Parshat Vayechi4 min read

Esau's Head Rolled into Isaac's Lap at Burial

Joseph walked as viceroy and son toward Machpelah. At the cave mouth a twin still wanted a plot. A head came to rest on a blind father's knees.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. Seventy Days Until the Dust Rose
  2. The Shekhinah Walked With the Cortege
  3. Thirty-Six Crowns on the Bier
  4. The Twin Met Them at the Mouth of the Cave
  5. The Cave Kept One Brother Whole
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Seventy Days Until the Dust Rose

When Jacob died, Egypt did not shrug. Asenath brought the women of the land to weep. Egyptian men who had known the old Hebrew came day after day. Mourners arrived even from Canaan. Seventy days the grief held, longer than politics usually allows an immigrant shepherd.

The sons of Jacob tore their garments and girded their loins with sackcloth. They threw themselves on the ground and strewed earth on their heads until the dust rose in a high cloud. The other brothers left the burial arrangements to Joseph. A king's hands on a father's body, they reasoned, would honor Jacob more than ordinary sons could.

The Shekhinah Walked With the Cortege

The cortege that finally moved toward Hebron was a river of officials and sorrow. It halted at the threshing floor of Atad, and there they lamented with a very great and sore lamentation. Joseph walked as both son and viceroy through every mile toward Machpelah.

The Shekhinah (שכינה), God's presence among the people, went with them. That was the honor that outweighed the crowns. Canaanites who had meant to stay home watched the honors and changed their minds. They loosened their girdles and joined the grief of a man they had once filed under outsider.

Joseph still had to manage horses, permissions, and the politics of carrying bones through lands that preferred live tribute to dead patriarchs. Grief did not cancel the road. It only made the road a procession under a viceroy's seal.

Thirty-Six Crowns on the Bier

Kings lined the route. The sons of Esau, of Ishmael, and of Keturah appeared as well, and their first design was not mourning. They had come to seize the hour and make war upon the sons of Jacob. Then they saw Joseph's crown hanging from the bier.

The Edomite and Ishmaelite kings and princes followed that example. They attached their crowns too. The bier went on ornamented with thirty-six crowns, a tent-dweller's death turned into a public season. Egypt's presence proved Jacob's weight in a foreign court. Canaan's participation proved that weight had crossed borders. The war party had come to take a grave and ended by decorating it.

The Twin Met Them at the Mouth of the Cave

Esau met the burial with a last claim. The cave already held the family's dead, and he wanted his share of the mouth of it. In the clash that followed he fell slain beside Jacob's grave.

His severed head rolled down into the Cave of Machpelah. It came to rest in the lap of Isaac, blind and aged, who could not see the face and knew it anyway.

Isaac prayed for mercy for Esau. Heaven answered with a refusal sharp enough to end argument. "As I live, he shall not behold the majesty of the Lord."

The father who could not see with his eyes held the head of the son who would not see with his life. Blessing and hunt and red stew and four hundred men collapsed into a skull on a blind man's knees.

The Cave Kept One Brother Whole

Jacob entered Machpelah whole, as he had ordered. Esau's head entered without Esau's body. Nearness is not a deed to the cave. A twin can share a womb and not share a grave's full welcome among the fathers.

Outside, the nations who had bowed their heads in dust went home with a story that mixed honor and horror. Jacob's funeral had drawn kings. Esau's end had drawn a line at the mouth of the cave.

Joseph finished the rites with the dust of the road still on him. He returned to Egypt's politics with a father finally laid where the father had asked to lie. Behind him the cave held one brother's full rest and the other's rejected claim. Isaac's lap had already received what heaven would not spare.

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Legends of the Jews 1:426Legends of the Jews

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909) · Public Domain

It raises a fascinating question: who takes responsibility? Who steps up to handle the sacred duty of burial?

Jacob's other sons, his children besides Joseph, they left all the arrangements to him. for a second. Why? They reasoned, quite profoundly, that it would be a greater honor for their father if a king – in this case, Joseph, who held a high position in Egypt – concerned himself with the remains than if just ordinary people did. It’s a fascinating glimpse into their respect for their father, and for Joseph's position. It speaks volumes about the dynamics within this complex family.

The story doesn't end there, oh no. It gets… darker.

Esau, Jacob's twin brother, lies slain next to Jacob's grave. A tragic end to a life often lived in opposition. And then, something truly bizarre happens.

According to Ginzberg's retelling in Legends of the Jews, Esau's head, severed in death, rolls… right into the Cave of Machpelah, the burial place of the patriarchs and matriarchs. The chaos, the horror, the sheer strangeness of it all?

And the head doesn't just stop rolling. It lands, of all places, in the lap of Isaac, their father. Isaac, blind and aged, now confronted with this gruesome reminder of his son's violent end. He prays. He pleads with God to have mercy on Esau.

But his prayers are in vain.

God responds with a chilling declaration: "As I live, he shall not behold the majesty of the Lord." A harsh, absolute decree.

What does it all mean?

Is it simply a tale of poetic justice? A reminder that actions have consequences, even in death? Or is there something deeper at play? Something about the unyielding nature of divine judgment?

The image of Esau's head, rolling into the lap of his grieving father, is a powerful, disturbing one. It leaves us with a sense of unease, a feeling that some wounds, some divisions, run so deep that even death cannot heal them. And the divine refusal… it’s a stark reminder of the limits of even a parent's love, and the ultimate authority of the divine will.

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Legends of the Jews 1:423Legends of the Jews

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909) · Public Domain

The stories surrounding the burial of Jacob, Yaakov in Hebrew, are filled with profound insights into this very question. Jacob's journey back to Canaan for burial wasn't just a simple trip; it was a spectacle, evidence of the life he lived and the respect he commanded, even in death.

The procession itself was immense, a river of mourners flowing towards the land promised to Abraham. As they made their way, they paused at the threshing floor of Atad. It was there, according to the Legends of the Jews, drawing upon various Midrashic (rabbinic interpretive commentary) traditions, that a truly "very great and sore lamentation" took place. A collective outpouring of grief echoing across the fields.

The Shekhinah, the Divine Presence, accompanied the cortege. The Divine Presence itself was there, a silent witness to the mourning, adding an unparalleled level of honor to Jacob's final journey. What greater honor could there be?

It first appears everyone would naturally join in honoring such a man. But the story takes a turn, revealing a more complex dynamic. Initially, the Canaanites weren't planning to participate in the mourning. Why would they? Jacob was, after all, an outsider.

However, something shifted. When they witnessed the immense respect being shown to Jacob, the honors bestowed upon him, they changed their minds. They joined the procession, even loosening the girdles of their garments as a sign of grief. An acknowledgment of the greatness of the man, even from those who were initially indifferent.

And the story doesn't end there. Even the sons of Esau, Ishmael, and Keturah – figures often associated with conflict – arrived on the scene. According to Ginzberg's retelling in Legends of the Jews, their initial intention wasn't exactly peaceful. They saw an opportunity to exploit the situation, to perhaps even wage war upon the sons of Jacob.

But then they saw it: Joseph's crown, suspended from the bier. Seeing that symbol of power, the Edomite and Ishmaelite kings and princes followed his example, and attached theirs to it, too. The bier became ornamented with thirty-six crowns! It's a remarkable display of respect, but also a stark reminder of the power dynamics at play. Perhaps, in this act, there was also a recognition of Joseph's authority, a tacit acknowledgment of his position.

What does it all mean? Perhaps it's a reminder that even in death, a life well-lived can command respect from unexpected corners. That even those who might initially stand apart can be drawn in by the sheer force of a person's legacy. And that sometimes, the greatest honors aren't the ones we plan, but the ones that arise spontaneously from the hearts of those who witness the impact of a life.

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Legends of the Jews 1:415Legends of the Jews

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Legends of the Jews by Louis Ginzberg (1909) · Public Domain

Legends of the Jews turns to Dust Rose Like a Cloud as Jacob's Sons Mourned.

It wasn't just Jacob's immediate family who mourned. Asenath, Joseph's wife, upon hearing the news, arrived with the women of Egypt to weep and mourn. According to Legends of the Jews, as retold by Rabbi Louis Ginzberg, even the Egyptian men who had known Jacob came to pay their respects, mourning day after day.

What's even more striking is that the mourning wasn't confined to Egypt. People traveled all the way from Canaan, Jacob's homeland, to participate in the seventy days of mourning. Seventy days! That’s more than two months dedicated to grief. It speaks volumes about the impact Jacob had on the people around him, both those who knew him intimately and those who simply recognized his importance.

The sheer scale of this mourning period, the intensity of the emotions displayed – it all paints a picture of a man deeply loved and respected, whose passing left a void not just in his family, but in the lives of many. And how, perhaps, the greatest measure of a life well-lived isn't found in material wealth or worldly success, but in the depth of love and sorrow felt at its end.

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