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Rabbi Yehoshua Bested Four Times on One Afternoon Walk

A great rabbi sets out on a path and is corrected, shamed, and outargued four times before he reaches his destination.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. A Rabbi Takes a Walk
  2. A Path Through a Field and the Man Who Called Him a Thief
  3. The Child Who Refused to Step Aside
  4. The Girl Who Would Not Yield
  5. The Speech He Made When He Got Home

A Rabbi Takes a Walk

Rabbi Yehoshua ben Hananiah was one of the great sages of his generation, a man who had survived the destruction of the Temple and helped rebuild rabbinic Judaism from the rubble of Jerusalem. He had debated emperors and outwitted questioners who came looking for trouble. He was not accustomed to losing arguments.

Then he went for a walk.

The path he took that afternoon cut through a field. Such paths were created by people traversing the same route often enough that the grass yielded and a track formed. Technically, walking that kind of path could be a violation of agricultural law, since it might damage someone's field. The first person he met on the road did not greet him. He asked what the rabbi was doing.

A Path Through a Field and the Man Who Called Him a Thief

Rabbi Yehoshua said: I am walking along the path. The man replied: you have spoken well that you are walking along a path, for it was trodden by robbers like you. There was nothing gentle about the phrasing. He was not praising the rabbi's honesty. He was accusing him of creating the path himself, of being one of the feet that wore down someone else's field.

Rabbi Yehoshua had no clean answer. He moved on.

The next encounter was with a young girl at a well. He had come to draw water and found her there first. She looked at him and said: the road you came by, the one you used to reach this well, it has been trodden down. The fields along it belong to us. He had thought he was using a legitimate path. She was telling him the path itself was the problem. Every traveler who used it was part of the damage.

The Child Who Refused to Step Aside

The third correction came from a child. Rabbi Yehoshua was walking and saw a small boy sitting directly in the middle of the road. He asked: why are you sitting in the path? Move to the side. The boy answered: I am sitting in a plowed field. There is no path here for you to travel. You are already off the road. You are in someone else's furrows.

This was worse than the first two encounters. A child had just demonstrated that the rabbi's entire concept of where he was had been wrong. He had thought he was on a legitimate route. He had been walking through cultivated land the whole time, treating fields as thoroughfares.

He moved on, and the shame moved with him.

The Girl Who Would Not Yield

The fourth correction came from another girl at a crossroads. Rabbi Yehoshua and his companions needed to know the way to the city. They asked her which road to take. She answered with a question: which road do you want, the short one that is long, or the long one that is short?

He chose the short one. They walked it confidently until they reached the outskirts of the city and found themselves standing in front of gardens and orchards, with no way to enter. The road that looked short ended in a wall of vegetation. They had to turn around and take the longer path.

When Rabbi Yehoshua found the girl again, he said: did you not tell me this was the short road? She said: did I not also tell you that it was long?

The Speech He Made When He Got Home

By the time Rabbi Yehoshua reached his destination, something had shifted in him. He had spent the afternoon being corrected by a farmer, outmaneuvered by a girl at a well, instructed by a child, and turned around in an orchard by a riddle. He gathered the people around him and said: the young people of this generation are greater than us.

He did not say this bitterly. He did not qualify it. He praised them. He had left home that morning as one of the great scholars of his age. He came back having been bested four times by people with no formal learning, no standing in any academy, and no interest in being impressed by his reputation. Each one had simply been right, and he had been wrong, and they had said so without apology.


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Eikhah Rabbah 1:19Eikhah Rabbah

There was an incident in which Rabbi Yehoshua was walking along the path.49This was a path through a field that was created by people traversing it. A certain person found him walking along the path and said to him: ‘What are you doing?’ He said to him: ‘I am walking along the path.’ He said to him: ‘You have spoken well that you are walking along a path, for it was trodden by robbers like you.’ He went on from there and found a certain child sitting at a fork in the road. He said to him: ‘Which road is closer to the city?’ He said to him: ‘This one is close but far, and that one is far but close.’ Rabbi Yehoshua went on the one that was close but far. When he reached the city, he found gardens and orchards surrounding the wall. He returned to that child and said to him: ‘My son, is this road, in fact, closer to the city?’ He said to him: ‘You are a Sage of Israel! Did I not say to you that this one is close but far and that one is far but close?’ At that moment, Rabbi Yehoshua said: ‘Happy are you Israel that you are all wise, from your old to your young.’50Rabbi Yehoshua admitted that he was bested by the man in the field and by the boy, and he praised the Jewish people for their great wisdom.He went on from there and found a certain child with a covered vessel in his hand. He said to him: ‘What do you have in your hand, covered within this vessel?’ He said: ‘Had my mother wanted you to know what I have with me, she would have not told me to cover it.’ He went on from there and found a certain child and said to him: ‘What is the quality of the water of this city?’ He said to him: ‘Why do you care? The garlic and the onions are plentiful.’ When he entered the city, he found a girl standing and filling [her pitcher] from the spring. He said to her: ‘Give me water to drink.’ She said to him: ‘To you and to your donkey.’ After he drank and turned to go, he said to her: ‘My daughter, you have acted like Rebecca.’ She said to him: ‘I have acted like Rebecca, but you have not acted like Eliezer.’51After Rebecca drew water for the servant of Abraham (identified by the Sages as Eliezer), and for his camels, he gave her jewelry (Genesis 24:22).It is taught: One leaves a portion from food cooked in a pot, but one does not leave a portion from food cooked in a stew pot.52A similar statement in Eruvin 53 reads: “One does not leave a portion from the pot but one leaves a portion from the plate.” Rashi explains that the waiter was expected to serve all the food that was cooked, but participants at the meal were expected to leave over some of the food that was served. These leftovers would be eaten by the waiter. There was an incident where Rabbi Yehoshua was hosted by a widowed woman. The first day she brought him a cooked item and he ate it and did not leave a portion for her. The second day she brought him a cooked item and he ate it and did not leave a portion for her. On the third day, she oversalted a cooked dish of pounded grain. After Rabbi Yehoshua tasted it, he withdrew his hand from it. She said to him: ‘Rabbi, why did you withdraw your hand from this pounded grain?’ He said to her: ‘I already ate earlier in the day.’ She said to him: ‘If you ate earlier in the day, why did you not mimimize the bread, just as you minimized this pounded grain? Perhaps you left a portion. From the two cooked items that you ate, why did you not leave a portion like you did from this pounded grain?’ At that moment, Rabbi Yehoshua said: ‘In all my days, no person has ever gotten the best of me except for this widow, a young girl, and those children, to realize what is stated: “Great among the nations,” great in intellect.

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Vayikra Rabbah 29:5Vayikra Rabbah

Rabbi Berekhya, quoting Rabbi Yirmeya, opens a window onto this very idea. He starts with a verse from Proverbs (15:24): "The path of life goes upward for the intelligent." But what is this "path of life?"

In Rabbi Berekhya, it’s none other than Torah. (Proverbs 3:18) describes Torah as "a tree of life for those who grasp it." It's not just about rules and regulations; it's about accessing a source of profound vitality and growth.

Rabbi Berekhya continues, pointing to another verse, (Proverbs 6:23): "Rebukes of admonition are the path of life." Sometimes, the upward path requires us to face uncomfortable truths, to accept correction, to adjust our course. These "rebukes of admonition," even when difficult, are actually guiding us upward.

What does it mean to be "intelligent" in this context? It’s not about IQ points, folks. It's about how we approach the mitzvot, the commandments, the good deeds of the Torah.

Vayikra Rabbah, where this teaching is found, then throws us a bit of a curveball. What, asks the text, is written before this idea of the upward path? It’s a verse about the seventh month, the first of the month, and it's connected to the commandment: "You shall not reap the corner of your field" (Leviticus 23:22).

Wait, what? What does leaving the corner of your field unharvested have to do with the upward path of life?

Here's where it gets interesting. Leaving the corner is an act of kindness, of generosity, of remembering those less fortunate. It's a practical mitzvah, a tangible way to live out the teachings of the Torah. It's an act of chesed (Lovingkindness), loving-kindness.

So, the "intelligence" that leads us upward isn’t just intellectual understanding, but something deeper. It’s about connecting our actions to our beliefs, about seeing the divine spark in the everyday, about embodying the values of the Torah in our lives. It's about recognizing that even the smallest acts of generosity, like leaving the corner of a field, can contribute to a life of meaning and elevation.

Maybe the path upward isn't some grand, dramatic quest. Maybe it's a series of small, conscious choices. Choices that, like the farmer leaving the corner of his field, remind us that we're all connected, and that by lifting others, we lift ourselves. What "corners" can you leave unharvested today?

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Bereshit Rabbah 60:6Bereshit Rabbah

It's a story packed with subtle cues and divine hints, all swirling around a well in Aram Naharaim.

The servant arrives and asks Rebecca for a sip of water: "Please allow me to sip a little water from your jug" (Genesis 24:17). But did you know that, according to Bereshit Rabbah, the words "The servant ran toward her" weren't just about physical movement? The text beautifully suggests he was running towards her good deeds! He saw the water miraculously rise for her, and that's when he understood she must be exceptionally righteous.

Then comes the request, "Please allow me to sip a little water from your jug" (Genesis 24:17). The Midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) points out the servant only asked for a small sip. But Rebecca's response? Overflowing with generosity! "Drink, my lord," she says, hastening to offer him water. And then, without even being asked, she adds, "I will draw for your camels also, until they have finished drinking" (Genesis 24:19). for a second. Camels drink a LOT. This wasn't just a polite offer; it was an act of incredible kindness and tireless service. "She hastened and emptied her pitcher into the trough, and ran again unto the well to draw, and drew for all his camels" (Genesis 24:20).

The servant, completely astonished, remains silent. The text says, "The man was astonished at her; he was silent, to know whether the Lord had made his journey successful or not" (Genesis 24:21). Rabbi Yoḥanan of Tzippori offers a curious interpretation: he was "squinting" to see her more clearly, trying to discern if this was truly the woman chosen by God. He's scrutinizing her to see if "the Lord had made his journey successful.” (Genesis 24:21).

Once the camels finish their massive water break, the servant presents Rebecca with gifts: a gold nose ring and bracelets. "When the camels concluded drinking, the man took a gold nose ring whose weight was one half shekel, and two bracelets to put on her hands, whose weight was ten gold shekels” (Genesis 24:22). Rav Huna, quoting Rabbi Yosef, suggests the nose ring held a precious stone weighing half a shekel. And the bracelets? They corresponded to the two tablets of the Ten Commandments, with their weight symbolizing the Ten Commandments themselves! A beautiful parallel, isn't it?

The servant asks, "Whose daughter are you? Is there room in your father’s house for us to stay the night?" (Genesis 24:23). He's just inquiring about a single night (lalin, a stay for one night). But Rebecca, ever generous, responds, "I am the daughter of Betuel. Both straw and feed is plentiful with us, as well as room for lodging" (Genesis 24:24-25). Notice how she uses the word lalun, implying lodging for several nights. Even though he only asked about one night, she offers more! As Bereshit Rabbah points out, she overdelivers!

Finally, "The man bowed and prostrated himself to the Lord" (Genesis 24:26). The Midrash teaches us that this verse shows the importance of expressing gratitude to God for good news. He exclaims, "Blessed is the Lord, God of my master Abraham, who did not withhold His kindness and His truth from my master; I, the Lord guided me on the way to the house of my master's brethren" (Genesis 24:27). The servant recognizes the miraculous shortening of his journey as a clear sign of divine guidance.

So, what can we take away from this interplay of a story? It's more than just a quest for a wife. It's about recognizing righteousness, appreciating kindness, and acknowledging the hand of God in our lives. It reminds us that even small acts of generosity can be profound and that expressing gratitude is a powerful way to connect with the Divine. What "camels" are in your life, and how can you offer a drink to those who need it?

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Exempla of the Rabbis, No. 236Exempla of the Rabbis (Gaster, 1924)

Rabbi Joshua was walking along a road when he came to a crossroads and encountered a young girl. "Which road leads to the city?" he asked. The girl pointed to one of the paths. "That road is short but long," she said. Then she pointed to another. "And that road is long but short."

Rabbi Joshua, a brilliant sage of the 1st-2nd century CE, chose the short road. He walked briskly and soon saw the city walls rising ahead of him. But as he drew close, he discovered the path was blocked by gardens and orchards, private property with no way through. He could see the city, but he could not reach it. He had to turn back.

Returning to the crossroads, he found the girl still there. "Did you not tell me this road was short?" he asked. "I said it was short but long," she replied. "And I told you the other road was long but short."

The tale, preserved in the Exempla of the Rabbis (compiled by Moses Gaster in 1924 from medieval sources) and rooted in the Talmud (Eruvin 53b), became a foundational teaching about the nature of shortcuts. The "short" road, the one that looks easy, that promises quick results, often leads to dead ends. The "long" road, the one that requires patience and sustained effort, actually gets you where you need to go.

Rabbi Joshua, one of the greatest minds of his generation, was outwitted by a child. He was so impressed that the encounter became a lesson he taught others. The Talmud records this under the broader heading of derekh eretz (דרך ארץ), proper conduct and practical wisdom. The deepest lessons, the rabbis acknowledged, sometimes come from the most unexpected teachers.

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