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The Altar Jacob Promised at Beit El and Did Not Build

Jacob poured oil on a stone in the dark and promised God a house on that spot. Twenty years later he came back rich and stopped one city short of it.

Curated by Arthur · Told by Maggid ·
Table of Contents
  1. The Son His Parents Called Great
  2. The Stone He Put Under His Head
  3. He Stopped One City Short
  4. The Daughter Who Went Out
  5. The Debt Called In
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The Son His Parents Called Great

Isaac had gone blind, and he sent for his elder son to come in and take the blessing before he died. He did not say Esau. He said, my great son.

An hour later Rebekah pulled a bundle down off a shelf at the back of the house. The clothes of Esau, her great son. Two parents, the same word, the same afternoon, about the same man.

Heaven used a different word. If he is great in your eyes, he is small in mine.

There was a province once that drew up a list of fighting men for the king's army. One woman there had a small slack son whom she went around calling Tall and Quick, and when the recruiting officers came down her street she stood in the road and demanded to know why the boy was not on the list. Look at him, she said. Tall and Quick. They looked at him. "To you he is tall and quick," they said. "To us he is the puniest of the puny."

Jacob took the blessing that afternoon, and by nightfall he was running for his life.

The Stone He Put Under His Head

He went north with nothing. The sun went down on him in open country, so he took a stone off the ground for a pillow and slept there, and in the night a ladder stood on the earth with its top in the sky and messengers went up and down it, and a voice gave him the ground he was lying on.

He woke up frightened. He stood the stone upright, poured oil over the top of it, called the place Beit El, the house of God, and then said the rest of it out loud.

If God stays with me on this road and gives me bread to eat and a coat to wear, and brings me back to my father's house in one piece, then this stone I have set up will be a house of God, and out of everything he gives me I will hand back a tenth.

He said it to an empty field with a rock standing in it. Then he walked on to Haran and did not come back for twenty years.

He Stopped One City Short

He came back rich, with four women's children and flocks strung out for a mile along the road, and he came back terrified, because his brother was riding toward him with four hundred men.

He sent gifts ahead in waves. He split the camp in two so that half might survive. He spent the last night alone at a ford, wrestling somebody he could not throw, and came out of the water at dawn with his hip out of joint. Then the meeting went well. Esau wept on his neck and rode home to Seir.

So Jacob crossed to Shechem, bought a field outside the city from the sons of Hamor for a hundred pieces of silver, pitched his tents on it, put up an altar and named it for the God of Israel.

It was a good altar. It was not the one he had promised, and Beit El was another few days up the road. He stayed where he was.

The Daughter Who Went Out

Years earlier, on a track outside Haran, Leah had gone out to meet Jacob coming in from the field and told him he was hers that night, that she had bought him with her son's mandrakes. She went out, and she took what she went out for.

Her daughter Dinah went out as well. She went out from the tents to look at the daughters of the land, the local girls, whatever there was to see in a city her father had bought ground beside and never once entered.

Shechem son of Hamor, who ran that country, saw her, took her, kept her in his house, and then sent his father over to Jacob to arrange the wedding.

Jacob heard and said nothing until his sons came in from the fields. Simeon and Levi did the answering. On the third day, when every man in that city was lying at home too sore from the circumcision to stand up, the two of them walked in with swords, killed all of them, and carried their sister out.

What Jacob said to his sons afterward was about himself. "You have made me stink to the people living in this country. We are a small number. They will gather against me and kill me, and my house with me."

The Debt Called In

The voice arrived then, and it was not a new instruction.

Get up. Go up to Beit El. Live there. Make an altar there to the God who appeared to you when you were running from your brother.

Every word of it he had already said himself, out loud, over a rock, twenty years before.

He moved fast this time. He made the whole household hand over the foreign gods they had been carrying and the rings out of their ears, and he buried the pile under the oak at Shechem and left it in the dirt. Then he went up.

The road took payment. Deborah, who had nursed his mother, died on the way and was buried under an oak below Beit El, and they named the tree the Oak of Weeping. Then Rachel went into labor on the road to Ephrath and did not live through it, and he buried her at the side of the road and set a stone over her.

At Beit El he stood a pillar up, poured a drink offering on it, and poured oil over it. The same act, the same oil, the same ground. The first time it had cost him one night and a stone he found lying there.


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Bereshit Rabbah 65:11Bereshit Rabbah

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah, 2022 · CC-BY

Our story comes from Bereshit Rabbah, a collection of rabbinic interpretations of the Book of Genesis.Esau. You remember Esau. Jacob's twin brother, the one who traded his birthright for a bowl of lentil stew.

” Rabbi Elazar bar Shimon offers a fascinating analogy to explain this. It's like a province compiling a list of mighty warriors for the king's army. There's this one woman who has a rather… underwhelming son. But she insists on calling him "Tall and Quick." "Why aren't you conscripting my son?" she demands. The officials reply, "If you think he's tall and quick, well, to us, he’s the puniest of the puny!"

How does this relate to Esau? His father called him gadol, great, as we see in (Genesis 27:1): “He called Esau, his elder [hagadol] son.” And his mother, Rebekah, also referred to him as hagadol, great, in (Genesis 27:15): “The garments of Esau, her elder [hagadol] son.” So, those closest to him saw him as someone of importance.

Then, God steps in. "If, in your eyes, he is great," God says, "in My eyes, he is insignificant." And the proof text? (Obadiah 1:2): “Behold, I rendered you insignificant among the nations, you are greatly despised.” Keep in mind that this prophecy refers to Edom, the nation descended from Esau.

Rabbi Berekhya adds another layer. He connects Esau to the image of a bull being slaughtered. Esau is called great, he suggests, because his slaughterer – God Himself – is great. This is supported by (Isaiah 34:6): “There is a sacrifice for the Lord in Botzra and a great [gadol] slaughter in the land of Edom.” It’s a powerful and somewhat unsettling image.

The passage then pivots to Esau's deceptive nature. When Isaac says, "My son," and Esau replies, "Here I am," it triggers a warning. “When he ingratiates with his voice, do not trust him…” (Proverbs 26:25).

Ḥizkiyahu the translator takes this further, quoting the rest of that verse: “As there are seven abominations in his heart” (Proverbs 26:25). The rabbis launch into a bit of numerological interpretation here. If one "abomination" written in the Torah implies ten sins, as demonstrated by the list in (Deuteronomy 18:10)–12 (which details various forms of divination considered abominable), then "seven abominations" must mean seventy abominations! It's a striking way to emphasize the depth of Esau's inner corruption.

What does this all mean? The rabbis, through this interplay of stories and verses, are painting a complex portrait of Esau. He's a figure seen differently by different eyes. His parents perceive greatness, while God sees insignificance. And beneath a veneer of charm, lies a heart filled with, well, seventy abominations.

How do we see ourselves? And how does that compare to how we're seen by others. and by something greater than ourselves? And perhaps most importantly, what "abominations" might be lurking in our own hearts, hidden beneath a carefully constructed facade? It's a question worth pondering.

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Bereshit Rabbah 80:1Bereshit Rabbah

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah, 2022 · CC-BY

The verse tells us, "Dina, daughter of Leah, whom she had borne to Jacob, went out to see the daughters of the land." But the rabbis saw much more.

The text immediately connects this to the prophecy in (Ezekiel 16:44): "Behold, all who cite proverbs will cite this proverb about you, saying: Like the mother is her daughter." This sets the stage for a rather pointed interpretation.

Yosei of Maon, speaking in the synagogue of Maon, uses this connection to deliver a powerful, perhaps even controversial, message. He starts with a quote from Hosea (5:1): "Hear this, priests, and listen, house of Israel, and hearken, house of the king." According to Yosei, God is going to hold the priests accountable: "Why didn't you toil in Torah? Didn't you benefit from twenty-four priestly gifts?" And if they claim they received nothing, God will then turn to the House of Israel: "Why didn't you give the priests those gifts I prescribed?" The excuse? "It is because of those from the house of Nasi (the political leader) who take it all!" Finally, he turns to the King: "Was the judgment yours?" leading to the conclusion that justice will be turned upon them.

Ouch.

Apparently, Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi II, the Nasi himself (and grandson of the famous Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi who compiled the Mishnah (the earliest code of rabbinic law)), was not pleased. Understandably so.

Enter Reish Lakish, a prominent rabbi known for his diplomatic skills. He goes to placate Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi II, cleverly suggesting that the nations of the world use clowns to prevent people from arguing, implying that Yosei of Maon, while perhaps a bit blunt, was just trying to teach Torah.

The Nasi isn't convinced. He asks Reish Lakish, "Does he even know Torah?" Reish Lakish assures him that Yosei is learned. So, the Nasi challenges Yosei to explain the proverb: "Like the mother is her daughter."

Yosei's response? "Like the daughter, so is her mother; like the generation, so is the nasi; like the altar, so are its priests. According to the garden, the gardener." In other words, everything is connected. The leadership reflects the people, and vice versa.

Reish Lakish, probably sweating a little, then asks Yosei for the "essence" of the proverb. Yosei replies, "There is no cow that is prone to gore that does not have a calf that kicks. There is no woman who engages in promiscuity that does not have a daughter who engages in promiscuity."

This leads to a rather uncomfortable question: "If so, was Leah our matriarch a harlot?"

Yosei doesn't back down. He points to (Genesis 30:16): "Leah came out to meet him…" and says she came out "adorned like a harlot." Thus, "Dina, daughter of Leah…went out." The implication is clear: Dina's actions are a reflection of her mother's.

Now, let's unpack this a bit. This passage is not necessarily about literally accusing Leah of being a harlot. It's about using the biblical text to make a larger point about leadership, responsibility, and the interconnectedness of generations. It's about how the actions of those in power trickle down and influence the behavior of the people. It's a bold critique disguised as biblical interpretation.

What does this ancient story tell us today? Perhaps it's a reminder that we are all products of our environment, influenced by those who came before us. Or maybe it's a call to accountability, urging leaders to act with integrity, knowing that their actions have far-reaching consequences. Whatever your takeaway, it's clear that the rabbis of Bereshit Rabbah were masters of using scripture to provoke thought and challenge the status quo.

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Bereshit Rabbah 81:1Bereshit Rabbah

Retold in our words. Read the original at the link below.The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah, 2022 · CC-BY

The tradition turns to the book of Bereshit Rabbah, a classic collection of rabbinic interpretations of the book of Genesis. It grapples with a powerful moment in Jacob's life. Remember when God tells Jacob, "Arise, ascend to Beit El (the House of God), and settle there, and make there an altar to the God who appeared to you when you fled from Esau your brother" (Genesis 35:1)? Seemingly straightforward. But the rabbis saw layers of meaning, particularly concerning vows and delays.

The verse in (Proverbs 20:25), "It is a snare for a person to spout [yala] sanctity [kodesh]; scrutiny must follow vows," becomes a key to unlocking this. The Rabbis ask, what's the connection? Well, the midrash (rabbinic interpretive commentary) interprets this verse as a warning against the misuse or delay of sacred things. It even goes so far as to say, "May a curse come upon one who eats consecrated items [kodashim] in his throat [belo’o]." The idea here is serious: disrespecting what's holy has consequences. Eating kodashim, consecrated offerings, without authorization brings punishment.

Who are these "consecrated items?" Bereshit Rabbah suggests it’s actually a reference to the people of Israel themselves! As the prophet Jeremiah says, "Israel is sacred to the Lord…" (Jeremiah 2:3). This connection implies a profound responsibility. If even consecrated items are treated with such care, how much more so should God's chosen people be treated with respect and dignity?

What about those vows? Rabbi Yanai weighs in: "If a person delays his vow, his ledger is scrutinized." That ledger – the accounting of our deeds – is always being kept. This isn't just about forgetting to return a borrowed cup; it's about the promises we make to God and to ourselves. Delaying fulfillment suggests a lack of commitment, a wavering faith.

Why all this focus on Jacob? The midrash sees Jacob's delay in fulfilling his vow (made in (Genesis 28:20)–22) as a case in point. He promised to build an altar and dedicate it to God if he was brought back safely. God reminded him to fulfill that promise! Could it be that Jacob was being held accountable for putting off what he pledged to do?

The story in Bereshit Rabbah isn't just about Jacob or ancient vows. It’s a timeless reminder of the weight of our words and the importance of honoring our commitments, especially those made to something greater than ourselves. What promises are you holding onto? What vows are waiting to be fulfilled? Maybe it’s time to revisit them and consider the "scrutiny" that might be awaiting us.

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