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Bar Kamsa Left the Feast and Jerusalem Burned

A servant invited the wrong man to a banquet, pride expelled him, and the road from that door ran straight to the burning city.

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Table of Contents
  1. The Wrong Name at the Door
  2. Fenced In
  3. A Cloud Over Prayer
  4. Pay Them According to Their Handiwork
  5. Ash on the Tablecloth
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The Wrong Name at the Door

A rich man in Jerusalem planned a feast and told his servant to invite his friend Kamsa. The servant invited Bar Kamsa, the host's enemy, instead. When the host saw the wrong man at the table, his face went hard. He ordered him out. Bar Kamsa offered to pay for his own portion, then for half the feast, then for the whole banquet, anything to avoid the public shame of being thrown into the street while the rabbis sat and watched.

The host refused every offer. Bar Kamsa left burning. He told himself that the sages who had not intervened had approved the humiliation. From that insult he built a road to Rome. He told the emperor the Jews were rebellious, arranged a test with a blemished sacrifice, and set in motion the war that would burn the Temple and break the city. A single misdelivered invitation became a hinge of history.

Fenced In

Eikhah Rabbah hears the survivor's voice from Lamentations: "He fenced me in that I will not emerge; He made my fetters heavy" (Lamentations 3:7). The rabbis name the fences. Rabbi Aivu points to the enclosure of the Arabs. Rabbi Berekhya points to the fortress of the Persians. Others point to the strip of Cuthite land that cut Judea from the Galilee and would not let Jews pass between their own communities. Taxes, poll and land and state, hung like iron on the ankles.

The feast's closed door and the empire's closed roads rhyme. First a man is fenced out of a banquet. Then a people is fenced into ruin. The small expulsion teaches the large one how to begin: with pride that will not hear a payment, and with silence from those who might have stood up.

A Cloud Over Prayer

"You have covered Yourself with a cloud so that no prayer can pass" (Lamentations 3:44). Rabbi Helbo asked Rabbi Shmuel bar Nachman what the verse meant. Prayer, he answered, is like a ritual bath, open at times and locked at times. Repentance is like the sea, always open. Others insisted the gates of prayer never lock. Rabbi Akiva, standing under judgment before Turnus Rufus, felt a cloud descend while Yehoshua HaGarsi prayed beside him, and feared the cloud had come only to block the prayer of his master.

In the days after Bar Kamsa's revenge matured, Jerusalem learned what a locked sky feels like. Feasts still happened in memory. Fasts filled the present. The people who had watched one man pushed from a table now cried for a table of mercy and found cloud between the cry and the answer.

Pay Them According to Their Handiwork

"Pay them retribution, Lord, according to their handiwork" (Lamentations 3:64). Jeremiah asks. Asaf asks sevenfold into the enemy's bosom. The midrash reads the bosom as the foundation of the Temple, or as the place of circumcision the Amalekites mocked when they cast Israel's mark upward and jeered at what God had chosen. Samuel later rose against Agag. The ledger of insult runs long, and heaven's memory is longer than any banquet's guest list.

Bar Kamsa's insult was real. The host's cruelty was real. The sages' silence was real. Rome's fire was also real. The tradition does not clean the chain. It shows how a private shame, left unhealed, can hire an empire.

Ash on the Tablecloth

Years after the smoke, the story is still told so that later hosts will feel the cost of a public expulsion. Pay the man's share. Swallow the presence of an enemy for one night. Let the rabbis rise from their seats and stop the scene. Anything is cheaper than the road Bar Kamsa walked to Caesar. The empire did not need a grand ideology to enter the gates. It needed one man with a fresh wound and enough cleverness to aim that wound at the Temple's politics.

Jerusalem was fenced, pursued, covered with wrath, made filth among the peoples. Fetters of tax and strip of hostile land cut brother from brother until travel itself became a trial. Prayers rose and met cloud. Retribution was begged down to the foundation stones. The midrash keeps the feast and the funeral in one breath. A servant misheard a name. A rich man loved his pride more than the city. The sages who stayed seated taught a lesson they never meant to teach: silence at a table can be louder than a shout in Rome.

The rest is ash that still sticks to the throat when the tale is spoken. Every later banquet in the tradition sits under that ash, and every host is asked, without words, whether he would rather be right about an guest list or keep the walls standing one more night.


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Exempla of the Rabbis, No. 70Exempla of the Rabbis (Gaster, 1924)

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Kamsa&Fall of Jerusalem.

Git tin, f. 55b, 56b, 57. Sanhedrin (the supreme rabbinic court), f. 104.

Pirke de R. Eliezer, ch. 49.

Tanh. Numb. Hukkat § 1. and B. ibid. p. 99. Midr. Hagadol, Deut.

Ki Tabo.

Gen. R. 10 § 7.

Levit. R. 2 § 5; 22 § 3. Eccles. R. V, 8 § 4; VII, 2; VII, 11 § 1. Lament. R. I, 5 § 31; IV §3.

Numb. R. 18 § 22.

Abot de R. Nathan I, ch. 4 p. 22; II, 6, p. 19.

Aboab, Men. Ham. ch. 307.

Kalonymos,IgeredBaale Haim, sign. 10, 2b. Yaik. §946, §284; II,

§ 901> § 953*

Yalk. Sip. I, p. 15; IV,

p. 91.

Helvicus, Historien II, ch. 44 p. 133; ch. 45 p. 140.

Raymundus Mart., Pu- gio p. 258 ft.

Eisenmenger I, p. 407.

Steinschneider, Hebr. Bibl. II, 106.

cf. Bahar Danusch II, ch. 27.

Benfey, Pantschat. I, 15 and 246.

Libro de los Exemplos, 133.

cf. Grimm, Reinfuchs, No. 282.

cf. Grohmann, Sagen a. Bohmen, p. 246.

cf. Kirchhof, Wendun- muth, 6, 219.

Liebrecht, Zur Volks- kunde iff.

Massmann, Kaiserchro- nik, III, p.438 ff.

cf. Pauli, Schimpf, p.221.

Thor, ch. 8.

cf. Weber, Indische Stud. Ill, 351, 364, 366.

Ward, Cat. of Romances, I, p. 181 & 829 f.

Wolgemuth II, 45, etc.

Cod. Br. M. 2351, Midr. Hahefes, f. 329 a.

Cod. G. 28, f. 526.

7 1. Conversion of Ankelos.

Aboda Zara, f. 11a.

Gittin, f. 56a.

cf. Tanh. Exod. Mish- patim §5; B: ibid.

Midr. Hagadol, Deut. Haazinu.

Exod. R., 30 § 12. Yalk. II § 888.

Ben Habib to Sanhedrin.

Yalk. Sip. I, p. 65; II, p. 163.

Eisenmenger I, p. 96 f.

195-

Ginzburg in J. E. s. v.

Aquiba and Onkelos. Codd. G. 84, No. 3; 130, No. 62; 184, No. 197. (See No. 284.)

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Eikhah Rabbah 3:3Eikhah Rabbah

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“He fenced me in that I will not emerge; He made my fetters heavy” (Lamentations 3:7).“He fenced me in that I will not emerge” – Rabbi Aivu said: This is the enclosure of the Arabs. Rabbi Berekhya said: This is the fortress of the Persians.12The “enclosure of the Arabs” and the “fortress of the Persians” were locations where Jews were imprisoned. The Rabbis say: This is the strip of land of the Cuthites.13The Cuthites inhabited a strip of land in the Land of Israel that separated between the Jewish communities of Judea and the Galilee, and they would not permit Jews to travel between the two Jewish areas (see Ḥagiga 25a). “He made my fetters heavy” – He burdened me with land tax, state tax, and poll tax.“Even when I cry and plead, He blocks my prayer” (Lamentations 3:8).“Even when I cry and plead” – Rabbi Aḥa said: Anyone who prays with the congregation, to what is he comparable? It is to people who crafted a crown for the king. A poor man comes and donates his portion of it. What does the king say? Shall I not accept it because of this poor person?14The translation is in accordance with the Hebrew textual emendation of Rabbi David Luria. Immediately, the king accepts it and places it on his head. Likewise, if there were ten righteous men standing in prayer and there is a wicked man standing in their midst, what does the Holy One blessed be He say? Shall I not accept their prayer because of this wicked person? The Rabbis said: One who comes after the congregation, his actions are scrutinized. To what is he comparable? It is to a king whose sharecroppers and the members of his household entered to honor him. One came late. The king said: ‘Let his barrel be sealed.’15He brought a barrel of wine or other goods for the king, but the king does not accept the gift (Matnot Kehuna). What caused this for him? It is because he came late. So too, anyone who prays after the community, his actions are scrutinized. That is why it is stated: “Even when I cry and plead, He blocks [satam] my prayer.” Satam is written with a sin,16It is not written here with a samekh, which would have been the conventional spelling. Thus, the word can be vocalized shetam, which means “because it has concluded.” because the prayer of the congregation has concluded.“He fenced my ways with hewn stone, distorted my paths” (Lamentations 3:9).“He fenced my ways with hewn stone” – the daughters of Lod would knead their doughs, ascend and pray [in Jerusalem], and descend before they leavened. The daughters of Tzippori would ascend and praise [God] in the Temple, and there was no one who harvested the fig tree before them.17They would leave early in the morning and return early in the morning as well. Some assert that the text should state that they would stay for Shabbat (the Sabbath) [shavtan] rather than that they would praise God [shabḥan]. Nonetheless, they were able to return home so early on Sunday morning that they were the first to harvest the figs (Matnot Kehuna). The scribe of Migdal would prepare his lamps every Friday, would ascend [to the Temple], praise, and descend and kindle them. Some say that every Friday the scribe would ascend, review his [Torah] portion in the Temple, descend, and observe Shabbat in his home.There was an incident involving a certain person who was standing and plowing. His ox fled. He went and told people what [had occurred]. They said to him: ‘On which thoroughfare did you come?’18Apparently, he had lost his way and did not know how to get home. Alternatively, they asked him which way his ox had taken so that they could help him find it. He began showing them but could not find the way. They applied to him the verse: “He fenced my ways with hewn stone, distorted [iva] my paths.” He rendered [the paths] ruins, just as it says: “A ruin [ava], a ruin, a ruin I will render it” (Ezekiel 21:32).

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Eikhah Rabbah 3:15Eikhah Rabbah

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“You are covered with wrath and have pursued us; You have killed, did not have compassion. You have covered Yourself with a cloud so that no prayer can pass. You have rendered us filth and refuse in the midst of the peoples” (Lamentations 3:43–45).“You are covered with wrath and have pursued us; You have killed, did not have compassion. You have covered Yourself with a cloud” – Rabbi Ḥelbo asked Rabbi Shmuel bar Naḥman, he said to him: ‘Because I heard about you that you are a master of aggada, what is this that is written: “You have covered Yourself with a cloud so that no prayer can pass”?’ He said: ‘Prayer is likened to a ritual bath, and repentance is likened to the sea. Just as the ritual bath is at times open and at times locked, so the gates of prayer are at times locked and at times open. However, the sea is always open. Rav Anan said: ‘The gates of prayer, too, are never locked. That is what is written: “Like the Lord our God whenever we call to Him” (Deuteronomy 4:7). Call is nothing other than prayer, as it is stated: “It will be that before they call I will answer”’ (Isaiah 65:24).Rabbi Yosei bar Ḥalafta said: There are times for prayer, as so said David before the Holy One blessed be He: Master of the universe, when I pray before You, let my prayer be at a time of favor. That is what is written: “For me, let my prayer come to You, Lord, at a time of favor” (Psalms 69:14).Rabbi Akiva was standing and being judged by Turnus Rufus, and Yehoshua HaGarsi was standing in prayer with him. A cloud descended and surrounded them. He said: It appears to me that this cloud descended and surrounded only so the prayer of my Master would not be heard. That is what is written: “You have covered Yourself with a cloud so that no prayer can pass.”“You have rendered us filth and refuse [seḥi umaos] in the midst of the peoples” – despicable [masaya] and lowly [pesilaya].

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Eikhah Rabbah 3:22Eikhah Rabbah

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“Pay them retribution, Lord, according to their handiwork” (Lamentations 3:64).“Pay them retribution” – Jeremiah said: “Pay them retribution.” Asaf said: “Pay our neighbors retribution sevenfold to their bosom [ḥeikam]” (Psalms 79:12). What is “to their bosom [ḥeikam]”? Rabbi Yehuda ben Gadya said: Pay them retribution for what they did to the Temple that is situated in the foundation [ḥeiko] of the world, just as it says: “From the foundation in the ground to the [lower] ledge” (Ezekiel 43:14). The Rabbis say: What they did regarding circumcision, which is positioned in man’s bosom,80The meaning here is that it is in the center of his body. as Rabbi Yehoshua of Sikhnin and Rabbi Levi said in the name of Rabbi Yoḥanan: They81The Amalekites would do this to the Israelites when they departed from Egypt. would take the circumcised organs of the Israelites and cast them upward, saying: This You chose; here is what You chose! Until Samuel arose and exacted retribution from them. That is what is written: “Samuel said: "Bring me Agag, king of Amalek” (I Samuel 15:32), and it is written: “Samuel slashed Agag…” (I Samuel 15:33).Rabbi Abba bar Kahana said: He began chopping his flesh into numerous pieces and fed it to the ostriches. That is what is written: “It will consume the branches of his skin” (Job 18:13). Rabbi Yitzḥak said: He brought four posts and stretched him upon them. “Agag said:, the bitterness of death is at hand [sar]” (I Samuel 15:32). Is this the way one kills princes, with bitter deaths? Rabbi Yitzḥak said: He castrated him, because he would take the circumcised organs and cast them upward. For this, retribution was exacted from him. That is what is written: “Samuel said: Just as your sword made women childless, so shall your mother be childless among women” (I Samuel 15:33). “He slashed” – it teaches that he sliced him into four pieces.“May you give them hardness of heart, Your curse upon them” (Lamentations 3:65).“May you give them hardness of [meginat] heart” – two amora’im: One said: Heartbreak, and one said: Strength of heart.82The amora’im discussed the true meaning of the term meginat. One said it means heartbreak due to suffering. The other said it means strength of heart to endure a lot of suffering without dying. The one who said heartbreak, it is as it is stated: “Who delivered [migen] your enemies into your hand” (Genesis 14:20).83Just as the term migen here indicates that the enemies were broken, the word meginat regarding the heart means heartbreak. The one who said: Strength of heart, as it is written: “The shield [magen] of your protection” (Deuteronomy 33:29).“Your curse [taalatekha] upon them” – suspend [teli] them84Suspend them between life and death. in suffering. Bring upon them all the curses [alot] in the Torah, just as it says: “The Lord your God will place all these curses [alot] on your enemies, and on those who hate you…” (Deuteronomy 30:7).

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