It's one that our sages grappled with too.
This week, in our journey through Bamidbar Rabbah, specifically Bamidbar Rabbah 3, we stumble upon a fascinating exploration of being chosen and being brought near. It all starts with the verse, "Bring the tribe of Levi near..." (Numbers 3:6), which then connects to a verse in Psalms (65:5): "Happy is one You choose and bring near."
But the Rabbis don't just take that at face value. They dig deeper. They ask: What does it really mean to be chosen? What does it mean to be brought near? And are they the same thing?
The text presents a powerful idea: "Happy is the man whom the Holy One, blessed be He, has chosen even if He did not bring him near, and happy is the man whom the Holy One, blessed be He, brought near, even if He did not choose him." It suggests two distinct paths to closeness with the Divine.
The text then brings examples. Abraham and Jacob, were they chosen? Absolutely! The text cites (Nehemiah 9:7) ("You are the Lord God, who chose Abram") and (Psalms 135:4) ("For the Lord has chosen Jacob for Himself"). But, according to this passage, they brought themselves near. The text references Bereshit Rabba 63:10 which interprets (Genesis 25:27), "Jacob was a wholesome man who resided in tents," to mean he dedicated himself to Torah study in the study halls of Shem and Ever. They actively sought connection. Moses, too, was chosen – "Were it not for Moses, His chosen" (Psalms 106:23) – but again, the text suggests, he wasn't necessarily "brought near" by God.
Then we have figures like Jethro (Yitro) and Rahab. Shemot Rabba 27:2 and Ruth Rabba 2:1 tell us that they were brought near, but not necessarily chosen in the same initial way. They found their way into the fold through different means.
There's a wonderful anecdote in the text about a noblewoman who asks Rabbi Yosei if God just brings near whomever He wants. Rabbi Yosei presents her with a basket of figs, and as she carefully selects the best ones, he asks her: "Do you know how to select and the Holy One blessed be He does not know how to select? One whom He sees that his deeds are good, He chooses him and brings him near." It's a beautiful way of saying that our actions, our choices, play a role in whether we are drawn closer.
But the story doesn't end there. Rabbi Nehemya, in the name of Rabbi Shmuel bar Rav Yitzchak, adds another layer of complexity. "Not everyone who is near remains near, and neither does everyone who is distant remain distant." People can be chosen, rejected, and then brought near again. Or chosen, rejected, and not brought near.
Think of Aaron. Chosen as a priest, but then facing God's anger, and ultimately brought near again. Or Saul, chosen as king, then rejected, and ultimately not brought near again. And then there's David. Chosen, but then seemingly rejected when he's ostracized. But he accepts his ostracization, as evidenced by his actions in II (Samuel 15:30), and ultimately, he’s brought near again, perhaps through the guidance of his teacher, Ira the Ya’irite, as alluded to in (Psalms 119:79).
Rabbi Yehoshua of Sikhnin, in the name of Rabbi Levi, then lists six things that were chosen: the priesthood, the Levites, Israel, the royal house of David, Jerusalem, and the Temple. Each one, a testament to the idea of divine selection.
The passage concludes by emphasizing the double blessing of being both chosen and brought near, exemplified by Aaron and the Levites. They are the ones who dwell in God's courtyards, who are "sated by the bounty of Your House" (Psalms 65:5), because they partake in the tithes brought to the Temple, as described in (Numbers 18:21).
So, what does all this mean for us? It's a reminder that our relationship with the Divine is not static. It's a dynamic process of choosing and being chosen, of drawing near and being drawn near. Sometimes we initiate the connection, sometimes it's initiated for us. Sometimes we stumble, fall, and have to find our way back. The key is to remain open, to strive for good deeds, and to remember that even when we feel distant, the possibility of being brought near always remains.
Another matter: “Bring the tribe of Levi near…” (Numbers 3:6) – that is what is written: “Happy is one You choose and bring near” (Psalms 65:5). Happy is the man whom the Holy One blessed be He has chosen even if He did not bring him near, and happy is the man whom the Holy One blessed be He brought near, even if He did not choose him. Who is the one whom He chose? It is Abraham, as it is stated: “You are the Lord God, who chose Abram” (Nehemiah 9:7); but you did not bring him near, but rather, he brought himself near. Jacob, the Holy One blessed be He chose him, as it is stated: “For the Lord has chosen Jacob for Himself” (Psalms 135:4), and likewise it says: “Jacob whom I have chosen” (Isaiah 41:8); but you did not bring him near, but rather, he brought himself near, as it is stated: “Jacob was a wholesome man who resided in tents.” (Genesis 25:27).11Bereshit Rabba 63:10 states that the word “tents” is referring to the study halls of Shem and Ever, in which Jacob studied Torah. Moses, He chose him, as it is stated: “Were it not for Moses, His chosen” (Psalms 106:23), but He did not bring him near. Happy are those whom the Holy One blessed be He chose even though He did not bring them near. Come and see Yitro;12Shemot Rabba 27:2. the Holy One blessed be He brought him near but did not choose him. Raḥav13Ruth Rabba 2:1. the prostitute, He brought her near but did not choose her. Happy are those whom He brought near even though He did not choose them. A noblewoman asked Rabbi Yosei; she said to him: Does Your God bring near anyone He wants? He brought a basket of figs before her, and she was selecting carefully and selecting and eating. He said to her: Do you know how to select and the Holy One blessed be He does not know how to select? One whom He sees that his deeds are good, He chooses him and brings him near. Rabbi Neḥemya in the name of Rabbi Shmuel bar Rav Yitzḥak: Not everyone who is near remains near, and neither does everyone who is distant remain distant. There are those who are chosen, rejected, and brought near. There are those who are chosen, rejected, and not brought near. Aaron was chosen: “And chose it from all the tribes of Israel to be priests for Me” (I Samuel 2:28). He was rejected: “The Lord was incensed with Aaron” (Deuteronomy 9:20). And it is written: “And you, bring Aaron your brother near to you” (Exodus 28:1). Saul was chosen: “Have you seen that the Lord has chosen him” (I Samuel 10:24). He was rejected: “I have regretted that I crowned Saul…” (I Samuel 15:11). But he was not brought near: “I have spurned him from reigning over Israel” (I Samuel 16:1). David was chosen: “He chose David His servant” (Psalms 78:70). He was rejected: “The king set out with his entire household in his wake.… [The king set out,] and all the people in his wake, and they stopped at a remote house” (II Samuel 15:16–17). Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi said: They ostracized him; nevertheless, he accepted his ostracization; that is what is written: “David ascended the ascent of the Mount of Olives, weeping as he ascended, and his head was covered [and he walked barefoot]” (II Samuel 15:30). And he was brought near; Rabbi Yudan said: Ira the Ya’irite, David’s teacher, brought him near. That is what David says: “May those who fear You and who know [yodei] Your precepts turn to me.” (Psalms 119:79). It is written: Who know him [yodo];14Although the verse is read in the plural – those who know – the word know is written in the singular, thus implying that it is referring to a single individual who can be described as the one who knows Your precepts. Ira the Ya’irite was his teacher and brought him near. Rabbi Yehoshua of Sikhnin in the name of Rabbi Levi: They are six who were chosen: Priesthood, Levites, Israel, the royal house of David, Jerusalem, the Temple. Priesthood, from where is it derived? It is as it is written: “And chose it from all the tribes of Israel to be priests for Me” (I Samuel 2:28). Levites, from where is it derived? It is as it is stated: “For the Lord your God has chosen him from all your tribes” (Deuteronomy 18:5). Israel, from where is it derived? It is as it is stated: “The Lord your God has chosen you” (Deuteronomy 7:6). The royal house of David, from where is it derived? It is as it is stated: “He chose David His servant.” (Psalms 78:70). Jerusalem, from where is it derived? It is as it is stated: “[Jerusalem,] the city that I have chosen” (I Kings 11:32). The Temple, from where is it derived? It is as it is written: “I have chosen and sanctified this House” (II Chronicles 7:16). David said: Happy is one whom the Holy One blessed be He has chosen and happy is one whom He brought near. Who is doubly happy? It is one whom the Holy One blessed be He has chosen and brought near. Who is that? It is Aaron and Levi. Aaron, from where is it derived? It is as it is stated: “And chose it from all the tribes of Israel to be priests for Me” (I Samuel 2:28). From where is it derived that He brought him near? It is as it is stated: “And you, bring Aaron your brother near to you” (Exodus 28:1). Levi, the Holy One blessed be He chose him, as it is stated: “For the Lord your God has chosen him” (Deuteronomy 18:5). From where is it derived that He brought him near? It is as it is stated: “Bring the tribe of Levi near, and stand it.” In their regard, the verse says: “Happy is the one You choose to bring near to You to dwell in Your courtyards” (Psalms 65:5), just as it says: “They shall keep his commission, and the commission of the entire congregation…[to perform the service of the Tabernacle]” (Numbers 3:7). “May we be sated by the bounty of Your House, [the holiness of Your Temple]” (Psalms 65:5) – as they would eat all the tithes that were brought to the House, just as it says: “To the children of Levi, I have hereby given all tithe in Israel as an inheritance…” (Numbers 18:21).