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Abraham Asked Because God Had Already Said Ask

Eliezer still ran the house. Abraham looked at the dark and asked what was left to give. Years later a king came to the well for peace.

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Table of Contents
  1. The Invitation Already Spoken
  2. The King at the Well
  3. A Philosopher Brings Leftovers
  4. The Room Was Not Older Than God

Abraham stood in the dark with no child and a steward named Eliezer of Damascus, and he opened his mouth. "My Lord God, what will You give me, seeing that I go childless?" (Genesis 15:2).

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Sarah's tent was quiet. Eliezer's footsteps faded toward the house he still ran. The stars were out, and the promise felt thinner than the night. It was not a polite question. It was a man putting the whole promise on the table and asking whether the table was empty.

The Invitation Already Spoken

He would not have said "What will You give me" unless God had already said, "Make a request." Rabbi Yonatan counted the mouths that were told to ask. Solomon at Gibeon, in a dream: "Request what I shall give you" (I Kings 3:5). Ahaz, even Ahaz: "Request a sign for yourself from the Lord" (Isaiah 7:11). The king still to come: "Ask of Me, and I will make the nations your heritage" (Psalms 2:8).

Rabbi Berekhya and Rabbi Aha, in the name of Rabbi Shmuel, added two more from the older stories. Abraham. Jacob, who vowed a tithe of everything given him (Genesis 28:22) because the giving had already been offered. A man does not tithe a gift no one has placed in his hands.

Abraham asked because he had been invited. God had not grown smaller. God had come close enough to be petitioned. He waited in the dark for an answer that would have to be a person, not a speech.

The King at the Well

Years later Avimelekh came to Beer-sheba with Phicol, captain of his army. Dust on the horses. Armor that had once belonged to a raid. "God is with you in everything that you do" (Genesis 21:22). He wanted an oath. He wanted a treaty. The man who had taken Sarah and been warned in the night now stood at Abraham's well and asked for peace.

When the Lord is pleased with a man's ways, He causes even his enemies to make peace with him (Proverbs 16:7). Avimelekh was the enemy in that verse, walking in under his own flag, asking not to be left outside the blessing.

Abraham did not have to bargain God down to get a treaty. The treaty arrived because God had not been bargained down. Water came up from the well. Phicol's hand left the sword hilt. The oath was spoken in a place where an enemy had decided to stop being only an enemy.

A Philosopher Brings Leftovers

Centuries later a philosopher sat with Rabban Gamliel and tried a compliment that was a trap. "Your God is a great artist," he said. He tapped the table as if counting leftover stock. "Every artist needs material. The chaos, the void, the darkness, the deep water. Those were already there. God arranged what existed. He did not create."

Gamliel did not grant him the leftover clay. He did not smile. He reached for verses the way a man reaches for tools when the room has been insulted.

He went to Isaiah: I form light and create darkness, I make peace and create evil (Isaiah 45:7). Not arrange. Create. Then Amos: He forms the mountains and creates the wind (Amos 4:13). Then Proverbs: when there were no depths, I generated them (Proverbs 8:24). Then Psalms: He commanded, and they were created (Psalm 148:5).

Tohu and bohu (תהו ובהו), the waste and the void, were not a warehouse God found. Darkness was not a leftover. The deep was not waiting like unused timber. Nothing was lying around when God started.

The Room Was Not Older Than God

Abraham had asked for a son as if the Giver still had more to give. Avimelekh had come to the well as if a blessing could not be fenced by a border. The philosopher had tried to make God a craftsman among craftsmen, skilled, limited, working with what the room already held.

Gamliel would not let the room be older than God. If the void itself was made, then a childless man may ask, and an enemy may find himself walking toward a well he did not expect to need.

Abraham's question stayed in the air. What will You give me. The answer was not a smaller God. The answer was a son, a treaty, and a world that had never been leftover clay.

The philosopher left with his compliment unused. Gamliel kept the verses on the table like stones that would not be moved. At Beer-sheba the well was still a well. In the dark where Abraham had stood, the invitation had not been withdrawn. A childless mouth had been told to ask. An enemy had been turned. Leftover clay had been refused.


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Bereshit Rabbah 1:9Bereshit Rabbah

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah, 2022 · CC-BY

The philosopher's challenge cuts right to the heart of things. He essentially says, "Your God is impressive, sure, but didn't He have a little help? All that…stuff…the emptiness, the chaos, the darkness – wasn’t that already there?"

Rabban Gamliel, a towering figure of Jewish wisdom, wasn’t having any of it. His response, though brief, is powerful. He basically dismisses the philosopher's premise, asserting that God didn't just stumble upon these raw materials. He created them.

The Rabbis of the Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary), in Bereshit Rabbah, back it up with scripture. Where did that initial void, that tohu vavohu – the emptiness and disorder – come from? The prophet Isaiah (45:7) gives us a clue: "Who makes peace and creates evil." The same God is behind both.

What about darkness? Isaiah again (45:7): "who forms light [and creates darkness]." Light and darkness, two sides of the same divine coin.

Even the waters above the heavens, mentioned in Psalms (148:4), didn't exist independently. "For He commanded and they were created" (Psalms 148:5). The very act of divine command brought them into being.

The wind, that invisible force? Amos (4:13) tells us that God "forms mountains and creates wind." And those mysterious depths, the tehomot? Proverbs (8:24) states, "when there were no depths, I generated."

Ginzberg, in Legends of the Jews, beautifully expands on this, painting a picture of a God whose creative power extends to absolutely everything.

So, what’s the takeaway? It's not just about proving God's power. It’s about understanding the absolute scope of creation. God isn't just a skilled craftsman working with pre-existing materials. He is the ultimate source. He is the origin of everything, even the things that seem like nothingness. Even the void. Even the darkness. Maybe especially those things.

And that, perhaps, is the most profound mystery of all.

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Bereshit Rabbah 44:8Bereshit Rabbah

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Abraham, our patriarch, knew that feeling. In (Genesis 15:2), he cries out, "My Lord God, what will You give me, seeing that I go childless, and the one who has charge of my house is Damascus Eliezer?"

It's a poignant moment. Abraham has everything… except the one thing that truly matters to him: an heir. But what’s fascinating is not just the question itself, but the audacity behind it. According to Rabbi Yonatan, Abraham is in good company when he dares to ask God for something.

Rabbi Yonatan points out that there are three figures in the Tanakh – the Hebrew Bible – who were explicitly told to “make a request.” First, there's Solomon, the wisest of all men. Remember the story? "In Gibeon the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream at night, and God said: Request what I shall give you" (I Kings 3:5).

Then there's Ahaz, a king of Judah, though not exactly known for his righteousness. Yet, even he gets the offer: "Request a sign for yourself from the Lord" (Isaiah 7:11). It's a moment of potential redemption, a chance to connect with the Divine.

And finally, Rabbi Yonatan includes the messianic king, a figure of future hope and redemption. Of him, it is written: “Ask of Me, and I will make the nations your heritage” (Psalms 2:8).

But here’s where it gets even more interesting. Rabbi Berekhya and Rabbi Aḥa, citing Rabbi Shmuel, add two more names to the list from the realm of aggada – the storytelling portion of the Talmud that fleshes out Biblical narratives. They suggest that both Abraham and Jacob were also implicitly invited to ask.: Abraham wouldn't have pleaded "My Lord God, what will You give me?" unless God had already, in some unspoken way, given him permission to ask. It’s as if there was an unspoken invitation hanging in the air.

Similarly, consider Jacob. Remember his famous vow at Bethel? "Everything that You will give me I will tithe to You" (Genesis 28:22). Rabbi Berekhya and Rabbi Aḥa argue that he wouldn't have made such a bold promise unless God had first signaled, "Ask, and I will give."

So, what does this all mean? It means that sometimes, the biggest blessings come when we dare to ask, when we dare to voice our deepest desires and needs to the Divine.

And maybe, just maybe, the invitation to "make a request" is always there, hovering just beneath the surface, waiting for us to have the courage to speak up. Are we listening? Are we asking?

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Bereshit Rabbah 54:1Bereshit Rabbah

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Like something’s not quite adding up. Well, our sages grappled with that very idea, digging deep into a verse in Genesis and a proverb from the Book of Proverbs to uncover some surprising truths about how we work through the world.

(Genesis 21:22) tells us, "It was at that time, Avimelekh and Pikhol, the captain of his army, said to Abraham, saying: God is with you in everything that you do." And (Proverbs 16:7) states, “When the Lord is pleased with the ways of a man, He will cause even his enemies to make peace with him.” But what does it really mean for your enemies to make peace with you?

Bereshit Rabbah, a classic collection of rabbinic interpretations of the Book of Genesis, asks this very question. What exactly does this proverb signify? Our rabbis offer some striking, and at times, unsettling answers.

Rabbi Yoḥanan suggests a rather sobering thought: This proverb refers to a man's wife! He points to (Micah 7:6), "The members of his household are a man’s enemy." And to illustrate this point, the text tells a chilling story of a woman who complained to the authorities about her husband, leading to his execution. While some say she was later beheaded as well, the core message is clear: those closest to us can sometimes be our greatest adversaries. Whoa.

Then, Rabbi Shmuel offers a completely different interpretation: it's about snakes! Rabbi Ḥalafta taught that snakes have a thing for garlic. The story goes that a mountain snake once invaded a house, gobbled up a bowl of garlic, and then, to add insult to injury, poisoned it. A house snake, unable to fight off the intruder, later protected the family by covering the poisoned garlic with dirt. This tale highlights how even seemingly dangerous creatures can play a role in protecting us when "the Lord is pleased with our ways."

But Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi takes us to a much more internal, and perhaps more familiar, battle: the yetzer hara (יֵצֶר הָרַע) – the evil inclination. He argues that while most companions grow fond of each other over time, the yetzer hara remains a constant adversary, waiting for any opportunity to lead us astray, even in our old age. As David laments in (Psalm 35:10), "All my bones will say: Lord, who is like You, who delivers the poor from those who are stronger, the poor and the needy from their despoiler?" Rabbi Aḥa emphasizes that there is no greater despoiler than the yetzer hara.

So how do we combat this inner enemy? Solomon offers a solution in (Proverbs 25:21): "If your enemy is hungry, feed him bread; and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink." But the rabbis interpret this metaphorically: "bread" and "water" refer to the Torah. By engaging with Torah, we weaken the evil inclination. We feed it something it can't digest, so to speak. By feeding it with Torah, as it says in (Proverbs 9:4), "Come partake of my bread" and (Isaiah 55:1), "Ho, everyone who thirsts, come to the waters," we starve its power over us.

Rabbi Berekhya expands the scope even further. When (Proverbs 16:7) says "even his enemies," the Hebrew word gam (גם) indicates inclusion. Even these minor annoyances are kept at bay when "the Lord is pleased with the ways of a man."

Finally, the midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) circles back to Abraham himself. It connects the "man" (ish – איש) in the proverb to Abraham, who is referred to as "The man of My counsel from a distant land" in (Isaiah 46:11). And "even his enemies" refers to Avimelekh.

So, what's the takeaway from all of this? Perhaps it's that the concept of "enemies" is far more complex than we initially assume. Sometimes, our enemies are external, like Avimelekh. Sometimes, they are internal, like the yetzer hara. And sometimes, they are even those closest to us. When we strive to live righteously, we find protection and even unexpected alliances in the most surprising places. It begs the question: what "enemies" might actually be blessings in disguise, pushing us to grow and seek deeper meaning?

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