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Moses Refused to Let Death Take Him Quietly

The Angel of Death came into the tent, and Moses spoke the Ineffable Name at him until he fled. On the third approach Moses met him with open hands.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Word Became a Sword
  2. The Case Against the Fathers
  3. The Orphan Bride's Plea
  4. Creation Refused to Hide Him
  5. The Angel Came Three Times
  6. The Soul That Had to Be Persuaded

Moses did not walk quietly into death.

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He had stood inside the dark cloud, heard the voice at Sinai, carried tablets down to a people already breaking them, and dragged Israel through hunger, thirst, rebellion, plague, and mercy. When God told him the days had drawn near for him to die, Moses did what he had always done when a decree crushed Israel or himself.

He argued.

The Word Became a Sword

The sentence began with a word Moses knew well: hen, behold. He had lifted it once in praise. "Behold, the heavens and the heaven of heavens belong to the Lord your God" (Deuteronomy 10:14). Now God turned the same word back on him. "Behold, your days draw near to die" (Deuteronomy 31:14).

Rabbi Abbahu caught the cruelty of that reversal in a parable. A nobleman found the finest sword in the world and brought it to the king as a gift. The king admired the blade, then ordered the nobleman's head cut off with it. Moses had handed God a word of praise, and God made the word into the instrument of his death.

Moses refused to pretend acceptance. "I climbed to the heavens," he protested. "I entered the dark cloud where You dwell. I spoke with You face to face and received the Torah from Your hand. Was all of it only so my body could become food for worms?"

The Case Against the Fathers

God answered with precedent. Death had already been decreed over the first Adam. Moses would not let the comparison stand. Adam was given one easy commandment and broke it; Moses had carried six hundred and thirteen. God named Abraham. Moses answered that Abraham fathered Ishmael. God named Isaac. Moses answered that Isaac fathered Esau, who would one day burn the Temple. God named Jacob, and Moses could only say that Jacob's sons had all served heaven, not one gone astray.

Behind the roll call stood a verse that closed like a door: "Who is the man who lives and does not see death?" (Psalms 89:49). Abraham had walked out of a fiery furnace, and still he expired (Genesis 25:8). Isaac had stretched himself on the altar under his father's knife, and still grew old not knowing the day of his death (Genesis 27:2). Jacob had wrestled an angel until dawn, and still the time approached for Israel to die (Genesis 47:29). Rabbi Hanina told of a pleading spirit, Pisqonit, who stands before the King like a senator with the ledger open: Abraham tasted death, and so did Nimrod the wicked; Moses will taste it, and so did Pharaoh. All flesh goes to one place. What then did the righteous gain? Solomon's answer came back quietly: the souls of the righteous are stored beneath the Throne of Glory.

The Orphan Bride's Plea

When precedent failed, Moses changed his plea. The sages told it as a parable of a king who saw an orphaned woman and wanted to marry her. Seven times he sent to propose, and seven times she answered, "I am not fit to marry the king." At last she consented. Years later, when the king grew angry and moved to divorce her for another, she said, "I have no shame if you send me away, for it was you who sought me. Only do not do to the next wife what you have done to me."

So Moses at the thornbush had spent seven days saying, "I am not a man of words" (Exodus 4:10), and God had courted him into the mission anyway. Now, told he would not cross the Jordan, Moses answered in the orphan bride's voice: "You began this. I have no shame in being turned back. Only do not do to the one who brings them in what You have done to me. Let him go before them" (Numbers 27:17). He begged for Joshua's sake what he could no longer have for his own. And God closed the hearing: "It is enough for you; do not speak to Me of this matter again" (Deuteronomy 3:26).

Creation Refused to Hide Him

Moses turned outward. He asked heaven and earth to intercede, then the mountains and hills, the sea, the wilderness, the sun and moon and stars. The sea could remember splitting. The wilderness could remember manna falling into the morning silence. Sinai could remember trembling under the voice. None of them could overturn what had been sealed.

He knew already how it felt when the closest voices fail. Years before, his own brother had spoken against him, Aaron beside Miriam, over the Cushite woman he had married (Numbers 12:1). The sages pictured two snakes at a crossroads, one venomous, one harmless, and a bewildered snake charmer asking why the harmless one keeps such company. Miriam's words Moses could fathom. But Aaron, "my ally, who ate my bread" (Psalms 41:10), the brother who had stood with burning incense between the dead and the living, that bite had no reason in it. Now every voice had failed or fallen silent, and God had commanded his own voice to stop.

The Angel Came Three Times

Then the Angel of Death was sent. "The Holy One has sent me," the Angel announced. "You are departing today." Moses looked at the creature that had emptied every generation and refused. "Go from here. I intend to praise the Holy One. 'I shall not die but live, and tell the deeds of the Lord'" (Psalms 118:17). The Angel pressed him: heaven and earth already praise Him every hour. "Then I will silence them and praise Him myself," Moses said. "Listen, heavens, and I will speak" (Deuteronomy 32:1).

The Angel came a second time. Moses spoke the Ineffable Name at him, and the Angel fled the tent. On the third approach Moses stopped him with open hands. "The decree is from the Lord," he said. "I accept the judgment. The Rock, His work is perfect" (Deuteronomy 32:4).

Even surrender kept its precision. "Woe to my feet that never walked in the Land of Israel. Woe to my hands that never plucked its fruit. Woe to my throat that never tasted the milk and honey."

The Soul That Had to Be Persuaded

At the last, God did not leave the work to the Angel. Moses spoke with his own soul. He asked whether it feared the Angel of Death, whether it wept at leaving, whether it dreaded judgment. The soul answered out of the psalm: "You rescued me from death, my eyes from tears, my feet from stumbling. I will walk before the Lord in the land of the living" (Psalms 116:8-9). Moses gave it leave. "Return, my soul, to your rest" (Psalms 116:7).

God Himself drew the soul out by His mouth, the same mouth that had spoken to Moses from the thornbush, from Sinai, and from between the cherubim for forty years. Below, Israel answered, "Torah, Moses commanded us" (Deuteronomy 33:4). He died on the seventh of Adar, one hundred and twenty years to the day from his birth, because God completes the years of the righteous exactly, "I will fill the number of your days" (Exodus 23:26). Not a day more. Not a day less.

He fought it all the way there.

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Midrash Tanchuma, Vaetchanan 6Midrash Tanchuma

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.Townsend 1989 translation of Midrash Tanhuma, S. Buber Recension · CC-BY

God told Moses: "Do not speak to Me on this matter again" (Deuteronomy 3:26). The decree was final. But Moses argued anyway.

Rabbi Abbahu offered a parable. A nobleman found a magnificent sword, unmatched in all the world. And brought it to the king as a gift. The king took the sword, admired it, then said: "Cut off his head with it." Moses understood the parable perfectly. He had praised God with the word hen, "Behold, the heavens and the heavens of heavens belong to the Lord your God" (Deuteronomy 10:14). And God used that very word to sentence him: "Behold (hen), the days are drawing near for you to die" (Deuteronomy 31:14). The instrument of praise became the instrument of death.

Moses protested: "I ascended to the heavens! I entered the Araphel, the dark cloud where You dwell! I spoke with You face to face and received the Torah from Your hand! Was it all for nothing, just to end as food for worms?"

God replied: "I have already decreed death over the first Adam." Moses shot back: "Adam deserved it. You gave him one easy commandment and he broke it. But I kept all six hundred and thirteen commandments!" God said: "Abraham also died." Moses answered: "Abraham fathered Ishmael, whose descendants do wicked things." God said: "Isaac also died." Moses replied: "Isaac fathered Esau, who destroyed the Temple." God said: "Jacob also died." Moses answered: "Jacob's sons all served You, not one went astray."

Moses ran out of arguments but not out of grief. He wept: "Woe to my feet that never walked in the Land of Israel! Woe to my hands that never plucked its fruit! Woe to my throat that never tasted the milk and honey!"

He died on the seventh of Adar, exactly one hundred and twenty years to the day after his birth. The sages calculated backward from the crossing of the Jordan on the tenth of Nisan (Joshua 4:19), minus thirty days of mourning, to prove that God fulfills the years of the righteous precisely, "I will complete the number of your days" (Exodus 23:26). Not a single day more. Not a single day less.

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Midrash Tanchuma, Vaetchanan 5Midrash Tanchuma

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.Townsend 1989 translation of Midrash Tanhuma, S. Buber Recension · CC-BY

"Lord God, You have begun" (Deuteronomy 3:24): There is a [relevant] parable: To what is this comparable? To a king that saw an orphaned woman and sought to marry her. He sent to propose to her. She said, "I am not fit to marry the king." He sent [again] and proposed seven times, but she did not listen to him. After a while, she married the king. [Later,] the king got angry with her and sought to divorce her and marry another [woman]. The first one said, "I have no shame if you divorce me, as it is you who sought me to begin with. However since you are divorcing me, I plead with you, do not do to this [wife] like what you have done to me." So [too] did the Holy One, blessed be He, do to Moshe. He seduced him for seven days. And [Moshe] said to him (Exodus 4:10), "I am not a man of words." After a while, the Holy One, blessed be He, appeased him. [So] he went on His mission, and all of the miracles happened through him. In the end, [God] said to him, "For 'you shall not enter [the land]'" (Deuteronomy 32:52). [So] Moshe our teacher said to Him, "Master of the world, if You do not want me to bring them to the land, I have no shame, as 'You began,'" which is an expression of beginning; "but since You have decreed this upon me, do not do to the one who brings them like You have done to me, 'That he should go in front of them [...] and that he bring them' (Numbers 27:17)." "And the Lord said to me, 'It is enough (rav) for you; do not add'" (Deuteronomy 3:26). As your opponent has preceded you. As so did Iyov state (Job 31:35), "O that I had someone to give me a hearing; O that the Omnipresent would reply to my writ, or my opponent (eesh rivi) write a book (a bill of charges)!" And which book [is that]? "This is the book of the generations of Adam" (Genesis 5:1, as Adam brought death to the world). What did Job say? "Small and great are there, and the slave is free of his master" (Job 3:19). Therefore, "It is enough."

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Midrash Tanchuma Buber, V'Zot HaBerachah 5:1Midrash Tanchuma Buber, V'Zot HaBerachah

Translation of the source text.Midrash Tanchuma (Buber), Public Domain, on Sefaria · CC-BY-SA

"And the Lord said to Moses: Behold, your days draw near that you must die" (Deuteronomy 31:14). This is what Scripture says: "Behold, the righteous shall be requited on the earth" (Proverbs 11:31). Concerning whom was this verse said? It was said of none but Moses the righteous, who had none like him, neither among the prophets nor among the sages, for the Holy One, blessed be He, testifies of him after his death, "And there arose no prophet again in Israel like Moses" (Deuteronomy 34:10). Even so, it was not within his power to save himself from death. For thus said David, "For we are strangers before You, and sojourners, as all our fathers were; our days on the earth are as a shadow, and there is no hope" (I Chronicles 29:15). But is it not written, "Hope in the Lord and keep His way, and He shall exalt you to inherit the land" (Psalm 37:34)? Then what does Scripture teach by "and there is no hope"? David said: Master of the universe, for all conditions of man there is hope, if he is poor, until he becomes rich; weak, until he becomes mighty; sick, until he is healed; imprisoned in the prison-house, until they release him; but for the day of death there is no hope. For behold, the Holy One, blessed be He, spoke with Moses face to face, and he could not save himself from death. And so Solomon said, "All things come alike to all: there is one event to the righteous and to the wicked" (Ecclesiastes 9:2). Rabbi Hanina said: There is a decreeing spirit that has permission to speak before the Holy One, blessed be He, like an officer before the king, and it says before Him: Master of the universe, all flesh is for death. Abraham, death tried him; wicked Nimrod, death tried him; Isaac, death tried him; Abimelech, death tried him; Moses, death tried him; wicked Pharaoh, death tried him. For thus said Solomon, "All go to one place" (ibid. 3:20). And now, what did the righteous gain, who occupied themselves with Torah and commandments and good deeds in this world, and what did the wicked lose, who sinned and caused others to sin in this world? Solomon explained it: "Who knows the spirit of the children of men…" (ibid. 3:21). "The spirit of the children of men", these are the souls of the righteous, which are laid up and stored beneath the Throne of Glory; "and the spirit of the beast that goes downward to the earth" (ibid.), these are the souls of the wicked, which go down to Gehinnom. And so it says, "Yet you shall be brought down to Sheol…" (Isaiah 14:15). And from where do we know that the righteous are called "man"? For so said Jonah, "And shall I not have pity on Nineveh… in which are more than twelve myriad persons… and much cattle" (Jonah 4:11). "Man", these are the righteous; "cattle", these are the wicked, whose deeds are like the deeds of the wicked. Therefore it is said, "Behold, the righteous shall be requited on the earth."

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Devarim Rabbah 6:11Devarim Rabbah

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah, 2022 · CC-BY

In Devarim Rabbah, a collection of rabbinic teachings on the Book of Deuteronomy, we find a powerful exploration of this very feeling, wrapped in a story about snakes and the prophet Moses.

The passage begins with a striking parable. Rabbi Yitzḥak compares the situation to a poisonous snake, an akhina, lurking at a crossroads, biting unsuspecting passersby. Then, a non-venomous snake, a darvon, joins it. A snake charmer arrives and wonders why the harmless snake would associate with such a dangerous creature.

This imagery sets the stage for understanding Moses's hurt. He's confronting the fact that both Miriam and Aaron, his own siblings, spoke against him. As Moses laments, "Miriam spoke, and also Aaron?" (Numbers 12:1). He understands that Miriam, perhaps, might be prone to certain. tendencies. But Aaron? That cuts deep.

He cries out, quoting (Psalms 41:10): "Even my ally, upon whom I relied, who partook of my bread, has lifted his heel against me?" He refers to Aaron as "ish shlomi," "my ally," the one who bestows peace – shalom – upon him, echoing the priestly blessing, "He will grant peace to you" (Numbers 6:26). Aaron was also the one who, as the text reminds us, stopped the angel of death, as recounted in (Numbers 17:15). And, as a priest, he received twenty-four priestly gifts from Israel. With all that history and shared experience, how could he turn against Moses?

The text then veers into a somewhat uncomfortable, though revealing, tangent. Rabbi Levi suggests that women have four negative traits: they are gluttons, eavesdroppers, jealous, and lazy. These claims are supported with biblical examples: Eve eating the forbidden fruit (Genesis 3:6) as evidence of gluttony; Sarah listening at the tent entrance (Genesis 18:10) as proof of eavesdropping; Rachel's jealousy of her sister (Genesis 30:1); and the need to hurry Sarah to prepare food (Genesis 18:6) as evidence of laziness. The Rabbis add two more: that women are sensitive and talkative, again referencing biblical stories to support their claims.

Now, it's important to acknowledge that these are interpretations from a specific time and place. We can read them today with a critical eye, recognizing the historical context and potential biases. What's fascinating, though, is the underlying attempt to understand human nature and to confront perceived differences between men and women.

Rabbi Yehoshua of Sikhnin offers another interpretation, a midrashic (rabbinic interpretive commentary) exploration of Eve's creation. He suggests that God deliberately avoided creating her from certain body parts to prevent specific negative traits: not from the eye (to avoid curiosity), not from the ear (to prevent eavesdropping), not from the mouth (to avoid chatter), not from the hand (to avoid stealing), and not from the foot (to avoid wandering). Instead, she was created from a "concealed limb," the thigh.

Yet, despite God's intentions, these traits still emerged, even in the most upright women. Eve still saw the fruit; Sarah still listened; Rachel still stole (the household idols, as mentioned in (Genesis 31:1)9); Leah still went out to greet Jacob (Genesis 30:16); and Miriam still spoke out. As the text concludes, "See what befell her: 'Remember what the Lord your God did to Miriam.'"

What does all this mean? Perhaps it’s a reflection on the limitations of even divine intervention in shaping human character. Or maybe it's a commentary on the enduring power of free will. It definitely highlights the complexities of relationships and the pain of betrayal, even within families. It also serves as a reminder to examine our own biases and assumptions about others, especially those who are different from us. And it compels us to remember Miriam, and to consider the consequences of our words and actions.

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Devarim Rabbah 9:4Devarim Rabbah

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah, 2022 · CC-BY

Even Moses, the great lawgiver, felt it.

In Devarim Rabbah, a collection of rabbinic teachings on the Book of Deuteronomy, we find a poignant moment where Moses pleads with God. He says, essentially, "After all I've seen, all the miracles, all the glory… I still have to die?"

God's response? It's not exactly comforting, but it’s profound. He quotes (Psalms 89:49): "Who is the man who lives and does not see death?"

What does that mean? The text goes on to explore this question, and it's where things get really interesting. Rabbi Tanhuma, a well-known sage, unpacks it by giving us a series of examples.

Who is a man like Abraham, who was thrown into a fiery furnace and miraculously saved? A story, by the way, that's found in various Midrashic (rabbinic interpretive commentary) sources and expanded upon in Ginzberg's Legends of the Jews. Yet, even Abraham "expired and died" (Genesis 25:8).

Then there's Isaac, who willingly offered himself as a sacrifice on the altar, a story that still sends shivers down our spines. But even he, later in life, lamented, "Behold, I have now grown old; I do not know the day of my death" (Genesis 27:2). Even after that incredible act of faith, mortality came knocking.

What about Jacob, who wrestled with an angel? A powerful image. But even for him, "the time of Israel approached to die" (Genesis 47:29).

And finally, Moses himself, who spoke to God "face to face" – an unparalleled level of intimacy and connection. But even to him, God says, "behold, your days are approaching to die."

It’s a sobering thought. No matter how righteous, how brave, how close to God we are, death is an inevitable part of the human experience. This isn't meant to be depressing, though.

Perhaps the point isn't to escape death, but to live a life so meaningful, so impactful, that our actions resonate far beyond our own lifespan. To make our lives evidence of something greater than ourselves. To leave the world a little brighter than we found it.

Is it about accepting mortality or striving for something that transcends it? Maybe it's a little of both. Maybe it's about how we choose to live in the face of the inevitable.

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Devarim Rabbah 11:5Devarim Rabbah

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah, 2022 · CC-BY

Devarim Rabbah, a collection of rabbinic teachings on the Book of Deuteronomy, gives us a glimpse into that incredible scene, a cosmic struggle between life and death, between Moses and the Angel of Death.

The text asks, what does "before his death" even mean? And the Rabbis answer with a truly audacious image: Moses actually took the Angel of Death and threw him before himself! Can you imagine the sheer force of will?

Rabbi Meir elaborates, picturing the Angel of Death approaching Moses with the message: "The Holy One, blessed be He, sent me to you, for you are departing today." But Moses, ever the servant of God, refuses. "Go from here," he says, "as I seek to laud the Holy One, blessed be He!" He quotes (Psalm 118:17): "May I not die but live, so I may relate the deeds of the Lord."

The Angel of Death, not easily deterred, challenges Moses’s hubris. "Why are you being arrogant?" he asks. "He has those who will laud him. The heavens and the earth laud him every hour, as it is stated: 'The heavens relate the glory of God' (Psalms 19:2)." But Moses retorts, "I will silence them and laud him!" invoking (Deuteronomy 32:1), "Listen, heavens, and I will speak, [and the earth will hear the sayings of my mouth]."

This scene plays out like a divine chess match. The Angel returns a second time, but Moses, in his immense power, invokes the ineffable Name of God – the Shem HaMeforash – against him, and the Angel flees. (Deuteronomy 32:3) provides the source: "For I will call out the name of the Lord."

Finally, on the third approach, Moses accepts his fate. "Since he [the angel of death] is from the Lord, I must accept the judgment," he concedes. (Deuteronomy 32:4) seals this moment: "The Rock: His actions are perfect." It's a powerful reminder of submission to the Divine will.

But the story doesn't end there. Rabbi Yitzḥak offers a moving inner dialogue, a conversation between Moses and his own soul. Moses asks his soul if it fears the Angel of Death, if it weeps at the sight of impending loss, if it dreads judgment in Gehenna (Gehinnom, the place of spiritual purification in Jewish tradition). The soul, however, remains steadfast, quoting Psalm 116, "For You rescued me from death… My eyes from tears… My feet from stumbling… I will walk before the Lord in the land of the living."

Hearing this, Moses grants his soul permission to depart, saying, "Return, my soul to your restfulness.." (Psalms 116:7).

Rabbi Avin adds a final, beautiful touch. As Moses’s soul departs, both the earthly and heavenly realms sing his praises. Those in the lower worlds proclaim, "Torah, Moses commanded us" (Deuteronomy 33:4), while those in the upper worlds declare, "He performed the righteousness of the Lord.." (Deuteronomy 33:21). And, ultimately, the Holy One, blessed be He, lauds him, "There has not arisen another prophet in Israel like Moses" (Deuteronomy 34:10).

What does this all mean? It's more than just a story about death. It's evidence of Moses’s unwavering devotion, his constant striving to praise God, even in the face of the ultimate challenge. It's a reminder that even in our own struggles, we can find strength in faith and the courage to face whatever comes our way. And perhaps, it's a glimpse into the profound mystery of the soul's journey.

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