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Jacob Found His Dead Son Alive at a Feast in Goshen

After twenty-two years of mourning Joseph as dead, Jacob makes the long journey to Egypt and sits down to eat with him.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. Twenty-Two Years of a Wound That Would Not Close
  2. The Long Ride Down to Goshen
  3. The Best Day of His Life
  4. The Meeting With Pharaoh
  5. What the Reunion Cost Joseph

Twenty-Two Years of a Wound That Would Not Close

When they brought Jacob the coat, the blood on it settled something in his mind that his heart refused to accept. His sons said: we found this. Do you recognize it? He recognized it. He tore his clothes and put on sackcloth and mourned for many days, and his children tried to comfort him and he would not be comforted. He said: I will go down to my son in the pit in mourning.

He mourned for twenty-two years. Through his sons' marriages, through the children that came from those marriages, through the accumulation of Canaan's ordinary time, the wound stayed open. Joseph was the son of Rachel, the wife he had worked fourteen years to earn. Joseph was the coat he had given. Joseph was the hole in the family that every day confirmed was still there.

Then the messengers came back from Egypt with news that the grain minister was Joseph. That Joseph was alive. That Joseph was asking for Jacob to come.

The Long Ride Down to Goshen

God spoke to Jacob at Beersheba before he crossed the border. Do not be afraid to go down to Egypt. I will make you into a great nation there. I will go down with you, and I will also bring you back. The promise had specificity to it: this was not an abandonment. This was a descent that had a return built into it.

Jacob sent Judah ahead to Goshen to find Joseph before the wagons arrived. When Joseph heard his father was close, he harnessed his chariot and rode out to meet him. The Book of Jubilees, which retells this moment with attention to the texture of what it felt like, does not linger on the first embrace in the way one might expect. It lingers instead on what happened after: the meal.

The Best Day of His Life

Joseph brought his brothers and his father together and they sat down at a table. They ate bread. They drank wine. And Jacob rejoiced, the Jubilees account says, with exceeding great joy. Not ordinary relief. Not the subdued gladness of a very old man who has been given unexpected news. Exceeding great joy.

The reason the text gives is precise: he saw Joseph alive, he saw Joseph eating and drinking with him, Joseph whom he had mourned as dead. The sight of his son chewing bread, lifting a cup, carrying on as a living human body carries on, the ordinary mechanics of being alive, was the specific thing that produced the exceeding great joy. Jacob had been mourning a dead son for twenty-two years. What he found in Goshen was not a ghost, not a vision, not a report. A man sitting at a table and eating.

Jacob called that day the best day of his life.

The Meeting With Pharaoh

Joseph brought his father before Pharaoh, and Jacob blessed Pharaoh. This is one of the remarkable moments in the Genesis narrative: the patriarch of a family of seventy people, a refugee fleeing famine, entering the court of the greatest empire in the region and blessing its king. The text treats it without comment. Jacob blessed Pharaoh. Pharaoh asked how old he was. Jacob said: the years of my pilgrimage are one hundred and thirty years, few and evil have been the years of my life.

One hundred and thirty years of few and evil days, and still Jacob called Goshen the best day. The twenty-two years of mourning a dead son, the years in Laban's house, the night at Jabbok, the rape of Dinah, the loss of Rachel, the long accumulation of grief that Jacob's life had been: all of it stood behind the moment of seeing Joseph eat bread, and the bread meal was still better than any of what came before.

What the Reunion Cost Joseph

When Jacob arrived at Goshen and Joseph rushed out to meet him, Joseph fell on his father's neck and wept. The Jubilees account notes that he wept for a long time. Joseph had been in Egypt for more than two decades, a slave and then a prisoner and then the second most powerful official in the country. He had built a life inside the empire that had taken him. He had married Asenath, had children, had learned to hold his past at some distance while he managed the present.

The sight of his father broke through all of that management. He could not explain to himself, in a way that held up, how he had managed to survive those decades without this face in front of him. The wept-for time was not only grief for what had been lost. It was also the release of something he had held in so long that the release itself was a kind of disintegration.

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Book of Jubilees 45:10Book of Jubilees

The Book of Jubilees, an ancient Jewish text that expands on the biblical narrative, gives us a beautiful glimpse into those moments. It tells us that Joseph and his brothers gathered with their father, Jacob, to share a meal. They ate bread, they drank wine. And Jacob? He rejoiced. Not just a little bit, but with "exceeding great joy."

Why such joy? Because he saw Joseph, whom he had mourned as dead for decades, not only alive but eating and drinking alongside his brothers. His family, seemingly shattered, was whole again. That Jacob blessed the Creator of all things, giving thanks for preserving him and, importantly, for preserving his twelve sons. All twelve! Remember that Jacob's greatest fear was that he would lose a son, particularly after the incident with Joseph.

There’s something deeply human about this scene, isn’t there? The simple act of sharing a meal, a symbol of unity and reconciliation.

The Book of Jubilees goes on to mention that Joseph, in his position of power, gifted his father and brothers the right to dwell in the land of Goshen and in Rameses, "all the region round about," which he oversaw on behalf of Pharaoh. This was no small gesture. He was offering them security, a place to call home, in the best part of the land of Egypt.

So, there they were: Israel, another name for Jacob, and his sons, dwelling in the land of Goshen, the choicest part of Egypt. The Book of Jubilees makes a point of telling us that Israel was one hundred and thirty years old when he arrived in Egypt. It's a detail that emphasizes the weight of his journey, the years of hardship and loss, and the profound relief of this reunion.

What a powerful reminder that even after unimaginable trials, hope and joy can still be found. And that sometimes, the greatest blessings come in the simplest of forms: a shared meal, a loving family, and a place to call home.

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Book of Jubilees 32:31Book of Jubilees

That’s kind of where Jacob finds himself in the Book of Jubilees.

Jacob, is about to leave Egypt. A pivotal moment. But before he goes, he receives a divine message, a glimpse into the future. The Book of Jubilees, a text considered apocryphal by some but deeply revered within certain Jewish traditions, recounts this moment with profound intimacy.

The voice, we don’t know exactly who this is, some suggest an angel, instructs Jacob to return to his father's house, to dwell with Isaac until Isaac's death. "Go to the house of Abraham thy father and dwell with Isaac thy father until the day of the death of thy father," the text commands. It’s a homecoming, a return to roots. But it’s also a specific directive, a path laid out for him.

Here’s the kicker: Jacob is told that he won't die in this land, the Promised Land. Instead, "in Egypt thou wilt die in peace, and in this land thou wilt be buried with honour in the sepulchre of thy fathers, with Abraham and Isaac." He'll find peace in exile, and ultimately, rest with his ancestors. Quite the revelation, wouldn't you say?

The message continues, offering reassurance: "Fear not, for as thou hast seen and read it, thus will it all be; and do thou write down everything as thou hast seen and read." Write it all down. Record the vision. Preserve the knowledge. It’s an imperative, a call to witness and document.

But here’s the incredibly human part. Overwhelmed, Jacob cries out, "Lord, how can I remember all that I have read and seen?" Can you imagine the sheer volume of information flooding his mind? The weight of prophecy?

The response is beautiful, a evidence of divine grace: "I will bring all things to thy remembrance." He, again, that divine messenger, promises to aid Jacob’s memory, to ensure that the important details are not forgotten. And then, the messenger departs.

It’s a brief passage, really. But it’s packed with layers of meaning.: the importance of returning to one's origins, the acceptance of a predetermined fate, the reassurance of divine assistance, and the crucial act of remembering and recording.

The story leaves us pondering the role of memory in our own lives. What are we meant to remember? What guidance have we received, perhaps subtly, that we need to hold onto? And perhaps most importantly, when overwhelmed by the sheer volume of life, can we trust that we will be given the capacity to remember what truly matters?

Food for thought, isn't it?

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Jasher 35Book of Jasher

They were definitely outnumbered, and not exactly popular with the neighbors. But then, something amazing happened.

Chapter 35 of the Book of Jasher opens with all the kings of the Amorites gathering. They're trying to figure out what to do about these sons of Jacob. Remember, just a couple of them took down the entire city of Shechem! (Jasher 35:1). Understandably, the Amorites are a little nervous.

Then, a fascinating twist occurs. The Book of Jasher tells us that God heard the prayers of Isaac and Jacob. (Jasher 35:2). And what did He do? He filled the hearts of the kings' advisors with fear! Suddenly, these advisors are saying, "Wait a minute, are you guys crazy? Why would we fight these Hebrews?" (Jasher 35:3).

They remind their kings, "Two of them wiped out Shechem, and no one could stand against them! How are we going to fight all of them?" (Jasher 35:4). It’s almost comical.

The advisors then launch into a litany of reasons why fighting the sons of Jacob is a terrible idea. "Surely you know that their God is exceedingly fond of them," they say, "and has done mighty things for them!" (Jasher 35:5). They recount the miracles of Abraham: his deliverance from Nimrod (Jasher 35:6-7), his victory over the kings of Elam (Jasher 35:8-9), and of course, the Akedah, the binding of Isaac.

They say, "Behold through his love toward his God, Abraham took his only and precious son and intended to bring him up as a burnt offering to his God, and had it not been for God who prevented him from doing this, he would then have done it through his love to his God." (Jasher 35:11)

The advisors remind their kings about the stories of Pharaoh and Abimelech, who both ran into trouble when they messed with Abraham and Sarah (Jasher 35:13). And what about Esau coming after Jacob with four hundred men? (Jasher 35:14). "Who delivered him from his hands but his God in whom he trusted?" (Jasher 35:15).

They even bring up the Shechem incident! "Who does not know that it was their God who inspired them with strength to do to the town of Shechem the evil which you heard of?" (Jasher 35:16). It's like they're saying, "Don't you get it? This isn't just about fighting some guys; it's about fighting their God!" (Jasher 35:19).

The advisors’ arguments are persuasive. The kings of the Amorites are terrified. "When the kings of the Amorites heard all the words of their advisers, their hearts were filled with terror, and they were afraid of the sons of Jacob and would not fight against them." (Jasher 35:21). They turn around and go home (Jasher 35:23). Crisis averted!

The chapter concludes by emphasizing that this all happened because God heard the prayers of Isaac and Jacob. (Jasher 35:24). The sons of Jacob, seeing that no one was coming to fight, also went home (Jasher 35:25).

What’s so striking about this chapter isn’t just the miraculous intervention. It's the way the miracle happens. God doesn't smite the Amorites with lightning bolts. Instead, He works through their own advisors, planting seeds of doubt and fear in their hearts. It's a reminder that sometimes, the greatest miracles come in the form of a change of heart, a shift in perspective, or a sudden realization that maybe, just maybe, fighting isn't always the answer.

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Jasher 51Book of Jasher

Remember, this is an ancient Hebrew text, not considered canon, but full of fascinating stories filling in gaps in the biblical narrative.

Our story picks up with Jacob and his sons back in Canaan, facing a brutal famine. "Behold I hear that there is corn in Egypt," Jacob says, urging his sons to journey there to buy grain. Why be the only ones starving, he reasons? So, off they go, except for young Benjamin, whom Jacob keeps close, fearing another loss like they suffered with Joseph.

As they travel, the brothers’ consciences start to prick. "We know that our brother Joseph went down to Egypt," they say to each other, according to the Book of Jasher. They decide to find him, ransom him, or even use force to free him. It's a brave, if belated, act of repentance.

Jacob, ever the cautious patriarch, gives them a strange instruction: "When you come into the city do not enter together in one gate." It seems like odd advice. Well, it's about to complicate things in a major way.

Arriving in Egypt, they split up, entering through ten different gates. Each gatekeeper dutifully records their names and sends the list to…you guessed it, Joseph!

Now, Joseph, who is a powerful man in Egypt, recognizes his brothers' names. He orders all the grain stores closed, except for one, and stations a man there with the list of his brothers' names. Anyone with those names? Arrest them!

Meanwhile, the brothers, true to their word, are searching for Joseph. And where do they look? The red-light district. "They went to the walls of the harlots," the verse says, "for they thought that Joseph would come in the walls of the harlots, for Joseph was very comely and well favored.” It's a shocking detail, isn't it? It shows just how little they understood their brother.

For three days, they search, but no luck. The storehouse manager, puzzled, tells Joseph that these guys haven’t shown up. So, Joseph sends out sixteen servants to find them. Eventually, four of them find the brothers in… you guessed it, the "house of harlots."

Brought before Joseph, they bow low. He is sitting on his throne, “clothed with princely garments, and upon his head was a large crown of gold." They don't recognize him, so great is his power and changed appearance.

The encounter is fraught with tension. Joseph accuses them of being spies. They deny it, explaining they are brothers searching for their lost sibling. Joseph pounces on their story. Why would sons of Abraham be looking in such places?

The brothers explain they heard Joseph was sold to the Ishmaelites and taken to Egypt. Because he was "comely and well favored," they assumed the worst. Joseph, still testing them, says, "Surely you speak falsely…as Pharaoh liveth you are spies."

He demands they prove their honesty by sending one of them back to fetch their youngest brother, Benjamin. Until then, one of them will remain as a hostage.

Joseph then leaves the room and breaks down, overcome with emotion. But he steels himself, returns, and chooses Simeon as the hostage. But Simeon, strong and defiant, refuses to be bound.

Chaos erupts! Joseph calls for seventy of his strongest men, but Simeon's roar terrifies them, sending them fleeing. Only Joseph and his son Manasseh remain. Manasseh, enraged, strikes Simeon, finally subduing him. The brothers are astonished by the youth’s strength. Simeon tells his brothers, "None of you must say that this is the smiting of an Egyptian, but it is the smiting of the house of my father." A cryptic line, isn't it? Almost as if he recognizes something of Jacob's lineage in Manasseh's strength.

Joseph orders their sacks filled with grain, their money secretly returned, and provisions given for the journey. He warns them to bring Benjamin back.

On the road, Levi discovers the money in his sack. Fear grips them. "What is this that God hath done unto us?" they cry. Judah reminds them of their guilt in selling Joseph. Reuben, ever the voice of conscience, says, "Said I not unto you, do not sin against the lad…now God requireth him from us."

They return to Jacob, who is distraught at Simeon's absence.

What does it all mean? This chapter is a masterclass in dramatic irony. We, the readers, know who Joseph is, while his brothers are completely in the dark. The weight of their past actions, their guilt, and the mysterious workings of fate hang heavy in the air. It’s a reminder that even years later, our choices can come back to confront us, often in unexpected and challenging ways. And sometimes, just sometimes, those challenges can lead to unexpected reconciliation. What do you think? Is this a story of divine justice, or one of human fallibility? Or perhaps, a bit of both?

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Book of Jubilees 45:21Book of Jubilees

The Torah is full of these moments, these transitions, these reminders of our own mortality. And the Book of Jubilees, that fascinating text that expands upon Genesis, Exodus, and more, gives us another glimpse into that very feeling with the passing of Jacob.

The Book of Jubilees, considered apocryphal (meaning "of questionable authenticity") by some but deeply revered by others, paints a very specific timeline of history. It divides time into Jubilees, which are 49-year periods. So, according to Jubilees 45, Jacob passed away "in the fourth year of the fifth week of the forty-fifth jubilee." A very precise dating, wouldn’t you say?

What's more important than the date is what happened before he died. Imagine the scene. Jacob, nearing the end of his days, gathers his sons around him. This isn't just a goodbye; it's a moment of profound importance. He blesses them, yes, but he also shares something more. He tells them what will befall them in the land of Egypt.

Think about the weight of that moment. He knows the future hardships, the slavery, the suffering that awaits his descendants. And yet, he still blesses them. He still imparts his wisdom. It reminds us of the importance of legacy, of preparing the next generation for the challenges to come.

And he doesn't just offer blessings; he also bestows a double portion of inheritance to Joseph. This is significant, recognizing Joseph’s unique role and the blessings that were given to him.

Finally that Jacob "slept with his fathers." A common phrase, a gentle euphemism for death. And he was buried in the "double cave" – the Machpelah – in the land of Canaan, near Abraham. This is no ordinary burial site. This is a place of immense historical and spiritual significance, a connection to the very roots of the Jewish people. The cave itself, located in Hebron, is considered the second holiest site in Judaism.

The narrative is brief, but packs an emotional punch. The Book of Jubilees reminds us that even in death, there is continuity. Jacob's life, his blessings, his legacy, they all live on through his sons, through his people. His burial in the Machpelah connects him to the past and foreshadows the future.

So, what do we take away from this brief passage? Perhaps it's a reminder to cherish the moments we have with our loved ones. To pass on our wisdom, our blessings, and our traditions to the next generation. And to remember that even in the face of hardship, there is always hope, always the promise of a brighter future. Just as Jacob did for his sons, and for all of us.

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