the Israelites, led by MOSES himself, would sing their joyous song of deliverance after crossing the Red Sea!

Picture the angels in the heavenly court. They see the infant MOSES, abandoned to the Nile, and they are aghast. "Lord of the Universe," they cry out, as Ginzberg retells in Legends of the Jews, "Will the one destined to sing praises to You on this very day, thanking You for saving him and his people from the sea..will he now drown in that same sea?!"

The sheer irony of it all. Destined for greatness, yet seemingly doomed to a watery grave.

What does GOD say? Does HE intervene directly?

Here's where it gets really interesting. GOD responds, and it's not quite what you might expect. "You know well that I see all things," HE says. "The contriving of man can do naught to change what hath been resolved in My counsel." In other words, GOD acknowledges the predetermined nature of things...to a point.

But then HE adds a crucial twist. "Those do not attain their end who use cunning and malice to secure their own safety, and endeavor to bring ruin upon their fellow-men. But he who trusts Me in his peril will be conveyed from profoundest distress to unlooked-for happiness." It's not just about predetermination. It's about the intentions behind our actions. According to this legend, those who scheme and plot for their own selfish gain will ultimately fail. But those who place their trust in GOD, even in the face of immense danger, will find a path to salvation. It is interesting to note that the story highlights the contriving of man, seemingly a direct reference to the decree of Pharoah and his advisors to eliminate the Israelite baby boys.

The story concludes with a promise, a declaration of divine power: "Thus My omnipotence will reveal itself in the fortunes of this babe." The omnipotence of GOD will be revealed in the story of this baby, MOSES.

So, what are we to make of all this? Is it all predetermined, or do we have free will? Perhaps the answer lies in the interplay between the two. GOD may have a plan, but our actions, our intentions, determine whether we align ourselves with that plan or fight against it. And as the story of MOSES shows us, trust and faith can be the most powerful forces of all.

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Legends of the Jews 4:64Legends of the Jews

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909) · Public Domain

A reader can think of Moses as a lone figure, leading his people to freedom. But according to tradition, his birth was intertwined with the fate of an entire generation. The text "Legends of the Jews" tells us that the 600,000 Hebrew baby boys, born on the same night as Moses and cast into the water on the same day, were saved because of Moses' merits. Later, Moses could rightfully say, "The people that went forth out of the water on account of my merits are six hundred thousand men.

The story doesn't end with a miraculous rescue. For two precious years, Moses, rescued by Pharaoh's daughter, remained hidden with his family. And during that time, he wasn't just Moses. He was known by many names, each reflecting the hopes and fears surrounding his arrival.

His father called him Heber, because through this child, he was "reunited" with his wife. A beautiful sentiment, wouldn't you agree? It speaks to the power of new life to heal old wounds.

His mother knew him as Jekuthiel, meaning "because I set my hope upon God, and He gave him back to me." Imagine the relief, the overwhelming gratitude in that name.

To his sister, Miriam, he was Jered, a reminder of her "descent" to the Nile, her vigilant watch over his fate. It’s a powerful image – a young girl’s bravery shaping the course of history.

Aaron, his brother, called him Abi Zanoah, a poignant acknowledgement of how his birth had prompted their father, who had "cast off" their mother, to take her back. The ripple effects of a single life…

His grandfather, Kohath, knew him as Abi Gedor, recognizing that the Heavenly Father had "built up" the breach in Israel when he rescued the child, stopping the Egyptians from drowning more Hebrew boys. The weight of leadership already resting on tiny shoulders.

His nurse called him Abi Soco, because he had been kept hidden in a "tent" for three months, safe from the Egyptians’ murderous pursuit. A reminder of the constant danger, the ever-present threat.

And Israel, the collective, called him Shemaiah ben Nethanel, because in his day God would "hear" the people's sighs and deliver them from their oppressors, and through him, He would "give" them His own law. What a profound prophecy embedded in a name!

Each name, a miniature story. Each name, a different facet of his destiny. It’s fascinating how a single person can hold so much meaning, so much potential, even from infancy. What stories do we embody?

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