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Widow and Sons Die Waiting for Gleanings

A landowner bars a widow's boys from the field, mother and sons die the same day, and heaven answers that the life taken will be exacted in full.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. Seven Sins, Seven Answers
  2. Covetousness Scales Into Slavery
  3. When the Powerful Only Need You
  4. Two Sages Walk Toward the Sword

The widow watched the path from the field. Her two sons had gone to glean. Perhaps they would bring something home. The sons walked with the opposite hope: perhaps their mother had found something while they were gone. The landowner had already refused them the right to gather. They met again with empty hands. They put their heads between their mother's knees. All three died in one day.

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The Holy One said to the landowner, "You have taken their lives. As you live, I will exact your life from you." Scripture already warned: rob not the weak because he is weak, for the Lord will plead their cause and despoil of life those that despoil them.

No thunderclap is described. The teaching lets the silence after the three deaths do the work. The field that looked full was empty of law.

Seven Sins, Seven Answers

Avot DeRabbi Natan maps the weather of justice. Some give tithes and others do not: famine by drought, hunger beside plenty. Heave-offering withheld: famine through tumult. Dough-offering withheld: famine of extermination. All resolve not to tithe: heavens close, men toil without sufficiency. Pestilence comes for withholding gleanings, forgotten sheaves, field corners, and the poor-tithe. The widow's story is not a random tragedy. It is the face of that pestilence teaching.

The field that should have fed three became a mouth that swallowed them. Measure for measure is not abstract when a mother is waiting on a path. Rabbi Josiah adds that for the sin of the dough-offering no blessing enters the fruit, and men toil without sufficiency. For heave-offering and tithes withheld, the heavens close and the people fall into enemy hands. The widow is the local picture of a cosmic accounting.

Covetousness Scales Into Slavery

Targum Pseudo-Jonathan will not leave the tenth commandment mild. Through the guilt of covetousness the government breaks in upon possessions, the wealthy are made poor, and slavery comes upon the world. Private envy becomes public confiscation. Appetite scales up until free people sell what is left, including their own labor and their children's future.

The Decalogue began with a God who brought Israel out of the house of bondage. It ends with a warning: covet, and a free people will march themselves back into bondage. The landowner who could not bear to lose a few stalks of grain stands at the start of that chain. He wanted what the law had already assigned to the poor. His want killed a household.

First the eye wants the neighbor's yield. Then the hand bars the gleaner. Then the state learns the same habit on a larger scale. The Targum's chain reaction begins in a field like this one.

When the Powerful Only Need You

Ben Sira watched the same pattern in human faces. "If he has need of you," Ben Sira warns, "he will toy with you." He will smile and flatter while the useful one profits him. Then he will look, pass by, and wag his head. Do not be urgent overmuch, the sage continues. If a noble draws near, keep a little distance so he must approach. "Come not so near that you are shoved off. Stand not so far that you are forgotten."

The widow's sons had no room for that dance. They needed grain. The powerful man had no need of them, only of his full field. Ben Sira's wagging head and the midrash's three deaths are cousins. Use without loyalty ends in contempt or in corpses. The sage of Jerusalem and the storyteller of Avot DeRabbi Natan both refuse to romanticize the smile of the strong.

Two Sages Walk Toward the Sword

The same chapter remembers another cost of delayed justice. Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel and Rabbi Ishmael ben Elisha are led to execution. Shimon is shaken that their death looks like the death of Sabbath-desecrators and murderers. Ishmael asks whether a woman seeking a ruling on purity, or a poor person at the door, was ever kept waiting while the sage ate or slept. Shimon swears he set watchers to bring the poor in. Then Ishmael asks whether pride swelled when multitudes sat before him on the Temple mount. Shimon answers that a man must accept his fate. They draw lots so neither must watch the other die first. The sword takes Shimon. Ishmael cradles the head and weeps over the holy mouth filled with dust.

Justice delayed and charity refused both end under a blade, one public and Roman, one quiet in a field. The tradition refuses to separate them. The widow on the path and the sages on the road to death teach one fear: heaven keeps accounts when the weak are blocked from what the Torah already gave them.

Return to the path at dusk. No sons on the road. No grain in the house. The landowner's barns are still full. The midrash has already named what that fullness costs. Somewhere a sword is being sharpened for other righteous mouths. Somewhere Ben Sira still warns a student not to trust the flattering rich. The three deaths remain the sharpest image: heads on a mother's knees, and a field that would not share.


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Avot DeRabbi Natan 38Avot DeRabbi Natan

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Minor Tractates of the Talmud, trans. A. Cohen, Soncino Press (1965) · CC-BY

SEVEN KINDS OF PUNISHMENT COME UPON THE WORLD FOR SEVEN CARDINAL TRANSGRESSIONS. IF SOME GIVE THEIR TITHES AND OTHERS DO NOT, THERE COMES A FAMINE THROUGH DROUGHT.1Aboth 5:11 (Sonc. ed., V, 8, p. 65) adds: ‘then some suffer hunger while others have plenty’; retribution on the principle ‘measure for measure’. If some offer the heave-offering2Num. 18, 8ff. and others do not, there comes a famine through tumult.3Of war. If some set apart the dough-offering4Ibid. XV, 20f. and others do not, there comes a famine of extermination. If all resolved not to give their tithes, they thereby caused the heavens to close from sending down dew or rain, and men toil but have no sufficiency. R. Josiah said: For the sin of [withholding] the dough-offering no blessing enters into the fruit; and men toil but have no sufficiency. For the sin of [withholding] the heave-offering and the tithes, the heavens are closed from sending down dew or rain; and the people are delivered into the hand of their enemies.

Pestilence comes upon the world for the sin of [withholding from the poor] the gleanings,5Lev. 19, 9f, XXIII, 22. the forgotten sheaf,6Deut. 24, 19-21. the corner of the field, and the poor-tithe.7ibid. XIV, 28f. The tithe of the poor took the place of the second tithe in the third and sixth years of the sabbatical cycle. It is related that a widow lived in the vicinity of a landowner, and her two sons went into his field to glean, but he refused them permission. Their mother said, ‘When will my sons return from the field? Perhaps they will bring home8lit. ‘I will find in their hand’ something to eat’. The sons said, ‘When can we return to our mother? Perhaps she will have with her something to eat’. She found nothing with them and they found nothing with her to eat. They put their heads between the knees of their mother and all three died in one day. The Holy One, blessed be He, said, ‘You have taken their lives; as surely as you live, I will exact your lives from you’. For it is stated, Rob not the weak, because he is weak, neither crush the poor in the gate; for the Lord will plead their cause, and despoil of life those that despoil them.9Prov. 22, 22f.

THE SWORD COMES UPON THE WORLD FOR THE DELAY OF JUSTICE,10This term includes inter alia the unnecessary delay caused by the Rabbi or judge in giving his decision on a question of religious law. This paragraph is from Aboth loc. cit. AND FOR THE PERVERSION OF JUSTICE, AND BECAUSE OF THOSE WHO TEACH THE TORAH NOT ACCORDING TO THE TRADITIONAL MEANING.When they seized Rabban Simeon b. Gamaliel and R. Ishmael [33a] [b. Elisha, the High Priest,] and led them to execution,11These Rabbis were two of the ‘Ten Royal Martyrs’ who were executed by the Romans at various times for their insistence on teaching the Torah in spite of the interdict. [Bacher, Ag. d. Tannaiten I, p. 234, n. 3, holds that this martyr, Simon, was not Rabban Simeon b. Gamaliel.] Rabban Simeon was perplexed in his mind12It was not the fear of death, but rather the mode of his impending execution, viz. decapitation, that troubled his mind. Cf. Büchler, Studies in Sin and Atonement, pp. 195ff. and said, ‘Woe to us that we are to be put to death like desecrators of the Sabbath, or idolaters, or immoral persons, or murderers’. R. Ishmael b. Elisha said to him, ‘May I say a word to you?’ He said, ‘Speak’; and R. Ishmael said,13There is an obvious gap here. In the parallel passages, Mekilta, Mishpaṭim, Neziḳin XVIII, Semaḥoth VIII, below p. 365, and II ARN XLI, R. Ishmael suggests that his sad fate might be attributed to his having delayed justice. It is on this score that the story finds its place here. The passage to be inserted reads: ‘Did a woman ever come to you to ask about her monthly impurity, or a man about his vow, and they were kept waiting, because you were asleep or having a meal, or perhaps you had no free time, or perhaps the attendant would not allow them to enter?’ ‘Perhaps when you were sitting down to a meal, poor persons came and stood at your door, and you did not allow them to enter and eat with you’. Rabban Simeon replied, ‘I swear by Heaven that I never did so; but I set watchers who sat at the door, and when poor persons came they brought them to me and they ate and drank with me, and blessed Heaven’s name’. Then R. Ishmael said, ‘Perhaps when you were sitting and expounding [the Torah] on the Temple mount, and all the multitudes of Israel were sitting before you, your mind was puffed up’. Rabban Simeon answered, ‘Ishmael, my brother, a man must be prepared to accept his fate’.14The reason suggested, his elation and pride at the sight of men standing and listening to his teaching, apparently accounted for his fate, and Rabban Simeon acknowledged God’s justice. They both pleaded with the executioner; one said, ‘I am a priest, son of a High Priest; put me to death first so that I do not witness the death of my colleague’. The other said, ‘I am a prince, the son of a prince; put me to death first so that I do not witness the death of my colleague’. The executioner said, ‘Draw lots’. They did so, and the lot fell upon Rabban Simeon b. Gamaliel. The executioner took the sword and cut off his head. R. Ishmael b. Elisha took it up, held it to his bosom, wept and exclaimed, ‘Holy mouth, faithful mouth! Holy mouth, faithful mouth! Mouth that gave forth beautiful gems, precious stones and pearls! Who has buried you in the dust and filled your tongue with dust and ashes? Concerning you was it stated, Awake, O sword, against My shepherd, and against the man that is near unto Me’.15Zech. 13, 7. He had not yet finished his words when they took the sword and cut off his head. Of them Scripture states, My wrath shall wax hot, and I will kill you with the sword; and your wives shall be widows, and your children fatherless.16Ex. 22, 23. This verse describes the punishment imposed for delaying the rights of widows and orphans.17This passage is only introduced here incidentally, quoting the full exposition of the verse cited from Ex. 100f. Mekilta loc. cit., and B.M. 38b (Sonc. ed., p. 232), also Rashi on the verse.From the simple meaning of the words, And I will kill you with the sword, do I not know that the wives will be widows and the children orphans? It signifies that they will be ‘widows and not widows’, as when there are no witnesses forthcoming [to testify to the death of their husbands] to permit them to remarry; as [happened at the destruction of] Bethar,18The scene of the last stand of the Jews under Bar Kochba against the Romans in 135 C.E. where not a single person escaped [to testify to the death of any individual] to permit the wives to remarry. Similarly, from the simple meaning of the words, And your wives shall be widows, I know that the children will be orphans. It signifies that they will be ‘orphans and not orphans’; for their property will remain in the presumed ownership of their fathers, and the children will not be permitted either to inherit the property or to transact any business with it.

EXILE COMES UPON THE WORLD BECAUSE OF IDOLATRY, IMMORALITY, AND THE SHEDDING OF BLOOD, AND BECAUSE OF NEGLECT OF THE YEAR OF RELEASE OF THE LAND.19Cf. Ex. 23, 10f; Lev. 25, 2-5. Cited from Aboth loc. cit.‘Because of idolatry’, as it is stated, And I will destroy your high places.20Lev. 26, 30. [And it is also stated, And you will I scatter among the nations.]21ibid. 33. The verse is inserted by the commentators to prove the punishment of exile which will befall them. The Holy One, blessed be He, said [to Israel], ‘Since you take delight in idolatry, I will exile you to a place where idolatry is practised’. Therefore it is stated, And I will destroy your high places, etc.‘And because of neglect of the year of release of the land.’ Whence do we know this? For it is stated, Then shall the land be paid her sabbaths.22ibid. 34. The Holy One, blessed be He, said [to Israel], ‘Since you do not give rest to the land, it will take its rest without you;23Because you will be in exile and there will be nobody to till the land. Or, ‘it will drive you out’. and according to the numbers of months that you failed to give it rest, it will rest of itself’. Therefore it is stated, Then shall the land rest, and repay her sabbaths. As long as it lieth desolate it shall have rest.24ibid. 34f.‘And because of immorality.’ How is this to be understood? R. Ishmael b. R. Jose said: As long as Israel are dissolute in morals the Divine Presence departs from their midst, as it is stated, That He see no unseemly thing in thee, and turn away from thee.25Deut. 23, 15.

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Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Exodus 20:14Targum Pseudo-Jonathan on Exodus

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Targum of Jonathan ben Uzziel, trans. J. W. Etheridge, London, 1862 · Public Domain

The tenth commandment looks mild next to murder and theft. The Targum Pseudo-Jonathan will not let it stay mild. "Sons of Israel My people, Ye shall not be covetous companions or partakers with the covetous.. neither shall any among you covet the wife of his neighbour, nor his servant, nor his handmaid, nor his ox, nor his ass nor anything that belongeth to his neighbour; because through the guilt of covetousness the government breaketh in upon the possessions of men to take them, and the wealthy are made poor, and slavery cometh upon the world" (Exodus 20:14).

The Targum supplies a cosmic consequence the Hebrew lacks, and it is a stunning piece of political theology. Covetousness, private, inward, apparently victimless, produces three public disasters:

First, the government breaketh in upon the possessions of men to take them. Tyrannical taxation. Confiscation. When citizens covet each other's goods, they eventually produce a state that covets everyone's goods. The appetite scales up.

Second, the wealthy are made poor. The covetous society cannibalizes itself. Those who had, no longer have. Economic collapse is the physics of a populace that wants what its neighbor owns.

Third, slavery cometh upon the world. This is the endpoint. When the state has eaten private wealth and the wealthy are ruined, nothing is left but human labor to sell. The society that began by envying a neighbor's ox ends by selling its own children.

Notice what the Targum has done. It has turned the final, interior commandment into a chain reaction that destroys the freedom the first commandment promised. The Decalogue began with I brought you out from the house of bondage. It ends with a warning: covet, and you will march yourself back in.

The takeaway: the last commandment protects the first. Envy undoes redemption, and the only way to stay free is to stop wanting what was never yours.

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Ben Sira 13:10Ben Sira

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Wisdom of Ben Sira, Cambridge University Press (1899) · CC-BY

Ben Sira turns to When the Powerful Only Need You for Profit.

He starts with a warning: "Hath he need of thee? Then he will toy with thee." for a second. If someone only seems interested when they need something, alarm bells should be ringing. They'll smile, encourage you, maybe even shower you with compliments.

It's all conditional. As long as it profits them, they'll cajole you. They might even show you reverence – twice, maybe three times. But Ben Sira doesn't stop there. He warns us that this reverence is fleeting. "And then he will look at thee and pass thee by; And will wag his head at thee." Ouch. The dismissive head-wag. We've all been there, haven't we?

Ben Sira urges us to be careful. "Take heed that thou be not urgent overmuch; And be not like to them that lack intelligence." Don't be too eager, too available. There's a certain wisdom in maintaining a little distance, in not throwing yourself at someone's feet.

But then, he throws in a bit of a paradox. "Doth a noble draw near? Be thou distant; And so much the more he will approach thee. Sometimes, playing hard to get – or at least, not being overly enthusiastic – can actually make you more desirable.

And finally, he brings it home with a balanced piece of advice: "Come not near, lest thou be put far off; And stand not far off, lest thou be forgotten." It's a delicate dance, this navigating of relationships. Get too close, and you risk being taken for granted, pushed away. Stay too far, and you risk fading into the background, becoming irrelevant.

So, what's the takeaway here? Ben Sira's words offer a timeless guide to working through the complexities of human interaction. Be discerning. Be aware of people's motivations. Don't be overly eager, but don't disappear completely. And remember that a little self-respect goes a long way. It's a tightrope walk, but with a little awareness, we can hopefully avoid getting burned.

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